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I've told my guy already and he called my parents And told them to give him sometime, even cried to my father . What pains me most is dat he choose to suffer jz to make me happy and he left his parents nd travel to abuja jz to go and work hard dia. He jz understands me Dan every other man. Jz cos of distance he do call me ten times a day even at mid9t but my parents warned me to stop him 4rm calling me like dat, dat he is distracting me nd i told him but still he never complained but rather we talk more on social network.

My dear, i know hw u feel....but u were not careful enough nd u rushed into him. They guy don't luv u cos if he dose then he would have told u about his son nd baby mama if at all he has good motive of dating u. He jz want to use nd u too was carried away by luv dat made u not to dictate the real him. So try to let go nd Look 4 something to keep yourself busy cos according to ur story my dear dat guy no want u again oo nd by careful next time.

My parents won't say any other tin to me but marriage. It kills my spirit cos it looks as if am being used as a sacrifice due to my parents are not capable enough to take care of i nd my siblings so i should marry nd help train them but they don't care about my feeling about who they r pushing me to marry. I'm 23yrs nd my parents push me as if am 30, even my sibling wants me to marry nd each time they do dis it makes me loose focus. They believe am waiting 4 my guy who jz graduated nd becos he don't have money now so they don't want him but he is doing his best by meeting to my need though am not waiting him as my parents do think but still i don't want to hurt him cos he has always stand for him. I promised him dat i will wait 4 him but due to they pressure 4rm my parents i changed my mind. Now, I've gotten a place 4 my I.T so i jz want to focus on my work while i wait 4 him cos i know he has a greater future but my parents are making me unhappy, i think a lot @ my age due to dis. My mum's friend called her yesterday nd told my mum dat she has some who she would like me to marry nd my mum told me nd she gave her friend my number to call me nd inform me about it. U need to see hw my parents where serious even more Dan i do cos she was told dat they man is a big fish(he has lots of money) i was ashamed of them especially my Father. Am jz tired of all dis cos sometimes i regret ever coming to dis world. I jz want to stop being bordered about their pressure on me any more. Plzzzzzzz wat do i do?

I read Office technology and management @ Federal Polytechnic Nekede Owerri and my OND result is awaiting. I dnt knw if i could get any work wit awaiting result in Portharcourt or Aba. Here is my email address....uchechifrancess@yahoo.com. Thnx

I read Office technology and management @ Federal Polytechnic Nekede Owerri and my OND result is awaiting. I dnt knw if i could get any work wit awaiting result in Portharcourt or Aba. Here is my email address....uchechifrancess@yahoo.com. Thnx

I can't taken in 4 him cos my parentz will be disapointed nd is not a good teaching to my only sis

Plz am into a reletionship dat has lasted 4 2yrs now. Am 23y old nd my guy is will be 26y by july nd he stays @ abuja. We met each oda @ skul nd our families, friendz nd reletions knws we'r dating but my guy jz graduated last yr nd i myself am still in skul(on I.T) so we agreed to marry but nw my parents dnt support us anymore cos he has not been established so they wnt me to marry som1 who is established but my problem is dat my guy keeps on begging them to liv me marry him. He told me to relax nd promised me by nxt yr we will get married but my parents still dnt agree cos they beliv he can't take care of me. My problem now is dat am use to him nd getting married to anoda man is diffcult 4 me nd also 4 hw he showed me luv nd cared 4 while he was still in skul even till now. He even accomodated me wen my parentz could not pay my accomodation fee @ skul. I dnt wnt to hurt him nd my parentz are here pushing me to marry som1 else nd beside am not getting younger. Plz dear landers i dnt wnt to make a mistake. Jz tell me wat u tink.