I seriously cannot start mentioning names 'cause I've lost count... I just want to express my profound gratitude to everyone who ensured they dropped some words of admonition, encouragement and motivation for me to move on.

It is often said that a problem shared is a problem half solved, truely all nairalanders have demonstrated it here. So to tell you how much you care, I got a call from nairaland family, thanks so much God bless you richly. He will keep and guide us against misfortunes and all evil. Truely Good People still exist even on NL.

Am very strong, thank God for the work that keeps my mind really busy.

Keep it coming you may not know who your words of encouragement can heal.

greatgod2012:
My heartfelt condolence sir.



The truth is that it's not an experience you can easily forget. It's one of the unexplainable and unforgettable experiences of life.

However, time heals! And with good and passionate people around you, you will find it worthy to move on.

The love you have for her too will push you to do what will make her happy if she was still alive, I'm sure she wouldn't want you stagnant for life, these are some of the things that will push and strengthen you to move on.


My thoughts are with you.





Can I send you a PM?

@greatgod, thanks so much, I appreciate. Feel free to send me pm via femijuwon@yahoo.com.

Abiagirl777:
Can't say I understand because I don't but I know its as if you stop to exist,only you knows how much it hurts.
But don't hold back your grief,cry aloud when you feel like it helps a lot ,talk to God talk to yourself,it'll be well again.may God give you the grace to bear this loss and may she RIP in the Lords bossom

It's beyond human comprehension.

Amen thanks.

Swissheart:
So sorry Sir. When did it happen?

4 months ago

[quote author=yetseyi post=48881294]Op kindly go through this thread, it may help.

https://www.nairaland.com/20511/adjusting-life-widower

Accept my condolences.[/quot

Thank you Yetseyi, very helpful however, I wished she lived a little longer with me to even have a kid... But my case was not so.

Thanks for the condolence, I appreciate.

hardbody:
Such a pity bro.
Take heart in the resurrection hope.
I can't console you because it's an experience in have never had, but hold your emotions and try to rein it in.
My dad got heartbroken 3 days after my moms burial and he passed on the fourth day.
Live for the love of the spouse you loved
God heal you with time.....the greatest healer.

"...live for the love of the spouse you love". Thanks for such consoling phrase I will never forget this.

Life is unfair and very cruel, I never understood the meaning of this phrase until my first love and marriage of 1 month ended as a fairy tale fantasy.

My world crumbled, I lost faith, I felt pained from my inside. Darkness engulfed me .. Nothing else mattered or had meaning to me. I attempted suicide. I even concluded in my heart that God does not exist, if he does he must be very wicked.

After dating my beloved wife of blessed memory for about 3years we had a befitting wedding. She is the description of a young woman endowed with beauty, brains and virtue.

1 month after our wedding I lost her... It's five month since the incidence. It's like a dream,I still can't believe wuraolami, Feyikemi, ayomide, teminikansoso as I fondly praise her. have finally bidded me farewell too soon...

How can I start allover again, how do I find another woman to replace her, she was humble, kind, understanding, loving and very patient. Am Guilty 'cause I never had the opportunity to help or rescue her after a brief illness.I've never been lonely and unhappy like this, this is the worst experience of my life. I hope to find meaning someday to the vanity in this life... Truely everything is vanity, vanity upon vanity as written in ecclessiastes!

Has anyone ever experienced this, I will be glad if you can share the consoling testimony of how you overcame the ordeal, pain, presure, depression, loneliness, every night wepping... I coudn't hold back the tears in my eyes as I shared this awful story of my life.

If the god of Love still exist he must be very wicked!