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anelta:
Maybe she sees u as a brother or maybe she really likes u buh scared to be in a relationship wif u cos of sex...yea it's possible
Just ask her wat she thinks about u

I don't care if she friend zone me or not, what I don't understand is, if she has friendzoned me, why is she acting that way towards me, as if she has some other intentions for me.

Can u be acting that way to a guy you friend zoned?

AfroKnight:
Give her space. Ignore her and get close to other girls. If she complains, tell her that she can only have you around if she agrees to be your girlfriend. Don't be there for her anymore. Make sure she needs you. Meet other interesting girls. That way you won't be dependent on her even if she finally says yes to you.

That's what I plan on doing, I have so many gals that like me, I plan on dating another gal and completely shutting her out. This same gal can't do without talking to me for a week, she wld definitely send me a msg , "that i should well-done, that I didn't greet her since bla bla"

Girls are just confused souls, I will be happy with another babe than her.

handie:
Op, I hope u ain't talking about my bae. If she's fair and in Unizik with all these other descriptions you've given, then she's my bae and you had better leave her. Did she tell u my dad is a colonel and I know where he keeps his service pistol? Well, if you ain't in Unizik, I'll advice u to try and do weeweechu with her.... That's ur only ticket outta this friendzone u find yourself.... If she's in Unizik, u better steer clear

What's weeweechu?

sseunth:
She don friend zone u already.....let her strt sharing her relationship probs with u....

From there, u will start gvn her positive advice....be her confidant......

And u will have her forever

If u are giving gals relationship advise, better stop it, especially if u have any feelings for them, some guys are busy fUvckkking her u are busy giving advice.

SeverusSnape:
I be decoder

Anyway, She just friend-zoned you.

How will a girl be doing all that if she has friendzoned me, read the story again, I have updated it.

MikelEleta:
Be careful bro cos ur almst in dt friendzone area. Y nt speak to her frnd to knw d real reason y she doesn't wnt to date yu cos ladies say dose kind of tins to their frnds. Trust me no mata ow gud she may seem she myt tink ur too gentle jst lyk her nd she nids someone wid more action nd fun. Dts ladies for u bro buh kip on trying. Don't give up jst yet

Am among the only close friend she has in the university, I doubt her roommates are close to her. And I am not too gentle. I have tried doing crazy things with her which she stopped me from doing. You see?

Jhenny:
i cant decode either. Girls are confused beings. Nobody understands us. Trust me,u never will

But what do you think she is doing? I just want to hear from a female perspective.
I have an idea, just want to confirm it here.
Ihavee updated the story, check the last paragraphs.

sseunth:
She don friend zone u already.....let her strt sharing her relationship probs with u....

From there, u will start gvn her positive advice....be her confidant......

And u will have her forever

So while I am advising her on relationships , another guy is fucking her? God forbid!!!!

I don't even wish my enemy to be in that kind of position, I would rather stop talking to her than be in her friend zone. When they did not curse me. Over my dead body

There is this girl (20 years old) in my university, we are in the same department, the girl is very analytical and a Catholic , she is pretty too and has class. She is also intelligent. I never knew she had a boyfriend in another university, whom she hasn't seen for a long time(long distance relationship). I didnt bo her to ask her whether she has a boyfriend because its not in my nature to do that, I just go for any girl that interest me. So I started showing this girl interest, although I didn't make it obvious because I wasn't sure how she feels for me, it was later that she told me she can't date me because she doesn't feel the same way for me, and that she has a long distance boyfriend. So anyway, we agreed to be just friends, after so many thoughts and fighting on my own side. But I still get jealous when I see her playing with another guy, anyway it seems I have overcome that jealousy.

What I don't understand is why does this girl like hanging out with me almost all the time?
She sometimes calls me at evening time to see her, she takes me around school(on feet) to romantic places, telling me how she sees couples making out etc. Always walking with me after class, although she has told me she doesnt have friends like that, anywhere you see me you are likely to see her. She is conservative, doesnt hug, maybe because of her big boobs i dont know. Although I have told her never to discuss about her relationship problems with me in this friendship because I hate the feeling of being friendzoned. So she has never done that. I noticed this girl does almost anything I ask her to do, and she always try not to get on my bad side. If I tell her that she is doing something I dont like, she stops doing it and would never do it again, almost like I have her remote control with me. The only thing she avoids is getting romantic with me, she avoids talking romance or anything that could bring up "love" emotions between us. I was shocked the day she asked me about my past relationships, who broke up with who? Have I had sex before? Etc.
She told me later that she has broken up with her bf and she might not want to move on, that she wasn't happy about it , broken up for the past three weeks before I
Finally decided to chip in "going beyond friendship" in my conversation with her. She said "don't let's do that"
I asked her why , she said we had discussed about it before and concluded. I told her people change and shit happens, and she told me she knows, that she still maintain her stance.

So I made her realise that once I have a gf I won't be spending time with her that much etc. And then she was surprised, saying my gf wld be matured enough to give me space, i told her it doesn't work that way.
It was later later that she asked me what prompted that ? That I must have thought of somethiñg to say it out, that it has been locked up insid. Asking me that have I seen a girl that I like? Why is she asking me that, if she is not interested in dating me?
Anyway thAts the major thing, the reason why I did that was to figure out if this girl has any hidden intention with me or something, what do you think?
Is she using me to fill in space of her absent bf?
What is she doing?
What am I not noticing?
What's going on?

I need both male and female advice and interpretation. Thanks a lot

Remember the long story I wrote about a girl I was confused of, whether she has friendzoned me or not, well the truth was that, I know she has friendzoned me, what I don't understand is her clinginess to me.

Well now I understand, she just loves my company, I am a very funny and light headed person, I know how to cool off the tension and make people feel so relaxed and comfortable that they can tell me absolutely anything, yes that's the way I am, I have that charm to make people very comfortable that they open up to me. She has never seen such a guy before, and she really valued the friendship being the first of its kind she would experience,and it wasn't because I was the typical "nice guy", who always get friendzoned, she has even told me before that I wasn't nice. I always speak up my mind, I am not an a$s$ licker and I am a cool fellow to hang out with .

Anyway. The truth is that, if I keep on being her friend, I will keep on tormenting myself and getting jealous beyond my control because the feelings will still be there and I am fvvcking straight. It's impossible for me to be just friends with her without having desire for more, and I totally understand that she is a girl and it is VERY easy for her to be just friends with me because she is a lady and female brains are wired differently from male brains, scientific researches has confirmed that straight males can't be just friends with females without having desires for more once in a while or just at least once. Check the research work here--->
http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/
So thanks again for those who gave good comments, for those who came here to mock, for those who came to look for trouble, for those who just came here to ask me to face my book, as if I told them I am not serious with my education, narrow minded people
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Why do some girls behave like robots?
She told me yesterday that she quit , I asked her if she made the decision overnight, then she said because her pastor said having bf is a sin, except fiance, pls where is it in the bible. What sort of fish brain does some girls have like this?

This also applies to other things too, their pastor will tell them for instance its a sim to wear trouser, whereas there is no trouser in the bible, or maybe the pastor will say its a sin to give Ur husband Mouth Action, when there is no Mouth Action in the bible, .

ethene:
U sounded too childish & irresponsible. My advice is leave that girl alone she is nt ur wife, immoral lifestyle wil lead u no where. I jst pity girls at time 4 instance the girl that calls u her bf. U are here to advertise wht u did wit her in secret. Let me tel u something, u may feel afterall u woun't marry her that u can use her the way u want i bet u that is hw somebody some where is busy too smooching & milking the hell out of the girl u wil eventually marry & equally publicising it 2 the whole world possibly wit photo evidence

Ohhhh my.....
It seems Ur boobs are fallen too, its not my fault poor lady.
Wow I am publicizing what I did with her in public wow I guess you know who she is now! you also know her name right? more so you know who I am too that means you can recognize me and girlfriend wherever you see us and get me arrested for my crimes am so scared , I have to run away, I pray you don't see me face to face.

By the way, who told u I don't plan on marrying her?
Have you taken a chill pill and allowed your brain to function then ask yourself "why would he be concerned about the girl's boobs if he wasn't going to marry her" , no you wouldn't ask urself, can u see how u allow Ur emotions to becloud Ur senses?

Oya let your emotions take over you again and attack me !!!

MsBliss:
You wish!!!

Am just 21 and in my prime .

U never jamb, I have seen a 16 year old with fallen boobs before. Don't worry u hear, some guys don't mind girls with fallen boobs. Stay happy.

girlsCAFE:
Dude these two laws will answer your question

LAW OF ELASTICITY (HOOKE'S LAW)

LAW OF DIMINISHING RETURN

scientifically and economically you have ur answer.

Don't forget that everything that goes up will surely come down

Perfect answer. Thanks for such technicality in answering my question.

MsBliss:
I wonder o.No matter how firm it is now,it must surely sag one day.I no dey kuku put mind for all those things. Op dey dey worry on behalf of eim babe.see love

Seems Ur boobs are fallen like Jericho, the lord is Ur support

FemiEddy:
See a doctor bro, and take it easy wif her boobs na

Why should i? They are fuCkKiIng mine!!

I have a girlfriend and she has very big set of breasts, I love smooching them and I cant get enough of them.

I hate imagining that the breasts will get sagged because of that, pls experts in the house will smooching cause the breasts to sag, if so how can I prevent that and still enjoy her breasts.

I have a girlfriend and she has very big set of breasts, I love smooching them and I cant get enough of them.

I hate imagining that the breasts will get sagged because of that, pls doctors in the house will smooching cause the breasts to sag, if so how can I prevent that and still enjoy her breasts.