You are just a weak man. There a 1000 ways to deal with a woman and humble her. Dm me for strategies.😎
Plus4you: Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like. The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'. I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?
Don't transfer your aggression on your parents. You must exist that was why you were born. God ordained your birth. Rather blame yourself for voting disasters into office and still supporting them them with hungry stomach. Those who vote bad leaders are not victims but accomplices.
Sirchiboy: We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today. As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married. Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government. You are worse than the devil himself.
Be grateful to God. He just delivered you from a liability husband.
Prettygirl200: According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.
Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.
I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.
YOU WASTED YOUR MONEY ON NIGERIA. Something your government should do. Moreso, go and see that place in the next two and see how Hausa will bastardize it with their lack of maintenance culture.
money121: The two classrooms block constructed by Miss Rahila Garba.
A member of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) in Bauchi state, Miss Rahila Garba, has constructed and inaugurated a block of two classrooms worth N3.5 million in Gudun Hausawa Primary School, a suburb of Bauchi metropolis.
During the inauguration of the project, yesterday, the corps member, who was serving in the Office of the Bauchi State Head of Civil Service, said the project was part of her Community Development Service (CDS), adding that it was solely financed by Habibu Engineering Nigeria Limited. According to her, the idea to embark on such a project came after she visited some schools and found out how conducive the pupils were in class.
She said the primary school caught her attention, when she visited the school and realised that the already existing structure was dilapidated while the pupils were sitting under the tree to learn.
She said: “It was this horrible experience that gave birth to the idea for the construction of additional classrooms. At first, it was not easy to bring this idea to life considering my financial status. But because I was determined and so passionate to see that this project comes to life, I decided to make some consultations of what it will cost for the construction of the entire project and I began to shuttle here and there seeking approval and doing some paperwork.”
“Finally, I got the approval of Habibu Engineering Nigeria Limited for sponsorship. I am proudly saying that this project today is completed and it will be officially commissioned to commence class activities here.”
She called on the state government and well-to-do individuals to help in providing the school with chairs and other furniture.
Public Relations Officer, Habibu Engineering Nigeria Limited, Salmanu Baba, said the project, estimated at about N3.5 million, was completed within 39 days.
Bauchi Coordinator of NYSC, Mrs Rifkatu Yakubu, said corps members had been encouraged by the scheme to integrate with their host communities to find out their challenges and proffer solutions where necessary.
Caretaker Chairperson of Bauchi Local Council, Mrs Zainab Baba-Takko, lauded Garba for embarking on the project and promised that the state government would commence renovation of other parts as well as provide the chairs she requested.
Good one from Tinubu. Buhari just filled everywhere with incompetent Hausa Fulani. Am not a fan of Tinubu. But for these one thing he is doing I love it. No more Nepotism
doneback04: I am 29year and I am still eating my fingers and I don't find it funny but most times I just find my hand inside my mouth and right now I am looking for a possible solution on how to stop it permanently,
Amputation: If all the suggestion above doesn't work for you!
WHY DON'T THEY DO SAME WHENEVER THERE IS A MASSACRE IN SOUTHERN KADUNA...... How many hundreds of people killed in southern KADUNA, they will pretend as if the people killed in southern Kaduna are not human beings.
Take it easy, don't let negativity ruin your life.
The country needs come hard on importers with a sledge hammer. The importers turn the country to a dumping site for all sort of goods that can be locally manufactured which leads to a high level of import forex scarcity.
When Dangote starts refined crude production, inflation on crude prices would go down which would also help in bringing down overall inflation. Which will also drive down interest rate on lending.
You are a fool and very insensitive to the plight of people.
Peterpanny: This man is the highest televised miracle fraudster in Nigeria. There is nothing like miracle, almost all those miracle you watch this fraudster performing on televised stage are pure organize fake miracle
Pastor Chris that your so call God will judge you.
You are just a bitter soul. You will rot in your condition. You will never experience a miracle in your lifetime. Go on with your struggles. Miracles still happen to all who believe God.
Did Peter Obi Fvck your mother? what is this madness of cornering every conversation to Peter Obi.... or you choose to be a fool all your life just because of the 30k they are paying you to be an online witch. Kilode! Please represent your tribe positively. You should be ashame of yourself.
Kingrshd3: This is what Pit Obi should have done when he was around similar age instead of finding difficult times or problems with any new policies tilumbuubu took for the development of the country..
LET THE RICH MARRY THE RICH AND THE POOR MARRY THE POOR.....Una no go here word....marry your type if you are not ready to suffer either emotionally or materially. You are world apart. Don't inflict her with poverty ooo..... Package her and deliver her to her family while there is still time......
Love kill you there!!!
Mhistasaints: I've been married for four years now, and it seems my wife has become a stranger.
We've been having issues from the first year, mostly on different styles of life. I am a guy who loves managing resources and very focused on achievements because I was born with a silver spoon but lost it due to the death of my father, I never wanted to experience the same thing as I did when he died. She on the other hand is comfortable and okay with what she has, not too bothered about achievements.
I've been calling for management of resources for a while but she's the type that grew up in a very comfortable home and knows not how to manage resources.
Another issue on my part is that, she does not really care about how she looks and that's one of the things I care about.
I lost, or should I say resigned from my first job due to pressure and things became hard. I had to sell some of my landed properties so we could survive.
I got another Job and in six months, I made millions. We lived well until I wanted to chase my passion in banking again.
Got back into banking and to cut the story short, I met one lady where I was sent to. I loved her. I wish I had met her first honestly. In a year, she showed me a lot in the kind of woman I wanted. Then I lost my job again, this time because I wanted to go for youth service.
I got back home and I told my wife the game plan. I bought foodstuffs for at least two months and went for camp. In less than a week, my mother called me and was angry why I left my wife and two kids hungry. I exeated camp immediately and came back home. After investigating, I found out she sent the food to her mother who is an associate professor, without telling me and while she knows out conditions.
I got so angry. I wanted her out. I considered things because my second child which she had by force is just 5months. She had the baby because she stopped taking contraceptives because of advice from people that if she has a male child for me, I'll stay. After much, she can't leave, because who will take care of the boy?
Yesterday, she read my messages and discovered I was having an affair and wants to leave. I told the lady off this morning but, I still loved her.
I can't allow that. Even if she does, she has to wait for the boy to be at least a year old. Remember she was the one that wanted this baby, not me. Now she wants to leave the liability for me? And I can't allow my kids to grow with her because I don't want them to learn such lifestyle.
E be like say you never chop. Hungry dey worry you for your to be thinking this way..... I blame Tinubu shaaa
providencia: NIN is an identification number given to Nigerian citizens only. Linking it to phone numbers and deactivating phone numbers not linked means only Nigeria citizens is eligible to use a sim card in Nigeria. What about those who are on ; -Visitors visa -Tourist visa -Permanent resident -Student visas And other categories of visas.
On a norm, these people are not suppose to have a NIN. So how do we expect them to make or receive calls. It doesn't make sense to force anyone to roam. We are not in North Korea for crying out loud
You are sick in the Brian. Was it emefele that was refusing the order or buhari? I can see buhari spell of innocence is still working on you? where not aware when emefele was going to aso rock to give buhari update
YOU ARE A GOAT.....EWU
fadsam: Every common man in Nigeria will vividly remember how Emefiele refused to obey court order during cashless policy irrespective of whether he's being ordered to do so or not, a honest & honourable fellow would have simply resign if he is being used as an instrument to put masses under severe economic torture which led to several loss of lives and also desregard rule of law via court order. Emefiele that is deaf to court order during his cashless policy,he too should be kept in DSS custody against court order, what goes around must comes around for him.
What kind of nonsense is that. Upon all the scarcity of husband
Humblelion1987: Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice. I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.
When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.
She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.
I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.
Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?
STAY WITH SOCIAL WORK. It's an an asset for NGO WORK
Meritjoshua: I applied for political science in unilorin during 2022 Utme but i was transferred to social work early this month.(it was due to their slow calendar and the strike) i felt bad because social work sound lesser than political science. so my question is which one is better between the two?
Moment VP Kashim Shettima insists former President Muhammadu Buhari sits on his seat out of respect In Borno State as they both attended the solemnization of marriage of Governor Zulum's Son.
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