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hello all,
one quick question,
What's efirin (ntong) - the spicy leaf for pepper soup called in d UK?
I've run out n need 2 buy ASAP.

Thanks.

Because you get ice cream for asking a question twice!


Why is black beautiful?

I always thought the best age for a woman to get married was about 22-24 but now, i think it should be more like 28 - 29 because that is when a girl knows she really ought to get married. For a man, i think the best age is 30 upwards because he is expected to be mature and ready to be a man and cater for a wife and children.

When people are young and in love, they think they must get married NOW! When they do get married however, real life comes upon them, the bills, their duties, funny habits, children etc and then, they start to feel trapped with no where to run. It's better to wait until you can't hold off any longer and then you'll know that you're entering it for good.

My 2k

We were created in the image of God i.e. to have free will to know good and evil and to choose good or evil because we want to. But how will this be if He (God) controls us to do right and to love him? That means we would have no choice but to obey God. So, he put us in a position where we would be able to choose to obey or not to obey, to know what is good or bad and to choose what path we want to follow. We all know that if you force someone to love you, they don't really do.

So, God wanted us all to choose for ourselves if we would love and serve him or not by our own free will.

When a man loves a woman, it's not difficult to know. If a woman loves a man, she'd shout it out.
If all was well, trust me, he'd still call you often, even after a difficult day.
But then again do you call him too? When you do, is he in a hurry to leave?

I'd be suspicious.