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Stoke city star, Saido Berahino is at the ­centre of a legal battle over claims he has fathered a hat-trick of children in less than two months.

The Sun reports that Stoke striker is named on birth certificates as the father of two babies — born on May 30 and July 17. His lawyers are in talks with another woman who claims he is dad of her tot born on July 15.

On the pitch, Berahino, 25, finally ended a 913-day scoring drought in Stoke’s 2-0 Carabao Cup win over Huddersfield in August. But he’s still fathered more kids than he has scored goals this season.

Mum No. 1 is ex-fiancee, Stephania, who gave birth to son, Costa, on May 30. Mum No. 2 is an African-born nurse, who gave birth to a girl on July 15. Mum No. 3 is Chelsea, who gave birth to, Aniya, on July 17.

Source: http://freddiebaba.com/footballer-berahino-welcomes-3-babies-with-3-women-in-6-weeks/

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So you recently got a girl’s number and you’re feeling all excited. You want to build a strong bond with her. You are well on your way to holding conversations through text and/or phone call. But along the line, there’s just one problem. She won’t call or text you back. Here is a break down of reasons as to why this might be happening.

1. You’re boring
There’s a good chance she won’t text or call you back, simply because you’re boring and don’t present any useful tactics to engage in conversation. Try to connect with her more from different standpoints that she isn’t accustomed to.

2. She’s just not interested in you
You could be the most charming guy on this planet– If she isn’t interested in you, there will be no chance for your survival in text or call.
Being interested is a vital aspect to receiving that all-so important text or call back. Her lack of interest could be why you’re not having much luck.

3. You get on her nerves
Getting on a girl’s nerves is one of the quickest ways to kick yourself off her radar, especially if you are new in her life.
Any negativity that you bring within her daily function, will cause her to take steps away from you, resulting in no text or phone call.

4. You guys share no common interest
We stated that she may be interested in you, but what if you guys share little-to-no common interest? If so, there’s a chance the conversation in which you two engage with just doesnt fit with what she is looking for.

5. You’re forcing the conversation
The natural spark of conversation is an important factor in keeping a girl interested. If she feels as though the conversation is being forced and not sparking her interest, she will likely disengage; maybe not so quickly though.
You may notice that frequent conversations can turn into no conversation, at all. If this is the case, hold off texting for a couple of days.

6. She’s busy
An idle mind is a dangerous force. The girl you are interested in may be too busy to text or call you. This does not imply that she is not interested, she’s just short on leisure time and looks to put her focus elsewhere. It’s important that you don’t force a conversation with just boring texts.

7. She notice you’re only interested in one thing
There’s nothing wrong with being interested in one thing. It becomes a problem when that one “thing” is getting her into bed. She is unlikely to contact you if you show little interest in anything else.
Unless you two have a mutual agreement that that’s where the bond between you guys will head, this will not play out in your favor.

Source: http://freddiebaba.com/7-reasons-she-doesnt-call-or-text-back/

Getting over someone isn’t easy, and mending a broken heart takes effort. When is it time to start seeing someone new? Is it as soon as I download Bumble and get my first match? Is it a competition to see who can move on first? Or should I wait until I’ve actually learned the lessons from my past relationship, and my heart feels healed and open again? Clearly, that would be the most mature route.

Here are some comforting signs you’re ready to move on from your last relationship, since it’s really best to wait until you’re ready.

1. You Don’t Stalk Your Ex’s Social Media
Most people definitely fall victim to this. Some go to the extent of deleting their Facebook because they could not stop checking up on their ex and his/her relationship status on it.

I believe that unfollowing exes on social media is self-care, and sometimes, in an effort to move on, you have to do it. If you are no longer checking your ex’s social media, or if it doesn’t trigger you and send you on a downward spiral, it’s a good sign you’re ready for someone new.

2. Songs On The Radio Don’t Remind You Of Your Ex
The moment where love songs on the radio do not remind you of anyone is the moment where you are truly liberated from any form of heartache. While there are plenty of songs that you can use as a barometer of judging whether or not you still love your ex, I find that Gotye’s “Somebody That I Used To Know” works best.

If you can get through the entirety of the above video without a single memory of your past, then you have, indeed, moved on from your past relationship. Give it a go. Do you pass the test?

3. You’re Not Dating To Make Your Ex Jealous
If you’ve moved on from your past, though, you don’t care about what your ex does. You probably don’t want them to know your business. You’d like to protect them from further heartbreak, and you wish them the best. You’re not trying to incite jealousy or anger for the sake of reigniting conversation or drama.

If you’re dating without your ex in mind, then you’re probably actually ready to move on. But if you are excessively posting pictures on the Internet or writing statuses about how happy you are, then you might be dating for someone else, not for you.

4. You Don’t Think Of Your Ex When Personal Life Events Occur
When you face various personal life events and you quickly reach out to your Ex about them, then you’ve probably not moved on yet.

When life events occur and you don’t use them as an excuse to reach out to someone from your past, that means you probably have both feet planted firmly in the present.

5. Hooking Up With Someone New Doesn’t Make You Sad
You’ve been there before: You think you are finally over your ex, you go on a great date with someone new, you go in for the kiss or maybe something more, and automatically, you are reminded of your past and are overwhelmed with missing your ex. You can’t wait to get home and call them, stalk their social media, or beg to get back together. Nothing compares to them. A new person’s lips feel entirely different, and you’re sure you will never get used to someone else again.

It’s a horrible sinking feeling. But if you don’t feel that, then you have definitely moved on. Sometimes, if we’ve rushed into something new too quickly, our bodies and our minds are just not ready for it. But if the timing is right, a new person won’t remind you of what you’ve left behind. They will make you excited about the future.

Source: http://freddiebaba.com/5-signs-youre-finally-over-your-ex-and-ready-to-move-on/