OP you never see anything. You still reason like a kid.
Death penalty for the slightest crime? That means you will not last one month as president if you cheat on your wife, because that will be your problem by then when there is enough money.
Your agenda should be how to reduce birth rate and allowing every state control its resource.

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Occult

That is why our squad is struggling.

Eya

Too much cigarettes.
Dude looks 20 times uglier than when his career started

Cardiovascular disease plus Viagra and alcohol. To them they think they are living life to the fullest

I believe no man was born a mysoginist, they became monsters for some obvious reasons, which they rather not discuss with anyone so as not to be tagged weak or immature males.
Why women condemn men who ignore them is because a man becomes very attractive and more handsome just because of this little attribute called self control or self respect. So, the next time a man ignores you, remember that nothing happens without a reason.

1- HE IS HANDSOME
Women are attracted to handsome men just as men lust after sexy women. Handsome men are mostly sought after by women than moderate - looking or ugly dudes. You can't resist a handsome man whether he ignores you or not.

2- SOCIAL MEDIA AND THE REAL WORLD
Not everyone can deal with that feeling after getting snubbed on social media or in the real world by the opposite sex. While some men might ignore you as part of their retaliation strategies to kill your spirit, others might ignore you out of self control in order to avoid further embarrassments. Bottom line: you become more attractive the moment you learn to self control, irrespective of your sex.
Please it is called self respect, not pride nor playing hard to get nor pretense.

3- HE WANTS TO BE ALONE FOR THE MOMENT
He might decide to be buddiless for a while as a result of emotional trauma such as heartbreaks from cheating, friendship betrayals or backstabbing and marital disappointments (men also experience marital disappointments)

4- HE IS SEARCHING FOR A HOME BUILDER
Please if you once ignored him because was broke then there's no point developing interests later, to avoid embarrassments and hurting yourself. Just like a blog gist of a lady who regretted ever ignoring Miracle (BB Naija 2018 winner) on social media. Not everyone that approaches you wants to use the opportunity to date or penetrate you, some people are just bored and needs a friend.

5- IT'S NOT HIS NATURE TO BE NOSY
You can't make a fish to thrive on land, neither can a squirrel breed under water. You don't expect a lousy-mouthed guy pretend to be too good, neither can a self-respected guy pretend to be nosy, there will certainly be errors.
An African proverb talks about two people who danced meritoriously in a village square. One of them was rewarded with a round of applause while the other one got whipped. Too bad.
A man that exhibits foreign (unfamiliar) characters just to find love and friendship is a pretender.

6- YOU'RE PUTTING IN TOO MUCH EFFORT
Yes, he knows you always notice him. Unless you're the pompous type, but if you once approached him and he snubbed you, then there's need for you to start ignoring him too. Get busy, read books, get physically active, talk to other jovial guys and always wear a smile, then you will find out if he ignores you intentionally or not.

7- HE WANTS TO PUNISH YOU
Women glow when they get attention, and he knows it. In other words, he enjoys how he makes you feel.

8- HE TURNED OUT TO BE A MYSOGINIST
This is where the "weak man" thing comes in. He is immature, and is a slave to the bad experiences he had with the opposite sex.
Note: A man is not a mysoginist because he snubbed you out of self control only. Mysoginists wear the brightest smiles, not necessarily looking like a monster. Examples are Mexican and other south American cartels men that kill women not by gunshots, but by agonizing stabbings to the neck, eyes and skull. Bizarre.

9- HE DOESN'T FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE
Are you psychologically current? Does your attributes make him feel on top or makes his ex or current woman jealous? Do you smell nice? These are some of the qualities men expect from women.

10- HE IS NOT SINGLE
He might be engaged and dedicated to the relationship, but this is a feminine behavior. Your partner needs to be jealous sometimes to renew your worth.

PharoahIII:
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I hate it when women complain about guys only wanting them for their pussies. But I ask what more has a woman got to give other than a pussy (which more often than not reeks) Or is it their loyalty? Of course, we all know that trusting a woman is as good as digging one's own grave. As far as I am concerned women are only good for three things: 1, Pussy 2. Pussy 3. Pussy

The worst is that if your joystick does not stimulate them, they cheat

MelaninGold:
you must be really silly, did that look like an advice to you and did I seek for it. You people just come here to make fools out of yourselves. Now you are apologizing, keep your apologies and learn to mind your mind your business.

Womaaan. Well, Okay

MelaninGold:
it seems you have nothing tangible to do okwiaya. As you say you nor want get sense at this your age,no wahala. Keep quoting me.

Melaningold I only advised you, or is it because I used the word pretenders. OK sorry for that

MelaninGold:
useless vagabond. Just try and quote me again, you will deactivate your acct. Helpless and hopeless fool.

You are the useless vagabond, helpless and hopeless fool.

Preciousgirl:
Men of our times are so useless
All they think is sex sex sex
Why?
Later they will say woman this woman that. Men sit up. Many men here are sending me pm of their nudes as if I am some olosho. There is more to life than sex. Rubbish

You better act like a prostitute in the bedroom when you get married. Pretenders

MelaninGold:
The only thing most of them think about is pornography.

You better act like a prostitute for your husband when you get married. Pretenders

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

Her sin is forgivable, but do not marry her. She will do the same in marriage. She loves you as a marriage material, not as a sex partner, maybe the alleged cousin got more swagger than you. She is just shedding tears because if she loses you, she loses all those goodies you send to her

Jcole1985:
OP based his entire immoral thread on sex,too smart for a nairalander maybe almajiri education might do him some good.

What else is so important in a relationship than sex?

Thread closed!

Thread closed!

LaraTV:
Not about SEX
My Brother ! If you have a Bae Invite her to your room . Buy her something so Small and Sweet (Chocolate and
her favourite Snack )while sitting with her and talking Give
her that package you bought. Tell
her lets take some pics make Video and watch Some Movies .Then look her deep in her eyes Tell her U love her. Later on play some Music , sing for her so terrible Make her laugh Hold her hands Dance for her
Make her feel free to be around
you. Let her wear your T-shirt
when she wants to I know it will be big size to her
(some sha) then laugh her till she get angry Then cuddle her for few seconds. Then play with
her What ever you'll be playing Let her win When she's winning Hold
her tight ask her who is the boss
bae? I know she'll say your Bae Then kiss her on the forehead When she's about to leave Let her
leave with your favourite T-shirt Let her have your Phone When you accompany her Talk with a sad voice "Babe I'll miss
you" Kiss her forehead more than twice . Hug her for 1 minute. It won't be easy for her
to cheat on you . Brother if your lady visits, it doesn't have to be all about sex . They also need to spend some time with you.
Ladies am I communicating?

Wetin this one dey talk sef. A chameleon cannot change its camouflage to what is not around it. Who love sex more than you people. Pretending that relationship is not all about sex but they cheat on you when you can't satisfy them

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For every sweetness, there is pain attached, for every advantages, there is a disadvantage. Cheating in relationship is no longer a trend as most people involved in it doesn't even know the status of their health and how it affects their finance negatively. Below are four reasons why cheating may put you at risk of sudden death, infections and poverty.

1) YOUR HEART IS AT RISK
As if getting caught wasn’t bad enough, men who cheat on their wives now have another issue to worry about: sudden death. Research published in the journal
Circulation found that out of 5,559 people who died suddenly from heart complications, 75 percent of those who expired during sex were engaging in extramarital activity.
What caused their hearts to fail? The researchers hypothesized that in most cases the person was either with a younger woman, in an unfamiliar setting, or may have been engaging in sex after excessive food and alcohol consumption.
A 2011 meta-analysis in the Journal of the American Medical Association found that each additional hour of sexual activity per week resulted in an increased risk of 2-3 myocardial infarctions and one sudden cardiac arrest per 10,000 person-years. Sexual intercourse can also trigger a subarachnoid hemorrhage via the Valsalva maneuver, which is most likely to occur during cheating, and mostly with a young girl.
A 2011 meta-analysis published in Journal of Sexual Medicine found that men who were unfaithful were significantly more likely than those who were faithful to experience severe or fatal cardiac arrest during sex, why, because they need to satisfy the younger woman, and by taking the wrong Viagra, which is harmful, and even more harmful when alcohol is taken after it. Viagra, although generally considered to be a safe drug, has been linked to sudden cardiovascular death during sexual activity among elderly or otherwise infirm men.
Other causes of death during sex are myocardial ischemia, and the physical activity of sexual intercourse in patients with coronary artery disease can result in myocardial ischemia. Atherosclerosis (caused by cigarettes, cocaine, saturated fats from food we eat and lack of physical exercise etc), chronic
arrhythmia and heart defects such as a hole in the heart are other causes of death during or after sex or ejaculation of semen.

2) EXPOSURE TO STIs AND HIV
Individuals who cheat in relationships are less likely to practice safe sex with all their partners, says a recent study from
The Journal of Sexual Medicine.
Researchers collected data on 801 individuals—308 who reported being unfaithful to a partner and 493 who were in negotiated nonmonogamous relationships (i.e., people who have an agreement with their partner to engage in sex with others). After questioning the participants in each category about their sex lives, the researchers found that not only do the cheaters have more unsafe sex, but they’re also less likely to get tested for STIs and HIV.
Translation: Whether you are the one getting double the action or you're just her man on the side, both scenarios put you at an increased risk of STIs.

3) YOUR PENIS MAY SUFFER - LITERALLY
That said, if being at an increased risk doesn’t scare you into keeping it in your pants, the following consequences of cheating may make you want to be faithful for life.
You may have realized that cheating on your girlfriend is going to fracture your relationship—but did you know it can also fracture your penis ?
Recent research published in the journal Sexual Medicine found that guys who have extramarital affairs are more likely to suffer penis fractures than men who don’t stray. The reason? A lot of affairs involve sex acts in odd locations, including bathroom stalls, cars, elevators, and offices.
“If you have sex in a weird location or a physically awkward situation where you don’t have total control over your penis, you might not be able to protect it from getting hurt or broken,” says Andrew Kramer, M.D., the study’s lead author and a urologist at the University of Maryland Medical Center.

4) IT'S ILLEGAL AND COSTLY
Sexual infidelity to one's spouse is illegal in some countries. While those criminal laws remain, you’re not actually going to get thrown in the slammer for sleeping with your coworker (although you may look like a huge douchebag to the rest of the office).
Those laws are left over from a bygone era, and no one’s bothered to take them off the books, says John Mayoue—an Atlanta-based divorce attorney.
However, cheating can affect spousal support and, in some states, division of property. How so? Well, look at it this way: If you’re spending money on lavish gifts for your honey on the side, yet failing to provide for your kids, that is relevant in court. It can be used as evidence to prove that you can afford to pay for spousal support but are choosing not to, says Mayoue.

bedfordng:
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gozi542:
Chai!! Always hausa's.. Abi I lie?

bros abeg there are christians living in the north. Because u are not in the north do not mean u should be typing anything u want. Pls nairaland is not for ethnic discrimination and dispute

Looks like a Kanuri herdsman though