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babyosisi


yeah i dont doubt taht is happening, i see it too, but that man is in marital bliss, and his wife is satisfying her self somewhere else, i can guarantee u that.  imagine what his ass looks like at 50 , nad i bet he doesnt work out.  yuck

4play

yes there are men who are choosing to marry at an older age, but they arent looking for girls my age. they are lookin for women in their own 5 year bracket. unlike naija bobo's who are chasing girls ten years their junior.

to all u naija boys

marry teh young chick, and while u go to work the lawn boy is pumping away at her.  lol that is exactly waht is going to happen.  so check urself. i fu like marry at 80 that one concern u, but at leats aim for a woman who is at the same level as u are it doesn mean because sh e is in 26-28 means she wants to baby feed your ass while she sweeps ur hair of the floor i meand goodness u cant have two babies in the same house.

4play

im a medical student, trust me,  men in my field even with all the stress of being doctors, dont want to have kids by 37, they want to be done by freaking 35.  there are many and i mean many medical problems iwth having kids at an older age.  plus even if they are marryin at 37 at least the person they are marry is maybe 2-4 years younger than them. im 21 right now and i think its reather disgusting to be with someone that old, especially when i meet younger guys and find them alot more fascinating than teh older 28-29 year olds.  i have a friend whomarried someone 10 years older than her, i mean yeah he doenst look it and he is cute but man, the things this girl says, i actually feel for him.  i mean life is changing now especially in the US, older naija bros are realizing that u cant approcah a girl of 24 and u are 35 and u expec ther to jump at a guy who is probably starting to bald.  yeah right

personally i dont think it's worth going to, but who knows u could go and meet a wonderful person there. But i fu do decide to go make sure u look sexy adn bring a freind with u, that way u wont look awkward . i wish u the best of luck in life. u know the funny thing about life is that nigerian men yes htey do get the opportunity to marry their first choice but because hre women pick what is available, the women end up cheating, especially in the US here. Oh and htey also resent the men deeply. I always tell my brother when u pick a woman make sure that she feels the same way about u, not the i love u because u cam back from america and picked me to marry, but the wow i love u because i felt it th emoment i laid eyes on you. oh well, i just warn all those nigerian men in the US, we women are a lot devious than u guys think. so save yourself some stress in your future, and pick hte girl that is made for u, not the one that society acknowledges.

this is sooo sad, hte economic state of our nation is affecting us dearly in nigeria. very soonwe will become like the carribbean people. having millions of children everywhere and no family really really sad.

crap this is y i want to marry an american. the last thing i want to do is marry someone who is 10 years my senior, how gross. but it seems naija men all want to marry by 50 ewww, by then things start failing and younger guys my age are more interesting and enticing than some 30 something year old man

i agree with the person above me, dont leave yet but if someone else for u enters the picture, seriously consider it

@joyblinks

yep i am from mbaise ooo.

dr lawng

please can u post the link for the research that was conducted on the HIV + turne HIV - individuals i would like to read it. thank u

oh by the way

because igbo men cherish their daughters they do have hte tendency to beat up the men that mess with their girls, so u better treat that one right. Igbo men are no joke ok, plus with four older brothers im sure u know the drill, but have fun, and u will marry her, just the folks, they will get over it

carbonate

let me give it to u straight, im an igbo girl who my father has sworn up and down that i shouldnt marry anything but igbo, the love of my life is from edo state and that is final, tell ur sweet heart that igbo fathers cherish and i mean cherish their daughters to the grave, so even if she married bin laden he would never disown her. TRUST ME ON THIS ONE.

now as for the reasons y igbo and youruba people dislike each other is of no concern to u, because TRUST ME ON THIS ONE, it wont help your situation. i would also advice u to have ur sweet heart read this thread so it willl give her some strenght in making her decision. Just TRUST ME ON THIS ONE, no matter how much hot air that man blows, he is not disowning her. He will give in, in the end. Fathers always do.

is it supposed to be in english, or some asain language, i cant read anything so i dont know what im clicking on

coloba


my dear do u know that there are more people in teh world dieing from cancer than from aids.  Keep praying, and have faith in life ok.  they are right its silence that has gotten HIV so high, but because people spoke up now we have people living with HIV for over 30 years.  I will keep praying that they find a cure for HIV, or better they keep improving their medicaitno which by the way is doing a marvelous job right now.  if u do decide to tell people be weary of hte people u tell.  u want to be around supportive individiuals not ignorant ones ok.  and as for your girlfriend, what ever u do i know God has already forgiven u because your first concern was her safety.  there are people who will do the complete opposite hence y HIV spreads soo fast and soo much.  i pray people learn from your mistake, especially BLACK MEN.  im a medical student and u will be amazzed at all the black men who say that they dont like using condoms and so they choose not to, which is the dumbest thing i have ever heard, even some medical students i know say that nonsense.  Im sorry but that is one thing the white men i know have always had over black men, using condoms. coloba good luck and God bless ok.  

Macalurss

tell me where u are located and i will tell u all the things that could infect u and kill u faster than HIV/AIDS.  
I JUST HOPE U YOURSELF ARE USING CONDOMS WHENEVER U DO WHAT U DO.

lol

well i dont know but rumor has it that mbaise girls bride price is ridiculously expensive. im kind of neutral regarding it, and plusi think its high time we should upgrade to visa or mastercard.

send her to a country where people are less fortunate than she is. maybe she will stop looking for attention, and focus more on the important things in life taht matter

oyb

i agree with ya. anyway sha

welll if my bro was marrying a rivers girl, she better get ready to bend and pick her pant

i would but ive got laryngitis

LOOk

ur boyfriend is not a bad person, he just likes his hair.  he isnt in love with u for goodness sakes, dotn take it personally but when he loves u he will be more willing to listen to what u have to say.  so relax he still has a lot of growing up to do.  so its up to u to decide if u want to stick around and see how long it takes him to mature.

LOOk

ur boyfriend is not a bad person, he just likes his hair. he isnt in love with u for goodness sakes, dotn take it personally but when he loves u he will be more willing to listen to what u have to say. so relax he still has a lot of growing up to do. so its up to u to decide if u want to stick around and see how long it takes him to mature.

hmm so naija bros should now budjet for brideprice, traditional wedding, whitewedding, and divorce

lolol somethings gotta give.

i am neutral on the bride price issue, what i dont like is the useless vilage women, and youth association who i ahve never seen in my life comin into my house and demanding things of my husband to be because we come from the same village, when i get married if htey try tha tnonsense i will have bouncers there who will gladly kick them out. if i invite u to come and eat ogba and drink palmwine, bring ur self chopulate until u bellefull, then get out, whether u are aunty, uncle cousin or distant cousin. The moment u open your mouth talking about he should bring ke na ke, thats it u are OUT.

seun

that is a very communist way of thinking

this topic is just the finality as to y men rule this world
i guess when us women are bald, blind, and not so cute, but can walk down teh street with confidence, imaginnig our selves to be hot meat pies, and hot cakes, only then can women rule.

personally i think ramsey is a little too old, it will be harder for him
but emeka come fine like woah. he can play a strong black african, yeah i would watch it.
i wish them both the best
adn segedoo i love ur spelling of djimon honsou, (that's cute) u made him sound very igbo.

(i know its a typo, just kidding)

actually

palm oil is extremely unhealthy for u, so no we would rather not drink it
secondly majority of europeans are smaller and skinnier and healthier than nigeirians,i live in the us and visit europe all the time, and go home often the smallest people i ahve seen are asians and europeans adn in asia they have lots of mcdonalds
thirdly, the whole idea of mcdonalds is to go somewhere where they can make ur chicken nuggest and icecream for u, fast food, so u arent bothered wiht it
well as for mcdonalds coming to naija, it would be another nice variety i think, and once htey feel that there ismoney to be made trust me they will be there.