Estharfabian:


"...If U wanna see me nakèd, come to my House! I'd give u a LIVE show!"

0079jaBond:

Like seriously Chai! Smh

obiorathesubtle:
ooh.. Lookie here.. A nude sender, imma PM you right away honey.. We're gonna have a good time!



Bros, abi pikin, she asked for advice not insults. She's already regretting. Stop acting like you're 100% perfect in your ways.




Idiot! Sense.. I asked "biitches.. Do you have it??".. Now look at you, bringing you slutiness to us calling it a dilemma.. You should be ashamed of yourself! You have no more worth..

*throws tomatoes at op*
*spits on thread floor*

You should've been swallowed! Phucking tramp!

obiorathesubtle:
ooh.. Lookie here.. A nude sender, imma PM you right away honey.. We're gonna have a good time!



Bros, abi pikin, she asked for advice not insults. She's already regretting. Stop acting like you're 100% perfect in your ways.




Idiot! Sense.. I asked "biitches.. Do you have it??".. Now look at you, bringing you slutiness to us calling it a dilemma.. You should be ashamed of yourself! You have no more worth..

*throws tomatoes at op*
*spits on thread floor*

You should've been swallowed! Phucking tramp!

obiorathesubtle:
ooh.. Lookie here.. A nude sender, imma PM you right away honey.. We're gonna have a good time!



Bros, abi pikin, she asked for advice not insults. She's already regretting. Stop acting like you're 100% perfect in your ways.




Idiot! Sense.. I asked "biitches.. Do you have it??".. Now look at you, bringing you slutiness to us calling it a dilemma.. You should be ashamed of yourself! You have no more worth..

*throws tomatoes at op*
*spits on thread floor*

You should've been swallowed! Phucking tramp!

0079jaBond:
100

dlashondra:
I met this guy years ago, we started talking of recent which lead into dating, though we haven't seen physical for years, I felt emotionally attached to him, I did some crazy this with him on phone(send nude pics), something with I stand against. We planned on meeting and we met, I promised myself before going to meet him that I won't sleep with him, but on getting there I was carried away by my love for him and not wanting take him angry. I enjoyed every moment I spent with him, he had my time, it was like we are the only people in the world. Now he is gone, and am feeling sad, I don't know if what I did was wrong or right. I don't know what's right anymore, all I think about now is him. Am I cheap? I know it's wrong to have sex on the first date, but I couldn't help it, I don't know what he feels about me? And am losing it. Pls help

obiorathesubtle:
thing is.. I'm actually 100% perfect in all my ways.. Everything I do is perfect, I'm perfect, not even a spec of mistake is around me..



They have given her all the advice she needs.. I did what I had to do..


Which of course doesn't concern you.

obiorathesubtle:
thing is.. I'm actually 100% perfect in all my ways.. Everything I do is perfect, I'm perfect, not even a spec of mistake is around me..



They have given her all the advice she needs.. I did what I had to do..


Which of course doesn't concern you.

publicenemy:


who said its wrong to have sex on a first date? if you love him and had sex with him on a first date and he is not matured enough to see beyond that then thats his problem. let him go. you shouldn't be too careful when you are around someone you love, you should be able to do the craziest things and not be scared of being judged.... thats that...




you fell in love with him even though you didnt meet him in years and also had sex with him on the first date, its not wrong but i think he is a rich and handsome guy thats why you fell for him. if na ugly broke guy like Madcow would you fall for him over the internet?


i think you should move on and stop killing yourself for some who may not give a shit about you.

Kookny:

You are a dim-wit

Decker:
You were obviously carried away by your... I won't say love... infatuation with this guy.
He was your dream guy, you fantasized about him all the time, and you longed to meet him, and when you finally did, you were carried away by the heat of the moment. Trust me, it's quite understandable.

The fact that you are feeling the way you are feeling right now is enough proof that you aren't actually cheap, and that's a good thing, it means you are a good lady.

But I would advise you take things slow from now on. Try to see his plans for the both of you. Try to find out if he really wants to be in a relationship with you, or just wanted you for your body.

Having sex at the first date isn't actually wrong, but it isn't a wise thing to do. Why? It's a two way thing.
Let me explain:

If the guy actually loves you and plans on going into a long relationship with you, having sex on the first date would give him the impression that you are cheap, and guys don't like cheap women. They begin to see you as a slut or a _whore. But then again, your case is a bit different because you guys had already been having sex chats and send _nude pictures prior to the sexual intercourse.

But if the guy doesn't want to date you and just wants the sex, having sex with him would mean that he has gotten what he wanted from you and you'd become "useless" to him.

So, that's why I am advising you try to see the direction he wants to take the relationship to. If you find out that he doesn't call or chat as before, and doesn't act like he actually cares about you, then you'd know he only wanted you for your body.
What you will do then, is to forget about him and move on with your life and take that experience as a lesson.

But if you find out that he is still interested in you and still wants to spend time with you, then, don't allow him free access to your body like you did the last time. Make him understand that you are more than just sex.
Show him the other side of you. You seem like an intelligent lady, allow him to see that side of you. Guys appreciate women who are intelligent. Let him know that there is more to you.

Try to engage in activities that don't involve sex, get to no each other better. Try to first develop friendship and love between the both of you, and when you are sure that he really he loves you and wants a future with you, then you can start having sex any time and anyhow you want.

Estharfabian:
U got carried away??


Thumbs up tho!! You just Registered into the realm of "Sluttiness"...Unregister Now..
start by vowing never to Send Nûde pictures to Guys...it could comeback to bite u in the Ass!

I Really don't know why Gullible/Air-headed Girls even send Unclad pictures of 'emsleves to someone they haven't met before...like why? so, They'd masturbate with them? Ahan!

i Lose all Moral Respect for any guy that asks that of me..If U wanna see me nakèd, come to my House! I'd give u a LIVE show!

dlashondra:

Thanks

dlashondra:
thanks so much, I really love him, I feel happy and at peace with him. Never felt this way for anyone. I don't know about him, how he feels about me, but I love him nevertheless.

obiorathesubtle:
okay.


Whatever you are.. Please don't mention me again, thank you.

Decker:
You were obviously carried away by your... I won't say love... infatuation with this guy.
He was your dream guy, you fantasized about him all the time, and you longed to meet him, and when you finally did, you were carried away by the heat of the moment. Trust me, it's quite understandable.

The fact that you are feeling the way you are feeling right now is enough proof that you aren't actually cheap, and that's a good thing, it means you are a good lady.

But I would advise you take things slow from now on. Try to see his plans for the both of you. Try to find out if he really wants to be in a relationship with you, or just wanted you for your body.

Having sex at the first date isn't actually wrong, but it isn't a wise thing to do. Why? It's a two way thing.
Let me explain:

If the guy actually loves you and plans on going into a long term relationship with you, having sex on the first date would give him the impression that you are cheap, and guys don't like cheap women. They begin to see you as a slut or a _whore. But then again, your case is a bit different because you guys had already been having sex chats and send _nude pictures prior to the sexual intercourse.

But if the guy doesn't want to date you and just wants the sex, having sex with him would mean that he has gotten what he wanted from you and you'd become "useless" to him.

So, that's why I am advising you try to see the direction he wants to take the relationship to. If you find out that he doesn't call or chat as before, and doesn't act like he actually cares about you, then you'd know he only wanted you for your body.
What you will do then, is to forget about him and move on with your life and take that experience as a lesson.

But if you find out that he is still interested in you and still wants to spend time with you, then, don't allow him free access to your body like you did the last time. Make him understand that you are more than just sex.
Show him the other side of you. You seem like an intelligent lady, allow him to see that side of you. Guys appreciate women who are intelligent. Let him know that there is more to you.

Try to engage in activities that don't involve sex, get to know each other better. Try to first develop friendship and love between the both of you, and when you are sure that he really he loves you and wants a future with you, then you can start having sex any time and anyhow you want.