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1759: This is funny

aminalib: 1. my boyfriend plays video games (2010 FIFA) like its going out of style, he gets home at 12am, once he rushed throught the door that i thought someone was running behind him, he rushed to the tv and put on the game, i asked is it that seerious that u can't even put your bags down or take off your work clothes before you play this game? and he will get so mad when he loses a goal yet he plays this same game every night,

2. he farts and it smells so bad, one time we were argueing and he farted so silent, it smelled like rotten garbage and he has the nerve to ask me why i farted it just made me so mad cuz he knows he is the one that did it,

3. he sometimes belchces loud and will lie and say it was a song he was singing,

4, he will throw anything down on the ground and i just look at him and he will laugh and pick it up,

5. he complains about what food i should cook, if i say i wan cook chicken he will pout and say no no no, but once i make it he will eat it like he never ate before,

kayfx2: Chuckles...

190: kiss me

190: ^Fool

wats wifi

define wifi fool

kpolli: Another guy ehen. . . . .

Onegai: Here's the situation: you'll leave, but go back, beg, he'll refuse you or take you back and make it all your fault. You'll be hurt, pained, cry, get angry, begin to heal, then move on. Then, he'll show up. Wanting you again and demanding your love.
Your bf knows you're a good girl, and he knows you love him. He's taking you for granted (by flirting openly) but doesn't want to let you go (by seizing your phone n getting pissed at u doing less than half of what he did). He's not ready for commitment. So leave him. He'll prolly run out and chase those girls like mad, while you cry. The minute he suspects you're moving away from him, he'll try and keep your emotions on him. He won't try and come back, but he'll check up on you and play with ur emotions till he's satisfied ur still his and run off again. He'll keep doing so till you vex and leave him. The truth is that you're the right girl at the wrong time in his life. And you cannot move him forward, so let him go. I've been in his situation, and everytime I think of the guy(s) I had, I wonder what demon possessed me to say no to them. If God has plans for both of you, he'll grow up and find you.

agreene: Fav1-I am happy to provide you with advise that I hope will help you start
your journey to mending your heart, mind and soul.

Do you have a skype ID? We can continue to chit chat there. How are you doing today?

How was your weekend? Is everything okay?

Amanda

190: ^are u wearing pant

190:
F[i]u[/i]ck him

what happened to fu[i]c[/i]king u rather

I aint Gay - im straight

190: me: Baby what are your digits

Yoruba girl : sero hate sero - tarty-five, sisty four, twenty hate, sisteen. Just boss me

I ran away!

190: [color=RED]^Your boyfriend is on top of another girl as we speak, keep chasing 190 around NL [/color]

190: [color=RED]Keep your opinion to yourself, Let your man make the decisions for you, Do as you are told, Ask for permission when you want to do something, Speak only when you are spoken too, The man is always right, Men and women are not equal, A woman's place is behind her man, A woman's role is to be a servant, Your only job is to perform housekeeping duties, SEX and bear children,

Peace Out!!! [/color]

Ozegbe: your post will always be different..na wa for you

ITbomb: since u too ugly and have insecurity and inferiority problem and u r not sure any responsible guy will ever look ur way, I suggest u stick with him, nature has its own way of giving people what they deserved at their level.
U r a pathetic lover

agreene: I am an African American woman living in the states and not in a million years would my bf seize my phone. What is that about?

Just leave him because he is pathetic. In any relationship you must show your partner how you want to be treated -1st by treating yourself

with respect and dignity. I was really close to my college best friend. He is Nigerian. We decided to start dating and I broke it off

because he lacks communication. He goes days without calling. When you have all the signs- it doesn't take other people to tell you what is really

going on here. He is disrespectful and self centered. Sometimes you must remove yourself from such negative situations in order to know your own

self worth. He has drained you of your dignity and self respect. Sometimes we you love someone you hope they will love you enough to treat you

like you want and asked to be treated. I have learned in past relationships if you allow a person to disrespect you they will continue until you

draw boundaries. Pick you head up...Mend your heart. You deserve to be with someone that will shower unconditional love your way.

Learn your self worth. Take this time out to distance yourself from him. Write about your feelings. Start journaling. The 1st couple of days will

be tough. You will feel as if you can't breathe without him. You will feel nauseous but love you will survive. Once all the shade comes off from where

he has blinded you for years..you will wake up one day and say WHAT THE Bleep WAS I THINKING?

I will pray for you.

Amanda

pro01: I guess this boyfriend of yours must be rich (first and foremost), and perhaps also handsome and/or good in bed. And these are the only things that got you attracted to him and keeps you attracted to him. If that is the case, what makes you think you deserve to enjoy these things all alone? Would you still love him and want him this bad if he suddenly goes broke? Then I'm sure all the other girls would leave him for you to enjoy all by yourself.

BolaBankole: @Poster permit me to ask how old you are and what is the age of this guy? It seems yhe is your first guy and you have little or no knowledge of an ideal relationship.you don't need to be told that this is not love but abuse at its peak, I don't want to retorate what other has said but just sit down and think for how long will you continue to live under fear of someone you claim to love, from every indication the same thing this guy is telling you is what his telling others thereby playing on your intelligence. I will advice you to quit the relationship, stay away from the other guy and focus on building your career...when the times comes the right guy will come just like a thief at night and will be the one that will respect your feelings and opinion.