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lilvicky68:
Take sometime off her house and have a rethink..
You will know what to do..

sincerely i tried but it wasnt easy, she made me feel so little when she saw me today

please help a confuse person, my friends think i am confuse, that i lust after her which is not true, i just see her like a very young girl.
can i really take her outta my mind since i can think of.

it all started a year or more ago,

Please married Men and Women on this forum, i need your contribution and advise.
i was out drinking with my friends at our local joint in my area and they hailed a lady, she is the finest person i have ever seen in my life, i asked and someone told me where she lives, i got talking with friends and i heard she has a grown up son, i couldn't believe my ears because she looks far younger, prettier and even softer than most girls around,. that was the beginning of my problem oooo.

I was able to talk to her son and we became friends out of curiosity then i became lucky and started entering there house, my friend is one of the most calm person i have ever seen, 3years younger than me but he told hes mum i want to teach him coding which was why she allowed me in her house, no one enters her house(this i know and did my homework well b4 we became friends). my friend is in 100level in a private university and a very very intelligent guy for that matter, i asked him why hes mum did not remarry several times during our conversations and one of those discussion he said ''iya yen, shes too focus on my education''

i really love this woman, she has only few friend and refuse to remary, she fell in love with someone when she was much younger, got pregnaoynt and the man did not look back, she has done so much for her son you will think the boy studied abroad, polished, well behaved and in 100level now in a private university.

Her profile; shes looks really really young(just36), pretty, has the most sexiest body ever(her boobs still standing ooo) makes the best egusi, ogbono, afang, okoro, ewedu any soup i know but she act like she gave birth to me, she will say ''Dee its time for you to go home, wont your mum look for you, i will be worried if my son is out by this time ooo unless hes in school(i always remind her i live alone but i knw she just wants me out of her house) in my mind, i am 21year old, woman. shes not seeing me beyond her son friend whos just teaching him something, someone advise i stay away from the house for a while, she saw me after a week i have not been to there house and was robbing my head like i am her child in public, i was really angry.

i saw her a while back dancing in her living room, i was in her her son room and wanted to use the restroom, she did not see me and i watched for some moment, when i asked her son, he said, she just likes to dance, i was happy like a little child cos she still feels young too, trust me, you will never believe she 36 when you see her, shes loved by everyone in my area but will never stay to even chat for a minute.

i am taller than her, i am working(2years plus) and making good money, shes always asking why i did not go to university sha but school is not everyting, i have learnt something good and been working for a while, i have a house of my own(rented and well funished), sjhe does not even have money cos whatever she makes she spends on her son educacation, why wont someone like that just let a man take care of her, i look like someone that can pass for her boyfriend ooo, i am really tired, notjing my GfF does is even good enough anymore.

I need a way forward cos this woman no see me
Butmy question is how do i make her even see me more than her son friend?
how do i make my friend also accept such relationship if the mother will but i really doubt
or how can i take her outta my mind?
my mum or family will noty know her age but EVEN if she agrrees which is most unlikely, she will never lie about her age,


matured advise plesea, that why i brought it to family section because i have been suffering since i set my eyes on this woman.
i really like