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yeah so I am 32 fallen for another woman and had to end it we were not sexual witheach other but we did kiss a feww times and our feelings wre growing stronger with each visit so even though she is a buetiful woman she is only 23 and built very nice I had to stop it before it was to late to turn back, I prayed and prayed but I did not get any answers and then I realised that I already had the answers it is not right period, what had happened is we really got married because she was pregnant and just tried to do the right thing then over the years we had two more children so when this lady came into my life it was really by accident that we fell for each other my wife is more atractive but me and this lady would had been a perfect match if surcumstances were different but there not so I have to let it go, if you read this and your going through something similar I would advise to do whats right take care of what you started even if things seem alot better with the other woman it would probably just be temporary and then your children would suffer because they were wandering why daddy only sees them every two weeks or just on the weekend and you might even have to put your exwife through college so she could afford to make ends meet dont be an ass like me I desreve what ever punishment I get from GOD for what I have done so far, please dont make the same mistake it sucks dealing with this guilt

Hey I am 32 and I dont know if I am going through a midlife crisis or what maybe its normal but anyway I have two children one on the way and I have been falling for this very atractive single woman that I work with been married for seven years and was just about to make a big mistake she asked me to come to her house tonight, it was so hard to say no, we have kissed sevaral times and felt around on each other with our clothing on but I still feel like I have cheated on my wife I am just glad nothing sexual happened, I feel like telling my wife but maybe this is something I should learn from and just dont ever do it again and take this secret to the grave WOW what an ass am I but I told her tonight no more meetings outside of work no more flirting at work and no phone conversations strictly friendly but that is it, I am a christian and she is a young christian 21 I feel like I have really been a stumbleling block for her but now it is over I feel like that is a big relief, I really do care for her but I guess reality is no matter how unhappy I may be right now with my wifes actions looks or loss of intimacy once amonth for five years I just got to stick it out and take care of my responsibilities, if you read this please do not make the same mistake I have, I know things will work out and that I am forgiven just gotta get my stuff straight hope everything is working out for you I have been praying for you and that has also helped me to come to grips with my situation, take care

this guy has it bad enough without insulting him God gave us these desires and he can give you the strength to get through this I pray everything will come out well for you and your child

Hey there, I was selfrightouse and whitewashed just like alot of these christians that are telling you that your are going to hell your a man of a reprobate heart and God has turned his back on you fact is this is exactly WHY JESUS DIED ON THAT CROSS! he who is without sin throw the first stone, thats right they just dropped out of your hands if YOU! are a true Christian that is, I have been a Christian for only seven years but I do know that this mans sin is forgivable, past present and what he and me and you are going to do tomorrow, not saying that we should continue in our desires because we will be forgiven but we do and are going to sin and the one who said that you are not truly a christian, that is bull you and christ are the only ones that can determine that because it is your faith NOT works maybe some of you should crack that bible open and receive Gods word and realise it is you that is still in sin your not perfect, aint going to happen it does not matter how much you tith, go to church get down on your knees and pray, pray ,pray You and I are still a wretch, filthy with the sin's of the flesh that can not be escaped untill the rapture or our last breath and Hey you are still a christian and beleive me I feel the anguish you are going through it's a tuff world down here and I know sometimes we make mistakes possibly getting married because you found out you were having a baby? Then when someone comes along later, maybe it is not just the physical that she satisfies but maybe the connection is so strong it seem's like it cant be wrong it has to be right, Take a breather this is your life true but more so than how you feel about yourself and your need's think about your child and than give it some more thought and prayer then make your decision it is your choice but there are lots of other Christian men going through the same struggles and it's hard it's really hard