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joey150:
This thing has been on my mind oh. Girls these days do not respond to polite "hi or hello" again on social media. I know for a fact because i have tried a ""few" times.

And most "good" guys dont hang around too much after you ignore the first polite convo they try to bring up.

Yet, you see ladies becoming victims to social media meet ups gone wrong.just because the "good boy" sounded boring and had just 3 pictures.

I want to know on a personal level,your criteria for replying messages on whatever social platform. Cause am sure the average lady gets a ton of messages.
And let no guy pretend that one fine girl never fall him hand online before o.
Ladies over to you!
modified.
Tthis post isnt about me oh.. I just want to know how different gals select their chat mate online.
You guys can learn a few tricks too

the picture part, remind me of some years back, one lady was like, this picture of yours has been here for long, you no go change am..
I delete her from my list..

Monalisa185:
hehehehe, Joe...you are so right.... Buh the bolded, who exactly is it directed to? male or female folks

umu'nwanyi...who else, smiles*

Monalisa185:
I no know o .what other platform?

whatsapp or Facebook?
Come eat roasted plantain.

Monalisa185:
awwwww, almost didn't see this...

okay, I didn't explain better, my email account was hacked, I've been trying to retrieve it, buh it seems there were security questions I registered with which I can't remember the answers I gave....until it's resolved, I can't receive pms.

well, that's bad really, I mean why would anyone want to hack your email account? Isn't that the senior brother to stupidity, except of course, there are valuable informations there? which would fetch millions for someone out there..

What about we try, other platforms?

Monalisa185:
when it comes to snacks, yeah...Buh food, nah..

I close 8pm

there was a time when I use to do that, I don't dare touch snacks, but at some point it become a necessity, because when I used to travel, when we get to a place where I didn't find the food there appealing, then I had to resort to taking snacks...

Good morning, and I hope you slept well as I did?
8pm? so late, you are trying though.

are you not done, with the email retrieving?

Monalisa185:
nah, I'm not that mean na..

awwwww, ion like gala na...thanks anyways enjoy the rest of your day as well.

you are not?

you don't like gala, sounds like you are selective when it comes to foods?

When do you normally close from work?

Monalisa185:
alright, apology accepted... maybe I'll contact you, Buh that would be later, working on retrieving my mail... cool?

no wahala, (shrugs) just take time your time, right?
I'll be waiting.

the way you sounded last night, I was like, if this girl would find a way to dash me a dirty slap, as a morning gift, from where she is, she won't hesitate....smiles*

don't worry, by 2pm today, I go buy fresh gala meat for you, just to appease you.
Enjoy the rest of your day.

Monalisa185:
okay, tone it down, please.... this is a faceless forum, you don't know me, I do not know you....we've never met, never been in contact.... don't you think typing all these things to someone you do not know makes it seem like a joke, and yet, you claim to be serious.... I would really appreciate it if you would just tone it down... I hope you understand. thank you.

smiles* of course I do understand, and I didn't mean to embarrass you, or anything..
but I wasn't expecting you, to remind me again that it is a faceless forum, and that we have never been in contact, it is not like I prefer it this way, but I had to... I have been trying to contact you, but you shut me out again and again, because you don't take anything that comes outta here serious..
but its okay, how you would want me to contact you?



Iwe ewe na gi, I am not here to inconvenient you..
I don't normally do this kinda thing, like this, but I had to, because I really, wanna get your attention..

Monalisa185:
seriously? women speak so ill of their fellow women just to protect themselves? this should be one of the most ridiculous things I've read in a long while...maybe the word 'protect' means something totally different from what I know..

I think you are saying something else now, no one is doubting or arguing the fact that women are sweet, special and beautiful, no one...I'm sure you read the post you are commenting on to know the subject of discussion...

I hear you.

I pray For more strength, because this week is fired up, lots of work on ground, thank you lord...

Clients are a bit happy, and we are smiling too, at least we can afford to work on normal price of materials....

Monalisa185:
I actually replied before replying this one....of course, every question deserves and answer

you did? poor me.
I must have missed that 1 too...yeah right, but not every questions...smiles!

Monalisa, the truth is that, sometimes in life, we can't just go against nature, someone special could just come to us from nowhere to fill us, make us see the beautiful future, hence we will be wanting that someone each and every second and honestly baby you have got me wanting you, I won't promise you, heaven on earth, neither will i give you, bed full with roses, but I'll be right there, if you would let me be your man?

Monalisa185:
nah, no questions.... and where would you want to take it to?

of course you do have some questions to ask.....no where far, but no worries....

Monalisa185:
ohhhh, okay...

I'm okay.....and you?

yeah, I did thanks.

I dey here, with the thoughts on how to make things happen, but just 1 'bar' is in my way..

Which kind work be that, Wey no fit allow you finish your Easter, holiday..

How are you spending your night?

Monalisa185:
sincerely, I have no idea.

that's what I am talking about, I have been around for awhile, (2 decades+)and trust me when say to you that some of you ladies act the way you do, just to protect your selves....women are sweet, special and beautiful, not just anyhow woman, you know what I mean..I won't blame you though, because like you said, you grew up in the midst of guys, then you thought that the male species are the way, but ask your brothers they'll tell you that some women can be funny, but they are just special, they know how to deal them better..

Monalisa185:
i have, wasn't ignoring

if you have, I won't have been disturbing you, about it, you know..
Maybe I didn't see where you gave me your answer..
I am not trying to pressure you, but at least questions as mine, are meant to be answered.

Monalisa185:
i didn't say guys do not speak against guys, I said "HARDLY" ...Look again, and I know what I'm talking about

of course you do know, what you are talking about..
I did saw the part where you put the word 'HARDLY', maybe you should said better than just say they hardly, because I said what I said, because of your previous comments, but its okay.. How are you today?

you went to work today?

Monalisa185:
I'm actually not vexing, and not criticizing... just saying things the way I see them, because I'm a female doesn't mean I can't say the truth even if it's against my gender...sorry, I don't do that.

I am not saying because you are a female, you shouldn't say it white when its white.. you are not? Alright..tell me then why do you think they act the way they do?

Monalisa185:
nah, cheezy, I meant, you hardly see a guy speak so ill of a fellow guy.

that's not true...and it goes both ways if people don't understand you, they resort to saying all sorts of bad words about you..

I am a victim, like some ladies I know too..

Monalisa185:
[b]cheezy, I've got seven (7) big brothers, I grew up with em...I saw how they behaved/behave towards friends and even enemies...

a guy would meet a fellow guy for the first time, Buh they would exchange greetings as though they had known each other all their lives...

a lady would meet a fellow female for the first time, both of em would be waiting for who would say hello or start off a greeting first...Mtcheeeewwww.

in the course of an argument, a lady would go ahead to call a fellow lady a BIITCH (a female dog), Buh when a guy calls her a biitch as well, she goes all angry and furious...

a guy would promote a fellow guy in his absence, Buh a lady? nah, she would rather put you down with her mouth so she could be at the spotlight...

we just do not love ourselves,

and cheezy, you are wrong, being catty is a female's characteristic, which is synonymous to being biitchy...as a matter of fact, the dictionary couldn't help Buh specify the gender that exhibits cattiness the most...you can look it up..[/b]

hahahaha! Wetin dey vex you?
by the way, whatever you think the ladies does which is not so cool with you, I think its just a way the ladies protects them selves, because they are weak..you get?
I wonder what you would say about your self then, if you are being critical of the ladies like this?
Its really unfair, if you sit there and compare both genders, characters.

Monalisa185 please try not to ignore me, you have not answered me?

Monalisa185:
[b][/b]

nodded, smiles* good morning beautiful, how was your night, I hope you enjoyed it?

It does, and what I smell here, is natural, I find it hard to resist, so I insist, and pray you allow me come closer or rather you come a bit closer?

what do you say??
if you have any question, you can ask me.

do you mind if we take it out of here?

Knowing your kind, it sure was better than mine.

.

Monalisa185:
wait oooo, you were serious? Choi!!! I didn't know na...weird...the thing is, I don't take anything that happens here seriously ooo...sorry for the embarrassment ooo...of course, so inappropriate, buh it's okay though..

saw your other mention, happy easter to you too, frank...enjoy the easter groove and share some love as well...

yes, I am serious..I understand your stand, and I apologise for been some kinda sh!t-head and random with my approach, but I want you to understand that I had no other option, but to come that way, wish,I know of a better way, it took a lot for me to come this way, just know that, whatever and however way, I may have said it, it is right through my heart..
like some say, there's always a sense in a nonsense..
I want to be the sense, you see in this nonsense of a place??

we may not have met, but your scent lingers here, and I think, I want a bit closer?

yeah, thanks... today was beautiful and tantalising, hahaha*
now I am hoping to hear you say, you enjoyed the day than I did?

I apologise again, for coming out like this, I hope you didn't feel pressed?

Monalisa185 happy Easter, and don't forget to share the Easter goodies with the poor, close to you...

Monalisa185:
lol....wait, Buh you know the show is over na...?

pardon my laughter, Buh I just couldn't help it... nice lines though..
Buh I've been wooed already and that guy can be so jealous....

frank, all these things you see here are just for fun, nothing here is taken too personal, I just hope you saw it that way as well... happy easter

I expected you to laugh..
what heaven forsaking lines do you think that I am joking??

Forget whatever crap, that happens here because I am damn serious, I mean do I sound like I want to have fun?? On Nairaland? It pained me, that you chose to pretend as if you don't know what i am talking about, its embarrassing, honestly, maybe this place wasn't appropriate for me to have said it, but if I keep waiting till,God knows when then I'll sure be wasting my time, because Monalisa I am SERIOUS..

Monalisa185:
nah, I would rather stay off NL for life than have another account...even if my mission for this life na to come multiply for Nairaland....

nah, I didn't see it, you could ask the question here, if you want to

hmmm! yeah I meant change it and not have another.....but its okay! can you really, stay off NL? don't you think its mission impossible?

Alright!
I have been wanting to tell you this, for some time now, but was having second thought about it,(with reason best known to me, but I'll tell you what the reason is, later.)
Shrugs) some recent events happened in my life, that changed me 'forever'.. it has also got to me, that no matter how, determined and strong willed we are, nature can't be defeated..
I feel like I am beast, you know, the kinda beast that comes across a rare beautiful maiden,he will battle man and spirit to protect her, because she the maiden is the key..
I guess all I am saying is, would you be mine?

I have never in my life done, this before believe me.(privacy means a lot)
Keep me alive, with whatever you would say.

Monalisa185:
nosebrows* told you I'm still having issues checking my mentions, doesn't let me see older mentions after a long time...

hmmmmmmm...

if I catch you, I'll pretend like I didn't see your tongue, and I go bite that your small nose...

Really? Maybe you should change your account to another one, then?

Well, I take it as, you didn't see where I asked you the question...

Monalisa185:
question ke? for where...
(runs to check my mentions for the 10th time)

hehehehe, care ke? you shaaa funny; D

eyebrows* do you really mean, that its only when I have said something important, like personal talk (sort of) that's when you don't get to see your mentions? Amusing..

I am always funny, I wonder when I will ever be serious...anyways that's how it looks to me, you won't blame me..

KINGinVAHALA2:
The Hustling Is Real!

it is?

[quote author=Monalisa185 post=44137708][/quote]you have refused to answer the question, I asked you last night...maybe I have not showed real care towards to you, for you to answer me?

Oga naijaboiy whatever your plan is with olajorn make una stay off, monalisa185...
ehh, please so we fit avoid, stories that touch.

Mona-baby, biko no fall my hand...

Monalisa185:
hehehehe, my wooer didn't go to any baba jor....it was just original ....corner ke? enter stage jor

I had to go through this wooing of a thing, so me fit understand what's going on, now I do.

Enter stage, you mean make I come tell you how I feel (woo you) for you? but, Its no rocket science, you already know.... make I no saying nothing, before I go commit murder..smiles

by the way, I see that you have chosen olajorn? And before I become too emotional,kolo and jealous about it, tell me that this wooing of a thing is just, I mean its for 'ife ochi'?