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thorpido:
You want to stop and that is a step in the right direction.
You REALLY can stop communicating with her if you want to.Block her on social media and ignore her text messages or calls.If you do it consistently,she will get weary.
Most importantly, romance your wife and stir up the flame between you both.This coming holidays,take her out,buy gifts for her.You're drifting from your wife and that is giving you room for the affair.

Thanks bro, you really nail it.

I don Dey learn

Florblu:
Stop all communication with her.

I tried to, she will just keep sending message via all avenue

I don't want 4 years old kids on my thread, the first two commenter should visit the kids playground

Note this thread is for adult, kids should vacate please.... Mature minds needed.

Hello nairalander, I seriously need your advice, though I didn't seek for your advice when I started, but accept me now because I really need the advice.

Am married to a beautiful wife and blessed with two beautiful kids, marriage is peaceful and family is fine. Am a womanizer in the past but I stop not until recently that one of my ex came back, she's my first love and we had nothing together then just kiss and little roman, so it has been on my mind that anytime any day by God's grace I go still shag her even if she marry, after I got married have tried to get back to her, but it's not working, fast forward d story, we got back together and the love grew back, less I forget, she's also married and has a baby, but she ain't enjoying the marriage, she need someone to console her, and she found me.

I know am stupid so don't abuse me for dating a married woman, after we got together, we've had several sex in different location 98% raw which I cum inside her, though she hasn't tell me she's preg, but most of her words, I guess I should be expecting a second wife, but note she's not ready to jeopardize her marriage likewise she's considering what her family will say, but if her hubby misbehaving can walk away now, then I don marry second wife be Dat, let me remind u she uses condom with her man... Don't abuse her am also her first love and first date 13 years ago.


My main concern now is this, I hate been cheated on and I hate to cheat people, women believe once a guy lay with them and they couldn't proceed with there affairs, that means he cheated them, when we got back I was firstly in lust with her because i had it in mind to shag and leave her, but I later fell in love but now am having a rethink, have tried to raise issue of letting us part, but she won't listen, she doesn't want.... Now the husband is behaving well small small, and yet she doesn't want us to part and just be frds without anthing involve.
Let me burst your bubble guys, this girl sabi play die, I won't lie I enjoy every moment shared with her, I once went six round with her that my legs where shaking and her V where hot according to her, we've also had good sex that we don't enjoy at our respective homes.


This new year 2019, have decided I don't want to womanize again, just me and my family, how do I let her know we should stop, and make thunderbolt no go catch me oooo, am just a little boy in my early 30s please how do I tell her we should stop, though have talk to her about making her marriage works, but I know she's really in love with me, it's not as if am giving her money, but just been there for her alone as win her heart. I REALLY NEED YOUR ADVICE.

And also I will advice men that always says my wife can't cheat on me, the moment u stop caring for her there are over 100 men outside that will pick her up and console her, and believe me the style u can't request from her she will be the one to offer it to the man outside.