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sosa993:
Like someone said involve ministry of women affairs or find all these agencies that fight for women’s right. Although fourteen is too young to start a relationship but you were also 16 then which means it’s a young love.

I met my partner at the age of 18 too and he was 21 (we met 9 years ago) and we are getting married this year.



I love young love but please while fighting to stop her from marrying, please be safe too.


Your girlfriend needs to be monitored too. Suicide is scary and I wish I could have a one on one talk with her. Really sorry about that.

I cried while begging her before she opened up to me that she has bought more than enough sleep inducing tablets and she wants to take all at once so as to end everything �

IamHonourable1:
Is it pushing the write up to front page you want or solution to this menace.Pls let that girl quickly go to ministry of women affairs and make a complaint.That is the kind of some useless fathers we have these days.

please sir
how do I contact them

BlueAir:
Geez virginity is important but can never be more important than her fundamental rights or happiness. .it definitely selling her out if not the father wont threaten to kick her and her siblings out as if they are a big financial burden for him

she's still a virgin
that guy is a pervert

MARKone:
OP what you need now, and with the support of her siblings is to stabilise her emotionally and mentally, this one she is talking about suicide. Like you've been rightly told, let her with her siblings who support her or mother preferably, go social welfare or dept of women affairs and make case there. You are still too young to involve yourself in this kind of thing, it can get messy, make a tactical withdrawal, while not complicating things for the girl, I repeat, you are still too young. Leave love for now and focus on your self and future.

thank you very much sir

Wiifesnatcher:
what a weird situation


you've been enjoying her pussy since she was 14yrs without paying any price and you want a parent who trained a child not to rather marry her off since they know she had become olosho at early age?

I'm sure her dad must be aware of her wayward life, what should a 14yrs old lady be doing in relationship? even at 17 she should still be talking about friendship/date and not relationship


your heart broken because no girl might give out the pussy as she had been doing for 3yrs but unfortunately for you her father have the final says as she's still minor


no be today northerners dey marry their daughter off, whether they're Christian/Muslims their low mentality is the same

stop saying rubbish
you have a dirty mind and not everyone is like you
we have never gotten intimate for once since we knew each other

solmus:
she is no longer a virgin, she wasnt forced into sex she decided to have it at 14, her father can as well make the sex a legal one through marriage to the responsible one who can cater for her

sorry to burst your bubble
she is a virgin

bonnyhope:
You should be arrested for being going out with under age girl

You claim you love her because she is giving you sex and now you are in pain because she want to legalise her sex life with another man who can take care of her

what are you saying
we've never seen each other's unclothedness before
you think everyone is corrupt or spoilt �

jeff1607:
is that the reason to date or sleep with a minor?

forcing an underage into marriage is bad but what is worse ,is if she gets preggy by you? which is worse?

I know what you're thinking but trust me
we dare not go there

Tonyfx:
You've been dating her for 3years (since she was 14yrs) and she's the last, that means she must have been disobeying her father because of you and the man is fed up and wants her to marry since its man that is her problem. So you probably are the cause of her problem.

her father knows nothing about us
only her older siblings

jeff1607:
Exkiss me please , you have a what together?
can u feed her?
can you handle her emotional needs
can you protect her
can you cater for kids coming in

Do you have a roof over your head?
will you be able to sponsor her education?

is that a reason for her to marry at that age?at 17!!!!

PrimadonnaO:
That's why her father thinks she's ready for marriage. She's got three years' experience. She'll learn the rest on the "job."

@OP Isn't there anyone else in her family who is enlightened and can step in talk to her father?

the older ones talked to the man but. he insisted she must marry the man from Kaduna
she's the last born �

Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life

she's not a Muslim and we have a future together

joshjc:
Hmm,tell her to go to ministry of women affairs and report her dad
So you and your girlfriend started dating at the age of 16 and 14,you need serious flogging

I know but about what you're thinking
we don't go close to it

Good morning Nairalanders

This has been eating me up for days. Me and this girl have been together for 3 years now, she's 17 and I'm 19.

I accept all bashings for being in a relationship at this age, she's the last born though and we perfectly understand each other.

Now her father is forcing her to marry a man in Kaduna, she refused and the father threatened to throw her and her siblings including the mum out into the streets or send them to the village if she doesn't marry the man.

Now she hasn't even for days now and she's contemplating on taking her life and she just told me about this yesterday and this has brought me down so much. I don't know what to do, I need help. This is about her future, I don't want her to be forced to become a mother at 17 and living under a man she doesn't know.

She has only three weeks before the man comes to take her away.
My girlfriend is being sold into marriage and I don't know what to do.

I need help, I'm heartbroken��
I don't know who can help me push this to front page