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Problems You May Encounter In The First Year Of Marriage

Do not worry that the first year is ridden with problems. Your sweet moments will definitely outweigh the sour ones. However, it is good to prepare yourself for the not-so-good times. Here are the probable difficulties you might face in your marriage:
1. Never-ending conflicts: You are still getting used to each other and conflicts might arise even on trivial issues such as keeping the washroom clean. However, do not prolong the arguments; take a deep breath and be calm because one of you needs to let it go for the conflict to end.

2. Lack of romance: Your spouse may be too shy to express their love or maybe they are not the romantic type. This could result in some disappointment but you can talk to them about your expectations.
3. Selfish behavior: You may feel that your partner is being selfish and ignores you. You may communicate your feelings to them.

4. Debt and financial instability: Any unforeseen financial instability or previous debts of your partner can cause a lot of stress in the marriage.
5. Addictions of any kind: Addictions pose a danger to the relationship not just in the first year but at any time.
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On Franklin Nath ( franklinnath.com ) The development of a relationship and the pivotal moments that build and solidify love aren’t meant for the public eye. Romantic relationships are unique and special specifically because they are so intimate.

When you post your love, compliments, and praise for each other on social media rather than sharing it directly with your partner, you run the risk of strengthening the world’s awareness while weakening the impact you would have had on the one person it was truly meant for.

The fact is this: Social media is definitely ruining relationships.

We asked two of our highly esteemed YourTango Experts to tell the worst mistakes happy couples make on social media. Here are their top 6 answers.

1. Assuming an “I love you” plastered on social media has the same impact as saying it directly in person.

“According to The Dating Diva’s 2016 survey of hundreds of men and women, the number one thing they both wished their spouse knew was that they love them. So do you really believe that an ‘I love you’ will get the message across to your beloved as well as holding your honey close, gazing into their eyes and saying ‘I love you?’ Yeah, me neither; so don’t let the pixels do the talking.” – Karen Finn

2. Using Facebook as relationship capital.

“Talk to one another when you’re out of the public eye. Stop using Facebook as relationship capital to prove to others or communicate to others you’ve got a successful relationship. The whole world doesn’t need to witness your relationship dynamic regardless of how good it is. This a quick way to turn your dialogue into a performance, which robs your connection of true authenticity. It also takes something that’s sacred to two of you (your dialogue) and putting it out there for scrutiny.” – Clayton Olson

3. Expecting your spouse to post how wonderful, beautiful, smart, etc. you are.

“What matters more to you, having your spouse tell you that you’re amazing or having your spouse tell everyone else how great you are? A personal conversation will ALWAYS have more positive impact on a marriage than shouting your praises to everyone else on social media.” – Karen Finn

4. Capturing intimate moments and sharing them.

“An intimate moment is no longer an intimate moment if you’re sharing it with the world. Relationships are sacred because of the boundaries and respect that surround it. Not every picture needs to be uploaded to Facebook. It’s a slippery slope into relying on external validation to prove to yourself that your relationship is good enough, rather than finding the answer within.” – Clayton Olson

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5. Using social media to have private discussions.

“Sometimes it’s easier to type a quick note to your spouse via Facebook instead of sending them an email, text or calling them. But sometimes it’s really easy to accidentally post your note to the general public instead of just to your sweetie. Before you post anything meant only for your partner’s eyes, double-check that they’ll be the only ones to see it.” – Karen Finn

6. Believing Facebook actually means anything!

“Facebook is like face paint. Your significant other is going to paint whatever color they want their life to look like. It doesn’t mean anything. When Facebook becomes a tool to read into your partner’s soul, you’ve stopped tracking them and started reacting to their avatar rather than the real person they are.” – Clayton Olson

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On Franklinnath.com: Did you know that papaya seeds are not only edible, but they have immense health benefits, too? While everyone eats the fruit, they almost always do away with the seeds thinking they are unnecessary and, therefore, dispensable. But, they are wrong to think so because just like the pulpy fruit — which is available all throughout the year and eaten especially in summers — the seeds are also packed with numerous nutrients. Find out what they are and how you can eat them.

* The seeds of the papaya fruit are know to keep the gut healthy. If you are suffering from digestive issues, having these seeds will ensure the bad bacteria and parasites in the intestines are removed from the body.


* The seeds are also believed to help with menstrual pain. If you are someone who suffers from severe cramps every month, consider eating the seeds. They can also help with easing out muscle cramps.

* The seeds are packed with antioxidants, so they can help fight free radicals. As such, they protect you from many different infections like common cold, mild cough and other such illnesses.

* It is also said that because they are fibrous in nature, the seeds can help with weight loss by improving the process of digestion. They can also keep the blood pressure in check and keep the heart healthy.

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Before you eat them, know that it is important to consume them in moderation. And also check with your nutritionist and apprise them of your medical history. They will be able to better guide you. Know that the since the seeds are bitter, you do not have to bite into them directly. You can grind them and then mix the powder to your smoothies, juices or desserts. You can also add some jaggery or honey to make it taste sweet.

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On Franklinnath.com, we talked about how Social media can ruin your relationship. Social media; Instagram, Facebook, Twitter (and all the rest) are fast becoming the center of our lives daily. Whilst there are many positive outcomes of this technological invention, there are also some serious side effects that not only impact your self- esteem or career, but also your relationships. Is social media ruining relationships, and you’re not even aware of it?

LET’S LOOK AT WAYS SOCIAL MEDIA IS RUINING RELATIONSHIPS:

1: IT INVITES THE PAST INTO YOUR PRESENT.
How many times have we received a friend request, comment or message from an old friend, ex or colleague from the past? The thing with social media is that it has limited boundaries when it comes to people accessing or contacting you. Whilst this may bring back some memories and nostalgia of the good times, it can also invite unwanted emotions or even temptations back into your life.

My theory is that the past is best left in the past and that if certain people (especially ex-partners) are no longer in your physical present life today then there is a reason. Be wary with whom you decide to regain contact with and don’t feel obliged to accept anyone just because they once were a part of your life before.

2: IT BLURS THE BOUNDARIES.
Opening the doors of your life to the world gives you, even more, ground to monitor and cover and this can be quite difficult to muster! There seems to be this unspoken etiquette with social media that if you don’t accept someone then you will be offending them. Rubbish! It is your personal life at stake here and just because the world decides to overshare doesn’t mean you have to too.

A female that your man works with doesn’t necessarily have to then become his Facebook friend, you should set clear boundaries between you and your partner of whom each of you decides to invite into your private life.

3: IT TURNS YOU INTO A COMPARISON QUEEN.
It’s amazing how our self -esteem can take a hit when we don’t get the 349 “likes”

on our simple picture (especially when we have compromised our standards a little to show a bit more flesh ). Let’s put things into perspective: what you see on someone’s Instagram or Twitter account is not necessarily representative of their real life or even happiness.

Don’t be fooled by the filters and #hastags, plenty of people are happy and successful without having to advertise it to the world and get the approval of the multitude. Just because a woman has bigger breasts or a smaller waist doesn’t mean you are any less of a beautiful person.

4: IT CAN INVITE INSECURITIES, MISTRUST, AND PARANOIA.
Sounds so serious but it’s true and often it starts out as a small fear that gradually grows as we become more and more obsessed with social media. Your relationship with your partner should not be centered around social media. You shouldn’t have to be checking his profile every 5 mins or secretly stalking people to see whether or not something fishy is going on. If social media is starting to control your actions, thoughts and basically send you cray cray, then it’s time to reassess and perhaps take a break.

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5: YOU CAN BECOME ADDICTIVE AND LET IT TAKE PRIORITY.
How many times have we reached for our phone first thing in the morning or flicked through it whilst having dinner with our main man? There should be a rule that no phones or tablets etc. are accessible during any social gathering and meal! We lived without it before for thousands of years and in fact, we all functioned a whole lot better (we even communicated better!) so let’s not lose perspective and put the phones down and talk to each other like the good old days!

6: IT EATS INTO YOUR ONE ON ONE TIME.
I’m a stickler for spending quality time with my man, so we both try to ban our phones and make each other a priority rather than some random’s food selfie! It’s amazing how much of our time can become consumed with trying to keep up with all the different social media avenues. Whilst it’s vital to some women’s careers, it also must not become the sole focus of our day. Don’t forget to nurture and nourish the real things in life that matter most.

7: IT CAN CAUSE OVERSHARING AND UNWANTED OPINIONS.
Basically the more people you open up your life too, the more unwanted opinions (on how you should run your life) you will invite. Social media gives us this silent permission and definitely confidence in oversharing. Why? Well because we know it will generate attention, sympathy or a discussion of some sort which in a way makes us feel like what we have to say is validated and who we are is important.

Who you are is important but your worth would not be based on the opinions of random strangers, nor should your private life be judged by people who hold no real genuine position in your world. It’s not to say we can’t enjoy social media, but let’s also not lose perspective


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What Men Want In A Relationship


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Whether you are just getting into a relationship or have been in one for decades, it is useful to know what men want in a relationship. It can easy to assume they want exactly what you want, but that does not always prove to be accurate. Understanding how a man’s mind works can be beneficial to the entire relationship.



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Below are various ways to give a man what he wants in a relationship. If you can apply all of these to your relationship, then you can guarantee your relationship will be a healthy one and your man will appreciate your effort.


ATTRACTION
While this piece of advice might seem very obvious, many people easily fall into relationships that are just convenient even though there is no strong attraction there. Early on, there are ways that you can inadvertently lessen his attraction to you.

This can happen if you are way too needy or demanding. If you push him away too much or play mind games with him, then he could end up losing his attraction to you. Desperation is a huge attraction killer as well. While you should be willing to do things for him, you should also maintain your self-respect.

So how do you keep an attraction strong if there is one? Be yourself and let things happen naturally. Allow your fun and relaxed side to shine through. Men love confidence and when you can let things roll off your back. Attraction is not all about looks. It is also about the attitude you have.

Needless to say, a positive outlook on life is attractive while a constant negative attitude on things can be a huge turnoff to men. If you are positive, then he will be likely to feel positive as well and that can only help your relationship.

Do not try to force or rush things in your relationship. If you try too hard to impress him or if you rush the relationship way too fast, you just might end up turning him off and scaring him away.

EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
Most men do not like to show their feelings all the time, but they do have the few people they can open up to. Their significant others should be people that they can open up to. Something that a man will really want in a relationship is for you to be his safe space.

A sign of a strong relationship is where he can open up to you emotionally. Do not worry if this does not happen right away. It can sometimes even take years for this type of emotional intimacy to develop.

He needs to know that you will not be disgusted if he breaks down and cries in front of you. If you do make him feel like he cannot be vulnerable with you, then his trust for you will fade away. A man wants a woman who can see the cracks in his armor and will still love him anyway.

Emotional intimacy also applies to the feeling you and your significant other have for each other. Do not be afraid to tell him that you care about him, especially as the relationship progresses later on.

If a guy wants to be in a relationship, it means that he does not just want the physical intimacy. He wants to be emotionally close to you as well. And that means that he wants your heart.

RESPECT
It can be easy and sometimes even fun to bicker with and tease the opposite gender, but we have to be mindful when our respective others are concerned. You can make a joke or two, but consider your man’s feelings.

We have all heard the gender stereotypes that are out there. Do yourself a favor and do not belittle your significant other. You probably would not like to be belittled either. Sometimes this might happen accidentally. Be careful of being overly critical with him. It is not good if you do not make him feel good about himself.

For a good number of men, respect and love go hand in hand. These men need respect in their love lives and the respect that you show him will also show your love for him as well.

After all, if you do not respect him, then do you truly love him? If you do not respect him, then he will feel unloved, anxious, and frustrated among other things.

Another part of respect is seeing him as your equal. That means not treating him like a child. Do not treat him like a little boy or compare him to the other guys out there who are stronger, smarter, better looking, wealthier, and so on. Remember that people deserve respect, and that goes double for those who are in a relationship.

Be aware of how you are with the opposite gender. While you should be able to have other friends, it is typically considered disrespectful to flirt with other people whether or not your guy is also there to see it.

The best rule of thumb is to consider how you would want to be treated and apply that to how you treat the guy in your life. Having a mutual, deep sense of respect for each other will be really healthy for your relationship.

PRAISE
We all have a bit of an ego and men are no different. Even the most confident seeming man could use some reassurance now and then. Whether it is about themselves, their careers, how good they are in bed, or how they are as partners, men love to be praised.

While men typically do not need as much praise as women, being praised by their significant others can positively impact their confidence and self-esteem.

Congratulate your guy for a good job done at work or at home and make him feel great about the things that he is good at. Whether he is really strong or witty, let him know that he is special.

If he is the main breadwinner in the relationship, let him know that you appreciate his hard work and what he does for your household. And if he is not, acknowledge him for the other contributions that he has made to the life that the two of you share together as a couple.

Men love to be appreciated and recognized for the things they do whether they are large or small, and it is always best when the praise comes from a significant other. It lets them know that they are doing something right.

ACCEPTANCE
Men. You can’t live with them and you can’t live without them. It can be frustrating when they do not always load up the dishwasher right or when they fail to remember to do little thing that are just second nature to you. But you love your special man anyway, right? Let him know that you accept him.

Most grown men are set in their ways and are not looking for someone who will want to drastically change them. Sure, we all have our flaws and our significant others can help us become better people but there is a limit to that. You should not want your man to be a completely different person.

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Remember, no healthy man wants a woman who will act like their mother. Do not baby and belittle him if you want a healthy relationship. Allow him to feel like a man and accept him for the unique person that he is. After all, you chose him for a reason.

A PHYSICAL CONNECTION
While women typically connect better through the act of communication, men are known to typically connect better through the act of physical intimacy. Being intimate is an important part of many relationships.

Many men want to feel needed in their relationships and they often want their needs met as well. Ideally, that physical connection should be present as that can make a relationship very strong.

When you get further into a relationship, it can be easy to feel like the flame has gone out. Do not let yourself fall into the trap of complacency. The last thing that you want to happen is to give up on the intimate bond in your relationship.

This does not even have to fully apply to intimacy in bed. It also includes little gestures like holding hands and hugging each other. Believe it or not, he might yearn for your touch even outside of the bedroom.

He might even reach out to hold your hand just to know that you are still there for him. To engage with him physically is to also engage with him romantically.

ROMANCE
Some people don’t consider that men want a little romance too. Some are more romantic than others, so figure out where your guy fits in. While he might not expect chocolates and flowers from you, he might cherish the occasional sweet text from you or the kiss on the lips for no particular reason.

A large part of great romance is the little surprises that aren’t expected but are delivered anyway. Things like a quick kiss on the cheek or an impromptu cuddle session. Or you can even try something steamier like an unexpected passionate kiss or a nibble of the neck.

Making romantic gestures will also show that you are passionate, spontaneous, and generous in a relationship.

SECURITY
Feeling certain in a relationship is always incredibly important to the parties that are involved. What makes a person feel secure about their relationship? Having a partner who is reliable and honest can certainly help. Guys are no different than girls when it comes to wanting security in a relationship.

Think about it. If a guy is taking you on dates or has a home with you, he would be devastated if you just decided to end the relationship without any warning. That is why it is important for you to be reliable and communicative with him. Remember to communicate with him through the good times and the bad times as well. That way, your relationship won’t just go up in smoke.

Commitment is an important part of a secure relationship. It is important that you both agree on the terms of your relationship and that you both work to maintain a strong relationship. If one person stops making the effort, then the relationship will begin to crumble.

EMOTIONAL MATURITY
If you are in a relationship, then you should be old enough to act like an adult whether you are 16 or 60. It is no big surprise that men will want emotional maturity in a relationship. This means not acting like a child when things get too hard. Think about it. Why would a normal man want a woman who acts like a child when he could do better with a woman who acts like a mature grown up?

To be emotionally mature in your relationship, remember to always communicate with your partner and to be respectful of their feelings. Do not act immediately on your emotions. If you get upset or frustrated, do not immediately act out.

The opposite of someone with emotional maturity is someone who plays games. For instance, if you are mad at your boyfriend and instead of talking to him about it, you ignore him for several days while he wonders what is wrong.

A man will want someone who can deal with the situation in a mature way. Instead of reacting in a way that you might regret, take a second first to step back, and try to figure out how to solve the problem. Remember that an emotionally mature relationship is a healthy one to have.

COMMUNICATION
Good communication definitely ties into emotional maturity. To keep a man happy in a relationship, you have to be able to communicate, even when you might just want to give him the silent treatment and leave him there to guess what went wrong.

Fewer things are frustrating than when you have no idea why your significant other is upset. Do both of yourselves a favor and just talk to him. If you need to cool off, let him know that you will be back to talk about it. But people in healthy relationships are not afraid to communicate with each other in an open and honest way.

If you have an issue that you are dealing with, especially in the relationship, let him know before it is too late. Remember that men are not mind readers. In fact, no one is a mind reader. That is why it is great to communicate your thoughts and feelings. If you do not communicate what is on your mind, then nothing will change the problems that you are dealing with in your relationship.

Communication also involves listening. So remember to listen to him if he has something to say. While men are said to be less likely to want to talk about their feelings, you should also let him know that you are there for him if he ever needs to talk. Men have feelings to0, and as his significant other, you should be there to support him when he does need it.

Remember to keep him in the loop. This includes involving him in the plans that you make together. Do not just make plans for the two of you all the time without letting him know.

If you are running late for a date, let him know. Do not just show up 30 minutes late or worse, fail to show up at all. Most men will not have any patience for that at all.

PARTNERSHIP
If a man wants to be in a relationship, then it means that he wants a partner. That does not just mean someone to go out to dinner and get intimate with, it also means someone that he can build a life with and make important decision with.

When two people are partners, they listen to each other and value each other’s opinions, especially when it comes to the big things in life. Partners support each other and do not tear each other down.

In a partnership, the two people involved have to remember that one person should not give while the other person does all of the taking. This can apply to anything from making the effort to spend time together to sharing the housework if you live together. A partnership means that you do it together.

FUN
Whether it is having a sense of adventure or a similar sense of humor, who doesn’t want to be able to have fun with their significant other? Men especially like being able to laugh and while they can laugh and joke around with their friends, they probably want to be able to laugh with you too.

That is not to say that you have to like everything that your guy finds funny with his friends. Two people in a relationship can have their own inside jokes and set of things that they can laugh about. That is what makes it even more special.

After all, who likes it when their partner takes themselves way too seriously? Being able to laugh at yourself or a funny situation means that you can let your hair down. And that means that you are not afraid to be comfortable around your significant other.

SPACE
No matter how strong and how intense and loving a relationship can be, everyone needs some space once in a while. Whether you are in the beginning of a whirlwind romance or have been going strong for 10 years, you still need time to yourself.

It probably comes as little surprise that guys need their space in a relationship. The truth is people need their space, regardless of gender. We all need time to remember and figure out who we are outside of our relationships.

If he has his own hobbies and interests, he should be able to do them without feeling guilty that he is not at your side. While it is good for a couple to have hobbies and interests together, sometimes a guy just wants to do his own thing once in a while, no matter how much he cares about you.

When it comes to space, both people in the relationship will need to talk about what that consists of in their relationship. Not every couple is going to be the same and they will all have their different needs.

Some couples might need alone time at the end of each day, while other couples might choose to spend time apart once a week or once a month. Make sure that you work together to figure out what is best for you as a couple.

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The idea of giving him space can also apply to the early stages of the relationship as well. Give him the time and space that he needs. Obviously, you should not let him string you along with no end goal in sight, but do not do things like bring up marriage on your 2nd date.

While it is important to talk about a long term commitment in the relationship, it is the type of conversation that can be brought up as the relationship progresses when you are both ready to talk about it. Do not pressure him too hard early on.

CONCLUSION
While you should not drastically change yourself to fit into what a man would want from a relationship, you also need to consider that a relationship is a two-way street.

At the end of the day, men want a relationship where they can feel good about themselves and where they feel like they are with someone who is mature. Being able to communicate and compromise are just some aspects of a mature relationship.

Men appreciate respect and having a partner who works together with them. If you can do these things, then you can have a happy, fulfilled relationship with your guy.

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On Franklinnath.com: The best way to know if someone’s a lesbian is to ask them, but you can’t ask your wife. So watch out for these signs that you have a lesbian wife.
Not everyone is gifted with gaydars, that incredible ability to sense if someone is a homosexual just by one glance. But imagine this: what if you fall in love with a woman—and even marry her—without knowing that she is, in fact, a lesbian?


Mind you, many a man has tied the knot with a lesbian without knowing. And there are also women who married men only to eventually realize their partner’s preference is for the same sex.

How to know if you have a lesbian wife

It is heartbreaking for a man to find out that he has a lesbian wife. And while media portrays men as avid admirers of lesbian romance, it’s not so appealing when they are left out of the picture. Especially if that man is you.


So how do you know if have a lesbian wife? Before you confront her and risk embarrassing yourself, look out for these signs first. [Read: Is she a lesbian? Clear signs to know for sure]

#1 Who’s the boss? Aside from being stubborn and assertive, she seems to be the one who is in charge of your relationship. It’s her say that always has to stand, and she won’t take “no” for an answer, especially if she wants something done her way. And if that’s not bad enough—she’s literally wearing the pants in your relationship. Your pants, to be exact.


#2 Feminine touch. You’ll know you have a lesbian wife when she doesn’t really have this. She isn’t as concerned about things that most women seem to simply and naturally be interested in. For example, she doesn’t care about home decoration and maintenance, and you’re the one ending up propping a frame of your wedding on the mantle.


#3 Beiber hair. For a time, Justin Beiber’s hair style has been widely popular among lesbians, especially butch ones. So think about a point in your marriage when she sported that ‘do—or she may still be sporting one now.

#4 Body language. You can tell a lot about a person just by their body language. So while your wife is absolutely smoking hot, there’s a good chance you have noticed something off about the way she moves, even long before you got married.

She seems to be more masculine than feminine with her movements: sitting with her legs wide open *which you found so sexy before*, punching you when you make a joke, a subtle hunch on her shoulders when she walks, and so on.

#5 Chick flick flop. While you greatly appreciate that she never once forced you to sit through a chick flick with her before, you now start to doubt what that’s all about. Like, come on. Every straight girl would have at least one favorite chick flick or TV series.


But your wife? You have to force her to even watch Outlander at Netflix. She even scoffs at the cheesy scenes, but would stare intently at every boob scene.

#6 Manicure. Your lesbian wife, if she indeed is one, isn’t interested with long nails, much less nail art. She may even chalk it up by saying she can’t work with long nails.

However, lesbians don’t really have much inclination for this kind of primping. And if you indeed see her with long nails, watch out for short middle and index or ring fingers. She keeps these short because these are her “working” fingers.

#7 Guffaws and bellows. You have always been fascinated by how heartily she laughs. In fact, while you were just dating, this endeared her to you. Aside from that, you also have the same sense of humor that made you believe you’re really compatible with each other.

However, her laugh now bugs you because it’s more manly, and you can’t tell the difference between her laugh and that of your drunk uncle’s.


#8 One of the guys. Not only does she laugh like a man, she also comfortably fits in around a group of guys. Whenever your buddies go to your place for poker night, she tags along and fits right in to the point that your buds even do fist and chest bumps with her.


#9 She has experience. If you really have a lesbian wife, then her past will speak for itself. Maybe she’s really had a girlfriend during her teens, or was a bisexual before you met her.

She may have mentioned bits about her past when she kissed a girl, hooked up with one, went to lesbian bars, or was completely in love with a girl. If she’s mum about her past, you can covertly ask her closest friends for insider info.

#10 Eyes for her. Instead of elbowing you and giving you a fiery glare when your eyes follow a pretty girl crossing the street, she ogles them too. You’re sure that if you’re not with her, she’ll be hooting and cat-calling every woman that catches her eye.


After the two of you stares at one, she’ll say, “She’s so hot,” and this is in no way sarcastic or condescending to you. She just openly appreciates women.

#11 Flirty. You catch her locking eyes with another girl—and it’s not in the friendly way that you know women do with their friends. Hers is flirty and sensual.

At times, you even wonder that if were you not married and were instead just friends, she might stand as formidable competition against you over girls.


#12 Porn preferences. So now that you’re married, you probably have long been comfortable enough to watch porn together. And you know what her preferences are: girl-on-girl action. Enough said.
#13 Jealous husband. Yes, you’ve been a jealous husband for quite a while now. But this jealousy isn’t over some guy—it’s over her girlfriend.


She has this best friend whom she meets with on a regular basis, and when the best friend comes over, it feels like you’re the one who is the third wheel because your wife is overly affectionate with her more than with you.

#14 Her circle. Another sign that you have a lesbian wife can be seen by the company she keeps. Does she have one, two, or more lesbian friends in her circle? If this is the case, then “birds of the feather flock together.”

#15 No appetite. For sex, that is. Since you’ve been dating, you have noticed that she’s not one for intimacy and sex in a way that you would expect. While she’s highly sexual, it seems to you that she’d rather do something else—anything else—than to sleep with you.

She just goes through the motions of having sex with you as your wife, but you have a gut feeling that she doesn’t really enjoy it.


You will know your suspicions are true of having a lesbian wife if many of the things mentioned above check out. But still, the best thing to do is to sit down and talk to her and be supportive and understanding.

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We asked men what makes them want to put a ring on it. They had a lot to say.


In the 1950s, what constituted “wife material” was pretty basic compared to how it is now.

"Perfect” wives were women who stayed home to take care of the kids, keep the house in order, and have dinner ready promptly at 6:00 p.m. when her husband walked through the door.

Women’s aspirations became second to fulfilling their wifely duties. To be honest, it sounds terribly depressing.


Thankfully, much has changed since then.

What makes a woman wife material now isn’t about being docile, submissive, and letting the man run the show.


Thanks to the Women’s Movement and advancements in equality, men are more likely to look for a woman who will be their true partner and want not their, well, maid.

To verify this is indeed the case, we asked 11 men what they think makes a woman wife material.
What follows is what they had to say.

1. You love in equal measure.

"It just boils down to love and attraction. I don't mean any kind of romantic ideal, but like, proper love, where you love them so much that even when you're mid-argument and super angry you still make sure they take an umbrella to work because it might rain. Any person who loves you that much in equal measure, and doesn't mind risking a sex-related hip fracture when you're both in your 70s is definitely marriage material."

2. You have insatiable intellectual curiosity.

"Basically, I need someone who will both challenge and complete me. I don't want a fan or sycophant, nor do I want an adversary. The ideal woman will have an understanding of my strengths and weaknesses and exploit them not to injure me, but to make me better. She would also have an insatiable intellectual curiosity and big boobs. But in all seriousness, I don't know that we need to have the perfect woman to qualify as marriage material. I know I don't. All I need is that person who makes the concept of being with anyone else an exercise in idiocy."

3. You accept yourself without reservation.

"Total acceptance of who you are, both the good and bad."

4. You love to laugh.

“A sense of humor. That's the most important thing a woman a can have if I were to want to marry her. Of course I'd want her to be kind, genuine, adventurous and someone with whom I'd like to share my life but above all is sense of humor. Laughing and loving together is what makes a long-lasting relationship.”


5. You can cook.

“I know this is going to come off sexist, but it isn't. I swear. That being said, wife material for me is a woman who can cook and cook well, like French pastry type well. Not because I want her in the kitchen but because I can't cook to save my life but eating is a passion of mine. If her passion is to cook and mine is to eat then we can't lose. I'd like to say once again that this isn't me giving into gender stereotypes. Cooking and eating together is sexy. I guess I’m a regular old George Costanza.”

Source: https://www.franklinnath.com/what-are-the-ways-to-know-if-you-are-a-wife-material/

6. You challenge him.

“She has to challenge me to be my best self. That’s my main qualification. Also, I can’t marry someone who isn’t funny.”

7. You're affectionate.

“Looking at my parents’ marriage there wasn’t as much emotional support as I think my mother needed from my dad. They fought too often and I never saw them, not once, show any sort of affection toward each other. Because of that, a woman who is affectionate and loving is someone with whom I want to grow old with. I don’t ever want my kids to wonder why mom and dad never hugged, kissed, or cuddled, like I always wondered. I want them to know we love each other and they were born from that love.”

8. You have your own life.

“In my mind, a woman with her own life is probably the coolest one to marry. And by 'her own life' I mean: her own career, her own set of friends, her own independent streak, her own dreams, and her own bunch of at least 15-20 vinyl records. This would certainly be a fair thing for a woman to want in a potential husband too, by the way.”


9. You wouldn't dream of embarrassing him in public.

“She doesn't punk you in public in general but particularly in front of your friends. Bust chops? Okay. Disagree? Sure. Argue? Maybe. But if she's wife material she'll keep anything demeaning or embarrassing private.”

10. You love him despite his past mistakes.

“I know this is cliché, but wife material for me is someone who loves the worst in me and is OK with all my screw-ups. I’ve made a lot of mistakes along the way and have my fair share of regrets, so if she can love that stuff and not hold it against me, then I’d call that wife material.”

11. You are considerate.

"'Wife material' indicators can range from doing the wallet dance (thanks, but we'll pay) or something sweet like making our bed after a sleepover. It's so simple, but speaks to a level of consideration you don't always get in some people who might feel a little too entitled to your chivalry."

Source: https://www.franklinnath.com/what-are-the-ways-to-know-if-you-are-a-wife-material/

At Franklinnath.com I present: Fruits benefits and how to eat them

Essential Nutrients in Fruit

The nutrients in fruit are vital for overall health and maintenance of body systems. The benefits of these nutrients include:

Reduced risk of chronic disease: Eating a diet rich in fruit may reduce risk for stroke, cardiovascular disease and type 2 diabetes.

Improved heart health: The potassium in fruit can reduce the risk of heart disease and stroke. Potassium may also reduce the risk of developing kidney stones and help to decrease bone loss.

Lower risk of neural tube defects: Folate (folic acid) helps the body form red blood cells. Women of childbearing age who may become pregnant and those in the first trimester of pregnancy need adequate folate.

Folate helps prevent neural tube birth defects such as spina bifida.

Protection against cell damage: An eating pattern where fruit is part of an overall healthy diet provides antioxidants that help repair damage done by free radicals and may protect against certain cancers.

It may also have a positive impact on digestive health. Polyphenols are antioxidants that have been shown to alter gut microecology, or the proportion of healthy versus harmful bacteria.

https://www.franklinnath.com/healthiest-fruits-when-to-eat-them-their-benefits-and-vitamin-properties/

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To help you detect the signs of manipulation in your friendship, we’ve put together 5 common signs of manipulation and how they might show up IRL:


1. They Are Passive Aggressive


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They avoid confrontation, however, their frustration will usually come by way of a mutual friend. Your mutual friend might say, “Susie Q is not happy with you right now, you should really talk to her.” This is characterized as manipulation because Susie Q has placed all responsibility on you to make amends with her. She’s also playing on your loyalty because, inevitably, you’ll feel guilty until you do.

2. They Never Listen
The conversation is rarely about you, and when it is, you get the feeling they’re not listening. Sigh. Perhaps they are actively responding to text messages on their phone or interrupt your story to tell you something off topic. In either case, they are relaying to you that what you have to say isn’t important to them, and certainly not as important as what they have to say.
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3. They Are On A Power Trip
They always have to be in charge and likes the home court advantage. For example, they insist on hosting you at their apartment and places where they’re familiar, as well as doing things they’re familiar with to make sure they’re always in control. They might also try to force you out of your comfort zone to make you feel vulnerable and reliant on them for guidance.

4. They Ask A lot of Favors
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This form of manipulation gauges how far you will go to fulfill their requests. You should always be willing to give a friend a helping hand, but it’s a red flag if it comes in tandem with any of these signs.

5. They Get Defensive
When you confront them about some of their behaviors, they become defensive and resistant to hearing your perspective. They may get emotional to avert the attention off the issue and onto their current state, or they may blame an extraneous event as the reason for their actions. If you don’t feel like your concerns are getting across, then you might be dealing with manipulation.

Know more:
https://www.franklinnath.com/how-to-identify-a-manipulative-person/

We Need To Talk…
If you recognize any of these signs, then make an effort to sit down with your friend and have a conversation about your concerns. If you’re able to come to a resolution, wait to see if their behavior changes based on the things you’ve spoken about. Another trait of manipulative people is that they will tell you what you want to hear without making any effort to change their behavior. If you decide to remain friends with a manipulator, it’s important to implement a strategy to protect yourself, and take the time to make sure it works.

Time To Say Goodbye
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If the manipulation is particularly toxic, or if they become defensive upon confrontation and reluctant to hear your concerns, it may be best to walk away from the friendship completely. Sometimes people don’t even know they have manipulative tendencies and will be reluctant to change. If that’s the case, the behavior may continue to happen again and again, which can negatively impact how you feel about yourself.

Love Yourself
Self-care and self-love should be your top priorities when it comes to any relationship. You’re not being a bad friend by standing up for yourself and pointing out signs of a potentially unhealthy friendship. Listen to your intuition and pay attention to the signs. Take time to think about whether or not your friendship is healthy and if it’s worth keeping in your life. It’s always worth the conversation, with yourself and your friend.

Read More: https://www.franklinnath.com/how-to-identify-a-manipulative-person/

Franklinnath.com :

11 Lies You Should Always Tell Your Spouse

1.
Because brutal honesty is overrated
Is honesty really always the best policy when it comes to your relationship? It turns out, telling the truth all the time isn't all it's cracked up to be—especially when it comes to keeping the peace with your spouse.

2.
"Your cooking is delicious"
Cooking is both a skill and an art form. When your spouse spends time in the kitchen preparing a meal just for you to enjoy, it's perfectly OK (in fact, it's expected) that you'll not only say "Thank you" but also "Yummy." Unless you're the one standing at the stove, keep the culinary criticism to yourself.

3
"You're the most beautiful person in the world"
While attraction is often what brings two people together, over time, especially in long-term relationships, we forget to see the physical beauty in our partner. Whether they're dressed to the nines or on day three of not showering, it's important to affirm to our loved ones that they're the only person we have eyes for.

4.
"You're the best lover I've ever had"
No, we're definitely not telling couples to lie about sexual satisfaction, but we are saying it's OK to praise their partner's bedroom prowess. Telling your lover they're the best you've ever had boosts their confidence and will inspire them to keep reaching for the sky in your intimacy.

5
"I love this gift!"
We've all been on the receiving end of a really bad gift that makes us wonder if our partner actually knows us, right? While truly terrible presents can leave us scratching our heads, it's perfectly OK to say "Thank you" and "I love it." Why lie? Because sometimes people are just bad at giving gifts and we should honor the thought, not the outcome. (And next time, drop better hints.)

6
"I didn't watch the next episode yet"
If you can get away with pretending you didn't watch the next episode of "This Is Us" or "Game of Thrones" (or whatever your favorite show to watch with your spouse is), then do it. Not only will admitting that you TV-cheated hurt your partner's feelings, but it can lead to some serious remote-control distrust. Just make sure your significant other doesn't check the digital queue beforehand!

7
"I'm excited to see your family too!"
When your partner tells you their family is coming to town for a visit, just follow their lead. If they seem happy, you should be too—even if you're really cringing inside. Whether your mother-in-law rubs you seven shades of wrong or your brother-in-law refuses to clean up after himself, supporting your spouse by being receptive to their family goes a long way towards keeping the peace.

8
"You're right"
You're listening to your partner vent about their bad day at work and you know they're in the wrong. What do you do? If it's actually not a big deal, let it go and agree with them. Sometimes, our spouses just need our unconditional support and understanding, even when you know their take on a situation is off. Of course, if they're headed for serious trouble (or crossing one of your personal boundaries), speak your piece.

9
"You don't look fat"
Does this even need an explanation? For starters, body policing is never OK, so don't even talk about their weight unless they ask. If their weight gain is serious or causing a medical concern, it's OK to broach the subject with love and concern, just not judgment or scorn.

10
"You're not annoying"
Maybe your spouse likes to be playful when you'd rather chill. Maybe they want to cuddle when you want to play video games. While it's always important to respect each other's personal boundaries, if you're giving the "I'm annoyed by you" vibe, it's definitely going to sting. So, if your partner asks if they're annoying you (and it's not crossing any lines), lie. Give them the same love and compassion you would want if the scenario was reversed.

11
"You're so funny"
Nothing feels better than making the person you love laugh, but sometimes, our partners aren't all that funny. As long as they're not being crass or offensive, go ahead and laugh. Play along and give them the joy of knowing they made you happy. Besides, it won't kill you to exercise your funny bone once in awhile.

[ https://www.franklinnath.com/11-lies-partners-tell-themselves-that-is-not-bad ]

Franklinnath.com : Men says these 13 qualities in women make them wife materials....


Men are more likely to look for a woman who will be their true partner and want not their, well, maid.

To verify this is indeed the case, franklinnath.com asked 11 men what they think makes a woman wife material.
What follows is what they had to say.

1 You love in equal measure.

“It just boils down to love and attraction. I don’t mean any kind of romantic ideal, but like, proper love, where you love them so much that even when you’re mid-argument and super angry you still make sure they take an umbrella to work because it might rain. Any person who loves you that much in equal measure, and doesn’t mind risking a sex-related hip fracture when you’re both in your 70s is definitely marriage material.”

2 You have insatiable intellectual curiosity.

“Basically, I need someone who will both challenge and complete me. I don’t want a fan or sycophant, nor do I want an adversary. The ideal woman will have an understanding of my strengths and weaknesses and exploit them not to injure me, but to make me better. She would also have an insatiable intellectual curiosity and big boobs. But in all seriousness, I don’t know that we need to have the perfect woman to qualify as marriage material. I know I don’t. All I need is that person who makes the concept of being with anyone else an exercise in idiocy.”

3 You accept yourself without reservation.

“Total acceptance of who you are, both the good and bad.”

4 You love to laugh.

“A sense of humor. That’s the most important thing a woman a can have if I were to want to marry her. Of course I’d want her to be kind, genuine, adventurous and someone with whom I’d like to share my life but above all is sense of humor. Laughing and loving together is what makes a long-lasting relationship.”

5 You can cook.

I know this is going to come off sexist, but it isn’t. I swear. That being said, wife material for me is a woman who can cook and cook well, like French pastry type well. Not because I want her in the kitchen but because I can’t cook to save my life but eating is a passion of mine. ( franklinnath.com )If her passion is to cook and mine is to eat then we can’t lose. I’d like to say once again that this isn’t me giving into gender stereotypes. Cooking and eating together is sexy. I guess I’m a regular old George Costanza.

Continue reading: https://www.franklinnath.com/what-are-the-ways-to-know-if-you-are-a-wife-material/

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And the worst part is that the man charged 25k for the treatment, I told him I don't have money and he says God will provide for me,I tried to make him believe I have no hope of raising the money from any where he insisted on giving me the treatment saying that I don't need to leave infection in my body that its can cause me future pain.

Please am in need of an advice urgently, what should I do??

I went for lab test and it came out that I have typhoid and staphylococcus erus and some small liver abnormalities (I guess hepatitis A or C). because the man said its not hepatitisB.

Now he has been giving me injection for 4 days now but am not seeing any changes in my body,the symptoms are still there. The headache,the itching hand,the early morning heavy body,my nipple still brings out waterlike drawing liquid.

And the worst part is that the man charged 25k for the treatment, I told him I don't have money and he says God will provide for me,I tried to make him believe I have no hope of raising the money from any where he insisted on giving me the treatment saying that I don't need to leave infection in my body that its can cause me future pain.

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