₦airaland Forum

Onegai:
Peace, Love, Respect, Wisdom, Shared Values and Stability.

A lot of men don't know what peace looks like so they think a woman who leaves them to do what they feel like is "peace".

A quiet house isn't always peace, sometimes it's "I've made myself a monster so now my wife and kids disappear once I show up and that silence is deafening".

Respect doesn't mean she never challenges you, she'll do so in love.

Wisdom: see, a man, no SEVERAL MEN, have told me that "the day I didn't listen to my wife, what happened na me suffer am". Biblically, your wife is meant to counsel you, good or bad.

Love: someone's marriage packed up and he began missing his kids but didn't want his wife back (he fought for custody). His kids always looked so happy with his wife in her videos she sent him and they seemed happy (in his eyes) when they visited. When he eventually got custody, he realized his wife was the reason they were happy. Even as he hurt his wife, her love surrounded him and the kids and once she was gone, it was gone. Now he's trying to undo what he did.

Stability: knowing your woman can handle things on her own is vital. Knowing there's someone backing you is vital

98% of men don't even get close to Ur list above meaning marriage is a scam to men

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We told them but dry claimed election had not been conducted why are u crying like babies
Now dey are saying what we already told them 😆😆😆😄😄😄😆😆😄😄😄
Tinubu just make politics confuse dis ppl Allah
Shege Tinubu...more wisdom 😆😆😆

Yet ppl are blaming Dangote

Forget election out of this matter
Forget campaign for your own candidate
Tinubu/Obi/Atiku are same ppl and will respond same way
Nigeria needs libration and na we go librate am not someone sitting in Aso Rock

Hello good Nairalanders.

I am not here to promote, encourage or advise anyone on sportbetting but sharing my experience.

I spent many years working and earning pay until I lost my job about 2 years now.
I got another 6mnths contract job paying me 200k and the contract ended so I went back to home with nothing.

I have noticed people will help you raise millions when you are dead 😂😂😂😂 then they can start contributing the millions for burial.

I noticed I did not have big boys cycle as I grow up decent, poor, keeping clean family name stuffs, so most of my friends are the types earning like 300k to 500k monthly.

I also know that I cannot be disturbing people on weekly basis for help because at the end it will look like you are not serious or you deliberately not want to work and depending on them.
This will also come with disrespect, disregard 😅😅

So let me jump back to me topic.

I will soon clock 40years
I have family so fees, feeding, rent, life in general tough oooo....every

I started betting and noticed how easy it is for me to make atleast 10k-20k daily.
There is no month since the beginning of this year I don't make 300k to 400k

Baba before now I have turned Berger and last time I asked someone for money was on Nairaland 😏😏

The guy mentioned he wish he can give Obi ,500k and I saw the comment.
I quickly replied begging him for 5k-10k but no response.

I look my life and say to myself na like dis you wan dey survive.

Toh, I pray God helps me but if this the way he want s me to go because everything I need to do has failed me.

Let me just be making my money low-key atleast I clear my kids fees even before resumption and still pushing.

Note: I play like 5 tickets daily and win 2-3
I don't pick more than 10 odds in most cases and I pay in such away that most team plays almost same time, market that allows cashout so that I can cashout my stake before crashing...I no they take chance

Good day my fiful

Una know say for this naija as we get Xmas, Sallah, Ramadani and every event with his own days.

Be like he don reach cooking gas and tomato turn now.

Cooking gas in my area is now selling for 2k per kg

Can this things ever stop in Nigeria?

Ever since I was born aside say Tinubu regime or anything, must it always happen every year?

Nigerians no get plans?

Omohh

First she is not your wife, you never pay bride price so she is just a pregnant girlfriend.

Secondly, stop acting childish because you are the cause of the whole thing.
You need more education or knowledge about pregnant people.
I always tell my newly married friend, the most difficult time with a woman is during pregnancy, this species will frustrate your life but in your case she did nothing wrong
You cannot expect your pregnant girlfriend to stay with you in outside looking for cab na you cause am and for fact that she left that night means you are a complainer and always feeling like you are doing her a favor.

Good luck

PlasmaTV:
Yes, he's afraid. We agree with you.
He's sha on the ballot now and there's nothing APC/INEC/Tinubu can do about it. Sorry.

We are OK.

There is something we masses will do...send him back to his shop in Lagos bc we kw he won't go back to Anabra

It's been long since I felt this bad about someone I know.

There is this lady in my community, she married last year and should be around 35 years old.
We are somehow close and she plays with my wife too because her dad's house is just few building to our own.

She married this bros and they rented an apartment let say 2km from her dad's place.
The bros struggling like normal guys do and both of us get along based on say I be this playful type too.

I have been hearing of how loose this lady is but I felt it's just dose area gist and unconfirmed talks to gain cheap value by guys.

Today, one of our guy was around and asked after her..normal normal we responded "we be her husband" "go ask her papa now" "you no know Der house" "wetin concern you with person wife again"

Omoh, then gist started again...Jesus I no fit cry or will I say I no fit enter ground because I was also accused of also tasting her as most people have. I see her as someone who will never render herself that way or want to disrespect my wife due to the way we perceive her.

The guy started telling us how he slept with her few weeks after her wedding to this innocent bros.

To my shock, hot afternoon ooooo he said person wey cheap na only chat I go send she go send me her t@t@
He then message her via Whatsapp and her response about 6mins later was that "I will not be able to do vid now but can enter the toilet and snap if you don't mind"
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My head first blank.
Then about 20-30min later 😭😭😭😭😭
I saw my friend sent the guy vid and tears dropped my eyes because I look say so you cannot even ask for anything in return you just went in and did vid.

I saw the mom and dad this evening and we greeted well.

I am not saying I am holy or has never asked a lady for nude but haba now..person wife and a decent lady for that matter.

Make God forgive us all.

I learnt the strike was in Sokoto

PDPdestroyer:
A very sad day for Obidients and proponents of “Christian genocide” in Nigeria. Their god, daddy Trump seems to have discovered the truth, switched tents and is now firmly on the side of the government and the good people of Nigeria

fooool the person killed is he a Christian?
It's your religious brother carrying out killin on Christians

I saw a lady post and I pity her
I just conclude that its social media so u can say whatever u like

If woman commit man sin she go too regret am and if man commit woman sin he will nvr recover again

If wife cheat bc her husband did, toh depends on the man but nobody will want Der son near her daughter's

If man rape finger 3yrs na life in prison but if woman lick 3yrs old boy..the gbasgbos no go pass the compound

I don't know if this happens to me alone or other people are experiencing same thing.

Once I open my data, I just get irritated, frustrated and sick of everything and people online.

98% contents are same...Just random teenage girls especially, just dancing a particular ways with dumb write ups at the top.

Another annoying thing is this NDC, APC, Tinubu, Obi political posts up and down.
This really makes me sick and I feel irritated like seriously irritated.

Then the tribal fight most especially between Igbos and Yoruba online..I just get sick immediately.

Lastly is bad news especially kidnapers, rape news, ritualist and young people been killed or dead.

I don't feel comfortable with this things and I don't know if anyone can suggest other things I can focus on or view more.

Abi make I just focus on learning tech skills and watching movies..I think I will consider this two.

But NDC data foooools claimed he has decamped
Dey kept pushing lies just like Obi

He dated the current wife for 7yrs and dated this lady for several years...everybody thought it will lead to marriage
Abeg restructure your story well he no make sense to me

Wait until you get married

Ife, are you going out...
What happen?

I want you to get us bread.
As you get to the door,,Ife Ife please if you can add biscuit for the kids tomao

As you dey outside...WhatsApp message please buy paracetamol

Immediately you got inside...I wanted razor blade but if I talk you go dey complain

malikombi:
15 animals.
10 sow, 5 boar

You wan kill am?
Feeding them will cost nothing less than 100k weekly

If you have money go into feeds instead of animals.
To make money you have to start big...I mean with like 5m to 10m
If you strt with like 1m to 2m you may end up crying.

Kaczynski:
Rushing into marriage was your first mistake, your desperation to satisfy those social norms.

I was 34 wen I settled down, my oldest is 6 bros I no marry early oo or you mean I shld have waited till 40

Kaczynski:
You did this to yourself so don't regret what you did to yourself.

I got a well paying job, I got married and God bless me with triplet...So how is this my fault?

tensazangetsu20:
How can you have 3 children?

Bc I am a living thing and it is expected to reproduce.
You can have big business and it will fail
You can be earning big and you get sacked or anything can happen.
Having kids is one of my greatest joy and achievements in life.
Remebr, you can get twins or triplet at once.

I am currently jobless, lost my job when Kuda downsized over 40% of its staff.

Currently l paid all 3rd term schools fees for my 3 kids
Bought bag of rice and carton of spag
Paid my rent till Feb 2027

Once I see like 5k to 20k I use it to buy anytin not available or about to finish

I just dey house dey look up n dwn, I am currently so afraid and don't know what to do.

ojuu4u:
And if you divorce and your ex wife dumps kids in your custody? You think it's not happening? If such scenario happens, I biliv you will still be having 350k to save, and lavishing? And on who you want to waste the remaining 350? Women and Alcohol, I guess!

You spend more when a woman is in your house.
Me with 3boys..will spend less bc I won't bother abt sending money to her parents, support weddings, ceremonies, birthdays, burial, etc on the woman side.

CodeTemplar:
The man no well.

Must she marry you for sharing a roof?

he did it the way he feel like so if he reach Ur turn act like a professional fuul
Nobody go blame you .so let the man be

lexxynet2:
You're Correct, I did my ISPON last year @ about #60,000.

quote]I'm an HSE officer. HSE certifications are very lucrative but you said you want to do HSE level 1-3 which is the basics for beginners. How come it's up to that amount? 400k. Cos Ispon is about 70k for HSE 1-3 or did you add up with Nebosh or Osha certifications as well to come up to that amount?

Good day brother...I hope this meet you well and sound
I lost my job few days ago and my pastor who works in an oil n gas company directed or advised me to do the HSE course
I checked the ISPON site now its 370k now
Will this certification alone get me a chance in the organization or I will have to do more training and certification
I will want you to advised me please.

I am a victim

The truth is it's not easy to be a married and responsible husband.
I make over 500k monthly and I don't have 20k shoe or 15k jeans
I was asked to buy ready made native wear for 50k I just laughed
For God sake I have wife and 3 kids

Among my friends I am the only one married, we wer 4 of us and all have japa and done with M.Sc

If I am single or divorced with 3 kids maximum I will be sending to them monthly is 150k and remain 350k+ will be for me

I can buy nice clothes, smell nice, buy expensive bathing soap n skincares

I love my home ooo Wolahi...and I rather be managing than anything happen to any of us.

Who new clothes and shoes eppp

WorldRichest:
Shey this boy called Fubara no dey hear word ni? No 2nd term for him, abi he no wan finish this him 1st and last term ni? He better tell this boy wey dey bear same surname with him not to put him into trouble. We no send am oooo, we will lock him up and Heaven will not fall. This 2027 will be brutal

who tell I say na same Gov of rivers dey talk Oga

Dis vid don pass 4yrs now