Romance › Re: What Will You Do In This Situation? by firstking01(m): 3:02pm On May 15, 2016 |
Thiwalade: Moms and dads, I need your advice. I am a 34 years old man, married to a 32 years- old woman with two kids, both boys. My wife is a very lovely woman, and the best I can ever ask for. We courted for about 2 years before we got married. About a month ago, I noticed my wife was getting withdrawn, talks less and was becoming a ghost of herself. I asked her over and over again what the problem was, and she finally told me. She said she thinks our first child is not mine and she has been carrying the burden around for 3 years. I was confused, I almost collapsed, as I didn’t believe what I was hearing. I left the house for a hotel to think about it and to calm my nerves. After 3 days, I went back home and asked her what made her think so. She said she went to a birthday party some months after our wedding and got drunk. She didn’t know how she ended up in bed with a guy from her past who she met at the party. She said she begged the guy and told him it was a mistake that should never happen again, after which she cut off all communication. She said after arriving home the next day, we had sex and she got pregnant. So she is not sure who the rather is. I digested everything and decided to get a DNA test done. The results are back, and the boy is not mine. I don’t know what to do. My wife is very instrumental to my success and I love her very much, but I am confused. She is a mess at the moment. I have not discussed this with anyone. The child in question is a very lovely child, who I can’t afford to let go of. I also don’t want a broken home as I know the effects on children. My wife is begging for my forgiveness and she said she does not intend involving the other guy at all. What do I do please? Well, there's nothing you can do @the moment cos the deed has already been done...my advice, if she's actually sincere and genuine about this, i think you should forgive her hence she will never involve the other guy...as for the boy, just adopt him as your son... |
Romance › Re: Lmao Hillarious Definition Of Love And Death › by firstking01(m): 2:52pm On May 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Girls Don't Joke With Sex by firstking01(m): 2:46pm On May 15, 2016 |
On a very sacred and holy day like this  ? |
Romance › Re: (ladies Only) What Was The Silliest Sentence A Guy Used In Wooing You? by firstking01(m): 2:45pm On May 15, 2016 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I'm Back Guys! Who Missed Me? Come Show Me Some Love!! by firstking01(m): 2:35pm On May 15, 2016 |
Sighs |
Romance › Re: Lets End That Beef Today Nairalanders by firstking01(m): 2:21pm On May 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Blow A Kiss To Someone You Admire by firstking01(m): 2:15pm On May 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Blow A Kiss To Someone You Admire by firstking01(m): 2:13pm On May 15, 2016 |
StillBrandnew: Says blow someone a kiss so it's okay if she blows a kiss to a girl. However it will be awkward if a guy blows a kiss to another guy.
So please don't misinterpret the OP. See your life  ...read what you posted again,  it's Ok if a girl kiss a girl ba? |
Romance › Re: Top 3 Nairaland Babes With The Sexiest Lips Ever! See Pics by firstking01(m): 2:11pm On May 15, 2016 |
sinaj: choba Thats far...but i could if you are willing?? |
Events › Re: Happy Super Sweet 16 Birthday Mother And Happy Birthday To Me. by firstking01(m): 2:09pm On May 15, 2016 |
optional1: She is my role model, Her smiles gives me hope and courage.
She taught me so many things even though am not close to her.
She gives me Joy and make me a pretty lady I Am today, her smiles reflect in me everyday.
She is humble and sincere, honest and kind hearted.
She is a Queen Mother.
She is My Super Dopest Sweet mom.
Happy Birthday Sweet Mother may you live to eat the fruit of your labour through your basketball children. May God continue to bless you and guard you, may He fill you heart with love, joy and happiness now and forever more. Wish you long life and prosperity as we celebrate Pentecost today may the Holy Spirt leads and guard you for us your children. Amen!
On behalf of your basketball children I say Bon Anniversary Maami!! Love you!
Guys show some kind love to this woman cos without her there will be no me.
Cc: robosky02 shizzy7 TheSuperNerd klexycole blueto hungryboy Dongata firstking01 selvad Kaira333 Mediapace Joshrob ucnwafor KINGinVAHALa3 yelebe
cc. lalasticlala ur MB no go reduce if u jst send ur birthday wishes to maami.
am waiting for your message. one love, and hbd to her  |
Romance › Re: (ladies Only) What Was The Silliest Sentence A Guy Used In Wooing You? by firstking01(m): 2:06pm On May 15, 2016 |
ellacute45: mine was great  Tell me bout your dreams abeg  |
Romance › Re: Top 3 Nairaland Babes With The Sexiest Lips Ever! See Pics by firstking01(m): 11:35am On May 15, 2016 |
sinaj: wich ques ni Wer in ph do u stay? |
Romance › Re: Blow A Kiss To Someone You Admire by firstking01(m): 10:33am On May 15, 2016 |
skarlett: I didn't see anything like that, besides, opposite sex no dey that list  He said give somebody a kiss, and you are calling female monikers, what does that entells you  ? |
Romance › Re: Top 3 Nairaland Babes With The Sexiest Lips Ever! See Pics by firstking01(m): 10:26am On May 15, 2016 |
sinaj: Ogini  You no wan ansa my question ba  ? |
Romance › Re: Blow A Kiss To Someone You Admire by firstking01(m): 10:25am On May 15, 2016 |
skarlett: Wetin dey do this one  The op said give the opposite sex a kiss  |
Romance › Re: (ladies Only) What Was The Silliest Sentence A Guy Used In Wooing You? by firstking01(m): 10:23am On May 15, 2016 |
ellacute45: morning how was your night? twas sweet, esp as i dreamed of you  ...wat abt urs?? |
Romance › Re: Help..my Mother Hates My Wife To Be. by firstking01(m): 7:06am On May 15, 2016 |
My brother, as far as her mum and your mum are in battle dis-array, and according to you, she's the only child and a woman for that matter, knowing how african mothers especially nigerians value a female child, it will never work out between the both of you...except you be doing it without the consent of your parents which will never last...
So, just leave her and move on, she's just in her second year in school sef, and still very young...just move on bro. |
Romance › Re: Help..my Mother Hates My Wife To Be. by firstking01(m): 7:05am On May 15, 2016 |
My brother, as far as her mum and your mum are in battle dis-array, and according to you, she's the only child and a woman for that matter, knowing how african mothers especially nigerians value a female child, it will never work out between the both of you...except you be doing it without the consent of your parents which will never last...
So, just leave her and move on |
Romance › Re: Blow A Kiss To Someone You Admire by firstking01(m): 6:44am On May 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Wrong To Ask Ur Gf For Sex Everytime She Comes Visiting by firstking01(m): 6:32am On May 15, 2016 |
This dude and sex sha |
Romance › Re: (ladies Only) What Was The Silliest Sentence A Guy Used In Wooing You? by firstking01(m): 6:21am On May 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: (ladies Only) What Was The Silliest Sentence A Guy Used In Wooing You? by firstking01(m): 2:02am On May 15, 2016 |
ellacute45: am fine but no call me introvert again  Hehehehe  ...come on, be proud the way God made you  |
Romance › Re: Some Questions About This Miss Nairaland Sturv by firstking01(m): 2:00am On May 15, 2016 |
optional1: oya na sharply tym no dey. hmmm, sure, you wanna do this  ?? |
Romance › Re: Some Questions About This Miss Nairaland Sturv by firstking01(m): 10:29pm On May 14, 2016 |
optional1: At d top ooooo Wow, hope you know what you are talking bout  , i should start from the top  ? |
Romance › Re: (ladies Only) What Was The Silliest Sentence A Guy Used In Wooing You? by firstking01(m): 10:26pm On May 14, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: (ladies Only) What Was The Silliest Sentence A Guy Used In Wooing You? by firstking01(m): 10:20pm On May 14, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Some Questions About This Miss Nairaland Sturv by firstking01(m): 10:12pm On May 14, 2016 |
optional1: Hmmmm Ok ooooo Where do i even start from sef  , where do you think i should start from  |
Romance › Re: Some Questions About This Miss Nairaland Sturv by firstking01(m): 10:08pm On May 14, 2016 |
Smellymouth: Really? So how do I reach out to you? I wanna discuss something with u.. Nato pm you my digits na? |
Nairaland General › Re: Boring Threads Everywhere by firstking01(m): 10:07pm On May 14, 2016 |
Jadekitana:
did someone take your chewing gum oga? Mtcheeews  |
Romance › Re: Lovely Pictures Of My Immediate Younger Sister by firstking01(m): 10:05pm On May 14, 2016 |
0ubenji: Ur lol dey unnecessary oo..I no tel u say I no sabi say height dey very necessary in modelling.. But bro..dat issue has been overflogged til it holds not much meanin no more..height only mks a great mark in runway modelling as of now...not juz modellin in general as was d erroneous perception doze days. So dnt stick to dat rigid archaic point of view biko Do u knw thr r models you neva get to see their legs at all..talk less of gettin to knw their height..the only tin dey model wit is their facial morphology..which in dis case is more essential dan height.. So bros abeg leave dat height story nd continue ur lol jaree But do you that as a modeller, you have to possess almost all the qualities someone contesting for missworld has?, just so you can always win the heart of your employers, cos as far as i know, the employers of modellers has high taste for em girls they are employing to model for em...and you know, the more you possess all those stuffs the higher your chances of your ogas to always chose you for their modelling work?...i said all these cos chika one my best prettiest girls is into modelling. |
Romance › Re: Some Questions About This Miss Nairaland Sturv by firstking01(m): 9:58pm On May 14, 2016 |
Smellymouth: if she get belle, na to born na..
Seuun go put am for FP  i know na  , such topics naim dey make fp well well  ...like, a popular nairalander got her cousin impregnated  ... Btw, got your mail but cnt access my mail, dunno why o.. |
Romance › Re: Some Questions About This Miss Nairaland Sturv by firstking01(m): 9:54pm On May 14, 2016 |
optional1: Lol of cos I am getting i jst ask gan ni.
2nd statement nko. Nope, lets talk on the first statement  ...thats were my interest is sweetheart  |