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F : People totally adore you.
E : You love pre-intimacy.
M : Success comes easily to you.
I : You are loved by most, hated by many, yet wanted by plenty

Not too bad!!

programming (object oriented with Java)

@spoilt

Please can u send me mail to me on femi_4_u@yahoo.co.uk for those tips

@spoilt

Any tips from you will be appreciated

@Adetife
Omo uself dey confused because yo mum wants u to marry her, that is why u are now in distress! Well my point still remains the same

My mum is not neccessary the issue i love her enough to want to marry her, but i don't know if time will change all that.

Thanks for all the advice. Is not as if i don't know her. Her Cousin and I used to work in the place in Naija, she use to come around, that where I knew her casually. The last time I was in Naija i stayed for about a month and the last two weeks we went out together alot. The issue now is; we are family friends and my mum got wind of the fact that we are in a relationship, so she want me to marry her. But i don't think i have known her enough and if the time we spend on phone will enable me know if will be compatible as couples.

@ Anabell
so what have been doin to her 4 d past 8months

I have been trying to get to know her better by spending time with her on phone.

I will like to court her, but i wouldn't have time to spend with her in naija and she couldn't get an entry clearance since were not married.

I am a relationship with a girl in naija while I am in UK. I knew her casually back then when I was in najia, I ran into her the last time I traveled to naija and collected her number. I spend a average of 30min on phone with her for the last 8 months. She has agreed to go out with me. I guess I like her enough to marry her.
Pls I need your advice from anyone with experience. Should I go ahead to marry her without courting her? What of if I discover some character traits that I don’t like? Or the time spend on phone is it enough to really know her?