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RomanceIs Love Always Meant To Last Forever? by Fika01(op): 6:49am On Jun 13
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Sometimes, Love Means Letting Go

Love is often imagined as staying, fighting, and never giving up.
But sometimes, the deepest expression of love is knowing when to walk away.
Not every ending is born from hatred or betrayal.
Some endings happen because two hearts can no longer grow together.
Loving someone does not always mean you are meant to stay forever.
Sometimes, it means appreciating what was while accepting what cannot be.
Real love is not selfish or possessive...
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FamilyApart From Kids, Is Marriage Worth It For Men? by Fika01(op): 6:15am On Jun 12
It's not news that in the long run, either or both of the spouse gets bored overtime and needs a good amount of communication for rejuvenation!
What happens when one or both feel starved from the usual love, respect and affection they get?

But here is the hardest part "Aside from having kids,do you think most men will still consider marriage"?
Learn the truth here 👇
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FamilyApart From Kids, Is Marriage Worth It For Men? by Fika01(op): 9:20pm On Jun 11
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Ever felt unloved in a relationship even when your partner genuinely cares? You’re not alone. Sometimes, it’s not about lack of love—but a mismatch in communication, expectations, and emotional needs. Learn why this happens and how healthy conversations can bring clarity, connection, and peace.

But here's the real question (?) "Aside from having kids, and for continuity, do you think most men would still get married"? Find answers here 👇
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FamilyRe: Home Or House? Do You Have A Place To Run Back To When Living Gets Tougher? by Fika01(op): 9:04pm On Jun 11
So it's something about gender?
Wealthyonos:
It is part of the for better for worst. A lot of parents even prefer their male children impregnates a girl outside than for their female children to come home with pregnancy.
FamilyHome Or House? Do You Have A Place To Run Back To When Living Gets Tougher? by Fika01(op): 5:03am On Jun 11
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During a certain couples conference, somebody asked a question.

She asked "when you said for better for worse during your exchange of vows, did you include your unborn children or was it just for both of you as husband and wife?"

She went further to ask, "what happens if your daughter gets pregnant out of wedlock, or your young son inpregnates a girl outside, do u have a home where they can come back to with their shame or they'd rather die outside?"

Truth is, no parent prays for their child to bring such shame to them, but what happens if it happens? Can you tell them "hey no matter your mistake, you can always come home?" Will home cover their mistake and hide their shame or they'd rather run to lions outside?
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FamilyDo You Children Have A HOME To Run Back To When Life Becomes Tough? by Fika01(op): 8:05am On Jun 09
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During a certain couples conference, somebody asked a question.

She asked "when you said for better for worse during your exchange of vows, did you include your unborn children or was it just for both of you as husband and wife?"

She went further to ask, "what happens if your daughter gets pregnant out of wedlock, or your young son inpregnates a girl outside, do u have a home where they can come back to with their shame or they'd rather die outside?"

Truth is, no parent prays for their child to bring such shame to them, but what happens if it happens? Can you tell them "hey no matter your mistake, you can always come home?" Will home cover their mistake and hide their shame or they'd rather run to lions outside?
https://shorturl.at/kIBzR

RomanceRe: You Can’t Put A Leash On A Dog, Once You’ve Put A Crown On His Head by Fika01(op): 8:38pm On Jun 07
Why do you think so?
Diamond098454:
We still have perfect people in our society.
RomanceRe: You Can’t Put A Leash On A Dog, Once You’ve Put A Crown On His Head by Fika01(op): 8:38pm On Jun 07
Lol
Perfection is just a trap 🪤 and most people end up getting ruined trying to be perfect
Yvngex:
Nah your type no dey like hear and admit the truth...so if I should ask you to mention some few persons you know that are perfect, who you go mention?
RomanceWhat Happens When Love Gets Tested? by Fika01(op): 7:31pm On Jun 07
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Demonstration is the proof of knowledge

Ever felt unloved in a relationship even when your partner genuinely cares? You’re not alone. Sometimes, it’s not about lack of love—but a mismatch in communication, expectations, and emotional needs.
Learn why this happens and how healthy conversations can bring clarity, connection, and peace.

RomanceRe: You've Broken All Bro Codes If You Marry. by Fika01(m): 7:22pm On Jun 07
Haha 😃
I saw what you did there and people are reacting the exact way you want them to,lol
AlphaMale666:
There is nothing a guy can tell me, once I see a guy I knew get married, were no longer friends! For a guy to marry, it just shows you're a woman wrapper, a simp, and will do anything for female validation. As a guy, you should be afraid of married men. They can even go as low as wash women pants for them. They're born fools! Absolute lowlife people! Slaves to society! I spit on all married men's graves! You're all disgrace to manhood!
RomanceRe: You've Broken All Bro Codes If You Marry. by Fika01(m): 7:21pm On Jun 07
This is rage bait, can't you see?
brain54:
How old are you...? undecided


You no fit pass 12 like this.


But humour me... how old?
RomanceYou Can’t Put A Leash On A Dog, Once You’ve Put A Crown On His Head by Fika01(op): 5:38pm On Jun 07
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I believe you can tell a lot about a person by taking a hard look on how they treat their loved ones. Most people have always felt the urge of being a perfect partner forgetting that the word "perfect" is nothing but an illusion.
RomanceYou Think You're Irreplaceable? by Fika01(op):
Knowing your worth is cool, do you know what is even more cool? "Knowing you can be replaced".
Most relationships have been wrecked on this ground where either or both party think they're irreplaceable; "He can't find any other girl like me; No man can treat her better than I do" and yeah, they watch the relationship wash down the drain while overlooking little yet important signs that can lead to such crumble.

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RomanceWhat Happens When Love Starts Feeling Like A Curse?? by Fika01(op): 5:38am On May 19
Love can feel like a beautiful curse when your heart stays with someone your mind is trying to forget.
It steals your peace quietly, making memories replay like unfinished stories.
Sometimes the deepest pain comes from loving too hard and receiving too little in return.
A love curse is not magic — it is the ache of attachment that refuses to fade.
Yet even the heaviest curse can break when self-worth becomes stronger than longing.....

AdvertsYoutube Automation In Nigeria;what You Must Know To Be Successful by Fika01(op): 6:13am On May 18
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Monetization comes from ads, affiliate marketing, and sponsorships once the channel grows.
Success depends on consistency, quality content, smart SEO, and understanding audience preferences...

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RomanceA Relationship Where Both Parties Lacks Understanding, How Can It Be Fixed? by Fika01(op): 2:36am On May 18
It's no news that relationships often get threatened as time flies.
Most people started all juicy and rosy but couldn't hold up in the long-run.
What really happens when you think you don't get enough love, respect or feels you're ignored in a relationship?....
Learn more here

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RomanceWhat's More Important;how You Show Love Or How You Receive It? by Fika01(op):
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Most times we feel we aren't getting enough love as deserved or not being reciprocated enough!

Here is what a professor from the institute of research-Vancouver, Canada explained 👇

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RomanceDoes Love At First Sight Actually Exist? by Fika01(op): 10:11pm On May 07
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Infatuation or love?
Genuity or delusion?

BusinessHow Do You Think A Faceless Youtube Channel Successfully Works? by Fika01(op): 5:10pm On May 07
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YouTube automation in Nigeria involves running a channel without showing your face, often outsourcing scriptwriting, voiceovers, and editing.
It focuses on scalable content niches like finance, motivation, tech, or trending topics to attract views.
Monetization comes from ads, affiliate marketing, and sponsorships once the channel grows.
Success depends on consistency, quality content, smart SEO, and understanding audience preferences.

RomanceWhen Love Starts Getting Boring, What Actually Happens? by Fika01(op): 3:15pm On May 04
When love starts to feel “boring,” it’s usually not that the love itself has died—it’s that the experience of it has shifted.
At the beginning of a relationship, your brain is running on excitement. There’s anticipation, curiosity, and a bit of uncertainty. Psychologically, this is tied to the dopamine rush—everything feels new, intense, and addictive.
But over time, something what happens?

Romance“stop Blaming Men/women—this Is The Real Problem” by Fika01(op): 7:31pm On Apr 29
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“Have you ever loved someone who didn’t love you the same way?”
This has been a major relationship breaker which is yet to be addressed. This article addresses such issue in a way you'd never expect!

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