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ATOB:
I feel you.
There is usually a thin line between love and hate.
I believe some of the rejections you got and some heartbreaks is what makes you feel this way.

I am beginning to dislike girls too and also thinking they dont deserve the committment and attention most guys give them nowadays. In fact I feel as though saying you are not dating a girl anymore after a while shouldnt be a big deal if it doesnt work out because afterall they do too.

The different thing between us is that I dont hate them and I dont resent them because there are good ones and sweet ones out there.

I just hope you find yours.
My only concern with girls is this, they get that guy who sincerely loves them at one point in their lives but they egoistically let him go.

Thanks for the advice. Noted.

bukatyne:
@OP:

You feel that way because of series of hurt in the past.

I am Happy you are not burying your head in tbe sand but looking out to get a solution to your hatred for women.

You need to steer clear women (dating, friendship and se.x) and on a journey of self discovery.

You have to make a mental decision to forgive and forget them and not carry the bitterness to the next relationship. If you say girls have hurt me so much and I will not open my heart to the next girl, your exs feel no effect of your torture.

Look at the ladies who have hurt you in the past, see What they have in common and avoid such ladies. Also decide What you want in a woman and go for it when you are ready.

Drawing closer to God makes it easier; He will heal you and guide you aright.

It is well


P.S.: LADIES! stop hurting This young guys around you; you are coming back to marry them tomorrow.. if you know you don't love them, leave them than chopping their money et al. Love is the most expensive currency so do not let him spend it if you will not apappreciate and reciprocate it.

Well said. Thanks for the advice.

Sophyrocks:
O.k let me drop my comment for real. Op, it isnt normal to hate girls. Have you dated all girls to decide to hate them all? Every girl cannot be the same. Everyone of us has had one bad experience with the oopposite sex. does it mean we will stop dating and hate them? If you continue to concentrate on the bad, the good will pass you by. Just take your experiences as part of life u must got through in life. Take it that you made wrong choices of girlfriends. They are lessons for you to learn so that when the good comes, you will recognize that one person and appreciate.

If you have gone through a bad relationship, give urself time to heal before embarking on another one. Try to look at yourself if you are fond of falliing for the wrong girls repeatedly. If you are the type that concentrates on beauty alone, correct yourself.

Thanks, noted.

obiak4:
brother u need to see a physiologist or better still yaba left

Physiologist or psychologist?
I think you need to return back to school ,and learn basic meaning of words.

Unspoken:
Why do you speak with such low self esteeeem.....
I know that life (girls) have challenge you. But

But what?

Sophyrocks:
hehehehehe. The only male nairalander who snifs all pants of females mostly feminists. He eats, drinks, breathes smelly puccies. #spits# disgusting! and he claims to hate feminists but snifs their pants still. You sniff their pants for a living dont ya? How much do u get paid?

You guys can arrange to meet up,and satisfy each other's urges. You are derailing my thread.

Sophyrocks:
hahahahahahaha
donatus donatus obssessed with smelly p.ussies. Hope dem neva give u kraw kraw, dinachikrawkraw. Have u ever asked urself why u always end up with ladies that smell to the extent that ure constantly nagging all over nairaland? Ure dirty mehn. Damn! 2015 should deliver u from the curse of smelly p.ussies. Praaay! Pray hard. Donatus donatus! I hail ooooo

How is he supposed to know the lady is smelling before he UnCloth her?

I have met very outwardly neat and nice smelling ladies who are stinking underneath.

I need tips. How would you know?

dinachi:
Bro most ladies do not worth the guys who ask them out...from silly childish attitudes...poor social skill to atrociously stinking puccys with evil odour, many of these girls are 100% fakes. The gud news is that there are still a few good ones available.

Where and how do you locate the good ones?

@amelian thanks, noted.

odeku457:
#Gayalert.... but wait ooo do you turn to aunty Rosie too (rosiepalm).

Or Nah for that(self service) and punanni?

It's not a must you comment,there are other things you can do with your data if you don't know.

First of all,I am not gay,I am sexually attracted to girls and not to guys.
I have dated a couple of girls but its only one that I can call real dating,because That's the only one where I get to see her physically hang out and all that,but it ended badly,She quitted for a stupid reason,it was So heart shattering but being a precautious person, I didn't allow my whole heart to fall for her to prevent heart break.
Basically I cant say I have dated more than a girl in the real sense of proper dating.

The thing is this,over the years of my interactions with girls,I have noticed that a lot of them pretend a lot and they have a very big ego,and pride. It's annoys me a lot,just because you are a female you think every guy that talks to you wants to date you So you deliberately starts acting in an unfriendly manner towards the guy,why do girls do this? Some girls feel pompous and they act like they defecate flowers.

Some are So self important, they feel it's a privilege that they are even responding to you.

Another annoying thing about them is that, they feel they are always right, just for the fact that they are females that makes them always right.

I have been rejected by some(painful) I have rejected some also,some have played tricks on me,some have betrayed me,some are heartless, I hate to break girls heart but it's just unavoidable, I can't make myself like a girl that likes me first, and if I show my likeness to a girl they start forming like that they are more important than you are.

Generally I feel So negative towards girls,ladies, women however you want to call them, I am more inclined to insult a girl/lady than to insult a guy, I feel a deep resentment for them,like I need to teach them a lesson.


IS THIS NORMAL? What can be done about it,if it isn't.