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This reminds me of one big lady I once dated, money plenty, 2 cars, house, but the babe doesn't smile at all, she's always on men's boxers that looks like Pampers, always asking useless questions that makes my gbola limp even be4 anything happens lolz,I loved her like a sister, she's not bad though, but I had no single attraction towards her, I couldn't even touch her for almost a year, I was just using church as an excuse lolz,.

Hahaha if you don't clarify and let her know your intentions before any date night, you will probably just learn the hard way, after spending like 30k , the babe will chop and tell you she just want to be casual friends .
Then you will go home and start thinking of things you would have done with that 30k lolz

Nigerians are very wicked and terrible people,, labour union should protect these poor workers seriously..
Most of these women will hire these poor workers, and then turn them from sales girls or cook to into errand house girls and daycare without any salary increment,.
When they complain, they simply ask them to stop working without paying them off

Yeye lazy man!! You should be happy she aggreed 50/50, that's a big blessing. I wonder why you still wanting more

Nigerians are just terrible set of people, labour party that couldn't even win counselorship before obi appearance.
But Immediately obi appeared and made your party popular, y'all started fighting for party leadership.
Now obi have left and the fighting have automatically died completely and party is back to square one, and you are angry at obi instead if working on your greediness

If we investigate properly now, we will realize all of you saying these rubbish are probably broke and do not have a healthy relationship! because you have filled your mindset with rubbish
If you still can't tell that every woman/man is different and unique in there own way, then you probably are not matured yet.
I have dated a rich a babe who lives in a duplex alone, but she had a smelly character and nearly turn me to a houseboy.
My current neighbor is a working class but everyday she's at my door begging lol.
My girl works as a cook, but she has never ask or takes anything I give her, yet she still calls me like 10 times a day, I don't even call her....
The point I am trying to make is that everybody is different in their own way regardless of their status, and it all boils down to how, who, where they were trained and brought up.
You can't expect a girl from a violent broken home to behave normal, or an olosho babe to act normal,. And some of you will also be going for those girls you clearly know do not like you, and then you try to win her by showing her money.
And lastly their should be a valid reason for going into a relationship, that will make it easy to navigate and find someone who best fill the Gap.

FBIBOT:
Why though.... Why go through such mess.... I can't believe it though.... How did people not notice right away during previous frying.... Besides the smell alone would have draw people attention during patronage

so you don't shit fried with bean, peppers and onions will have good flavor abi

Some Poor people can be so entitled ehh! They always feel people owe them something, and when they don't get it, they become evil, and can hurt you real bad while smiling with you

What has this got to do with Nigeria?

People should understand that there are 2 types of besties.
There are real besties you mostly find in school settings.,
And there are criminal hungry people lurking around neighborhoods looking for nice empathetic Men they can manipulate for their own selfish survival interest.,

BigYash:
What's all these ones even saying. Besties don't pay bills,the real boyfriend does. So she just liked you and wanted you guys to be nacking. Forget the drama around it,na so some ladies dey do. She is probably bored of the main guy,she just wan taste new joy stick. Using bastie as wooing partner,since she can't come straight.

You went and mess up. You dey fear bill,when na you suppose dey bill her. If you iron her button well,she will be collecting from main mumu boyfriend to fund you .

lie lie,women usually scan their environment looking for the nicest guy she feels will be easy to extort and depend on for her daily crucial needs,there are somethings she can't ask her serious BF, and that's were bestie comes in

L1TTLE:
Theres this girl i am getting along with, we had a connection so I thought cuz everything was easy, she likes talking to me, she gave me her number without me asking for it, we got along very easily like I've known her for long.

I had the feeling that things are getting serious so I i asked her if she's single before I waste my time, lo and behold she's not, I then asked her what's the purpose of all this then? She then shamelessly said we can be besties, I i told her point blank with disgust that I don't need a bestie, someone she can be billing while her boyfriend stays wherever he is, boyfriend duties but you're the besty, naso this girl vex and started saying everything has changed simply because she told me she's in a relationship.

What was once a delightful interaction is now resentment, we don't talk again sef.

this is what I am currently facing, infact we just passed each other few minutes ago without greeting each other.
Women are becoming so shameless these days.
there's this lady that just packed into my compound like 7 days ago and she's all over my left, right and center forcing her bestie rubbish on me, and trying to extort me, and use all my household items eg fridge, dstv, Data sub, gas, knife, bucket, foodstuff.. all within 7days.
The funny part is she have a boyfriend who normally sneaks in 11pm at night to service the kitten, and in the morning she will run to her bestie to beg lolz.
I told her I am not interested in her bestie nonsense, and immediately she stopped talking and answering my greetings, but I don't care, I feel so much relieved now

scantee:
Arsenal really have a good defence, but they should allow this match to entertain us like final with, this bus parking is much na

they should entertain you and lose the match abi

Everything I bought on temi works fine, the problem is just their fake adverts, fake promos, gimmicks and spamming emails, I think that's how they do their businesses in China, of which other countries are not used to

Sonofgod1990:
I remember buying intimacy gadgets for my woman through this temu.. they are still working up till today

are you serious? You have mind oo. I am shocked!!!!!
Boss but why would you do this? I'm trying to understand lol

I see nothing wrong with what he said, if una like cry blood!!
You voted in tinubu and most of you still support him till date, so why should someone else whom have been warning you against your decision now grief with you when you choice of vote backfires?

You are a very very bad reporter,, I don't even understand any single thing you wrote.
Your caption is saying something totally different from Your report , and then you used a "bracket' where you shouldn't. And then you saying you don't want to expose them, which makes you sound so foolish, because why would you bring it here since you don't want to expose them ??

Weed was never meant for poor people,if you are poor and smoking,you will look way worse than that guy, weed makes you eat 10times the amount you would normally eat in a day, so why would anyone dry up when they are eating 10 times more?
The advantage of weed is that it amplifies whatever feelings and emotions you having, everything starts feeling so good, boredom becomes so sweet, you become more happy with or without friends, doing heavy work becomes so easy and enjoyable.
The disadvantage is that when you get too used to it, it becomes very difficult to go back to your old life, cos without it everything becomes so freaking meaningless, so boring, too tiring, and No fun anymore. Which can cause some people depression
It's just like eating chicken jollof everyday and then suddenly switching to red oil Rice without warning lol

But you can be totally free from it and go back to your default settings if you can abstain from it for at least 6 months.

I know all these because I smoked those days in school, although it wasn't for long, but I planned on smoking again when I am more relaxed and established, maybe when I have my own house with a small garden with a swimming pool and a steady flow of income

ItisWell22:
You dey mind them?

How “really good” do those musicians look?
Looking like patients recovering from AIDS, with all the wealth under their control. 😢

those musicians mostly use weed as cover-up because it's publicly accepted, but behind the scene they take hard drugs like ice, cocaine, heroin.

People are beginning to enjoy the extra holiday,, I don't think it's about MNK anymore

Where una dey see all these kind husband sef??
Oya na leave your house and enter bush, so you can save house rent money, or go exchange your TV for black and white so u can reduce cost of electricity

The media should stop making this kind of things popular, we all know she didn't buy that house from acting, so why put pressure on young girls growing up over lies

3 bedroom and parlor semi duplex 200k

Some of all these guys commenting here have never being in a real relationship, the way all these boys on nairaland talk sometimes is just so surprising..
Op with this kind of your mentality, you will end up becoming a woman beater, you are going into a relationship and you already have this negative mindset embedded inside you. Very bad!!!
How much do you have?, what impact have you made in her life?, and what assurance have you given her, that made you think you deserve 100% of her loyalty?

Bro this is normal for most men, I think it's testosterone/ hormones, and change of environment also, it happened to me years back when I relocated to benin it later cleared on its own after a long time

People do not know that our govt is behind this Fulani and farmers clash, that's why they are mute whenever things like this happen..
Our govt knows the real truth behind everything happening but they will just keep mute because they see everyone as a fool...
I read somewhere that there was an old agreement between our govt(plus mali,Nigel, Chad etc) and the Fulani nomads concerning walking and feeding routes for their cattles, but due to population growth and expansion, people are now expanding and farming on those routes and dearby triggering famers/Fulani clash...
Few other countries have closed those routes and chased the Fulani out, but our own govt is always non-chalant , and that's why the clash will continue,I dunno if the govt are scared of the North or what..
My own anger is how the govt will keep silent as if they don't know what's going on, when they are the main architect of the problem we are all facing today

lightwind:
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Not marrying this year and renting a bigger apartment to stay..... already clocking 36 yrs 😑😌


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I don't understand plz,, do you prefer staying in a smaller apartment or what?
I'm about moving to a bigger apartment and I'm seeing someone regretting his own progress

AngelicDamsel:
All my mistakes are lessons, however, the most profound lesson I learnt was "your health is your biggest asset".

Many illness will be prevented if you eat enough fruits daily and get good rest.

In all you do, take care of your health!


Meanwhile......

many will not understand this!!
I have been in serious excruciating pain since a week now, at this point I stopped caring about money, food, fights or quarrels, nothing else matters to me now lol, if I see my enemy like this I fit kneel down greet am and pass...
Now I understand the saying "health is wealth"

Everyone have their own preferences,, it's better you observe first and not just open your yarsh and fart because they told you on the Internet that it's a normal thing!!

15 years older than her but you talk like a 10yr old kid!!!
You don't know how to control your words at all,, apart from the grow and be wise nonsense.. making that statement about her mom in front of her is very wrong!!
As an adult, u must learn to control your words, it's not everything that comes to your head you let out, and always make your statements very clear and in full wordings...