₦airaland Forum

Lifeislife:
We must not forget that few males from the beginning of time, right from Adam and Eve have had not much concern for the welfare of females other than having sex with them, children, marrying. Even the bible is written by men, and of course they put thierselves first, thier ego first.
Most women in the bible where either chasing a man to marry her like Ruth, or looking up to a man to solve her problem.

It was okay for the righteous men to marry several wives and have many concubines. There were few holy men like Abraham that was content with one wife.

History has taught us that, once upon a time, that the below was culture and accepted norm, any woman that did not conform to it, was stigmatised and mocked in society and considered a shame, they were punished. Some of them were beaten, some were killed.

A WOMAN COULD NOT:
inherit property - England, and so many other places
vote in elections whatsover (women fought for the right to vote)
wear trousers
could not go to school, could not have an education
when her husband died the wife must be buried with her husband
cannot drive a car - modern day Saudi
women must be escorted by a male family member - modern-day-you-know-where
when her husband dies - the body of the husband is washed and the woman must drink the water - to prove she did not kill her husband ( the men never drink thier dead wife washed body when she dies) - Nigeria
a female (royal princess) could not rule, only the male (prince) could rule, if the King did not have a son it would pass on to another relative with a male -England, and many other places

The inequality goes on and on, there are so many things that happened that will seem absurd to you now. Males have always been selfush, insecure and intimidated by equality between them and females.

Some women were fine with it, some woman disliked I, but conformed to it because of the fear of being stigmatized which includes, no man will marry her, her family will be mocked, she would be abused, gossiped, hated. But some women of those times stood up against it, stood up for what they believed in. It was hard, some of those women were killed.

I'm sure a lot of women thought and saw them as arrogance.
But today, a lot of women around the world are enjoying the privilege.

Now there was some good men, a lot of good men that saw some pf the above mentioned as wrong, and fought, protested along with the women to demand change. There are still many good men.

Thankfully, the future is going to be a better place for females. Hundred years from now, in Nigeria which man will think he is under juju, or is doing he is wife a favour, when he washing plates, cooks, back the babybon his back while doing the housechores, goes to the market. It will be a normal thing as it ought to be. Only selfish males, and gutless females, would think that those duties are solely for the woman.

Oh, and more women will be answering thier maiden names even after marriage. And so many more wonderful changes.

Time is kind to change.

hmmmm....dream land

dacovajnr:
Hehehe! That remind me of a girl I dated way back "She was vibrating after the whole hanky panky ...Mr Gorge can nod ehn!

hmmmmm

hmmmmm...

Imagine d headline: The Nigerian developer tycoon....heeheeheehee

aolawale025:
When the political history of the SS is written. What would be Amaechi's place? Hero or Judas?

where will Ibori"s dat still frantanize wike name fall.? Hero or Pen robber

nkwuocha:
It's not enough to call her useless you know
She still got the rights to her conscience you know.She may have her reasons for not meeting up with the op.

did I hear u say right.? sometimes I keep wondering d number of people dat take a defence at this....now what stops her from calling d OP and inform him her change of plan.? example: She can just say please bear with me I will not be able to come to ur place....which is good..



and then again d shameless idiot couldn't even do dat and she went back to were she met OP earlier to continue her fanzy over d movie she was watching....can u see d stupidity d girl's way of life. there is something we call "Courtesy"

eyinjuege:
You sound like a broken record.

With all your "intelligency". Your perception of the truth is warped, but it is just what it is- your perception!

It doesn't make it the truth.

If you were being truthful with yourself, and with your self acclaimed "intelligency", and not hungry for affection from every girl you see, you should question your judgement when inviting a stranger into your home. She may be a bait for armed robbers, ritualists etc.
Yet you question her judgement for not coming to visit a guy she barely met who may be after cutting her boobs and legs for rituals?
Why not meet in a public place and truly get to know each other, before inviting each other home? In Nigeria?

You say she didn't keep to appointment, when it could simply be self preservation on her part.
You need to get schooled, young man. It's not enough to go through the university/ technical school.
You need to get schooled in the University of Life

use ur brain...did OP invite her.? she requested to visit...u are still displaying ur low intelligency. like I said earlier don't say what u cannt do or fulfill....probably u are in such class as d girl who promise and fail


modified.: So u couldn't read dat they have already met in public before she said she will pay a visit... it is a pity u couldn't comprehend d story

RaggedyAnn:
Actually, there are men in Nigeria who are up for this kind of arrangement. If you want to call them foolish, because they do not share your values, that's your business. It's an honest and practical approach. Some reclusive individuals, or closeted homosexuals, or people who just want to live independent lives, for example may consider this to be a valid option.

heheheheheheeee....and Daddy die when they were born

MrCork:
.. confuse?...comin from a guy who call him sef 4wind?...son..go bakkkto bed jorr!(no oofensece)

heheheheheheeer

kimbra:
No be by size. She should go and rest!.

this Kimbra eeemmmhh nawa....u don't taste dem wella....

MrCork:
....ok..so Nigeria n girls r useless becuzz a girl come to buy tie in yorrr shop... correct?.... bro,see a doctor!! (No oofensece)

U are a very confused fellow...

motherfucker:
na so my brother. The day I told a girl that I don't feel lost over pussy or sexx, she was shocked and asked me why. You know some guys can do crazy things or get so attached after forking a girl... but this girl shock when I told her I don't feel any excitement after deed is done.

Any woman wey know say that "thing" between her legs don't move u will fear you.

I am glad it happened and she confirmed what her friend told me earlier about her. Tomorrow, this one sef go open her mouth say "all men are the same" like the many disgruntled bitcches on nairaland claim some times.

I know some girls believe their pvssy is a very good driving force but I tell u many don't know not all guys can be charmed by it....Girls use ur brain more and stop relying in what is in between ur legs d better for u...

bykes:
I have been cohabiting with my girlfriend since two years now and we love each other. I have noticed to my bewilderment that each time I ask her for sex, she starts laughing out seriously before allowing me. She has never refused me sex for once but the weird laugh turns me off immediately. When I say laugh, I don't mean smiles or something close to it but laughing out so loud that gets me turned off at once. Pls I need your advice. I have talked to her about it but seems she can't help it. Pls I need your advice because it's affecting our relationship seriously.

heheheheheheeer

motherfucker:
God bless you. And they want me to take such a person serious because in their logic, "she was only playing hard to get" Meanwhile, unknown to her, I subscribed my dish that I had not used because of her. I hardly watch TV however, she concluded I don't have anything because of the kind of phone I am using, not like the one she has has life ooo.

If na film, she no go house again by the time she knows she could watch movies 247 nonstop!

But you know girls and shallowness like the ones that have commented here. What nonsense?

dude u are lucky dat d flaws manifested itself immediately if not.....hmmmm d devil would have wasted part of ur resources., time and energy.... I always pray dat any girl dat I date dat if she is not meant for me., whether beautiful., or what have u God should take her away.... no be pvssy I come look for na better person dat has humane and Godly resources I want

kushercain:
after searching my phone for an adequate meme to respond the trash up there..I can only conclude that your ability to comprehend is totally flawed...wtf!

@ the emboldened..ppl do it, the girl is an example

people do it...do what.? lie here and there rite.? every thing about our. society is now evil....accepting it as a norm....y cannt d girl give a sounding and robust reply dat she is not interested in OP...rather she even promised showing up...I tell u I can never say what I will never do even if it is my wife dat is pressuring me to say so...reason., d future will eventuall become a judge and dat is exactly what dat foolish girl did....are u not surprise dat relationships and marriages are failling.? it is because of deceit....no truth

eyinjuege:
You need to grow up and stop feeding your lazy fat ass off others.
It's not by force to visit anybody. Your agemates are already doing exploits, and here you are wailing over a girl the OP barely met 2 days prior. They are not even friends, one would be going far classifying their relationship as that of acquintances, so why lose sleep over such a person's failure to visit? Why even invite someone you barely know to your sanctuary?
It's a pity a lot of young men like you have decided to lose their balls, and be responsible. You have more daunting tasks ahead of you, and your least concern should be over an aquintance failing to come and pay you a visit and even creating a thread over such irrelevancy..

u are not just intelligent at all.....just listen to urself.... don't say what u can not do...I repeat dont say what u can not do...go back and read d OP story again....truth is what dat girl lack....for ur information., I'm working ok and it is d same truth I use in putting my employer on her toes... truth is what u need...if I tell u dat my landlord dare not knock at my door any how u won't believe it....d secret....truth

kushercain:
op this tin for no happen if to say you get better android phone oo

so if I meet u on first day...whatever I wear and carry. is it what u will use to judge my wealth.? use ur brain.... I have gone past all these long time ago...I study people carefully...and it is never a day's job....dats wisdom and intelligency....most ladies don't know dats d reason y dey are not geeting d rite guys

motherfucker:
May God bless you. They also failed to see where the friend had even warned me about her which I felt was backstab. I didn't know she was trying to save me.

As me what is so important in a 50k smartphone that she had to come back another day to continue?

If you watch, I was the one giving an option to make A CHOICE so it doesn't feel like I am the one forcing everything.

My guess is that since she saw I use Q5, she concluded on the spot that I had nothing to offer her and she fell for ordinary phone because it's clean.

The worse is that she went there TWICE and some idiots feel it's okay for a girl to behave like that, I mean they can safely trust a girl that exhibits such tendency?

I won't be surprise if she makes it regular visit cos she finally confirmed what I had been warned-- very unstable human being, yet she was asking me questions for things I could give her double.

intelligency and truth is what makes dating roll....

eyinjuege:
Is that all?

Its not by force for a girl to have romantic feelings towards you. All those questions she asked may just be to find out if she can be friends with you and not necessarily lovers.

You never asked her out, and just because she had second thoughts about visiting you doesn't make 90% of Nigerian girls useless

u are just a replica of d girl OP discussed....u just came in and rant nonsense...so u didn't see fault in what d foolish girl told OP...lies rite from day one....there is nothing as good as saying d truth... y tell. someone u will visit and yet fail to do so... even when d girl suddenly chose a day for her to see OP., are u not amaze dat OP honoured it... I'm surprise some girls lose their sense of intelligency when being woo by guys...

very foolish FG...dey like to compare Nigeria with other countries with fhigh fuel price but they will never do d same for salary....majority of Nigeria politicians are very stupid including OBJ

Khallyella:
Your opinion.

and u believe I'm d only with such opinion rite

Khallyella:
Tbh, these days, it's not all about getting married that matters, sometimes, people get married cause of the pressure, if you really don't wanna get married(stayed tied to a man forever), just go for a contract marriage, get the number of kids you can take care of and y'all go separate ways, most of the men/guys nowadays are cheats, you can only pray to be the one who's got his heart and not just of the numerous d##k sharers(side-chics), not wanting to get married cause men are cheats is just like not wanting to be in a country where it doesn't rain, it rains everywhere but not everytime.

who is ready to do contract marriage with u.? here in Nigeria....only a foolish man will go public in Nigeria to do contract marriage except u want to be a baby mama where a guy can just fvckk u and u produce babies

Lifeislife:
If I was frustrated my brother I would have been married, I would have carted myself off, to someone years ago. I am just tired of this status quo.

Sometimes I wish, I was a man nobody would be given me this pressure. I would not be scared of my partner beating me(how many wives beat up husbands?). I will just continue being good in my job, and have only two duty, providing money and fucking. And make my partner do everything else cooking, washing, going to the market to buy the foodstuff, birthing the children, and if her vagina isn't tight enough after the 1st or 2nd month of her delivering the baby, find some young 20-23 year old girl, tight nice pussy to Bleep. Untill after a few months, and if I don't feel like paying for a nanny, I won't she should do all the housework, and raisimg the children by herself. I am the man of the house, I go out when I want. I come back when I want. If she starts to check through my phone and one way or the other find out I'm
cheating, and starts to announce it and complain to her family, and dare not stop when I tell her. I will give her slap and beat the stupidity and arrogance out of her. Woman I paid bride price for, I will kick her out of my house. There cannot be two captains in one ship. Its either she obeys me, no matter what I do or she goes and marries herself. Nonsense. Already she is not looking young, just three children her belly is big like bag of cocoyam. There are many other old women like her and young girls looking for husband. Desperate for marriage. Oh if only I was born male.

look at what u wish for urself....u are only deceiving urself...there can never be equality....IF don't know if u are a Christian just to say......are d angels equal to d Son.? there can only be fairness....this ur outlook will be put to test and rest few years from now

kjhova:
I am an atheist, and liberal and feel compassion for the lady despite her obvious mistakes and wrong choices in life. What are you?

im a Christian ooo.... No be today e start. When people commit crime dey blame dey devil... Take for instance, 22 years old boy and 20 years old girl go fvckk themselves with their full senses on and when it result to pregnancy. It is either they call it mistake, or unwanted pregnancy or they say konji na bastard... Y cannt people take responsibility... This human trafficking for sexual slavery has been there as far back as in d 80s but it became an open secret in d 90s. So anyone pretending not to know this evil, not serious

tutudesz:
more like playing nairabet!

yes oooo

parents need to educate their children especially their female children how to detect a potential rapist

terrible and wicked people

eezeribe:
Dangote the pacesetter has opened their eyes... Is it now that they know we need more refineries

don't mind them...very lazy greedy politicians....dey thought d turn around maintaince will go on and on

tutudesz:
thank god for APC in Edo O! just hoping such thing could happen in Delta!

Delta ke.! Ibori dey use Delta state money dey fvck small small girls

glowryhaa:
she was only desperate

where has d desperation taken her now? When certain indications point to dangers and unknow, its high time dat individual took a leave

kjhova:
It is easy to deceive ignorant, naive and semi-literate girls especially when there is a well entrenched syndicate who specialises in searching out this ladies and convincing them that the idea is not as bad as they have been told.

This is how recruiters get people into campus cults or terror groups; by making you question and doubt everything you have thought to be known about them before.

I feel for the girl even if her story may be somewhat embelished as some people claim. It is still a terrible thing to cross the Sahara and the Mediteranean.

To all posters here who hold a "serves her right" view, ask yourselves this question; is it fair of you as a Christian or Muslim to judge and spite her? Is the world dead to compassion?

what nonsense compassion are u talking about....I bet u., Edo is a very good place for farming....d soil is very fertile...let me ask u....is it everybody dat. must be a teacter or lawyer or doctor or nurse or farmer etc...? now any one dat will keep ur dignity do it and stop giving excuses to have compassion

kjhova:
It is easy to deceive ignorant, naive and semi-literate girls especially when there is a well entrenched syndicate who specialises in searching out this ladies and convincing them that the idea is not as bad as they have been told.

This is how recruiters get people into campus cults or terror groups; by making you question and doubt everything you have thought to be known about them before.

I feel for the girl even if her story may be somewhat embelished as some people claim. It is still a terrible thing to cross the Sahara and the Mediteranean.

To all posters here who hold a "serves her right" view, ask yourselves this question; is it fair of you as a Christian or Muslim to judge and spite her? Is the world dead to compassion?

what nonsense compassion are u talking about....I bet u., Edo is a very good place for farming....d soil is very fertile...let me ask u....is it everybody dat. must be a teacter or lawyer or doctor or nurse or farmer etc...? now any one dat will keep ur dignity do it and stop giving excuses to have compassion....