Wizeboy:


The seller might have gave you wrong number or tracking number that belong to another customer entirely either intentionally or by mistake.

Try to engage the seller by either chatting with him or send him an email stating your discovery about the tracking number he sent to you, he may have to check again to give the correct number.

But if his response is not favourable or not genuine to you, is better you open dispute in order for your money to be refunded because some of the sellers normally gave fake tracking number sometimes especially if they don't have that particular goods you order for in stock.

Wow!! That's some piece of information right there.

I just opened a dispute now on Aliexpress, hoping for a refund or re-negotiations with the seller. I hope to get a positive feedback, all things being equal.

Thanks so much for your time and help bruv, you the best!!

Wizeboy:



Post office official will always give you a call to come and pick up your goods once it arrives at the nearest post office to the address you provided as your Shipping Address in aliexpress.

The parcel might have been in Lagos and not at the nearest post office to the address you provided yet because post office normally collate all Lagos letters and parcel at their Head office in Lagos before despatching to various nearest concern post office.

You can however check the nearest post office that's very close to the address you provided on aliexpress to check your parcel because the post office officials sometimes might not call you due to the fact that maybe when they called you, your number is not reachable due to network or they overlook it... I will advice you to check the nearest post office.

You can furnish me with any latest development and also ask for more clarification if need be.

I wish you success in the business!

Hi Wizeboy!
Thank you very much for your support and prompt reply. But I have another challenge at the moment.

According to my product's tacking report, my product has reached Lagos since 29th of December last year (just 5days after I made the order). I visited the post office at Ikeja this morning, but I was asked to go to the post office at Shomolu, since I recide at Maryland. On getting to Shomolu's post office, the officials couldn't get a hold of my goods, claiming that my tracking number isn't correct or not in their data-base.

I even had to ask them for their manual records of all incoming parcels, so I could at least search the list using my name, but all to no avail. I didn't see my name on the list.

I'm all about opening a dispute and asking for a refund right now on Aliexpress, because it's close to 4 weeks at the moment, and I'm yet to receive my goods.

What would be your advice before I carry out my intended action?

@Wizeboy:

I have been following this thread for a while, and I must confess that I have learnt quite a lot. I followed your tips step-by-step on this mini-importation thingy, and it has been flowing well,

But I got some questions I want to ask concerning the delivery of goods; would they deliver it to my door step or to the nearest post office?

Let me shed more light:
I ordered for a wrist watch (just for trial) last month, and I have been tracking it ever since. As at last week Friday, I discovered that the wrist watch has reached Lagos, but I haven't received any phone call yet nor has it been delivered to my address. As I type this message, my Aliexpress profile's "product status" says "Awaiting Receipt".

Please what step should I take from here?
I need your reply ASAP, and thanks in anticipation.

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guy ANDROID: O boy this girls na KICK...e be like say na dem sing KICK for wande coal ooo

WHEN YOU HEAR THE KICK.......

Sagamite:
To summarise Stickman, all those guys that think "I did A, B and C for this babe, so she would be considerate". Sorry, mate, very unlikely. Most women have no contrition like that, it is what you can realistically offer her in future that matters, otherwise she would find levels that looks more promising if yours is not looking promising.

Oga...this is the only part I understand from your philosophical write-up

And please, be eazy with the coaching on your son(remember that witches still exist).

Talking about break ups, a lot of people don't know the negative effects associated with it. I'm not trying to say you shouldn't move on when you find someone better, but why can't the ladies apply a little bit of Diplomacy whenever they want a break up?

Do you think it would be easier on the guy to remain friends with you after acting like that? I seriously doubt it. Why lose a confidant, a good friend, and an helper, all in the name of MOVING ON? Is it worth it?

I had to laugh when I saw comments talking about SLAPS and ACID BATHE(of course it happens), but I think the ladies who find themselves in such twisted situation are STUPID in a way(sorry for being blunt; I just couldn't get a nicer substitute for that word). Most ladies ought to have known/studied the guy they are dealing with, knowing what he is capable of, so that when its time for break up, application of DIPLOMACY takes effect and gives then the desired result.

Popowaa: The signs are suppose to prepare you for the message.Ladies have sympathy and dont want guys we care abt suffering from heart atttack or high blood pressure.
But on a more serious smtimes they dont do it intentionally,smtimes they meet just friends who excite them or give them more attention than their boyfriends do and they start calling less,dont visit u often and[b] all the signs op mentioned not intentionally even though they might not want a break up.[/b]

Sis.... your comment is kind of confusing me oo!! If you don't want a break up, and you acted the way the OP has stated to your guy, then how would you want him to react?

nyere84: Op, lets just say we are scared of the[b] SLAP[/b] that will follow, if we decide to summon courage the way you want it.

But, seriously, thats women for you. I ve done it too. Maybe, because i dnt ve strenght to talk or explaining to him.

I expected him to see the hand writting on the wall. Meanwhile, i ve also being dumped like that by a guy too.

Yo Miss, I don't think a reasonable guy would slap a lady just because she broke up with him. Besides, guys are not that violent these days(except a few jerks).
And the other bolded part, are you saying that is the way majority of ladies naturally behave when they want a break up? i.e. a REFLEX action?

Please break it down, and let the guys learn a few things about ladies.

Hi.
I heard there are plots of land at Imota area of Ikorodu for 250k, and its within an Estate. Now my questions are:

1. Do you have any idea if most of the land around Imota are free or acquisated?
2. Do you think the price of such land within an estate is reasonable?, because am thinking it should be higher than that since its within an estate.

Waiting for your reply.

I read from page 1-70......took me more than a week(coz i had to digest all the great advices dished out here), and i most say that U GUYS ARE AWESOME!!! Carmelion........i seriously admire ur guts, and i pray ur story will change for good. same prayer goes for every other contributor in this thread.

I'l continue reading from page71 at my convenience (as it not that combining studies, work, and personal stuffs)

Dude...if u wanna get over that heartbreak of yours real FAST, listen to RAP Music. If u want to get over it faster.....SING Along.

I know it sounds dumb...but give it a try..(BTW: stay away from R&B music)

Bro............"if u cant save your relationship, atleast save your PRIDE". I cant shout!!!

choi............rules kwanu!!

[i][/i]I have heard so many stories of Endurance in Love.....how a guy/lady tolerated all sorts of rubbish, all in the name of being in a relationship and what-not. Let me paint a little illustration;

A guy has been dating a lady for quite a while(say 2years plus), and the guy had the intention of marrying the lady involved right from inception, so he projects into the future and starts to invest on the lady....you know, paying bills and stuffs. His friends and family even got involved and encouraged the union. But the lady on the other hand, has other numerous guys she dates and also opens her kpomo to(you know things like that dont go well with guys..especially the serious minded ones). They have had quarrels over this particular issue times without number which usually ends up with the lady crying, begging, and promising not to do it again.....promises she never kept.

Now the dude is pissed.....as in, really pissed!! He wants a break-up..(I know that at this point, y'all reading this will silently say "...and what the hell is he waiting for??...break up with the damn piece of rag etc"....but the dude could not just let go....because of all his effort in the relationship. He also had that believe that "Love is worth fighting for" and "patience is a Virtue"..(plzz dont laugh yet). So he's still figuring out what to do....and the lady sef no even send ooh, she just continue her parole as if she no know say the guy even exist sef...........#to be continued!!

Now my question is this.....as a guy/lady reading this, plzz picture yourself as the guy in the story above....and plzz tell me....At what point will you reach your limit and call off the relationship?? Or will you keep fighting and enduring until the lady changes for the better

Killz.....u'r on point. Kip 'em comin!!

claremont: July 2004 thread. . .

No bro...its July 2012 thread.

@tellwisdom: i'l need u 2 gimme ur reasons plz. I stated my reasons why i wuld/wuldnt like 2 tell her....but am on d egde. Plz read d 3rd post above u.

@Slimyem: i feel u...its like u knw exactly what am talkin abt. Sincerely, a part of me says i shld explain why i stoppd communicating with her...bcoz i dnt really want her 2 look down on herself. Besides...i have a buddy i hang out with almost evry weekends living next street 2 hers, & dat means i'd be bumpin into her very often whn she returns frm sch...so u can imagine hw it'd feel if i continue givin her d silent treatment by den.

But ON THE OTHER HAND...i feel like snubbin her completely coz am really done with her. No turnin back!!!...and jst lik i mentiond in my illustration, she's d type dat gets defensive even if she knws she's at fault...& am really not cut out 4 her drama. There was a time she even said "i dont live my life 2 please anybody". So, if i decide 2 tell her d reasons...she myt think am judging/condemin her. I have really tried 2 make her a better person...but like Mynd_44 said..."i owe her nothin". Let her learn d hard way.

But funny enuf, i dont hate her, coz relationships isnt by force. I jst feel indifferent abt her....& i dnt want any form of hatred btw us. So guyz.......am really on d edge here. Am still open 2 ur opinion.

@Slimyem: i feel u...its like u knw exactly what am talkin abt. Sincerely, a part of me says i shld explain why i stoppd communicating with her...bcoz i dnt really want her 2 look down on herself. Besides...i have a buddy i hang out with almost evry weekends living next street 2 hers, & dat means i'd be bumpin into her very often whn she returns frm sch...so u can imagine hw it'd feel if i continue givin her d silent treatment by den.

But ON THE OTHER HAND...i feel like snubbin her completely coz am really done with her. No turnin back!!!...and jst lik i mentiond in my illustration, she's d type dat gets defensive even if she knws she's at fault...& am really not cut out 4 her drama. There was a time she even said "i dont live my life 2 please anybody". So, if i decide 2 tell her d reasons...she myt think am judging/condemin her. I have really tried 2 make her a better person...but like Mynd_44 said..."i owe her nothin". Let her learn d hard way.

But funny enuf, i dont hate her, coz relationships isnt by force. I jst feel indifferent abt her....& i dnt want any form of hatred btw us. So guyz.......am really on d edge here. Am still open 2 ur opinion.

Plz peeps..i need ur opinion on d topic above. But let me giv y'all i little illustration.

I met a gurl late last year..we bcame frndz, hanging out & stuffs. I askd her out on various occation..but she'd always turn me down. Sumtyms, whn she doez sumtin wrong & i mention it/complain 2 her...she gets paranoid, & gets defensive instead of apologizing. She comes late on dates, doez things her extremely her own way witout compromizing.
Later on, i found out dat she had a b/f she had been datin b4 she met me, but due 2 a brawl btw dem, she had enuf tym 2 gimme attention. Whn dey resolved dia diff..she began distancin herself frm me. I kept my cool lik i didnt notice...& called her one particular day 4 a face-2-face discussion. Durin d convo, i alighted my reasons 4 wantin her as my gurl...wat i wanted frm her, & ask her wat she wanted as well. Her exact reply was "move on with ur life".
Due 2 her statement, i suddenly cut all forms of communication wit her..although i acted cool afta she made d statement, so she neva knew i could act dat way. She neva saw it comin!!
Now its been almost 3months i'v been givin her d silent treatment...& she is still on my case..callin, textin, msg on social network and whatnot. She's in school ryt naw...but i knw 4sure dat whn she returns, she'l wan2 ask me d reasons 4 my sudden change of attitude towards her.

Now...is it necessary 2 point out d reasons 2 her or jst snub her?.....coz am really done wit her, but i dnt want any form of animosity. Plz i need ur opinion on dis. Thanx!!

[/quote][quote author=Riodiao] r u blind? Didnt u read all d stuff he wrote. See rubbish excuse. So 100naira airtime is now so expensive that she cant afford it.

[s][/s]

Exactly my point!!
Unreasonable excuse 2 push d blame of non-communication 2 d OP.
@op: u'r worth more dan she thinks, and 2 prove her wrong.....break up wit her 1st(by givin her d SILENT TREATMENT). If u cant save ur relationship.......atleast save ur pride. My 2cents bro!!

@op: u'r not alone. Am havin dis issue currently wit a gurl i luvd so much. We'v been seeing each oda since last year Novemba. Evrytin ssems gud frm d start...but i gez my ova carin attitude drifted her mentality a bit. Since last month, i suddenly stopped pickin her callz and ignoring her on chats. She wuld call 4 a billion times....askin wat she has done wrong, but i wuldnt reply. She's in school tho.....am jst waitin 4 d day i'l run into her and ask her wat she really wants from me. But 4 naw till den.....i aint pickin her calls!!

@op: Orì e wanbè. I've been askin myslf d same damn qstn 4 a whyl naw. Thank God am n0t d only one in dat freakin path. Girls are jst...........USELESS.

@dabrake:
If u see my chic, ur eye balls will fall out. Infact, u will go blind, coz she's FLASHY

She aint like 3ndy dat is full of WAHALA.

@dabrake:
If u see my chic, ur eye balls will fall out. Infact, u will go blind, coz she's FLASHY

She aint like 3ndy dat is full of WAHALA.

@3ndy:
See me see wahala ooh!! Can't i express my opinion again?? If u gat a problem with my opinion den deal with it, and stop dis ur ESSAY writing. BEAT IT.

@3ndy:
Lets assume i get ur point Mrs. VOLTRON, defender of all ladies. Evrything i said so far are jst mere speculati0ns. I neva said dey are fact.
I d0nt knw y u're takin ds so personal, lik am talkin 2 u or sumthing, coz u're supposed 2 advice d OP & nt me.

And as 4 d name callin, trust me, i hav been readin lots of treads frm NL even b4 i joind. I knw very wel dat some pipo are naturally sick. I wunt be so surprizd by d way u post.

@killz;
lets say i was wr0ng all along, & evrything i wrote so far hav been "BULLSHIT in 3D". Wats ur personal opinion on d OP's topic?

@debrake:
Cant she hav female frndz too?, ABI NA ONLY BOYS DEY HER SCHOOL??

Yeeey, I DON DIE OOOOH!!!

@3ndy: if dats ur style of cheatin on ur man, den go ahead sista. Bt plz d0nt cal me names.

@dabrake: i feel u bro, thanx. Bt in a relationship, its n0t only d ladies dat seek attenti0n, we guys also do. So d gurl involvd shld create s0me time 4 d OP, dats my point. Its disgustin when havin a serious c0nvo wit some1, & d person kips on excusin hm/herself a thrillion tyms jst 2 ansa a cal. She culd as wel ask her frndz 2 call her back.

@0P:
i believe u knw d diff btw Go0d & Evil, make ur decision. Most girls are d same. Dey are lik toilets, different TOILET, same SHIT.

@OP:

I forgot to mention one more thing, its natural for us humans to get angry at one point in time or another, bt DON'T LET UR ANGER LAST TOO LONG. If u do, u are just givin more room for her "male friendz" to creep into her life and take ur place.

Now she is coming back to her senses, cut her some slacks. But dont forget my tips.

BUT ON THE OTHER HAND,

If u are with your girl, and she chooses to recieve chunks of calls in ur presence, that shows the level of DISRESPECT she has for u.
She should be able to put her damn phone away, and give u ur attention when u are around. For her to even receive the calls from those "male friendz" of hers, it means they are somehow important to her.

Jst follow my little tips above, its not a 100% guarantee that she will end up with u, but atleast u'll stand out from her numerous "male friendz"


Am talking from experience bro!!