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thesicilian:
Most guys are perfectly fine with just being friends with girls. But most of the times it's you ladies that try to play smart by manipulating the guy to play boyfriend roles like borrowing you money you never pay back, buying you stuff which you don't reciprocate, being there for you whenever you're in distress while you remain just platonic friends with him, and praying for him when he needs actual help.

Baba you done talk am finish. The average male-female friendship no dey dey symbiotic. One party dey sacrifice disproportionately to the other (mind you this female parasitic instinct does not kick in when females are in friendship with other females).
Please stick to friendship with your fellow females and stop looking for guys to exploit. Yes, it's exploitation when one party is giving far more than the other party.

Evaress:
Personally, i love been friends with Guys, even love hearing their gists. I prefer their friendly company to ladies. All ladies talk about is either their hair, makeup, all those superficial stuffs and i find it boring. Most guys that hit on me, i accept and give them my number. They call me and i offer them a hangout with my own money. I do take them out and pay the bills myself without demanding nothing from them, i just love their company. I tell them i just want to be friends, i'm cool if they can be dating another girl as far as we remain friends, then i notice the guys start avoiding me. Even when i call them, they don't pick up again. Its so sad😭

This mumu dey find who she go put for friend zone and he go still dey give her emotional support for free.
God forbid.
How many of una mama get make bestie?

Arostar2023:
Surprise bridal shower ke! I bet there’s nothing surprising about the bridal shower…

You dey mind dem?
Surprised bridal shower on matching outfits.
Even a blind fool would know this is 100 percent scripted.

Roseey0:
Everything in life must not be romantic. You can still keep genuine friendships.

The major problem is that the average Nigerian girl's friendship is never genuine. It is mostly exploitative including those you are not romantically involved with. The average girl have far more to benefit from from a man (I'm not talking about just money). That is why most of them will tell you they prefer male friends to female because they know the average female will not succumb to their tricks.

And they are still there. Dem bury their placenta there?

Which kind mumu options dem put for the poll. It just shows the mod's bias. If you want to do a poll, you should try to seem as neutral as possible.

Goo0dHardDick:
Our today's story is about Esther.

A guy met Esther and after a little chit chat, she gave the guy her number willingly. As usual guys being guys opted for a meetup and she outrightly rejected him. The guy simply moved on without bothering her. Esther got furious and after some days decided to reach out to the guy on WhatsApp. The guy took about 4 days before responding to Esther's messages and when he responded, it was dried and nonchalant response.
They want to continue getting the benefits of being around the mumu man

Esther noticed it instantly and then ask the guy why he has been avoiding her. The young man simply responded and said "you said you weren't interested and so I respected your decision and moved on". Esther couldn't believe the response. She wanted him to chase her harder and harder, more like non stop so she could feel special like she was the prize!. Imagine chasing someone you're going to spend on and help her life? Weird right?

Dear women, kindly tell us why you still expect a guy to keep talking to you after you rejected him? How does that make sense to you?

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

They want to continue getting the benefits of being around the mumu man

Samantha125:
What does a man has to offer in a relationship apart from financial security?

He would give you a life and a future. What else is bigger than that.

ColdHunter:
1. That the son of a billionaire or king can disguise as a poor cab driver or hawker to find true love.

2. That the crown prince can marry a palace cleaner.

This is the biggest lie of them all.
The funniest part is that some people believe this and are patiently waiting for their prince charming to come rescue them.

chopnaira:
Like Soludos son like Peter Obi son. Birds of a feather.

I swear. The guy looks too gay

xanderj22:
Why are our armed forces properly kitted during training but poorly kitted during real life combat?

The Air Force and the Navy are exceptions to an extent.

Eba50:
na wah oh. i think back and forth for this statement.it needs to be in large form, framed and put in sitting room and bedroom.

I swear.
I dey go hang am for my brother house because the guy na mumu man for woman side.

tonididdy:
But láré wéh guobe
How can you advice a stranger to chest a repair bill of almost 700k for a mobile phone?
Anyway sha this your post is sprinkled with lies so .....

Some people get mind die oooo. Dey tell total stranger say whether he no be big man say make he chest the bill. He no even reason say the person fit even out of anger pour spit for he eye.

Dzzzz:
Instead of me to do wedding with single mother,I go use that money to open small stage for chicken fight..

In the past most of the single mothers we had were windows or married women who lived in different towns from their husbands who visits sometimes but these women carried their selves with dignity.
This menace we have today is as a result of negative western influence. Most of the modern single women just want to do copy copy their western counterparts so they could live a reckless life without paying attention to the negative consequences.

[quote author=LUAN1 post=133099681]I have measured my height several times, though I am Short, but i used to measure 5'6". it's upto 2yrs i did, fast forward today, I saw some persons measuring their heights, i decided to join them, i was shock to see that i am now 5'4" . what could be the reason? why am i getting shorter? noted: the measuring tape is very correct. [/quo
It seems you are above your mid 30s and not much involved in back straightening exercises. As you age, your vertebrae column tilts or curves and that creates an impression of decrease in height.

Great100000:
Cristiano Ronaldo has played his final FIFA World Cup match.

As one of football’s greatest players brings his World Cup journey to a close, here’s a look at his net worth, career earnings, biggest deals, investments, businesses, and luxury assets.

This guy did very well for himself to the point he was ever able to be compared to Messi. He achieved a lot in his career but his greatest achievement was being compared to Messi.

Goo0dHardDick:
I am just here to tell you that geh geh, Edo baba, Joshua, praise, Mr Fred Putin, Uncle Natt and lots of other guys out there has successfully saved so many relationships.

Women get mad whenever they see Geh geh videos on my status. One responded and said "I hate this guy called Geh geh". I immediately translated it to "she meant she loves this guy called Geh geh". Only the wise will understand that women hate what they love and love what they hate. Their brains works in reverse. It's more like using reverse psychology to deceive you.

Over 90% women online and offline loves Geh geh alot. The problem they have is that they don't want their boyfriends to see or listen to Geh geh videos for the fears of making him wiser and smarter in understanding women's psychology. They don't have a problem with their brothers getting such exposure. No woman on earth would want her brother to marry a single mother or waste money carelessly on a girl he is dating. Lol. Women!!!

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

The bitter truth is that the average woman understands the laws of power and manipulation including your dearest mother. You only think your mother is different because the only man an average woman truly love is her sons. They detest guys who make them know that they are aware and immune to their tactics.

socoharley:
*love bombing......but I knew such emotions were too early as she was just trying to unlock my bank account

Baba any sorji guy wey done run street go always know. Wetin we be dey do back to back. The real yahoo boys na girls . Naija girls wey sabi do love bombing and romantic manipulation pass another thing? Na their primary occupation be that. The only difference na be say their own na local and na facie dem dey run. If she is not sacrificing anything, I would just know she's not into me.

Freshtruth:
End of the road for Argentina

Under rate Argentina at your own risk. It happened in the last world cup, it may happen again in this world cup. Let's keep our fingers crossed.

Kalulu44:
Yes the same Oyarzabal that his goals has took them so far while you mentioned slowpoke Rodri

You welcome

Kalulu44:
You left Oyarzabal to mention Rodri

Is it the same waistful Oyarzabal?

budaatum:
All of the above are equal red flags.

I'd beat my self if i go on a date with anyone who does any of those things, and I'd beat myself more if I don't cut the date short and leave.

Especially that being glued to the phone for too long. I go just waka leave you without even saying goodbye because you are not there for me.
If you are bored with the conversation just come up with a reasonable excuse to go home instead of disrespecting him/her and yourself.

[quote author=Sirchiboy post=140023770]Without being biased, what is the benefits of marriage to women [/quo
The benefit of marriage to a woman in relation to a man can't be compared.
The institution of marriage to an average woman is massive.
She gets a guaranteed source of security, someone to depend on when the going gets rough, future, leadership etc.

[quote author=Sirchiboy post=140023770]Without being biased, what is the benefits of marriage to women [/quo
The benefit of marriage to a woman in relation to a man can't be compared.
The institution of marriage to an average woman is massive.

2special:
Bellingham, the guy that plays for Real Madrid

In France it's olise, England Bellingham, Argentina Messi and Spain Rodri.
The overall best to me is Michael Olise.

meobizy:
Why doesn’t she block me? It makes no sense. If I’m not important to her, why not be honest about it?

Na now I confirm true true say you na real mumu man. I be want give you better advice on how to go about this until I saw this your funny comment. It shows you are too naive. You want swear say you no know the reason why she no want tell you? Abi if na you be her you go block your source of income. I no dey ever pity for mumu men like una because the signs are always there but una choose to ignore them believing you can impress her to love you with time. Na una type dey spoil all this girls for us. No be me go tell you to move before you move.

[quote author=EmmyMaestro post=139911702]“There’s no true love in the UK” – Lady cries out, advises Nigerians to bring their partners abroad

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions on social media after claiming that genuine love is difficult to find in the United Kingdom, urging Nigerians in relationships to hold on to their partners back home.

According to the lady, many people relocate abroad expecting to find lasting relationships, only to end up disappointed by their experiences.

In her words, she said:

“I’ve come to realize that there’s no true love in this UK. You will cry in Gege’s voice. If you have somebody in Nigeria and the relationship is serious, go back and bring the person over here.”

She stressed that her advice applies to both women and men, insisting that those who already have committed partners in Nigeria should not risk losing them while searching for love abroad.

She explained that her warning was based on what she has personally observed, suggesting that many people abroad struggle to find genuine love.

“The same thing applies to the men too. There’s no true love in the UK. Wake up from sleep,” she added.

Her remarks have since generated mixed reactions online. While some Nigerians living abroad agreed with her experience, others argued that healthy relationships can be found anywhere, provided both partners are committed.

The viral video has reignited conversations about dating, long-distance relationships and the realities of finding love after relocating overseas.

“There’s No True Love In The UK. Only Heartbreak And Tears For You Here In The UK. So My Advice Is To Go Back Home To Nigeria And Marry Your Partner.” ~ UK-Based Lady👀 pic.twitter.com/kKFxzKyzST

— Somto Okonkwo (@General_Somto) July 3, 2026

my guys wey care to listen, when she say true love she is referring to mumu men that would take care of all her financial responsibilities like she used to enjoy in Nigeria. My sister you better go work many shifts like your fellow guys else you go cryyyyy in gehgeh's voice

Sirchiboy:
Mention the type of family you will never marry from

A girl from a single mother home that constantly have issues with her mother. It's a huge red flag. Run for your life.

Sirchiboy:
What's one financial mistake you'll never make again?

Investing in my girlfriend's saloon business

SammyB67:
I thought he was still in prison

I believe that's his lookalike. It's s still possible that's him since DRC and EQG are neighbors. He might just be a dual citizen.

lagonovo:
True. While majority of Nigerians are hardworking we do have a huge population of lazy people among us. You will notice it in the begging culture.

I still can't understand how able-bodied men or women would be so comfortable begging for money, not as one-off but as a way of life. That is laziness and will eventually make crime attractive to them.

I swear. The begging thing don tire me especially among the female gender. The worse part of it all is than when you decide to help dem with some money, you automatically becomes a prey for constant begging and the day you fail to give them , you become their world enemy number one as if you owe dem your money?