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Save your earnings with your mum or trusted family member leaving only what to eat with. When hungry beat you, you no go near that betting shop.

It depends. There is not set time. A balance is needed to get to know enough and also not to waste anybody's time unnecessarily.

A minimum of 6 months and a maximum of 2 years.

AfroBeatDiary:
Up to 80% of South Africans farmland belongs to the white including their mines. You know it's painful seeing vast land belonging to people who has a questionable origin while you with traced origin has nothing so you're forced to work for/under them

The real question Africans should really be asking is why are the whites more successful and more organised than African people. Chasing them out is not the Solution.

Suspect33:
Chase the whites and watch S.A become like Nigeria, bunch of untamed savages

Tell them. Dem never know say curse dey on all only black nations. Even as far as Jamaica and Cuba, they are all developing countries. No one is a developed country.

siofra:
Well, better than Nigerian men. Anything but Nigerian men 🤷

Non sense

Chairman, hustle and forget that stupid thinking. Try to be yourself. Who really like you, no dey hard to know. But you must hustle to keep them. Otherwise, you lose her. Forget that thinking.

Fineman2:
My name is Dora.

I am 35 years old and everybody keeps reminding me that age is no longer on my side.

My fiance and I have been dating for more than one year and we are getting married soon.

My fiance is 40 years old and he has never been married.

The relationship was really good when we started but now that our wedding is in a few weeks time, he has shown how controlling he can be.

From the choice of the wedding dress, to the bridesmaids selection, to the colour of the day, he wants to be in charge.

He also wants his mum to buy the cloth for our engagement as well as buy our wedding ring.

He does whatever his family says without seeking my opinion and it almost seems as if I am not the one getting married.

I told my parents about how this makes me feel and they just asked me to endure because I am getting older but I really fear for what is going to happen after the wedding.

Are these not red flags I should run from?

I am confused, please advise me.

Did he cheat on you? Ans --- No
Do you really want to get married? Ans --- decide
Is there any man born perfect? Ans --- No

In the end, it seems he is taking some work off your hand. You should try to see if he would also CONTROL some works in the kitchen. Wahala.