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Tnx for your contributions.. I think I av learnt some things..

Vickybee:
OP, I think your topic should be "Where did Nigerian girls get their superiority complex over male folks".

Are you insinuating having high self esteem is a sin or bad?

This thread is dead on its arrival. Lubbish!

noted and don't be a lousy girl

Dygeasy:
You want to know why?

Guys caused it. Guys chase girls for different reasons; Big _butt or _boobs, Beauty, True love for Serious relationship, one or two or all of these reasons but the way we go about it is what's killing us.

An average guy would go to hell and back to impress the most not-goodlooking girl just because she possesses something he wants and thus does a lot of things and stupid things too to make her feel special.

It is alright to make a girl feel special but don't swallow the _bullshit that comes with it. Girls are soo good at stuff like this.

Solution

Guys should start seeing themselves as something to desire too. Chase but don't fall in the mud in the process. If you're a girl, don't try so hard to impress her cos this is where we go overboard and start taking those _bullshit. Slowly and steadily, beautiful or ugly, she will feel you if you're 'feel(able)'. So work on yourselves first and maintain it, even a queen wouldn't be able to bring down that ego.

word! Your head dey there.. I have always thought of this to be the main reason and wish more guys could use their heads more when it comes to impressing a girl..

falconey:
nice write up, having high self esteem is not something you inherit or earn, is something you build and it takes years to build.

At some point most people in this case girls suffer the anxiety, as you said enjoy it while it last that's just it.

ya brah. Tnx for your contribution

RedBenson:
Unfortunately sir, the opposite is the case in my situation. Girls loyal for muah die. Dont know abt you.


And btw, opening such thread this early mo mo, is that what you dreamt last night?

good for you man and nah I dreamt of something better.

cheezy4whizy:
they spend lot of cash to look good so dey believe dey shoudnt come cheap too.

cool point..

This is not a thread to bash ladies but a thread created to get answers and opinions about the topic of the thread.
All of a sudden every girl in Nigeria both the pretty and stalk ugly ones thinks she is a queen or goddess meant to be worshipped and adored by guys. Gone are the days where women treated men with respect and humility. An average Nigerian girl now wants you to lick her feet b4 giving you a chance and that, most still feel they are doing you a favor being your girlfriend . Even the handsome and rich guys are not getting it easy as before.
An imperfect Nigerian girl now wants and believes she deserve a perfect guy that possesses all the necessary qualities required whereas she got nothing worthy to give. Having a high self esteem about yourself is good but how come most Nigerian girls are so full of it nowadays whereas more guys are dwindling in low self-esteem.
I know this would serve as an ego booster to most girls in this forum so enjoy it while it last. And note, this phenomenon is mostly exhibited among young ladies in their youthful age because older ladies are much more different.
Your opinions please

Dude your theories and hypothesis are subjective.. In as much as we have girls that do not fall for clingy guys, we also have those that do.. The almighty formula for getting girls is still MONEY and will remain so for a long time so get use to it.. And since I have been following ur threads, they all boil down to 1 point," give less attention".. Come back to reality dude .

dude u are highly obsessed with ur looks and its detrimental to your success as a guy..get over it

and where is your pic to confirm if you are even goodlooking..??cus from what i have gathered it seems your looks is only noticed by your family members

in 8 months a toyota spider and ford edge 2014??bros abeg connect me with dat guy abeg...if this story is true i will advice him to roll with ladies of his class and not those cheap broke ass bitches lottering around the streets looking to reap where they did not sow

above all he will need SPECIAL GRACE to find true love.

#fizboy

yeah i noticed this too and also ladies are so so selective of guyz nwadays...wetin dey happen

hmmm

after the friendzone topic been trashed,the nice guy topic is d trending topic now..hmmm naija girls y are u girls making things hard for us??

NO!

most nigerian men are romantic BT d percentage of oloshos to girls that appreciate romance is too high for their romantic trait to be exhibited ...

beautycrush24:
make we dey look na

alright m watching you in 5D

beautycrush24:
u wont get to see it cos i intend to remain anonymous on this site.

babe trust me with time u will reveal urself...no be Nl...

beautycrush24:
dont bother. But i can assure u my beauty is jaw dropping

I hope my jaw do drop wen I get to see ur pic

beautycrush24:
dont bother. But i can assure u my beauty is jaw dropping

I hope my jaw do drop wen I get to see dem

beautycrush24:
No matter the advice i get, i cant get married to an ugly guy.
If dat means i'm in danger den i guess danger is good

can we see ur pics pls

demisexy:
Ok,i want a guy who us romantic,unpredictable,smart and also whoz got some "doh"!

these are things every girl wants so there is nothing spectacular and BTW ur topic is misleading

Rolly83:
There is noting abnormal about it.You're still very young.

according to TIMAYA

ireneony:
That is a big fat lie.
someone being handsome does not automatically his bad.
remember don't judge someone by what you see but by the content of their character

nice talk...

Yea" turning on a/c drains petrol" considerably, a little percentage of petrol. All forms of air conditioning devices uses high power to operate because it runs oxygen which is a coolant" so when you put on your car a/c, there will b more mechanical and electrical load which tends to use power" and the source of the power is petrol . A/c could be said to be luxury when some one is running short of money.

why d argument??u guys should let d ladies say wat they feel...

I think there are still guyz lyk me out there lyk me...

Rasbajan:
O.P
Yhur head dey dere

chibwike:
Word!

I hail..correct guyz

irishCream:
This friendzoned thing is really a big issue in here


Why are there so many topics about it

If one babe no like u another will


Last I checked there are over 7billion people on this planet earth alone


Don't know about other planets

I think you are getting whr am coming from

iceberylin:
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that's the reason am telling guyz not to cling on to a girl that doesnt lyk u enough to date u and u alone Cus girls can't actually date all the guyz that ask them out

I have come to realise that if most guys have my kind of mentality towards dating and all,the issue of girls friendzoning guys will not be in existence at all.call it pride or ego I really don't care bt I don't see any reason to beg a girl for a relationship we will both benefit from.if I ask a girl out once and she declines the feelings and attraction I have for her decreases Immediately and finally diminish and I cut of contacts with her and move on to d next 1 available cus i feel if u dont lyk me enough intially to date me i dont think you will eventually do later, but the issue of some guys still clinging and acting all friendly towards a girl that has openly rejected them for d hope of being considered or pitied in d future and complaining of being friendzoned is something I don't reckon with.
Guys know your selfworth.there are many girls to guyz in the world to be magatized by a girl that don't deserve u..my opinion though........ peace