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LiberatedGirl:
Thank You Very much for Your Kind Contribution but If you really read the post , my boyfriend is NOT HAPPY he bought the drinks

That doesn't mean he cheated on you aiit..it's called guilt tripping..
He only said that so as to make you feel loved and not sad..it's quite simple..

RisenJoe:
Guys I need your opinion on this.

There's this babe we've been together for 4yrs now but it wasn't a steady stuff, just a few offs and on, she's older than me with 4yrs but she's homely, nice and she loves me with all her heart.

But my problem is that I don't love her the way I used to do initially when the relationship was young due to her anger issues (she's a short girl btw) and during those years that we used to see each other often, I noticed that sometimes this girl will just lock up literally like she wouldn't talk to me nor give me face even when I try all I could do to snap her out of the mood and make her happy but it's like pouring water on a stone. This issue even affected me cos I can't think straight whenever she enters that phase and I've tried to make her see reasons why what she's doing is affecting me as well but she won't bulge.

Another issue is her age and I fear that she will stop respecting me after sometime if I eventually marry her, though she's acting respectful now but who knows how long she can keep up with it.

But aside from these two issues, I have no problem with her cos she's everything I want in a woman.

Guys, what advice can you give me in this situation?

Nothing wrong in starting a relationship with someone older than you.... all that truly matters is love..go for it..

Don't you think you are too possessive and insecure tho?
I see nothing really wrong in buying a drink for a lady even tho they ain't in a relationship..

He has a point..we are all human and I fail to understand what the hate is all about..
Look how cute and hot the guy looks tho..
Imagine kissing those cute lips..

DarkJeddi:
The law allows you to take reasonable actions..

To defend your life and property..

It is left to a court of law..

To determine..

If their actions..

Under the circumstances..

Are justified..

Thanks for agreeing with me..

DarkJeddi:
He made a threatening move..

To you it is nothing..

To them it was a big deal..

If it wasn't a big deal..

They would not have been in his church..

In the first instance..

He made a demand..

Had they simply ignored him..

He would have carried out his threats..

It's one thing to make a demand..

It is a totally different scenario..

To start issuing threats..

Yes..

Spiritual threats of harm are threats..

To them is different from court of law..they have no right whatsoever to bodily harm him..
You think law was made to favor stupidity?you sure can help yourself out by reading how the law really works..

Dapson73:
Poverty has affected your level of reasoning. Does it means he's not being feeding before? I think people like you worship money and doesn't value integrity.

The hate aspect..tell the guy to stop hating on people living their lifes..

DarkJeddi:
When an individual is threatening immediate harm to you..

By threats of cursing your life if you fail to comply with his threats..

It is within your rights to take immediate actions to neutralize such threats..

Neutralize the threat in form of self defence huh?
Immediate harm without no assault?
Immediate action by beating him to pulp rather than leaving the church..?
No justification for that nonsense in the court of law..you assaulted someone without him hurting you in a bodily form then you face the law..
Taking laws into your hands and you justifying it Is a big sign of ignorance..

God1000:
thanks for your understanding friend.

Dybala11:
Of course, but the way Nigerians make assumptions cos of dressing and looks ehnnn. Sometimes sha, dressing defines the type of person an individual is too, not always but sometimes.

Good point...you made a lot of Sense.. thanks for your contribution..

God1000:
the thing is I'm on morning shift this week, I will be so tired when I return back from work, let's see what pans out, but don't be annoyed if I disappoint you, my apologies in advance.

However I will surely show you my cooking prowess someday.

Feel free to disappoint me..don't inconvenience yourself aiit..take your time it doesn't matter when it's gonna take place..

You can decide not to bother any more about it ...it's understandable to myself..

He should face the firing squad pls.. tomorrow they drop him down people will start saying the world is wicked..
Why on earth are you gonna embarrass a woman publicly?this is horrible and not Worth sight seeing...
He doesn't deserve to be called a man..this is a wannabe redpiller who thinks women should not be regarded with respect..

Tetehjewels:
Until Dem re-knack you Oruka

What's that thing?
Is it a meal or a phone brand.

God1000:
haha, na so you no dey 4get things you have a good retentive memory.

I don't think I do..just that I am eager to see what you have for me to see..

Tetehjewels:
Until Dem knack you oruka

Keep your belief to your gullible self..

GodIsBiafran:
I beg to differ. My approach was never the problem. It is possible your brain 'was paining you' and now you have recovered from your brain freeze.

Here you go again..
We are on the same page of not believing that dreadlocks doesn't define who you are..and that religion is like one of the reasons for this odd belief..kudos you made a great point in each comment..

God1000:
Nigerians have forgotten about covid, only few of them observe covid protocols now, go to banks and other public places and see how people behave, nobody cares anymore which is very wrong.

Sometimes I'm the only one wearing nose cover in my church here in Ibadan

Don't forget to tag me on this coming Saturday..
I will keep reminding you..I hope I am gonna be online whenever it's been posted..

GodIsBiafran:
Do you understand the concept of 'the lasting effect of colonialism?' Do you know that in many churches across West Africa there is an image of a Scandinavian looking Jesus at the altar even though the Jesus (who probably never existed) came from Palestine? Do you know why so many Africans consider speaking their tribal language a sign of inferiority and speaking English or French or Spanish or Arab a sign of superiority? Do you know that when Europeans see these things they laugh and call you monkeys (as in monkey see monkey do)?
Do you know that to this very day every single year France takes out hundreds of billions of dollars out of Franco-phone countries to develop France?

I am not the source of your lack of awareness. I am shining a light so you can retrace your steps back to reality and become the full human being that you should be. STOP licking the yanch of whiteness and embrace your authentic human-hood.

You are intelligent but your approach in the first place made you sound like you ain't..

Moferere:
Apart from the AK wey him carry, if me and this one fight, I go beat rigwarigwa comot for him body.
Nansense

Don't judge by looks son..there is what we call internal strength...your physical appearance doesn't define your strength..

GodIsBiafran:
You are finished. The unfortunate thing is that you don't even see it. Because you are not well read, traveled or your iq is below average. Your pathetic parents should be ashamed.

Give that to your ug**l m*m..

Why ain't they observing social distance tho..no safety precaution in any way why?

jamesversion:
All I see are people going to hell.

You are cos your God says judge no man..

GodIsBiafran:
Why did Africans abandon their religion/culture after the white man came? Why do African women bleach their skin and wear wigs to look white? Why did Africans start looking at dreadlocks as wrong? Go and consider these question so that you don't continue your entrapment inside the pathetic bubble of colonialism that you currently find yourself in.
Shame on your parents for raising such a colonially brianwashed loser.

Give that to your blockhead moms and pops at home..you mention my parent you get it back in a thousand folds..

GodIsBiafran:
I am sure you even think your handle 'fernandez' is cool because it is European. You are lost forever. You are a certified colonial zombie. You will never attain true human-hood because your weak mind is filled with white superiority.

I laugh your lack of intelligence..you were trying to sound exposed in the first place but you ended spewing your brainlessness here..
If you think you are a hard guy then go offline rather than boasting about how Superior you and your propaganda are..
Make a change son.. ranting and crying on my mention is gonna make you sound more daft with your propaganda..