WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS FOOLISH? DID YOU INHERIT FROM YOUR PARENT?
Zxcvbnmghtr: You will see how the ONLY confused tribe of Nigeria, Africa and the world at large will be talking about Buhari as if it is Buhari and not Jibrin Alsudan. Insinuating all kinds of fantasies all over again. In their Imagination, as expected from them, they are planning against Tinubu.
Let us still ask them. Is this Buhari or Jibrin Alsudan?!
It is you that is dillusioned... since he didn't tell you so... you are not a mind reader.....f.oooool
LastProphet: In the pastor's mind the Wigwes didn't have enough anointing, or they were not just having enough grace like him and his beautiful 60yr old wife, otherwise they shouldn't have perished like that. That's why they had no empathy to feel for the Wigwes. The moment you meet anyone that thinks they have a special sort of grace on their head, remind the dullard that they will never have half the grace of Myles Munroe and yet he perished like the Wigwes. The worst foooolishness is self delusion
Ewu.... The same you campaigning that people should stop paying tithe blablabla....
Your daughter must marry pastor... weather you like it or not.
Daejumong: General overseers need to treat local church pastors the way Jesus treated his disciples !
The average salary of a pastor in Nigeria is 30,000 to 40,000 Naira ( 30-40USD) a month! How can a pastor with a family survive on this? With the prevailing conditions in the country, GOs need to up their pay. These pastors are crying and unhappy ! Many of them work full time and don’t have any other source of income!
These pastors have to also ensure that a large percentage of income generated in church through tithes and offerings are sent to the headquarters on a weekly basis! I have had some of these devoted pastors tell me how they feel sad that the headquarters takes almost everything and they have little or nothing to run their local churches!
I find this preposterous, someone slaves away to build a local ministry and sends almost everything to the headquarters for the big boy at the top to live large with his family! GOs are not more important, special or better than any child of God.
Gal 3: 28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female; for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.
The General overseers in the headquarters fly private jets, drive bulletproof luxury cars and live a life of luxury while the foot soldiers( pastors in local churches) wallow in poverty! Jesus was difficult to separate from his disciples because they had the same quality of life hence the need to have a Judas betray him when the time arose.
I am looking forward to a time when it will be difficult to separate pastors of local branches from the GOs. A time when they will all wear same quality of suits, drive same quality of cars, have access to fly the private jets and also have same quality of life! That is when I will be convinced the GOs really want to be like Jesus!
All in all, General overseers need to be more considerate and put less financial pressure on their pastor foot soldiers. They should also pay them decent salaries(minimum of 100k/mth and ensure the financial gap between them and their pastors is significantly narrowed! Mark 10:43-45 43 But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, 44 and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of everyone else. 45 For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.
Matheusmartin: .... God can deal with the billionaires that decided to ask how the church spent their hard earned tithes,but couldn't deal with the abductors of Leah Sharibu
Many will the surprise to see papa in the deepest part of hell, but I wouldn't.
This IDIOTS are still insisting on become popular by this guy's death. I BLAME THE FOOLISH MODERATORS that keep pushing all this stale mobad story...... No body is reading it sef...
One thing with Yoruba people is that the way they have kpomo mouth, that is how they talk without courtesy. There are better ways to say the same thing.... Big Bad mouth...is the trade mark
She is manipulating you to always do her bidding. Hold your mind one day and tell her to leave. Insist on it. Make her and her people beg. Then the nonsense will stop. Who have the time for second hand wey original full everywhere!
Valoromega: I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave. she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.
I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
You are actually under a curse. You should be ashame of your self.
T0T0Vulcanizer: Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.
While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.
To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.
I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.
Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.
You can abandoned a woman cos of bad character and being troublesome, but NEVER NEVER ABANDONE YOUR CHILDREN.
lagostrendboy: Mother of three finds out husband faked his death, remarries in America
A mother of three children from Nigeria describes how her spouse pretended to be dead and began a new life with another woman after traveling to the United States for cancer treatment.
Relationship counselor Dr. Gbadebo Adeoye posted the heartbreaking tale on his Instagram page after hearing the woman’s anonymous account.
The woman claimed that her husband refused to let her go to the United States with him, using their property as collateral and selling all they owned to pay for his medical treatment.
He texted his wife after the procedure to let her know that he might not make it through; sure enough, the next thing he knew was that he had passed away. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
However, she eventually found out that he intentionally abandoned her and their three children to start a new life with another woman. How I found out my husband faked his death, remarried in America
“My husband was taken to the US for cancer treatment. He won’t allow me to go with him. His sister went with him. Despite being told that he had passed away and was buried in America, I later found out that he was alive and married to another woman, and had sold everything we both worked for, leaving me and my three kids with nothing.
“However, I have come to accept the situation and have chosen to focus on the positive aspects of my life. I am grateful for my children, and for the fact that we have a roof over our heads and are living with my supportive sister in Badagry. I also recently got a job, which has enabled me to move back to Lagos and start afresh.
I have decided to let go of the hurt and pain that my husband’s actions caused me, and instead focus on building a better future for myself and my children. I am confident that with hard work and determination, we will be able to overcome this difficult situation and come out stronger on the other side. In 2017 they sent me pics of his funeral to fool me. I almost walk into the bush.”
Mother of three finds out husband faked his death, remarries in America
Uncivilized fellow. You belong to the village. You think the world revolves around your stupid opinion. They have left you behind. You are a blocked deleted fellow who thinks in he is relevant.
Sometimes they use such place for illegal activities like storing weapons, making dynamites, rubber rice, etc. I think the government should search that place very very well for secret entrance to tunnels, hacking equipment, gun factory, monitoring gadgets, drugs etc
CHINESE ARE EVIL OOO
jmoore: Was the supermarket setup to even make profit?
How many Chinese dey for Abuja compared to Nigerians?
Hausa man will alway be foolish no matter how old. They think every child is dull as theirs. When will they stop under age almajiri loitering the streets in the north. Why will they stop the under age marriage ? Hypocrites. Have they solve the problem of strike? The Nigerian education usually take a nose dive in any administration where Hausa man in minister of Education.... Pls southern here don't be DECIEVED to keep your child at home till 18 ooo. They can do online studies of foreign countries.... Nigeria is not serious about any policy. Any government smoker can wake up and make any statement and ignorant bloggers will say the FG say...... NIGERIA IS GONE
Mastermindfixu: My girlfriend and I have been together a little over a year, and it's always been rocky. We've broken up many times (almost always me with her) but then we end up back together in a few days. She has never hit me until today, and then suddenly slapped me after she held my shirt and pinned me against the wall. FYI - I did nothing to her in retaliation . However, I feel pained and disappointed by her action.
Reason - she saw me with a lady who was supposed to apply for the post of a chef at our residence and thought I was having an affair .
I explained myself and next best thing she said to me was that she is done with the relationship.
Beauty4brain: How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.
NairaOcean: A young woman lost her life in a shocking incident of envy that turned deadly. On the joyful occasion of the grand opening of her beauty parlor, a celebration with close friends took a sinister turn when one of them allegedly poisoned her.
The victim, had been eagerly preparing for the opening of her dream beauty parlor for months. Friends and well-wishers gathered at the newly adorned shop to celebrate this milestone in her life. Laughter and excitement filled the air as she welcomed guests with open arms.
However, amidst the celebration, tragedy unfolded. Sources revealed that one of her longtime friends, whose identity is not known, harbored feelings of envy towards her success. This jealousy reportedly led to an act of poisoning during the celebration.
I remembered this guy who was harassing one upcoming actress because she refused to greet him properly all in the ñame of being senior and old in the industry..... He said he was not going to act with her because of that.... Hmmm.... If you see the arrogance eeeh
Anyways..... RIP to the dead. We came with nothing.....we go with our works to the world unknown
Dapromzy333: Nollywood actor, Junior Pope Odonwodo popularly called, Jnr Pope is dead.
Bribe for grade?.... Medical student?.... How did he get the admission?.... How did he passed his waec?.... He would have turned out to be a quack doctor..... God just saved one future patient that would have become victims of quackness.
Just like your prostitute mother couldn't abort you but gave birth to a mistake like you. If I lie show Us your father. You bastard... take your anger somewhere.... We are not the reason for you not knowing your father..... Lol. I know you very well and your history
wediehere1: Christianity is a joke itself because how can your God has mother and still gotten killed for thievery on across
YOU ARE VERY CONFUSED. May God give you or your children an abusive marriage...... Then you shall change your sermon.
Bible or your church doctrine
immortalcrown: Only incest is biblically acceptable for a divorce. But many people claim that the Bible permits divorce if adultery happens. Some people claim that the Bible supports divorce if any form of unfaithfulness occurs in the marriage.
If incest is not the biblical ground for a divorce, why did the disciples of Jesus Christ say what they said in Mathew 19:10? Read the chapter and pay attention to the verse 10. Then, tell me why the disciples made the statement.
The problem here is hypocrisy. People want to be here and there. People want to eat their cake and have it.
If you want to divorce your spouse when he or she offends you, avoid church wedding. Do your traditional marriage or any other form of marriage. The issue is that people want church wedding but don't want the cross that comes with church wedding. Church wedding vow says, "... until death do us part". Nobody is forcing you to choose the bible type of marriage. But if you willingly choose it and fail to maintain it, you are deceiving yourself.
Choose a tradition you can maintain. Don't deceive yourself with church wedding when you are not willing to abide by its principles.
Many people are quoting me. Before you argue with me, read the article below. 👇🏽
I think the right question should be, did Jesus Permit divorce? Did God permit divorce? In other words, are you even allowed to divorce before you start talking about whether it is a sin or not?
The straight answer is that Jesus never permitted divorce. Once marriage is validly contracted, even adultery as some of you wrongly allege is not a ground for divorce.
I know this whole misunderstanding is coming from Jesus' statement in Matthew 19:9. I will clarify it. But before then, I am not writing this to give people a license to cheat on their spouses. As a matter of fact, you owe your spouse fidelity and faithfulness. It is their right. You are not doing them a favor by being faithful.
Back to Matthew 19:9 where it seemed Jesus gave an exception for divorce:
"Whoever divorces his wife except for unchastity and marries another commits adultery."
The exceptive clause, "EXCEPT FOR UNCHASTITY" is the major issue here. Simply put, unchastity is a good reason to divorce one's spouse.
You may want to ask, what constitutes 'unchastity?' We shall get to know soon.
We all remember that the New Testament was originally written in Greek bah?
The Greek word for unchastity is "PORNEIA." The Protestants argue that this Greek word "porneia" means adultery. This is why if you read the Protestant New International Version of the Bible, Matthew 19:9 is translated thus:
"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS, and marries another woman commits adultery."
For most Protestants, though marriage is meant to last a lifetime, but adultery justifies divorce and remarriage. This is because they interpreted the Greek word "porneia" or "unchastity" as adultery.
This is not true. And this is not Catholic teaching.
Catholic biblical scholars believe that it is wrong to translate the Greek word "porneia" as adultery. In the Catholic New American Bible, Matthew 19:9 is translated thus:
"I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery."
Here, the exceptive clause is: "UNLAWFUL MARRIAGE."
If you read the King James Version of the Bible, the translation for PORNEIA is even more interesting. It translates Matthew 19:9 thus:
"And I say unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another committeth adultery."
Here, the exceptive clause is Fornication. And fornication is the sin of two unmarried people having sexual intercourse. If either person is married or both are married to other people, the sin is called adultery. Following this translation, the only way that a couple could commit fornication is if they were never really in a Christian marriage to begin with.
Many recent translations of porneia in Matt 19:9 used "sexual immoralities." That still begs the question of what sexual immoralities could mean.
In all these, what really is the correct translation for the word PORNEIA? Is it the Protestants' "adultery", the King James' "fornication", or the Catholics' "Unlawful marriage"? Even if porneia is to be seen as unchastity or sexual immoralities, what constitutes unchastity?
The answer to the above questions can be better clarified using the bible. I will give you two examples: Matthew 15:19 and Mark 7:21-22.
Matthew 15:19 "For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, ADULTERY, UNCHASTITY, theft, false witness, blasphemy."
Mark 7:21-22, "From within people, from their hearts, come evil thoughts, UNCHASTITY, theft, murder, ADULTERY, greed, malice, deceit, licentiousness, envy, blasphemy, arrogance, folly."
Pay attention to this: Adultery and unchastity are both prohibited in the texts above. If you read the Greek text, it is "porneia" that is translated as unchastity, in some bible it is translated as sexual immorality. While the Greek word "moicheia" is translated as adultery. Therefore, from these passages, we can see that porneia does not mean adultery as that would be an unnecessary repetition.
The word for adultery in Greek is 'moicheia.' If the author of Matthew 19:9 felt that Christ was talking about adultery, he wouldn't have used 'porneia' which means unchastity.
I have put into capital letters two words: πορνείᾳ (porneia) and μοιχᾶται (moichatai — verb form)
If the Bible intended that adultery is a ground for divorce, the two words would have been moicheia. And it will read thus: "I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for ADULTERY, and marries another woman commits ADULTERY."
But fortunately or unfortunately, that is not how it was written in the Bible.
If you read Act 15:28-29, the Apostles addressed the Gentiles prohibiting four things:
"For it has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us to lay upon you no greater burden than these necessary things: that you abstain (1) from what has been sacrificed to idols, and (2) from blood and (3) from what is strangled and (4) from unchastity. If you keep yourselves from these, you will do well. Farewell." RSV (inserted numbers, mine)
Take note of the number (4), still talking about Porneia or Unchastity. These four prohibitions above came from a deep-rooted Jewish tradition found in Leviticus 17 and 18.
If you read Leviticus through, you will discover that in chapter 18, what the Jews mean by unchastity or Porneia was explicitly explained. It was simply an incestuous marriage. Having sexual intercourse with a close relative was greatly forbidden, not to talk of marriage. For the Jews, marriage of this nature is unlawful. This was what Christ was referring to in Matthew 19:9. It is a reference to an unlawful and thus invalid marriage. It is not a reference, as Protestants view it, to a specific act committed during a legitimate "life-long marriage.
Jesus' teaching on divorce was revolutionary. Remember that it was to answer the Jews who thought that one could divorce his wife for some reasons that made Jesus to give the answer he gave. If Jesus permitted divorce, what then makes his teaching different from the one Moses taught the Jews in the OT?
If Christ's teaching on divorce was that simple, how can one explain the surprise that surrounded the disciples when they responded in the next verse?
Matthew 19: 10, "(His) disciples said to him, 'If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.'"
Beazysledge: Over saturated pictures.... gombe na very dry arid land and hot humid with the biggest flies I have ever seen in my life can't reside there....tho things cheap die and electricity constant