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marcjoe: Hmm...do u mean u r stuck on that pre email bla bla....

Maybe u should try joe4real21@yahoo.com..

No black berry sent me a message to my mail dat am not in e front line. Wen I activated it says congratulations bla black n says click next to set up bbm n wen I do dat nothing happens.

Someone should pls help me I was sent a message by BlackBerry yet wen I continue d process dey ll say set up bb n it won't move further.

Pls some one should tell me how to download it.franceschinelo@gmail.com. Tnks guys.

FrancisTony: you are fool man

A big FOOL at that.

Am 4th

I told the girl that she should avoid him. I don't want to hear his name in her mouth cos tomorrow now he ll use shopping or phone to apologize to her n she ll tell me she s pitying him.

iamlegend:

Then the problem is not just from your cousin, but also from the girl. What's tying her to your brother despite the real fact that she can never live in peace with him? Whether money, love, social circumstance or any other thing, I don't really care, and whatever it is, I feel she should first face this fact. She should know that whatever the ties, things just can't work out for the both of them. For Christ's sake, you are a lady, so put yourself in her shoes and let your fighter for a brother also know he's got a sister. She seems persistent and I don't like it. She needs a real life and not hiding under the shadow of one guy because of some reason. The Person I blame the most is actually the girl and not your brother. So she's a rag that he can trample upon any time he feels like, abi? How I wish that girl had some kind of 'radically mad' brothers that can actually bundle ur cousin (no offence) in the trunk of his car and actually teach him how to treat a lady nicely. SMH.

I have tried telling. I told him the last time that if my bf beat me up the way he does to the girl. How would he respond. He said I don't talk to him the way she does.

GH PATRIOT: How do you mean? Ghana Police does not condone such acts.

She has reported him a number of times. He ll pay and dey ll call d gal to advise her.

kokoA: Did your father ever hit you mother? Do you have an uncle who beats his wife? What about you elder brothers? Do they beat their wives? I need to know.. Maybe its genetic.

No they don't. I have not seen them.

iamlegend: For ur bros mind him na guy, abi? Behaving like an animal. Sorry to say, but the girl is senseless if she remains in such a relationship. He does not need the police, he needs psychiatric attention. So one idiot that my sis is dating will havie the guts to threat her like that? Like an animal? Whether he be her husband or not, he no fit try that kind thing na. Or is it because of the little money he feels he has? There are guys wealthier than him and far more matured. He's acting like a kid. Advice, tell him to grow up. I don't blame him at all, I blame the girl. I assume this is definitely not the first time and the girl still get mind to remain in such foolishness.

Dey av broken up a number of times. D last time he pushed her out of the car as he s driving. He promised me not to lay his hand on her but he won't stop.

AmBeautiful: @ Op

Are you guys related to Evander Holifield?

No

SniperInADiaper: Amen!

But ladies trapped in these are victims of other circumstances too. They must get the proper help before they can leave.

How will they get help.

Priscaboss: That guy needs deliverance

Exactly

iydih: This is really an abusive relationship..... She should break up with the guy if she's ready to live long..... A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

U are right. Nice write up.

SniperInADiaper: Brother or cousin? Which is it?

Go knock some sense into that boy.

Even without knocking sense into him. He ll come back n apologise. He is my cousin. Which makes him my brother as well.

iydih: They better call the police........

He knows d police. He ll just go n come back. They are in Ghana.

She has called her friends as she managed to take her phone from him and called me too. Her friends threatened to call the police for him and he allowed them pick her up. Mean while this is not the first time this is happening and I already told the gal to leave him but he ll go back n cry and plead. Today I told her to avoid seeing him face to face cos am sure after tomorrow he ll try to apologise. She should tell everybody that knows them what he s always doing to her. I hope it works.

I just woke up to pee. I usually silence my phone before going to bed. I looked at d phone I saw 10 missed call from my brothers girlfriend and a text message that my brother will kill her. I called her immediately, she was crying and told me that my brother came to her house and wanted to sleep over. She told him no that she has lectures and its midnight. He then told her to come outside which she did and he dragged her to his house. Tore her clothes on her street. Pushed her into his car. When she refused to come down from the car he carried her by force. As they got to the stair case she slipped and fell. Right now she s having serious pains on her waist and hand. I called my brother and he said he ll call me in the morning. Am so worried about the girl.

Oct 4th

Nothing ll happen. I can't even hug him.

Hmmm. Asians can do anything these days.

Individuals differ some are nice and some aren't. D best bet is to learn their character n follow them d way they want.

Uyi Iredia: It is normal. I think it is because of your love for him. But it isn't good. It smacks of emotional weakness. Offence is inevitable in human relationships because no one is perfect. At some point, despite or because of your efforts, you'll offend your partner. Apologize and shrug it off and use wisdom. God bless !

Thanks a lot.

[quote author=fresh_dude]OP, you lack a sense of humour that's why. Get a sense of humour. You'd hurt way way less.[/quote]How do I do that.
@excel He is my bf so wat else

@holly u are right

oyinbogirl: An emotional person always has higher sensitivity & feels things more deeply than one who is not more emotional. living with this can be hard cos you try to change the way you feel but cant. I can feel you are sensitive girl but dnt worry you are not alone. We are out there

Thanks I appreciate.

D first thing u have to do is to let her know. She ll be mad for sure but explain to her. If she disagrees den so be it. As I read d story I already saw her as ur wife. Her decisions matters a lot. Judging from what u said if she finds herself in similar shoe she either goes with u or u approve her movement. Lastly that u are travelling to Europe doesn't mean things ll be better there even with ur friends promises.

If ur mum ain't harsh confide in her. Abortion s dangerous with d fact dat d gal s so young. Let d family decide. She might even be pulling ur legs.

idnoble135: Could not help asking, someone tell the girl the consequence and then?

D family decides. His mum ll talk to d gal n family n if d family wants d boy to marry d gal he shud bring her home but some families might want d gal to terminate d baby instead of disgracing them. I av seen cases like dat.

Why do I sense that the guy won't pay u a dime. Once u accept this offer u ll loose d gal. Be wisewise. U ar selling ur love for d love of money. If its a gal nw u guys ll start saying gals are bad.

ITbomb: Have you check the spiritual aspect of it.
May your former bf did say something serious or family issues
Dont get angry with me but check on how ur family members are going on with their relationship.

Do u mean d way my siblings are going on in their relationship can define mine