₦airaland Forum

HarkymTheOracle:
Sex is ONE of ke?
Which kind fulfil Allah's commandment?
Oga,SEX is the ONLY REASON these men marry multiple wives.
THE ONLY REASON.

Nobody is holding you not to have as many as king Solomon please.. according to Islam it shouldn't exceed 4 and they must act justly and equally.. And let me say this sex isn't the only reason for getting married to another woman..
And this is strictly for my Muslim brothers to answer. Thanks

yaqq:
off topic! sex talk cannot determine how one sexual prowess can be, sex is a process, people learn with time, you are a Muslim but it seems u want to kick against a man marrying more than one wife?

i am not kicking against it.. But sometimes we have some ladies who ain't interested in sex..due to some issues.. Assuming such lady got married to a guy of high libido without them having prior discussion on it.. Asalam far as I know SEx is one of the reason of getting a second wife apart from fulfilling Allah's commandments..but it would have been better for such discussion topics take place...

I am signing here too on behalf of my Mum

Asalam Alaykum. This is off the topic though.

It is very essential for Muslim brothers who are in courtship talk about sex preference before marriage.. Cos it would be disheartening after marriage you get to realize you ain't on the same level of sex drive with your wife thereby looking for second wife up and down.. I know fornication is bad but is sex talk bad also during courtship...


Happy jumah

Asalam AlaykuiI. This is off the topic though.

It is very essential for Muslim brothers who are in courtship talk about sex preference before marriage.. Cos it would be disheartening after marriage you get to realize you ain't on the same level of sex drive with your wife thereby looking for second wife up and down.. I know fornication is bad but is sex talk bad also during courtship...


Happy jumah

Asalam AlaykuiI. This is off the topic though.

It is very essential for Muslim brothers who are in courtship talk about sex preference before marriage.. Cos it would be disheartening after marriage you get to realize you ain't on the same level of sex drive with your wife thereby looking for second wife up and down.. I know fornication is bad but is sex talk bad also during courtship...


Happy jumah

Seriously are these people dum.b ..Do citizens have 2 lives that you kept on risking their lives with your harsh policies..where is then the money allocated for the hospital As usual it has been shared by corrupt cronies

Lionofdjungle:
Meet him first. You can let him know that you've seen before in a bus going to... Describe the type of dress he put on and watch his reaction. If I were you, I would have called his number while we were together in the bus to make sure he is the person .

i don't have time. He would felt embarrassed

I like the first pics.. Happy Birthday toke.

Shawnnn01:
So na crime to form posh again ? You should have initiated the conversation as well. After all lots of you girls on NL are feminist so learn to do what men do.

I have never said I am a feminist.. And if you know me. You would know I can initiate conversation for Africa but I was so tired coupled with the fact there was traffic and I hate heat... Seriously assuming our bus didn't break down and we departed before the last destination.. I would have talked to him.

1nigeriamyfoot:
hmmmmmmm

Lionofdjungle:
How did you identify him since you have never met him before? Secondly, the fact that you saw him in a danfo doesn't mean anything, what if his car has a mechanical fault or flat tyre?What if he didn't feel like driving on that day?

you won't understand. Some people can do over hyping of themselves.. Lols... He was dressed nicely apart from..

Glo is worst.. Airtel edge is far better than the 4g ..so wack

May we not die an untimely death.. And our parents should not mourn over us.. Painful loss

1nigeriamyfoot:
Ibadan is cool oh, I see you flaunting your man 4 ur whatsapp dp. I also saw your pix for inside keke, danfo

thats my brother joor..

FA13:
How are you so sure he is the one?

i saw his pics...

OZAOEKPE:
If I want to open nairaland, I go first watch my side or I log out. Make I no go jam person like sarrki, we go fight die that day

lols...Sarrki might be the opposite in real life ooo

1nigeriamyfoot:
smh, after I don beg you sey make u no cast me for here? u no dey keep secret walahi. Well, I don't expect less from Yoruba Muslim

egbon I no say no be you. How is ibadan

hardwerk:
and in your clearest of mind you think you have a brain and made sense ?

thanks..do you know we talked even without thinking about nairaland.. But am sure you ain't the one.. And please go and put your frustration on some one else..

God would console you Jagaban..
On a lighter note. Nairalanders can form.. Only few are true.. I met a guy here on nairaland.. Never met him physically but planned to.. Along the way I lost interest.. Fast forward to yesterday.. Met him inside danfo from oshodi Enroute to Agege.. I sat beside him.. Lols. See guy that always form posh online ooo....we sha didn't talk to each other until our bus broke down.. If you sat beside a lady with red scarf inside danfo well done ooo.. Continue forming poshe shogbo.. Rapping In English like Americana.

ventoh:
Same here

same here on what

ventoh:
Smthing lik dat madam.....sampling-Yes..... Production-Nt yt....tanku

succes and good luck.. Lastly I miss you.. �

Iolo:
We learn everyday. With the pace they are on it should take proper shape sometime in December so be on the lookout.

sure I will

ventoh:
Oya water it down

Good day.. How far about your business ideas.. Have you started

Humility017:
ohhh
not bad though...
I live in abuja

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Humility017:
you're good to go Dear....
I am with you...
which city do you reside?

lagos

[quote author=Oluwainnie post=61998804][/quote]dont know about them

Humility017:
it is Better he learn it....now.
I once had a similar issue wit my mom..
you often pick on me....but I had to learn to love her more...
I realise if I can't go well wit my mom and sisters...then I can definitely not cope wit my wife....

I learn how to be more tolerate and spend time wit her.....sometimes i walk my mom to her church...for meetings...every day I sit down wit her..and just listen her talk...
she pour out her worries and fears...
in return I smile and encourage her..making her see the sunny side of life...

sooner...I became her best friend...and my younger brother became jealous...

my siblings today all know...my mom love me more.
I remember years ago I was leaving for nysc...my mom followed me to the park and watch me...leave...she starts to cry...and everyone at the bus station were amazed...

right now...I live here in abuja....we still communicate as if we live in same house..
a day rarely goes by we don't talk...

I gone love my mom so much.......
truly mom are the best....

my mom...had to cater for us..after the split wit my dad...even after my dad's death it became worse...she can go borrow just for me...she did it severally when I was still in the university...
I just can't stop remembering the tears of joy on her eyes after my graduation...seeing me becoming a graduate...


any man who can cope wit his mother...definetely will have problem coping wit his wife......

because as a man it is now expected you translate same love you have for your mother on your wife.....
she continues from your mom stops...and eventually will act your mom too to your children....

thank you for this.. Those that have never been in this position won't know. Someone Was calling me itchy fingers cos of what I said.. It not easy I swear.. Love is all she needs..

Palaver:
i'm sure you and your dad are also responsible for your mum's intermittent annoying behavior. Do you think before you type at all? Itchy fingers!

i don't like abusing people on nairaland.. Don't you know when a woman isn't getting the love or what she needs. She isn't happy...if his dad is available do you think she might be like that.. My dad is late.. And it sometimes tiresome for my mum to caution US even when I know I am in the wrong but youthful exuberance Wil make me annoyed that's why what she is saying is annoying to my ears.. He should try and show her love.. Make her happy. Do you think it is easy to train a child alone...

Try to be natural sha... Don't be too rigid.. Just be yourself

Iolo:
He is building a brt terminal not really a park. 3 multi story terminals are being built at oshodi. 1 for interstate movement and the other 2 for travel within the state.

Here’s a link to the mock up video for how it’ll look -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXGy4k-CMeM

thanks dear cos it look like a complex ni

Humility017:
Apt!!!!
I own you....10 likes

i don't need 10 likes.. Give me a job