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Then she told me, “I don’t think this whole relationship thing will work. You should just forget about everything and have a good life ahead of you.” I asked, "Just like that?" and she said yes. I wished her a good life ahead too, and ended the call.

WatchYourSix:
Im not understanding….. u ddnt get to the pet where she called it off….

I met this lady in my estate sometime in 2022. We exchanged numbers, but we never really had the time to hang out back then. Sometime in May this year, I saw her number in one of my old iCloud accounts and decided to give her a call. She picked up, but she didn’t seem to remember me—in her own words, because we used to only see each other on the road before she moved out of the estate.

We chose a date and location to hang out, and it all went well. We had a great conversation, and since then, we have been calling and texting each other. We went on a second outing, and she asked me a question that I actually expected of her: what did I really want from her? I told her that my days of playing games are over, and that I need a friend, a partner, and someone I can build a relationship with. In turn, she told me that she hadn’t given relationships a chance since her last one ended two years ago. She also mentioned that she doesn't want to have too much history with men, which is why she has been trying to protect herself.

Since then, things have been cool. We talked on the phone almost every day, and everything was going well between us. However, I noticed she asked a lot of questions, but whenever I asked her something, she was always reluctant to answer. I told her what I do for a living and where I work, but she would only tell me her job title, never the name or location of her workplace. I didn’t really have a problem with that, though.

A few weeks ago, she called me in the evening, crying on the phone, and told me she had just been informed that her dad passed away. Being the kind of person I am, I have never really had anyone close to me lose a loved one where I had to console them. I just told her, "May his soul rest in peace," promised to call her the next day, and hung up. Due to work stress, I didn't end up calling her until the third day. I noticed she wasn't really responding the way I expected, and after some questioning, she opened up. She said she hadn't expected me to just end the call like that on the night she found out, as she really needed someone to talk to, and then I didn't check back until three days later. I apologized and explained to her that it wasn't intentional—I just didn't know what else to say and wanted to avoid repeating words or rambling, which might not be comforting to someone grieving.

We eventually agreed that I could come for her dad’s wake-keep and burial. Initially, she only wanted me to attend the wake-keep because her family's village is far from her hometown and she didn’t want to put me through the stress. But I insisted that the stress would be worth it, especially since I would be experiencing a burial ceremony for the first time in my life. The wake-keep and burial were scheduled for last week Thursday and Friday, respectively.

God bears me witness, I had fully prepared my mind to travel. But on Wednesday evening around 5:00 PM, one of our clients called stating they were in the middle of a time-sensitive project, one of their services was down, and it needed urgent fixing. Normally, I could have resolved this remotely, but traveling from Abuja to an unfamiliar village where I wasn’t sure if there would be a network connection was a risk I wasn't willing to take. So, I picked up my phone, summoned the courage, and told her I wouldn’t be able to come as scheduled. In the middle of my explanation, she cut me off, saying she already knew I wasn’t coming. She said if I had genuinely planned to come, I would have been checking in with her since that morning. Because she hadn't heard from me all day, she had already concluded I decided not to show up. Then she told me, “I don’t think this whole relationship thing will work. You should just forget about everything and have a good life ahead of you.” I asked, "Just like that?" and she said yes. I wished her a good life ahead too, and ended the call.

After 20 minutes, I messaged her asking for her account details. She sent them, and I transferred some cash to her. She messaged me the next morning, thanking me very much. Why I sent the money, I can't really tell, but it genuinely calmed my temper down.

Since then, I have been calling and texting her, but she hasn't responded. However, I noticed she called me twice on Saturday, but I wasn't close to my phone. Since then, I’ve been calling her twice every day and dropping messages, but getting no response. I called her yesterday, and luckily, she picked up. I asked if she was back, but she said she was still in the village. I asked if she could talk, and she said yes. But as I was trying to explain myself and apologize, not even 30 seconds into the call, the line dropped. I called back and it was switched off. I called again later in the evening, but there was no response.

I really like her, and I want her to know it wasn't intentional, but honestly, I am feeling exhausted.

I concur.

MaziX:
why u go marry or give birth when u know u dey earn 62k.. why no save and get a side business before marrying. Nothing pass business.

bomsilaga:
Next time, unbox and place the phone in your pocket before you pay. DO NOT place it back in the box

Thank you snowflake. Instead of you answering my question, you are just advertising
your ignorance publicly. 

CountinBlessins:
Dude you are a slowpoke stop talking . Go even on GitHub Kai os forums everyone knows the OS is dead. Even WhatsApp is no longer supported in the last updated 3.0

Stop arguing stupidly

How is your write-up relevant to the subject matter? If you have a personal beef with any political party, how do you now expect me to help you with that?

Seniorwriter:
That word CHANGE has been bastardized by the present ruling political party.



Seniorwriter.

Truvelisback:
Na Igbo guy sell am for you, yes or yes?

Sincerely, I thought of doing that initially, but I think Abuja has found a way to soften me. It's just 40k we move. But the shameful part is how someone like me, who grew up in Ikeja, allows myself to fall for this cheap scam.  Thanks

boldx:
Reach out to FCCPC Abuja. Go online, submit your complaint. It will get a response and your case will be treated justly. Kindly keep the purchase receipt

This was the original headline "Beware: The Nokia 6300 Scam – A Lesson Learned the Hard Way" . I guess the admin did, and now I can't modify it for reasons I do not know. It happened at Bannex Plaza.

adamma24:
Op...your headline is wrong because you did not verify the good on site before paying or leaving...you are to blame...biko change the heading its misleading

Sure . Ikeja boy like me. I swear no fit even tell my guy for Lagos dem go laugh me die. Sometimes i think he get how Abuja go just soft you once you don dey live for Abj.

lakeside3020:
Them play you aproko

I didn't change the headline; I guess the admin did..

adamma24:
He has changed the headline...unlike yesterday when he first made the post...saying the phone (make) is a scam...whereas he was the one who fell easily for the scam with doing due diligence

"Note: he said if something is too good to be true, then it is. Which means he bought it cheaper below the real price thinking that he has got a better deal. I wouldn't do that." This statement isn't about the price because i actually bought at the market price which is 40k. Instinct.

maasoap:
Lol. I don't remember ever verifying the phones specs beyond what is written on the box before I made payments. Why would I do that? If what I found inside the box is different from what the box says, then the seller has to refund me or change the product because he's or she's the one at fault. We're talking about specs, something that's embedded within the phones hardware and software. I had to get home first before settling down to check it one after the other.

Note: he said if something is too good to be true, then it is. Which means he bought it cheaper below the real price thinking that he has got a better deal. I wouldn't do that.

;Dmaybe

MrBONE2:

If an operating system stops receiving updates, does that mean it's dead? I am not here to teach you tech stuff for free. Windows 7 and Windows 8 have stopped receiving updates, but does that mean there are still people who don't use them? If you have the original, I would like to purchase it from you.

CountinBlessins:
Go to school Una no go gre. Kai is os dead .

It's a dead os so even if you got the original why I earth would your waste your money ?

Yes the original one get but sadly i bought made in Nigeria

Cuttycool:
Does this Nokia 6300 have watapp and Facebook features? Nokia phones of the past used to be durable, I love the brand.

Yes.

Silentgroper:
Is this a button phone with a WhatsApp functionality.. wow!!!

Lol

Caleb15:
I guess he finally bought made in Nigeria goods to boost the economy

I bought a cloned Nokia 6300 from a shop owner at Bannex plaza not a road side seller. I suspect you are one of them.

Dpharisee:
He can't go there because he bought a cloned Nokia from the roadside in Wuse market then lied he bought it in Banex Plaza.

Bannex Plaza precisely.

Bolu004:
Wuse Market or Banex Plaza?
These two places are far different from each other in Abuja

Where precisely?

bamitinn:
my brother bought this and it has 4G and the phone make sense

I didn't buy from a road seller. I actually buy from a shop. You were not there, and you are free to say whatever you like, but I still insist that all the Nokia 6300 in Bannex are cloned versions, not originals.

GloriousGbola:
Buy from slot or recognized outlets that have a reputation to protect, not from corner corner hustlers.

This is even more important when you are buying the phone brand new

How much is the Nokia 6300 and what did you think you would save by buying it from a road side seller vs slot? 1 to 2k max. It may even be cheaper.

Na you do yourself.

You will never be able to check all the features and the seller will be hurrying you because he knows there is a window within which you must buy the phone

Edit accordingly to other posters you are just a karma farmer who has made up a story for your rubbish blog

When it comes to purchasing a new phone, we expect it to fulfill all the functions promised in the box. However, a recent encounter with a phone seller left me frustrated and disillusioned. I had been eyeing the Nokia 6300, a classic model known for its durability and simplicity, perfect for those who prefer a reliable phone without all the bells and whistles of modern smartphones.

So, I went to the market and stumbled upon a seller selling the Nokia 6300 at Wuze Market, old Bannex Plaza. Excitedly, I made the purchase, eager to experience the nostalgia of using a beloved classic.

However, my excitement quickly turned into disappointment when I realized that the phone I had received was not what I expected. Despite the box claiming that it was a 4G phone with WhatsApp functionality and Wi-Fi hotspot capabilities, the phone I received lacked these essential features, including the absence of Kai OS.

Feeling cheated and frustrated, I reached out to the seller, only to be met with excuses and denials. It became apparent that I had fallen victim to a scam—a counterfeit Nokia 6300 sold under false pretenses.

Reflecting on this experience, I realized the importance of being vigilant when making purchases, especially when it comes to mobile phones, at Bannex Plaza, either from the shop or along the road. Here are a few lessons I learned that I hope can help others avoid similar pitfalls:

Verify the Features: Before making any purchase, especially of mobile phones, always verify that the product you are buying has all the features you expect. In the case of the Nokia 6300, ensure that it is indeed a 4G phone with WhatsApp functionality, Wi-Fi, and hotspot capabilities. Please take all the time needed to verify those.

Check Before Paying: Don’t be afraid to inspect the product thoroughly before making a payment. Test the functions, ask questions, and ensure everything matches what was promised.

Ask Questions:If something seems too good to be true, it probably is. Ask the seller plenty of questions to clarify any doubts you may have about the product.

In conclusion, the seller refused to change it or refund my money. A lot of us love to see change in this country, but no one is ready to do the right thing.

Nigeria, a vibrant tapestry of cultures and traditions, is a land that tantalizes the senses with its rich and diverse culinary heritage. Among the myriad of flavors that dance across the palate, one dish stands out as a true emblem of Nigerian gastronomy – Isi-Ewu. This culinary masterpiece, born from the heart of the Igbo culture, is a celebration of flavor, tradition, and communal joy.

Isi-Ewu, translated as "goat head" in English, is a dish that transcends the boundaries of ordinary meals. It is a cultural treasure that symbolizes unity and festivity. At the heart of this dish is the goat head, simmered to perfection in a broth infused with an array of aromatic spices and herbs. The result is a succulent and tender meat, delicately flavored with a symphony of spices that awaken the taste buds.

The preparation of Isi-Ewu is a ritual in itself, a labor of love passed down through generations. The goat head is meticulously cleaned, then seasoned with a blend of indigenous spices such as utazi leaves, uziza seeds, and crayfish. The dish is then slow-cooked until the meat is so tender it effortlessly falls off the bone. The magic, however, lies not only in the ingredients but also in the communal spirit that surrounds the preparation. Isi-Ewu is often prepared during festive occasions, bringing family and friends together in a shared culinary experience.

As the pot of Isi-Ewu simmers, a tantalizing aroma wafts through the air, beckoning all in its proximity to partake in the feast. The dish is traditionally served in a communal bowl, inviting a sense of togetherness and shared joy. Diners gather around, their fingers deftly navigating the succulent pieces of goat head, relishing in the flavorful broth that bathes each morsel. It's a culinary adventure that engages not only the taste buds but also the spirit, fostering a sense of community and belonging.

Isi-Ewu is more than just a meal; it is a cultural expression, a testament to the richness of Nigeria's culinary heritage. Each bite is a journey through the traditions of the Igbo people, a reminder of the importance of preserving and celebrating cultural identity. The dish encapsulates the essence of Nigerian hospitality, where a meal is not just sustenance but a gesture of warmth and camaraderie.

In a world where culinary trends come and go, Isi-Ewu stands as a timeless masterpiece, a testament to the enduring power of tradition and the ability of food to weave together the fabric of a nation. As you savor the delicate flavors of Isi-Ewu, you're not just indulging in a dish; you're partaking in a cultural symphony that has echoed through the ages, a celebration of Nigeria's rich tapestry of tastes, textures, and traditions.

Thank you. I am checking them now.

Somamezee:
I know of the theBUNKer at Wuse 2; I once used their services!

Good day, please. I live in Abuja, and I am requesting if anyone knows of any open office space  somewhere around central area where I can walk in and pay for a daily use. Just a table and chair where i can place my laptop and a power source is okay for me. I won't be using it on a daily basis depending on my appointments with my clients. Any help will be appreciated.

Nice one.

Shalommy:
Op, amebo. Mind your business.

I have never liked pets, especially cats, but I don't hate them for reasons I know of, especially the presence of a cat, which scares me to death. For some time now, I have been seeing cats in my compound, sometimes by my doorstep or by the side of my window in the night. Now the cats have turned it into a ritual to always surveil my compound. So this morning when I woke up around 3 am, I started hearing the cat meowing by my window side close to my bed, but it ran away immediately after I turned on the light and closed the window. Since that time, I couldn't sleep again, and I was so confused about what to do next. whether I should set a trap for the cats and start killing them one by one. i leave in an estate and i noticed most house on my close and behind me have cat. Please i need help before taking any step because the only thing on my mind right now is to start killing them cats one after the other until they stop coming to my compound.

This is really insightful. You are right—it's the evil nicotine that's the addiction here. I once smoked a Cuban cigar, which is made out of pure tobacco without nicotine. No one urged me to stop because I didn't feel any excitement while smoking it, and moreover, it's kind of expensive. Thank you.

Originalsly:
Someone said ... cold turkey. You have to make up your mind to do so and battle through the withdrawal pains...... and strong temptations to relapse. Many smokers arriving here in NY quit by force.... $17 minimum per pack...... sold by packs only legally.... or minimum 50 cents per stick under the counter... if the shopkeeper believes you're not undercover Police or DEA.... and you habe to be 21 or over to bug cigarettes.... or alcohol. The addiction is not really the tobacco.... but the nicotine added to it. If you choose to use "the patch"... then you would not be craving to smoke since the patch releases nicotine into your body via the skin and the addiction continues but from a different source. Why not start today.... there's no magic bullet.

that's not nice.

SodiumValproate:
Only you cause global warming for Nigeria

You won't understand. Who feels it knows it. I just need some help or a guide on how to quite.

BigYash:
Go read about the damages cigarette does to your body.. Guy you go stop am,if you like yourself. Replace the addiction with fruits. Cigarette no dey high,wetin una dey see inside I no know.. If say na weed now,I go understand..

Thank you. I am in pain already. I would like to try the classical conditioning method not minding the pain.

Carcholce:
There’s no how to, when you are ready, you’ll quit. Cold turkey.


Though I can teach you a classical conditioning that works. But only if you can bear pain.

I've been smoking cigarettes for nearly 25 years, and I feel like I need to regain control of my life and some of my long-standing habits, particularly smoking cigarettes. I have tried everything I could, but I will still find myself smoking after one week of trying to quit. Please, any help will be appreciated.