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Zimbabwe have reportedly become dangerous to their clients. They now team up with other male counterparts to drag clients into their rooms forcing them into s-x in order to beat the hard times. According to H-Metro, the syndicate will be roaming the area and once they pounce on their prey, the hookers offer very affordable prices before they take you to their room where they search you and force you to have s-x with them for the money they would have taken. H-Metro spoke to one of the victims who refused to identify himself and he narrated his ordeal after falling prey to three hookers. “I am a student and I was walking along Samora Machel where three hookers pounced on me and offered me s-x for US$2 of which I refused. “They insisted but I said I would give them the US $2 they wanted so that they will let me free but before I could say anything more, two more men appeared and helped the ladies to drag me to a room upstairs at a local hotel.” The victim said, whilst in the room, he refused to have s-x but the ladies wouldn’t take any of his words. “One of the ladies undressed and lied on the bed naked and offered me s-x. I was cornered and I had to ask for a condom which they gave me and I had s-x with her while other two were looking.” “Whilst I was contemplating my next move, the other one requested to have s-x with me as well and I turned down the offer before she called the two men who were outside. “As soon they entered there was confusion in the room and they searched me of all my valuables.” He added: “After the noise, the ladies shared the money and ordered me to leave the room while they remained behind with the two men. “I had to plead for a dollar to use for transport home.” However, the incident is not the first but several men have failed to open up on such incidents where they have been pounced on by hookers. Instead of reporting they are ashamed of making reports on such cases thereby giving them a gratitude to continue. “It’s hard to report kuti wabatwa nemahure, unozvitaura uchiti kudii, zvinomakisa. “If you fell prey to such better kungoita easy unless watobirwa mari yakawanda,” said another man. Meanwhile, H-Metro reports they hung around the area where some hookers paraded their ‘thighs’ and witnessed the same scenario. The hookers will be standing as individuals but as they negotiate their colleagues approach. “I have seen men falling victims to hookers who just mob you and force you into their rooms where they can extort you. “One may assume people are in agreement but it won’t be that,” said one vendor who operates along central Avenue.

How to Stop a Masturbation Addiction Co-authored by Natalia S. David, Psy.D. Updated: June 5, 2019 Masturbation happens in every culture, across every period of history, and it's the way most adolescents discover what they enjoy before embarking on adult sexual relationships. Masturbation is a healthy and natural part of human sexuality and development. However, if you are unable to control your urge to masturbate or if frequent masturbation is interfering with your school, work, or social life, then it's possible to gain control. Part One of Three: Seeking Help Know when to seek help. Masturbation is a natural and healthy behavior. Even if you masturbate often, you may not have an addiction. If you cannot control your thoughts or urges or if masturbation is preventing you from participating in school or work, it may be time to reach out for help. Don't feel ashamed, and remember that many people have similar problems. Seeking help is a brave action, and most people you ask will see it as such. [1] Make an appointment with a medical professional. Counselors, psychologists and psychiatrists are all trained to help people with varying levels of addiction. Start by seeing a therapist in your area, who can assess your addiction and refer you to more specialized help if necessary. [2] Discuss how masturbation affects your life with the therapist. Some people may use masturbation as a way to distract them from other feelings, emotions, and problems. Try to be open with your therapist as you discuss the impact that masturbation has on your life. [3] It may take a few sessions for you to feel comfortable with your therapist. This is natural. Take the time you need. If you feel empty, sad, or angry before or after masturbation, share these details with your therapist. They can help you determine the source of your feelings. Discuss your treatment options. Masturbation addiction is considered by some to be a form of sex addiction. Your therapist may recommend a combination of medication and cognitive behavioral therapy to help you work through it. [4] Part Two of Three: Staying Busy and Focused Find another outlet for your time and energy. Fill your life with engaging activities. The excitement of doing something different can help replace the urge to masturbate, and you'll have a go-to distraction next time you're tempted. Try some of these options: [5] Be creative. The process of turning sexual urges into creative output (called sublimation) is something on which monks and sages have relied upon for centuries. Start writing, learn to play a musical instrument, paint, draw, or do whatever else makes you feel like you're doing something productive. Play sports. It takes discipline and persistence to excel at a sport. Develop an interest in running or swimming, or a group sport like soccer, football, basketball, or tennis. Also, any form of exercise will help you relieve tension, feel happier, and make you focus on your physicality in a positive way. Yoga is another form of exercise that can help you feel more relaxed and less likely to feel the sudden urge to masturbate. Eat a healthy diet . Fruits and vegetables have healthy effects on the body and provide nutrients necessary to increase your energy to make you more active throughout the day. Minimize consumption of aphrodisiac foods, such as oysters, salmon, chili peppers, coffee, avocados, banana, and chocolate. Find a new hobby, or cultivate a skill. Learning something that takes a while to master can refocus your brain on the delayed gratification of achieving goals instead of the instant gratification of masturbation. Try skills like cooking, woodshop, archery, baking, public speaking, or gardening. Volunteer your time. Devote your energy to helping teens who've been less fortunate than you, such as working at a shelter, tutoring low- income students, cleaning up blighted areas, or raising money for a good cause. You'll get an altruistic feeling from helping others, and you'll have less time to stray from your goals. Get enough sleep. Urges to masturbate can be exceedingly strong, so make sure you have enough energy to fight those urges. Try to get at least 8 hours of sleep. If you frequently forget to go to bed at a reasonable hour, set an alarm to remind you. Make a plan for avoiding masturbation during your go to times of the day. If you have problems before going to bed or in the shower, refrain from any temptation to masturbate. For instance, if it's a problem late at night, drop to the floor and do push- ups until you're too exhausted to do anything but fall asleep. If you find shower time too tempting, start using ice cold water only — you won't want to be in there for long; cold shower will offer the added benefit of saving you time and water. [6] If you always masturbate when you get home from school, make sure to have a solid plan to stave off any boredom you may feel. If you have so little to do that your mind frequently wanders to sexual thoughts, occupy your schedule. You'll find it gets easier to avoid masturbation if you're too busy or tired to spare any energy for distractions. If you're tempted to masturbate in the morning, try to sleep with more than just one layer of clothing so touching yourself is more of an effort. Limit your solitude. If you masturbate frequently because you feel lonely, find ways to be as socially engaged as possible. This means that you should join as many clubs or activities as you can, accept and give more invitations to people, and go out of your way to make more friends. If you want to date someone, consider asking a friend to set you up or join an online dating site. [7] Another thing you can do is to limit the times when you are likely to be home alone. If you tend to masturbate in the hour or two before your parents get home from work, go for a walk during that time, or do your homework in a coffee shop. Even if all of your friends are busy, you can still limit your impulse to masturbate by going out in public. For instance, instead of watching the game at home by yourself, watch it at a sports bar. Even if you're not hanging out with friends, you will not be alone, ultimately having no time for masturbation. Stop watching porn on your computer. One of the reasons you may be masturbating so much is that you know that you can access porn within seconds if you desire. However, if you don't have the willpower to stop looking at the porn on your own, then you may have to take other measures to get the job done: Consider installing porn-blocking software on your computer. Of course you will know the password to bypass the blocking function, but just having it pop up will remind you of your priorities. You can also type a random password in a text file, copy and paste it when you enter your password and verify it, then delete the text file. Then, you will not be able to know the password of your own porn-blocker. This is the best way to keep you strong and spare you the struggle. If you have the tendency to masturbate looking at porn on the computer, try moving your computer into a room where others can see you. If you have a physical collection of porn, dispose of it ASAP (as soon as possible). Be persistent and patient. Stopping a masturbation addiction won't hit you like a lightning bolt. It's a process that requires commitment, and you might make mistakes or relapse on occasions. The real struggle is persevering, so commit now that you won't let little mistakes stand in your way. Set up a reward system. Bribe yourself to stay on-track with rewards for good behavior. For instance, if you can go two whole weeks without masturbating once, treat yourself to a small indulgence like a new game or an ice cream cone. Part Three of Three: Getting in the Right Mindset Stop punishing yourself. Remember, you're human, and humans masturbate. Some studies show that up to 95% of males and 89% of females admit that they have masturbated. Masturbation is normal and healthy for all ages and genders.[8] Don't believe the myths about the harms of masturbation. If you want to stop your masturbation addiction, then you should do it for reasons that are personal and moral, not for reasons that are health- related. Here are some things that masturbation will not do to your body: [9] Masturbation will not cause infertility, premature ejaculation, or impotence. Masturbation will not cause insanity. Masturbation will not cause blindness or even eye floaters. Masturbation will not cause frequent urination. Masturbation does not affect facial hair, growth, facial features, kidneys, testicles, cause skin problems, or cause any major physical issues! These are all myths. Know that it will get better. If you believe that you can really find a way to stop your masturbation addiction, then you'll be able to do it. Maybe your goal isn't to stop masturbating completely, but just to limit your masturbation to a healthy amount, such as once or twice a day. That's perfectly fine, too. If you have the belief that you really can win this battle, you'll be much more likely to succeed than if you're constantly second- guessing yourself. That being said, there may be days when you have relapses. This is a normal part of the recovery process. Don't become discouraged. Believe in yourself

But how exactly do you ask her for these kinds of photos without freaking her out, or offending her? I’ll show you: The #1 Way to Ask Her (Highest Success Rate) When it comes to asking a woman to send you naked pics, it’s a bit of a delicate process. However, if you know the right steps, then it doesn’t have to be super complicated or confusing. Brand-New: 3-Step Hookup Blueprint to Go From First Message to Sex FAST! First, let me show you what not to do. Do not, under any circumstances: Randomly say, “Show me your t*ts!”… Send her an unsolicited d**k pic and hope she’ll return the favor… Tell her you’d like some material for your “spank bank”… Say that you’d like to add her pics to the collection of ones from your exes… These are probably all pretty obvious, but it’s good to remind yourself of what to avoid from time to time. So how should you ask for a naked picture? The key to getting her to say yes is to make her feel: a) Like you won’t share what she sends you with anybody (it’s your own private secret), and… b) Physically desirable. There are a few ways for you to do this without creeping her out. It Doesn’t End There… First, you want to put her in the right mindset–she should feel a little turned on before you ask her. That way, she’s less likely to say “no,” and more likely to initiate the sexting herself. Something that’s worked on a few of my friends is to text her late at night and say: “Hey, I was just thinking about our last time in bed together… that was so hot. What are you doing right now?” If she responds quickly and isn’t busy, then you can say: “Well, I have kind of a strange question for you… have you ever sexted before?” If she says “Yes” or seems enthusiastic, then she’s definitely into it. And if she says “no,” then you can simply ask, “Would you want to try?” RESEARCH REVEALS: This “Potion” Gets Girls to Chase You (Click For The Recipe)… And remember, there are different kinds of sexting. Some women prefer to sext by typing out a long storyline or scenario that ends in you having sex. Other women, on the other hand, prefer to just send pictures. So if you want her to send you pictures, to get the ball rolling you could say, “What are you wearing right now? ;-)” Because you’ve already primed her by talking about sexting, this isn’t nearly as creepy as if you sent it to her out of the blue. And when things do escalate, remember– ask for a picture of her upper body or chest, and don’t ask her to include her face (the study mentioned that most women recoil at the thought of their naked body and their face being in the picture together). How to Text Her For Sex: 5 Copy-Paste Texts You Can Use Tonight… However, there’s one big question I haven’t addressed yet: What if you don’t want to settle for “just nudes”…? What if you want to get her to come over to your place and hookup? Is there an easy way? That’s what I want to show you next: Naked Pics Are Great… But You Know What’s Even Better? A naked girl in bed next to you. And most guys don’t know this, but just like certain words and phrases can get a girl to take off her top and snap a sexy photo for you… … there are certain words and phrases that can get a girl to drop everything and come over to your place too. Click here to discover 5 simple texts that get hot girls to come over for sex right away. Even if you haven’t slept with this girl before… even if you haven’t met her in real life at all… and even if it’s 3 in the freaking morning… … these texts will work to make her feel like she *has* to meet up with you, no matter what. (And what’s great is that most of the time, these texts make it so she wants to jump into bed with you as soon as she gets there. Hell yeah !) We compiled all 5 of these texts into a handy copy & paste list for you–click the link below to check it out: