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11 EASY WAYS TO BREAKUP!.
1) 16 Missed Calls? “You Killed My Battery So You’re Capable Of Killing Me” It’s Over!!!
2) How come mosquito is biting me and not biting you? I smell conspiracy. ITS OVER!!!
3) You don’t even respect me, I’m talking and you are busy breathing? It’s over!!!
4.) So now you are drinking coke that has another man’s name on it, better go and find him because it’s over between us.
5) So Beyonce’s “Drunk in Love” is your caller tune?I can’t trust alcoholics with my future kids.
6) I called you and you picked up immediately. You lack patience. Its Over!!!
Why are you using Broom to sweep my room when you know I support PDP? It’s over!!!
9) You are always abbreviating the words in your texts, you want our children to be short abi? It’s OVER!!!
10) I told you I love my food hot but you refused to warm the ice cream. You don’t care about me. It’s over!!!
11) You don’t pay your tithe, if you can cheat on God, then who am I? Pack your things. its over!

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Some Nigerians are daily making attempts to transform Nigerian dishes and drinks around. Check out how the popular agbalumo 'cherry' fruit is being made into a drink. Doesn't look good though...lol. Would you drink this?http://www.preditplus.com/agbalumo-cherry-mojitos-the-drink-making-rounds-on-social-media/

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Marriage is considered to be a bond that is blessed by the Almighty Himself. From a married couple, it demands commitment and selfless giving. However, in these changing times, the idea of being only a giver in a marriage is not acceptable to either of the sexes.
Marriage has become more about striking a balance between thinking about yourself and taking care of the needs of your partner. Here we bring to you some reasons that explain, why being selfish sometimes, is actually healthy for your relationship.


#1. Makes you happier
The virtual world of movies, television and social media, portrays marriage as ‘happily everafter’. We believe that our special someone is waiting out there for us, with the key to unlock our happiness. But, in reality, it does not work that way. We hold the key to our own happiness, and being selfish helps us to see the truth.

Sometimes, you centre your life entirely around your other half. You may think that your sacrifices for your partner will make your spouse very happy. But, in the long run, this might make your relationship suffer. Your partner might start taking you for granted for all the compromises you make, which can create a sense of discontentment in you. Think about yourself too. A ‘happy you’ will also maintain a pleasant atmosphere. Additionally, you both will not feel suffocated in the relationship.

#2. Less fights in the relationship
Continued spells of petty domestic fights can ruin any happy and healthy relationship. The root cause for most of these skirmishes is too much dependency of one partner on the other. The more dependent one is on the other, that partner will more likely feel let down.

On the other hand, selfishness brings peace and calm. If both of you take care of your own selves, chances are, you will have less fights. So, selfishness is not actually ignoring your partner, instead it is about being more concerned about your own flaws and working on them.

#3. You acknowledge each other

When you start taking care of yourself, you tend to demand less from your partner and acknowledge every small little thing that he/she does for you. Expectations are less, and that is not necessarily a bad thing. Once you are already happy with yourself, you do not look up to your partner to boost your ego.

#4. Strengthens your bond emotionally

If you constantly demand time and attention from your partner, it can create tension in your relationship. However, when you spend a good amount of time with yourself, it gives space in the relationship to your partner as well. As a result, your partner also wants to spend more time with you. This way, the love between you becomes unconditional, and your relationship becomes stronger than ever.

#5. Increases intimacy

While making love, if you put your happiness over the contentment of your partner, s*x becomes more liberating. You do not have to be just lovey-dovey and please your partner all the time. Be honest about your needs and tell your partner what you expect, and see how exciting your sessions in the sack will become.
Recommended Read: Top 8 Mistakes Married Women Make In Bed
A little bit of selfishness in your marriage can give you your own personal space while getting rid of fatigue in a relationship. Just keeping a little distance can spice things up, keep the romance alive, and the flame of passion burning constantly. So, follow these simple tips and enjoy your married life, always!

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Yemi Alade recently made a revelation of how she has been longing to have fellow singer, Flavour, for keeps.

The self-acclaimed King of Queens made this confession not too long ago when she was a guest of Star Host on Soundcity.

The ‘Tangerine’ crooner said she does not like men who lie or those who do not portray their true self.

However, she mentioned that since her early days in the entertainment industry, she had always craved to have Flavour Na’abalia.

‘ Yes! I have crush, just like other normal human being. I used to crush on Flavour so much. I had so many things concocted in my head. But that is in the past now. I have stopping crushing on him….(Laughs)’

After the release of the video of her song ‘Johnny’, it was rumoured that she was in a hot romance with an actor, Alex Ekubo, who played the randy Johnny in the said video. However, they both denied the affair.http://tunezmedia.com/2015/03/02/yemi-alade-reveals-how-she-was-obsessed-about-dating-flavour/

There is a reason you always think he's texting his ex ... even when he's not.
Resolving trust issues starts with learning to truly trust yourself, before you can trust someone else.

Once upon a time, some early human screwed up and gave some other early human a reason to distrust. And from that seed blossomed "trust issues." Around the globe, in bedrooms, boardrooms, and even on playgrounds, we've become a society built on trust issues.

To trust someone, without having trust issues, is to trust ourselves enough to reveal our authentic selves fully.
GASP! You mean it requires being totally transparent, saying what's on my mind, asking for what I desire ... and THAT will eliminate trust issues in my relationship? Um, yeah! It all starts with you, baby, quickly followed by how you choose to respond to those little annoying possibilities that your partner throws at you—consciously or unconsciously—that triggers your belief that they can (or can't) be trusted.

See, it's all about you and your trust issues, in the same manner as it's all about your partner and their trust issues. That being said ... how do you resolve trust issues when they arise?

I'd love to say, take a cue from my side of the fence (a.k.a. gay men) but, unfortunately, we don't handle trust issues any better than the rest of the human population. (Surprise, surprise!)

But in our defense, and defense of gays and lesbians everywhere, we've been conditioned not to trust. From the first moment we swished our hips a little too much when we walked, or got caught playing with GI Joe in the mud, while still wearing our Mary Janes and Sunday dress, we've learned to keep our defenses up and not trust anyone who might find out our "secret".

But, we all have trust issues, and if you say you don't then I don't trust you! (Just joking.) So, here are five tips that will help you trust more easily and openly in your life:

1. Trust Yourself
I know it's already been said, but this is truly the starting point of resolving trust issues. In the somewhat similar words of Ru Paul, "If you can't trust yourself, how the hell you ever going to trust someone else?"

2. Define What Trust Means
... for you and your partner. Hello, we ain't mind readers, and if you believe you are, then why are you having trust issues? You'd already know what your partner is thinking.

For the rest of us, ask (as in: your partner ... for the info you need) and ye shall receive. Talk about trust. Discuss it! Discover what might make trust issues arise in your unique relationship.

3. Take A Look In The Mirror
I hate to say it, but often, trust issues arise because what you see in someone else is an issue directly reflecting something you don't want to see in yourself.

It could be that you're fearful your partner is cheating because you're the considering an affair (or might already be involved physically or emotionally with someone else). You may not even realize it's causing wicked scripts of "Cheater is as cheater does," to play out in the fabulous stage play that is your real life.

Look at yourself, and ask, “What’s really going on with my trust issues?” The honest answer may shock you, but it could also stop you from being a crazy maker.

4. Have An Open Relationship
GASP. Did I just advocate having an open relationship? YES!

As in an "open, transparent, let's communicate, and quit hiding that we each have trust issues, admit our stuff" relationship.

No, this doesn't mean you take on different lovers (although if that makes the trust issues scamper away, more power to you). But what I'm really advocating for is being open and vulnerable so that trust issues become dead non-issues, rather than a dead relationship!

5. Give Trust To Get Trust
If you put trust in, you'll get some back. One of the hardest parts about trust, and resolving trust issues, is giving trust freely. However, when it's a gift that keeps on giving, then it's easy to see trust issues retreat.