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@OP

I have experienced a similar thing too. Best thing to do is this:

1. Dont make urself always available to her.
2. Always encourage her when she does something right.
3. Control ur temper when u are with her.
4. Compliment her even whn its not necessary.
5. Control ur emotion, and stop telling her how much u love her too often.


I hope my little advice will help. Goodluck brah

Op;
listen 2 d advice of ur elders here in Nairaland. Bt if u ask me, i'd say u should jst be her friend, it myt pay off sumday, & if u knw u are d em0tional type of guy (jst like am sensing ryt naw), jst delete her fr0m ur skull, or else, u wunt even find d pieces of ur heart afta it has been GRINDED.

Somehow true. Poor girls demands alot, but they demand for mostly unnecessary things, things they and their fathers cant afford.
But the rich girls, due to their lifestyle, they feel its a normal thing for dem to demand once in a while. But trust me, that one time they will demand, it can rip off a man's life saving!!

A big THANKS to evry one of u, u guys ROCK
I think am back on track again. More specific advice, comments, suggestions, and possible SMACKING are welcomd though .
PEACE!!!

@ng4am:
Thanx for ur advice. Sometym ago, she made a similar statement, and i gave her some space, but she wouldn't let me be. Its like the more i give her attention, the less serious she'l be. Dis is the reason am more confuzed

Thanx, bt are u talkin from experience?? Dont get offended by my qstn, i jst want to knw wat next to do.

@~killz~
i feel u, . Dats d biggest bullshit in any relationship.

There is this girl i knew way back in sec sch days. I met her recently and askd her out, coz i really luv her. She gave me a NO, bt her action has been YES and we hav been seeing each oda for abt 5months now, Recently, i told her abt how i really feel abt her, and my plans for her if she culd accept me and be serious, bt she said maybe i shld move on with someone else coz she loves me and doznt want to hurt me. I dont really undastand why she wuld say dat, coz she still shows concern abt me. I NEED UR ADVICE PIPO.