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I agree with you Sade, the looking before you leap thing is definitely the right thing to do. falling for strangers too quickly is not a good idea. Females take note.

Yes I would date an older girl. I don't feel the most compelling arguments are that of respect and control. I believe in equality in relationships and mutual effort towards its success.

To me (an I have been in a relationship with an older girl) it is all about being able to communicate with that person, some people just naturally connect with older people and sometimes you just find that that special person with whom you communicate very well and can't live without just happens to be older.

If I find that special someone, her age will not play that important a role, I would give the relationship a chance (as good a chance as any)

Its true that men get hurt when they are in love (or sometimes when they just like a girl a lot) but the truth is that society is conditioned to believe that (1) women are more susceptible to getting hurt and falling in and out of love and (2) men are always the guilty party or the party doing the hurting.

I have personally got hurt in a relationship and I must say as a guy I have not gotten much sympathy if any at all.

Though Dr. Love seems to understand what he is talking about, I cannot help but point out one very important fact. Knowing all these things about women, girls, ladies, the average guy claims ignorance.

The truth is that most ladies are known for very poor choices when it comes to guys, especially in the early stages of their dating lives. Its important a girl to know who you are and what you expect and to really try to get to know guys before you start going out with them.

Perhaps the ladies should make better choices in guys and guys should be more sympathetic (because they are always aware of these emotions and promote them for selfish needs).

Indeed all meaningful relationships are painful, but its all about degrees, love is painful, but can be great!

Hey guys, I believe that love and companionship can be found in strange places. True, must of those who are on this sites are either insincere, fraudulent or not conventionally good looking, but we must remember that matters of the heart are all about chance (sometimes a very small chance) and it is for that small chance of success in any relationship that we persevere through the hard times sometimes going through the unthinkable!

Rather than condemn them and believe all their stories and intentions to be false I think we should look at ways of improving their effectiveness in achieving a very important objective, helping people meet people which is the first part of anything which may eventually become special.

There are so many foreign comedies that are really great, unfortunately most of them are on dstv which is just sad. I personally love

Six feet under - Its amazing how a series set around a funeral home could be so funny!
Malcom in the middle - excellent to watch
Joey - Not as good as friends, but a good substitute with quite a number of laughs
Two and a half men - you'll definitely laugh at this one
Half and Half - They are all insane especially the mothers
Eve - good all fashioned black comedy, not too bad or as bad as some judge it
Scrubs - One of my personal favourites, highly original, extremely funny, I have seasons 1-3 on dvd, its insane, you'll nearly die laughing.

Can't think of the others right now, but one things for sure, there are good shows out there