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She's not what she used to be! The price u have to pay for popping out babies. But Omotola really took care of her body even after four kids!

itstpia99:
Agu is crocodile

wrong! Agu is Lion, Agu iyi is crocodile

Seun:
I don't have any cleavage.

Linda Ikeji's bosom packaging is actually not that great in this picture. It's been better. She needs to switch back to her regular bra.

loool. U sabi observe sha

Lovely

mistabiola:
You dont need to act like a fo*ol over this, if a muslim artist put up Jesus pics and start criticizing christainity!!! How would you feel The name the fo*ol called paul put up there is very sensitive.

yea, from ur name i'm nt surprised. Toutish attitude is inbuilt in u guys! Have a nice weekend

The Op is a hypocrite! Those condemning him are hypocrites too. People have said worse things so what is the big deal? because he's a celeb he's no longer human abi? Mtsheeeew

steppin:
Ala-igbe or Ala-igbo? That girl looks dull.

it won't kill u if u just simply ask what it means!

The man wey do their jazz strong sha. They won't be able to spend the money.

And he's not funny ooo

Wetin this woman see for Yoruba men sef?

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nickusoro:
Dude, i'm not talking about being friendly here. This is the essence of being witty. If that shït cracked you up, then you have one hell of a sense of humour. Got my point?

#QuoteMeIfYouWanna

dude ke. Lol

nickusoro:
Nothing hilarious about this. Yeah, it's obviously a scam but if really the response was from any of the P Square twins, then that's a pretty much childish and "toutish" reply.



#QuoteMeIfYouWanna

okay, he should have given a friendlier reply abi? When e reach ur turn u fit give the scammer E-hug, no wahala.

Brandnew2:
Abi o! All they know how to do is flirt, crush on and pick fight.
That, to me can be very boring

exactly

Brandnew2:
The one I suffered as a child wasn't a small one oh!!!

Too embarrassing to talk about here, apparently, it's stuck with until now...


My sister, sometimes the lamp or torch light is not at arms reach, you may even have misplaced it... Come and see panic.

very funny ooo. Wait o, are we the only people with phobias? Nobody else wants to share

Brandnew2:
Ah swear, if the football match is not in my living room, then I'll wait for the scores.

I've actually never had a panic attack before.

My worst phobia is actually darkness.

darkness? Hahahah. Abeg leave that phobia for kids jor. Always have a torchlight with u. U knw Nepa na

Brandnew2:
This is front page worthy but OP you are yet to explain other kinds of phobia that is common place..

I know lots of people have phobia for driving, water/big oceans/ ,love/romance, heights, injections, darkness e.t.c

I suffer a few but wouldn't like to share my personal story now..


Will edit the long quote.

as the title implies, it's a personal story about my own phobia. I can't talk about others because I want pple who have them to tell their own story!

Brandnew2:
I can relate..you will never catch me in a crowded football viewing center either dead or alive..

lol. Make u no go fall ur hand abi? I know that feeling jare

ashewopeckas:
Money Can't Buy Class.

Ibo boiz dressing like Rambo since 200BC

you that have class, go and hang it in the boutique! Jealousyyyyyyyyyy

Yea @asadike, @brandnew2 you had to quote the whole thing eh? Lol. Oya tell us ur xperience if any. Don't just read and leave. If u have an experience wth phobias Plz share. Moderators @dominique, sissy3 Plz let's get this to front page for people to be aware! Tnx

[i]This is for those who have phobia problems. This is for those who don't even know they have it. This is for those who are not too lazy to read.




It started when I was in 100level in the university. I was young and inexperienced. I went to church with a friend, it was palm Sunday in the school's catholic church. The church was crowded there was even crowd outside (late comers). My friend and I were with the late comers. With our cross shaped palm leaves in our hands we stood patiently and listened to the priest from a very loud speaker. After the gospel reading, the doors were opened and people started rushing in (you know how students behave). My friend was dragging my left hand, urging me to hurry along with her but I was feeling something. I knew I had felt it once before but not like this. The crowd pushed forward and my friend couldn't hold me anymore. I felt choked up and very dizzy and I was gasping for air with my heart beating very fast. I didn't know what was happening to me. My friend was already inside the church when she realised I wasn't with her so she came outside to look for me. My heart was beating really fast and I was glad to see her. I just told her "Chinel, make we dey go hostel", she asked why, I just dragged her and we went back to the hostel without even blessing our 'palm cross'.
When we got to the hostel, I explained what I felt to my Chinel. I told her I could hear my heartbeat. She just rushed to the cupboard and brought out a sachet of tiny white drugs and gave me one. She said her doctor in Lagos recommended them when she had slight asthma symptoms. I just swallowed it without thinking or asking her any further questions. I wanted the palpitations to stop. After about 10minutes, I slept off. I woke up about an hour later, thanked Chinel and went upstairs to my room. But I just couldn't shake off the feeling that something was wrong with me.
I have an elder brother who lived and worked in the same city where I schooled. I called him around 4pm and told him I was sick. He didn't even wait for me to finish, he just said "ok start to come my house now now". I packed somethings and left for his place. His kids were happy to see me but something was troubling my mind so I couldn't play with them. The next morning, he took me to the Federal medical centre. We had a Doctor cousin there so it was easy for me to see him. After telling him what happened to me the previous day, he just said "you are Agoraphobic. Stay away from crowded places and lecture halls". He then prescribed a drug to control the palpitation. I was happy to have identified my problem. I did as he said, I stayed away from crowded places and halls and even market. I didn't notice when it stopped. I quit the drug and started living my normal life.
My second panic attack came when I was in 300level. I went to my sister's house in another state during one ASSU strike. We went to church one Sunday. The pastor making alter call for people with one sickness or the other. He even mentioned palpitation but I didn't want to face a crowd and experience another panic so I kept to myself. Then he told a short story of how he and his friend went to church and a pastor called out people like this. His friend who was asthmatic refused to come out so he died the next day bla bla bla. I still didn't go.
That night at home, I couldn't shake off the pastor's short story off my head. I wondered if something would go wrong. I went to bed at about 10pm but I couldn't sleep. I was thinking and I was scared. Some minutes to 12, something in my head started saying "so you refused to go out for prayers, you will die by sharp 12". The familiar wave of panic crept in. I jumped out of my bed with my heart beating very fast and loud. I knocked on my sister's room door. She came out with her husband. When she saw the horrible look on my face, she got scared and started crying and praying at the same time. I felt shortness of breath, my palms were sweaty, then the palpitation. I was having a panic attack. Why did I go to church that day? I thought. I hated the pastor for his short story. After some seconds I felt better. We all went back to bed. I slept well till morning. I felt good when I woke up, I didn't die!
When I was ready to go back to school, my sister's husband gave me a 'Rhapsody of realities' bible which contained nice and inspirational articles written by pastor Chris and his wife. These articles where inserted in between bible chapters. My sister's husband also gave me some verses to read when ever I felt sick.
My third panic attack came when I was still in 300level. We had workshop practice that Thursday afternoon by 1pm. I was already at the school gate by 12:30pm. I walking down to where we were to have the practical when I suddenly felt dizzy. I couldn't go further. I felt like if I did, I would faint. My heart started beating fast again and I felt shortness of breath but nobody noticed so I just turned and went back to the hostel. When I got my room I just cried and thought to myself "abi people for my village no want make I finish school?". Then I rebuked the thought and called my mum.
She was sick at that time and was admitted in another state about 2hours' bus ride. She told me to come over. I just packed somethings, not forgetting my bible, and left for the park. When I got to the hospital, they ran a test or two and said I had malaria. I didn't even bother to tell the doctor anything because I felt she might think I was crazy. I just let the treat malaria. They wanted to finish me with injections.
On my bed that night, I went through my Rhapsody bible and discovered an article by pastor Chris (page 654) "A very present help". It was just talking about fears, I was so happy to have seen it. I started reading psalm 91 everyday! I stayed in the hospital for 5days. I missed practical, tests and assignments. It was really bad because it affected my grade.
My brother came to take my mum and I home. I felt very dizzy, aftermath of plenty injections. I said to myself "I don't just any doctor, I need a shrink". I started browsing about phobias. I studied phobias more than my physics books. I wanted to know everything about them. We had free WIFI as at that time in my school so I always went to school with my ipod touch to browse and read about phobias. I started noticing that I didn't like being locked up in a room or being in closed spaces. I hated going to the bank because of the security door. I would say to my friends "if this door wastes one more second I might pass out". I just avoided tight and closed places, then I realised it was actually claustrophobia and not agoraphobia! Thanks to my browsing. I am sure 'Google' got tired of my search that period. Through my research, I got to know that millions of people have the same problems home and abroad. That was how I was able to conquer my fear. I haven't had a panic attack since I identified my problem and started avoiding what will trigger it. I even thought I would have a panic attack in NYSC camp because it felt like prison. Lol. But it didn't happen.

There are so many people who go through panic attack due to phobias but they don't even know it. You are half cured when you identify your problem and know that you are not the only one who has it. I remember the immigration recruitment test last year and I shiver with the knowledge that so many of them would have been claustrophobic or agoraphobic but didn't know it!
Holly wood actress, Whoopy Goldberg doesn't like being on a plane because she is aviophobic. Pete Edochie of Nollywood hates to fly because he's claustrophobic and can't be in an enclosed place. As for me, i'm still wondering if i'll be able to fly someday. I don't use elevators. I stay out of trouble because I don't want to ever be in a cell or worse still, a Nigerian prison. It has really affected me because I prefer to take long bus rides instead of flights.
There are worse phobias. I have read about Tokophobia which is the fear of pregnancy! The thought of a child growing in them makes them panic. There is also Xenophobia which is the fear of strangers or foreigners! They just hate meeting new people. I opened this thread to create little awareness of these problems.

My name is Flora. I'm a physicist and i'm Claustrophobic. Thanks for reading.

Marc9:
Smile...

Well, maybe it didn't occur to you there are now two stomachs to feed. It's quite normal for pregnant ladies to experince elevated orexia(appetite).

So, your hyperphagy(hunger) is due to the pregnancy, and not due to worm infestation.

Don't worry, you and your preg will be just fine. Eat all the good foods and nourishment you can!

tnx doc, *hug*

Marc9:
Why didn't u take the worm expeller before you took in?

Well, antihelminthic is contra-indicated in pregnancy. So, don't take it!

thanks for replying! Well I didn't remember to take it bfore now because I didn't feel the need to (my mistake). I'm just guessing worm because I feel hungry too much, maybe it's just the preg. But it just feels like when I used to have worm issues before now

Hi Doc, can a preggy woman (8weeks) take worm expellant?

Old joke! *yawns*

valmunich:
I don't know why I have this feeling that this dude is lying

bro u took the words right out of my mouth! Lwkm. He interviewed himself.

Make she use the money go enhance her neck!

mulattoclaro:
The main reason cos igbos are the criminal class in Nigeria. Not endorsing ethnic cleansing But if Nigerians want to end corruption and hard life, getting rid of the igbos would be a major step.

big fool on the loose!

Donjazzy and Dr sid. Abeg I love them combined

kestolove95:
Dix nneka na corrct babe...d only problem b sai...she b igbo...nneka. na d. Name azkiwe gej dey use deceive ur illiterates brother for. East o...dats y. we. Tell dem to go skool. Dem no gree. Sai na bizness dem go do

you be big foool. But u just nor know yet! South West Ediot.

Juliets mouth is bent to one side. Even when she talks!

Double the wahala