Matheusmartin: .... God can deal with the billionaires that decided to ask how the church spent their hard earned tithes,but couldn't deal with the abductors of Leah Sharibu
Many will the surprise to see papa in the deepest part of hell, but I wouldn't.
This IDIOTS are still insisting on become popular by this guy's death. I BLAME THE FOOLISH MODERATORS that keep pushing all this stale mobad story...... No body is reading it sef...
One thing with Yoruba people is that the way they have kpomo mouth, that is how they talk without courtesy. There are better ways to say the same thing.... Big Bad mouth...is the trade mark
She is manipulating you to always do her bidding. Hold your mind one day and tell her to leave. Insist on it. Make her and her people beg. Then the nonsense will stop. Who have the time for second hand wey original full everywhere!
Valoromega: I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave. she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.
I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
You are actually under a curse. You should be ashame of your self.
T0T0Vulcanizer: Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021.
While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive... late night clubbing...enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!.
To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house.
I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.
Notes: I have tennants and could easily drive one and pack in but it's almost same thing.
You can abandoned a woman cos of bad character and being troublesome, but NEVER NEVER ABANDONE YOUR CHILDREN.
lagostrendboy: Mother of three finds out husband faked his death, remarries in America
A mother of three children from Nigeria describes how her spouse pretended to be dead and began a new life with another woman after traveling to the United States for cancer treatment.
Relationship counselor Dr. Gbadebo Adeoye posted the heartbreaking tale on his Instagram page after hearing the woman’s anonymous account.
The woman claimed that her husband refused to let her go to the United States with him, using their property as collateral and selling all they owned to pay for his medical treatment.
He texted his wife after the procedure to let her know that he might not make it through; sure enough, the next thing he knew was that he had passed away. Eyes Of Lagos reports,
However, she eventually found out that he intentionally abandoned her and their three children to start a new life with another woman. How I found out my husband faked his death, remarried in America
“My husband was taken to the US for cancer treatment. He won’t allow me to go with him. His sister went with him. Despite being told that he had passed away and was buried in America, I later found out that he was alive and married to another woman, and had sold everything we both worked for, leaving me and my three kids with nothing.
“However, I have come to accept the situation and have chosen to focus on the positive aspects of my life. I am grateful for my children, and for the fact that we have a roof over our heads and are living with my supportive sister in Badagry. I also recently got a job, which has enabled me to move back to Lagos and start afresh.
I have decided to let go of the hurt and pain that my husband’s actions caused me, and instead focus on building a better future for myself and my children. I am confident that with hard work and determination, we will be able to overcome this difficult situation and come out stronger on the other side. In 2017 they sent me pics of his funeral to fool me. I almost walk into the bush.”
Mother of three finds out husband faked his death, remarries in America
Uncivilized fellow. You belong to the village. You think the world revolves around your stupid opinion. They have left you behind. You are a blocked deleted fellow who thinks in he is relevant.
Sometimes they use such place for illegal activities like storing weapons, making dynamites, rubber rice, etc. I think the government should search that place very very well for secret entrance to tunnels, hacking equipment, gun factory, monitoring gadgets, drugs etc
CHINESE ARE EVIL OOO
jmoore: Was the supermarket setup to even make profit?
How many Chinese dey for Abuja compared to Nigerians?
Hausa man will alway be foolish no matter how old. They think every child is dull as theirs. When will they stop under age almajiri loitering the streets in the north. Why will they stop the under age marriage ? Hypocrites. Have they solve the problem of strike? The Nigerian education usually take a nose dive in any administration where Hausa man in minister of Education.... Pls southern here don't be DECIEVED to keep your child at home till 18 ooo. They can do online studies of foreign countries.... Nigeria is not serious about any policy. Any government smoker can wake up and make any statement and ignorant bloggers will say the FG say...... NIGERIA IS GONE
Mastermindfixu: My girlfriend and I have been together a little over a year, and it's always been rocky. We've broken up many times (almost always me with her) but then we end up back together in a few days. She has never hit me until today, and then suddenly slapped me after she held my shirt and pinned me against the wall. FYI - I did nothing to her in retaliation . However, I feel pained and disappointed by her action.
Reason - she saw me with a lady who was supposed to apply for the post of a chef at our residence and thought I was having an affair .
I explained myself and next best thing she said to me was that she is done with the relationship.
Beauty4brain: How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.
NairaOcean: A young woman lost her life in a shocking incident of envy that turned deadly. On the joyful occasion of the grand opening of her beauty parlor, a celebration with close friends took a sinister turn when one of them allegedly poisoned her.
The victim, had been eagerly preparing for the opening of her dream beauty parlor for months. Friends and well-wishers gathered at the newly adorned shop to celebrate this milestone in her life. Laughter and excitement filled the air as she welcomed guests with open arms.
However, amidst the celebration, tragedy unfolded. Sources revealed that one of her longtime friends, whose identity is not known, harbored feelings of envy towards her success. This jealousy reportedly led to an act of poisoning during the celebration.
I remembered this guy who was harassing one upcoming actress because she refused to greet him properly all in the ñame of being senior and old in the industry..... He said he was not going to act with her because of that.... Hmmm.... If you see the arrogance eeeh
Anyways..... RIP to the dead. We came with nothing.....we go with our works to the world unknown
Dapromzy333: Nollywood actor, Junior Pope Odonwodo popularly called, Jnr Pope is dead.
Bribe for grade?.... Medical student?.... How did he get the admission?.... How did he passed his waec?.... He would have turned out to be a quack doctor..... God just saved one future patient that would have become victims of quackness.
Just like your prostitute mother couldn't abort you but gave birth to a mistake like you. If I lie show Us your father. You bastard... take your anger somewhere.... We are not the reason for you not knowing your father..... Lol. I know you very well and your history
wediehere1: Christianity is a joke itself because how can your God has mother and still gotten killed for thievery on across
YOU ARE VERY CONFUSED. May God give you or your children an abusive marriage...... Then you shall change your sermon.
Bible or your church doctrine
immortalcrown: Only incest is biblically acceptable for a divorce. But many people claim that the Bible permits divorce if adultery happens. Some people claim that the Bible supports divorce if any form of unfaithfulness occurs in the marriage.
If incest is not the biblical ground for a divorce, why did the disciples of Jesus Christ say what they said in Mathew 19:10? Read the chapter and pay attention to the verse 10. Then, tell me why the disciples made the statement.
The problem here is hypocrisy. People want to be here and there. People want to eat their cake and have it.
If you want to divorce your spouse when he or she offends you, avoid church wedding. Do your traditional marriage or any other form of marriage. The issue is that people want church wedding but don't want the cross that comes with church wedding. Church wedding vow says, "... until death do us part". Nobody is forcing you to choose the bible type of marriage. But if you willingly choose it and fail to maintain it, you are deceiving yourself.
Choose a tradition you can maintain. Don't deceive yourself with church wedding when you are not willing to abide by its principles.
Many people are quoting me. Before you argue with me, read the article below. 👇🏽
I think the right question should be, did Jesus Permit divorce? Did God permit divorce? In other words, are you even allowed to divorce before you start talking about whether it is a sin or not?
The straight answer is that Jesus never permitted divorce. Once marriage is validly contracted, even adultery as some of you wrongly allege is not a ground for divorce.
I know this whole misunderstanding is coming from Jesus' statement in Matthew 19:9. I will clarify it. But before then, I am not writing this to give people a license to cheat on their spouses. As a matter of fact, you owe your spouse fidelity and faithfulness. It is their right. You are not doing them a favor by being faithful.
Back to Matthew 19:9 where it seemed Jesus gave an exception for divorce:
"Whoever divorces his wife except for unchastity and marries another commits adultery."
The exceptive clause, "EXCEPT FOR UNCHASTITY" is the major issue here. Simply put, unchastity is a good reason to divorce one's spouse.
You may want to ask, what constitutes 'unchastity?' We shall get to know soon.
We all remember that the New Testament was originally written in Greek bah?
The Greek word for unchastity is "PORNEIA." The Protestants argue that this Greek word "porneia" means adultery. This is why if you read the Protestant New International Version of the Bible, Matthew 19:9 is translated thus:
"I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, EXCEPT FOR MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS, and marries another woman commits adultery."
For most Protestants, though marriage is meant to last a lifetime, but adultery justifies divorce and remarriage. This is because they interpreted the Greek word "porneia" or "unchastity" as adultery.
This is not true. And this is not Catholic teaching.
Catholic biblical scholars believe that it is wrong to translate the Greek word "porneia" as adultery. In the Catholic New American Bible, Matthew 19:9 is translated thus:
"I say to you, whoever divorces his wife (unless the marriage is unlawful) and marries another commits adultery."
Here, the exceptive clause is: "UNLAWFUL MARRIAGE."
If you read the King James Version of the Bible, the translation for PORNEIA is even more interesting. It translates Matthew 19:9 thus:
"And I say unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for FORNICATION, and shall marry another committeth adultery."
Here, the exceptive clause is Fornication. And fornication is the sin of two unmarried people having sexual intercourse. If either person is married or both are married to other people, the sin is called adultery. Following this translation, the only way that a couple could commit fornication is if they were never really in a Christian marriage to begin with.
Many recent translations of porneia in Matt 19:9 used "sexual immoralities." That still begs the question of what sexual immoralities could mean.
In all these, what really is the correct translation for the word PORNEIA? Is it the Protestants' "adultery", the King James' "fornication", or the Catholics' "Unlawful marriage"? Even if porneia is to be seen as unchastity or sexual immoralities, what constitutes unchastity?
The answer to the above questions can be better clarified using the bible. I will give you two examples: Matthew 15:19 and Mark 7:21-22.
Matthew 15:19 "For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, ADULTERY, UNCHASTITY, theft, false witness, blasphemy."
Mark 7:21-22, "From within people, from their hearts, come evil thoughts, UNCHASTITY, theft, murder, ADULTERY, greed, malice, deceit, licentiousness, envy, blasphemy, arrogance, folly."
Pay attention to this: Adultery and unchastity are both prohibited in the texts above. If you read the Greek text, it is "porneia" that is translated as unchastity, in some bible it is translated as sexual immorality. While the Greek word "moicheia" is translated as adultery. Therefore, from these passages, we can see that porneia does not mean adultery as that would be an unnecessary repetition.
The word for adultery in Greek is 'moicheia.' If the author of Matthew 19:9 felt that Christ was talking about adultery, he wouldn't have used 'porneia' which means unchastity.
I have put into capital letters two words: πορνείᾳ (porneia) and μοιχᾶται (moichatai — verb form)
If the Bible intended that adultery is a ground for divorce, the two words would have been moicheia. And it will read thus: "I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for ADULTERY, and marries another woman commits ADULTERY."
But fortunately or unfortunately, that is not how it was written in the Bible.
If you read Act 15:28-29, the Apostles addressed the Gentiles prohibiting four things:
"For it has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us to lay upon you no greater burden than these necessary things: that you abstain (1) from what has been sacrificed to idols, and (2) from blood and (3) from what is strangled and (4) from unchastity. If you keep yourselves from these, you will do well. Farewell." RSV (inserted numbers, mine)
Take note of the number (4), still talking about Porneia or Unchastity. These four prohibitions above came from a deep-rooted Jewish tradition found in Leviticus 17 and 18.
If you read Leviticus through, you will discover that in chapter 18, what the Jews mean by unchastity or Porneia was explicitly explained. It was simply an incestuous marriage. Having sexual intercourse with a close relative was greatly forbidden, not to talk of marriage. For the Jews, marriage of this nature is unlawful. This was what Christ was referring to in Matthew 19:9. It is a reference to an unlawful and thus invalid marriage. It is not a reference, as Protestants view it, to a specific act committed during a legitimate "life-long marriage.
Jesus' teaching on divorce was revolutionary. Remember that it was to answer the Jews who thought that one could divorce his wife for some reasons that made Jesus to give the answer he gave. If Jesus permitted divorce, what then makes his teaching different from the one Moses taught the Jews in the OT?
If Christ's teaching on divorce was that simple, how can one explain the surprise that surrounded the disciples when they responded in the next verse?
Matthew 19: 10, "(His) disciples said to him, 'If that is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.'"
Beazysledge: Over saturated pictures.... gombe na very dry arid land and hot humid with the biggest flies I have ever seen in my life can't reside there....tho things cheap die and electricity constant
You are just a weak man. There a 1000 ways to deal with a woman and humble her. Dm me for strategies.😎
Plus4you: Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like. The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'. I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?
Don't transfer your aggression on your parents. You must exist that was why you were born. God ordained your birth. Rather blame yourself for voting disasters into office and still supporting them them with hungry stomach. Those who vote bad leaders are not victims but accomplices.
Sirchiboy: We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today. As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married. Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government. You are worse than the devil himself.
Be grateful to God. He just delivered you from a liability husband.
Prettygirl200: According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.
Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.
I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.
YOU WASTED YOUR MONEY ON NIGERIA. Something your government should do. Moreso, go and see that place in the next two and see how Hausa will bastardize it with their lack of maintenance culture.
money121: The two classrooms block constructed by Miss Rahila Garba.
A member of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) in Bauchi state, Miss Rahila Garba, has constructed and inaugurated a block of two classrooms worth N3.5 million in Gudun Hausawa Primary School, a suburb of Bauchi metropolis.
During the inauguration of the project, yesterday, the corps member, who was serving in the Office of the Bauchi State Head of Civil Service, said the project was part of her Community Development Service (CDS), adding that it was solely financed by Habibu Engineering Nigeria Limited. According to her, the idea to embark on such a project came after she visited some schools and found out how conducive the pupils were in class.
She said the primary school caught her attention, when she visited the school and realised that the already existing structure was dilapidated while the pupils were sitting under the tree to learn.
She said: “It was this horrible experience that gave birth to the idea for the construction of additional classrooms. At first, it was not easy to bring this idea to life considering my financial status. But because I was determined and so passionate to see that this project comes to life, I decided to make some consultations of what it will cost for the construction of the entire project and I began to shuttle here and there seeking approval and doing some paperwork.”
“Finally, I got the approval of Habibu Engineering Nigeria Limited for sponsorship. I am proudly saying that this project today is completed and it will be officially commissioned to commence class activities here.”
She called on the state government and well-to-do individuals to help in providing the school with chairs and other furniture.
Public Relations Officer, Habibu Engineering Nigeria Limited, Salmanu Baba, said the project, estimated at about N3.5 million, was completed within 39 days.
Bauchi Coordinator of NYSC, Mrs Rifkatu Yakubu, said corps members had been encouraged by the scheme to integrate with their host communities to find out their challenges and proffer solutions where necessary.
Caretaker Chairperson of Bauchi Local Council, Mrs Zainab Baba-Takko, lauded Garba for embarking on the project and promised that the state government would commence renovation of other parts as well as provide the chairs she requested.
Politics / Re: Tinubu Abandoned Us After 2023 Election, APC Women Leaders Lament by forexprophet(m): 10:38am On May 15
