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kaziblake:
Abegi story,you guys are all the same

Estharfabian:
Uh...'Coz They're greedy, Egocentric, Crazy, Unappreciative, Self-Loathing bastards?

Estharfabian:
Uh...'Coz They're greedy, Egocentric, Crazy, Unappreciative, Self-Loathing bastards?

kaziblake:
It's in their dna to cheat.

joliyp:
tnks

Aminat508:
Team Arsenal

joliyp:
never knew I will someday be a victim of this nonsense!!! as smart and intelligent I think I am, my elder sister should be getting married next year,the problem now is this man claims to be in love with me not my sister anymore

I can't betrayed my sister for anything in this world am thinking of staying away from the family house since I got my own apartment but my fear is my sister bringing the guy to my auz !!! apart from not telling my sister what do u think I should do? cos they seems so happy but when am alone with him he cries like a baby telling me he wished he had met me before now
and I feel pity for him


before now

Monalisa185:
yeah yeah, I was here...

Decker:
Thanks bro.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
as i broke ugly nigga, i gat try PM's naaa

Decker:
You were obviously carried away by your... I won't say love... infatuation with this guy.
He was your dream guy, you fantasized about him all the time, and you longed to meet him, and when you finally did, you were carried away by the heat of the moment. Trust me, it's quite understandable.

The fact that you are feeling the way you are feeling right now is enough proof that you aren't actually cheap, and that's a good thing, it means you are a good lady.

But I would advise you take things slow from now on. Try to see his plans for the both of you. Try to find out if he really wants to be in a relationship with you, or just wanted you for your body.

Having sex at the first date isn't actually wrong, but it isn't a wise thing to do. Why? It's a two way thing.
Let me explain:

If the guy actually loves you and plans on going into a long term relationship with you, having sex on the first date would give him the impression that you are cheap, and guys don't like cheap women. They begin to see you as a slut or a _whore. But then again, your case is a bit different because you guys had already been having sex chats and send _nude pictures prior to the sexual intercourse.

But if the guy doesn't want to date you and just wants the sex, having sex with him would mean that he has gotten what he wanted from you and you'd become "useless" to him.

So, that's why I am advising you try to see the direction he wants to take the relationship to. If you find out that he doesn't call or chat as before, and doesn't act like he actually cares about you, then you'd know he only wanted you for your body.
What you will do then, is to forget about him and move on with your life and take that experience as a lesson.

But if you find out that he is still interested in you and still wants to spend time with you, then, don't allow him free access to your body like you did the last time. Make him understand that you are more than just sex.
Show him the other side of you. You seem like an intelligent lady, allow him to see that side of you. Guys appreciate women who are intelligent. Let him know that there is more to you.

Try to engage in activities that don't involve sex, get to know each other better. Try to first develop friendship and love between the both of you, and when you are sure that he really he loves you and wants a future with you, then you can start having sex any time and anyhow you want.

EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
For Nairaland, i have never had my PM's replied

sinaj:
Hehehe
First of all, no one is Ugly.

With the right packaging nd Money, y'll b called a princess


Nd I knw many pretty girls dat are cute upstairs e.g...



Xo I dunno where u did ur research nd survey

WiLdFLame:
for me i think numerous proposals from men has made them addictted to seeking more of the attention they are getting and negligent on the issue of developing their other mental capabilities
what ur view on this cos all pretty forming ladies sometimes dey daft pass sheep, they even many for this forum especially those behaving like mature-saint allknowing.

pet4ril:
okay , except that

Treash:
Hullo Nairalanders. Happy new year in advance out there. Let me share my resolutions with u guys:
* I hav determined to apply and obtain my LLM degree, secure a serious relationship, and add some values to my profession plus making cool cash.

Freely add yours and let d fun roll...

Treash:
Hullo Nairalanders. Happy new year in advance out there. Let me share my resolutions with u guys:
* I hav determined to apply and obtain my LLM degree, secure a serious relationship, and add some values to my profession plus making cool cash.

Freely add yours and let d fun roll...

apparentlylaw:
what all guys want ....Sex ..

pet4ril:
Inferiority complex is worrying any guy/husband that is not comfortable with the wife wealth. And poverty is worrying any guy that would tag a gal who depend on him as goal digger bla bla bla




Because some rich dude even went as far as telling their ladies not to stress themselves working that they are capable of taking care of them
Anyway, individual differences sha but ladies should learn to be independent

Godswillnwaoma:
i hear you

Godswillnwaoma:
i,ve not made up my mind yet to let her, i still like her.

Godswillnwaoma:
it is very obvious that i dont love her, but i like her. I dont love easily like that ok.

HateU2:
So flatt Ass is now a thing to consider when going into a relationship
Guys, guys nd guys! Don't loose ur wife -2-be bcox of yansh nd boobbs. I'm preaching now oooooooooo

Godswillnwaoma:
There is this girl in my area who has been so nice to me, i really appreciate her so well and wish her well because people like her are very rare in our society. She is tall (but i,m taller) pretty face, slim and fair. She knows that i,m not in any relationship which i told her when she ask about my gf. We talk about everything in life, infact poeple have started saying that we are dating due to our closeness. I would love to ask her to be my gf but the problem here is the she has a flat ASS (backside) which is a big turn off to me. I,m tired of friendzoning her even though i someimes enjoy her friendship. How will i let her go without hurting her because she may be blocking other girls from coming close to me.

darlingtonIIV:
there's a big difference between crush and love.
There you go...

grad2012:
Smell luv in the air.just tell her already before someone else beats u to it or sha u will tell me so I can tell her for u no charges.