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Christianity EtcRe: Viral Lesbian Couple Jasmine And Lily End Relationship After Finding Jesus(video by fredpeter(m): 9:16am On Jul 12
jesusjnr2020:
Viral Lesbian Couple Jasmine And Lily End Relationship After Finding JESUS

Jasmine and Lily, a lesbian couple who had built a significant following online through their romantic relationship, recently announced that they have ended their relationship after encountering Jesus Christ.

According to their testimony, they believed the lie that they could continue in the same-sex relationship and still be following Christ which wasn't true.

Hence after God revealed that to them, they decided to lay their relationship down and pick up the cross to begin to truly follow Jesus.

Watch video:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muT6T-Wlwes?si=EYdHUoZ40FM2eHxn
Who the son of God has set free is free indeed
RomanceRe: The Two Extremes Many Men Feel Trapped Between by fredpeter(m): 1:03pm On Jul 11
Dpsychologist:
There is something I have observed over the years, and I would like to hear other people's opinions on it.

Many men seem to end up in one of two extremes.

If you are the confident, unpredictable and "bad boy" type, many women appear to enjoy the excitement you bring. They overlook your flaws, forgive your mistakes more easily and sometimes even compete for your attention. You become someone they want to chase, even when your actions do not always deserve it.

On the other hand, if you are the dependable, respectful and genuinely kind man, life can take a completely different turn. Instead of being appreciated, your kindness is sometimes mistaken for weakness. Your generosity becomes an expectation insteadTitle: As a Man, You Are Either the Exciting Guy or the Useful Guy. Why Is There Rarely a Balance?

There is something I have observed over the years, and I would like to hear other people's opinions on it.

Many men seem to end up in one of two extremes.

If you are the confident, unpredictable and "bad boy" type, many women appear to enjoy the excitement you bring. They overlook your flaws, forgive your mistakes more easily and sometimes even compete for your attention. You become someone they want to chase, even when your actions do not always deserve it.

On the other hand, if you are the dependable, respectful and genuinely kind man, life can take a completely different turn. Instead of being appreciated, your kindness is sometimes mistaken for weakness. Your generosity becomes an expectation instead of something valued. Your time, your emotional support and your money slowly become things people feel entitled to rather than grateful for.

Many good men have discovered that the more they give without setting boundaries, the more they are expected to give. The relationship gradually becomes less about mutual love and more about what they can provide. Once they stop providing, the treatment often changes almost immediately.

This raises an uncomfortable question.

Why does it sometimes seem easier to be desired as the exciting man than appreciated as the dependable man?

Personally, I do not think the solution is becoming toxic or pretending to be a bad boy. Neither do I believe men should become bitter or stop being kind.

The real solution is balance.

A man should be kind but never naive. He should be generous but not allow himself to be exploited. He should love deeply while still maintaining self respect. He should help willingly without becoming anyone's personal ATM.

Kindness without boundaries attracts exploitation. Confidence without character creates chaos. Healthy relationships require both love and mutual respect.

Perhaps the biggest lesson for men is this: never build your entire value around what you can provide financially. Build yourself into a man whose presence, character and principles are just as valuable as his wallet.

What do you think?

Do you agree that many men are either explored for excitement or exploited for provision, or do you see it differently? of something valued. Your time, your emotional support and your money slowly become things people feel entitled to rather than grateful for.

Many good men have discovered that the more they give without setting boundaries, the more they are expected to give. The relationship gradually becomes less about mutual love and more about what they can provide. Once they stop providing, the treatment often changes almost immediately.

This raises an uncomfortable question.

Why does it sometimes seem easier to be desired as the exciting man than appreciated as the dependable man?

Personally, I do not think the solution is becoming toxic or pretending to be a bad boy. Neither do I believe men should become bitter or stop being kind.

The real solution is balance.

A man should be kind but not naive. He should be generous but not allow himself to be exploited. He should love deeply while still maintaining self respect. He should help willingly without becoming everyone's personal ATM.

Kindness without boundaries attracts exploitation. Confidence without character creates chaos. Healthy relationships require both love and mutual respect.

Perhaps the biggest lesson for men is this: never build your entire value around what you can provide financially. Build yourself into a man whose presence, character and principles are just as valuable as his wallet.

What do you think?

Do you agree that many men are either explored for excitement or exploited for provision, or do you see it differently?
My take is which ever of the extremes you find yourself please make sure whatever you do is giving glory to God
Christianity EtcRe: Why Some Pastors Avoid Preaching About Hellfire by fredpeter(m): 7:47pm On Jun 28
Janosky:
True words you said..

Hellfire nah format to instill fear.
Jesus Christ never taught anything about it.
Please read your Bible very well.. particularly the book of Matthew 10 and 11... Hell is real. But that was never God's intention for mankind. The Bible says it is not the will of the father to perish but to come repentance... Jesus has paid the price already all you need to do is accept him as your Lord and personal Savior, repent of your sins Genuinely and ask Jesus to take over your life and affairs.... You must understand that as much as God is a loving father he is also a consuming fire. The Bible said it is a fearful thing to fall into the hand of God.
HealthRe: Woman Collapses, Dies On Ajah Bridge While Returning From Market (Video, Photos) by fredpeter(m): 6:02pm On Jun 22
Righteousness2:
Condolences.

Life is Like a Vapor. Here now and Gone the Next Moment.
The Breath in you and I is NOT in our Power.
You are NOT the owner of the Breath in you.
Quit all these braggings and noise of this person is this and that. We all are nothing but Mere Dust.

The Moment the owner of the Breath takes HIS breath, we are Gone.

Most Important, Live this Life in the Conciousness of your Eternity.
Heaven is Real
Hell is Real
There Is NO Repentance in the Grave.
Make Peace with JESUS now that you Have the opportunity.

No truer words than this Sir.
The Bible said it is not his wish that any man should perish but to come to repentance... There is no better time to accept Jesus than now
CrimeRe: Woman Kills Herself In Anambra Over Breakup With Boyfriend After 3 Abortions by fredpeter(m): 5:48pm On Jun 22
Fekumzi123:
You're absolutely right.
As a man, if a girl is denying me sx I will not be happy with her but I don't want to have a daughter that opens her leg to any man anyhow or before marriage.
In fact I don't even want my son to have sex until he has his own business and house.
There's little fun and enjoyment in it but in reality it is slowing you down. Your energy and resources you could have channel towards a more productive life.
And I strongly support those girls who says no sx for broke men because they're actually trying to help them.
Apart from the consequences you mentioned, there are spiritual consequences to it, SEX is called Spirit exchange the same way u have FOREX which is foreign exchange...people entangle themselves into covenants they don't know because of sex... The best is to surrender to Jesus and he will take care of the rest
Christianity EtcRe: Why You Should Accept Jesus and Repent Now by fredpeter(m): 7:26pm On Jun 21
PureNigerian:
You and your fake jesus go kpai
Jesus loves you and you will see it
Christianity EtcRe: Ex-transgender: What Pride Month Means To Me by fredpeter(m): 3:02pm On Jun 14
Kingpele:
Thank God for saving your soul ...on judgement day humanity will realise that there were never freedom in sin ,wickedness and evil ..God is not mocked a person will live forever with his or her decision while still on the earth ,eternally...in eternity sin is eternal pain and agony due to permanent separation from the creator of the human body, soul and spirit ...the pain by the revelation of jesus christ is worse than losing family and the world ...because losing the eternal company of the maker of all things naturally should be more painful than losing that which he created...but on earth sin is fun and good living to those in bandage of satan
You said it all.... There is no fun in sin. There is peace and contentment in serving the Lord. Jesus Christ is the only way
Christianity EtcRe: Why You Should Accept Jesus and Repent Now by fredpeter(m): 2:44pm On Jun 07
Ebenezer2021:
Better use another means if you want to convert people to Christianity and leave this hell fire story
You wan use the fear of hell fire threaten Atheists to convert to Christ?
You're a joke.
Your evangelism journey is still very far
God bless this brother below, you said it all.
I wonder why the fear of hell fire should motivate or scare one into repentance and following Jesus. That's following Christ or should I say Homelander because of fear of being lasered.
It is not a Joke it's just the whole truth... Its either you accept Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior or you will be damned... Christ died for us all that we should be saved, its a free pathway to salvation if you will just accept him and repent from your evil ways... Whichever way you want to see it.. the truth is Hell is real and Heaven is real. The choice is yours to make. But I beseech you that you chose heaven.
CelebritiesRe: There Is A Quest To Islamize Nigeria And It Is Happening Slowly - Verydarkman by fredpeter(m): 8:45pm On Jun 06
alanto:
VDM is a content creator. What he does is to creat content for engagement.

Read that again.
u need help....
PoliticsRe: 2027: Governor Alex Otti Emerges Abia Labour Party Governorship Candidate by fredpeter(m): 1:02pm On Jun 01
Thewrath:
Normally ,he no get replacement anywhere.
If they like they should allow apc to rig,they will claim all his achievements they are used to reaping where they didn’t sow.
His case is unriggable
PoliticsRe: Oluremi Tinubu Rallies Support For Oyebanji’s Re-Election, Donates ₦100 Million by fredpeter(m): 12:32pm On Jun 01
I
adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/oluremi-tinubu-rallies-support-for-oyebanjis-re-election-donates-n100m
So u have 100million to give away but u don't have it to motivate the armed forces to comb the forest and smoke those bandits... come and enter heaven lemme see
PoliticsRe: 2027: Peter Obi Emerges As NDC’s Only Presidential Aspirant by fredpeter(m): 11:39am On May 22
Nijablast:
Obi can't become Nigeria president.
Get that into your skull
Says someone who can't go to adamawa by road
CelebritiesRe: Insecurity: Nigerians Dying On Your Mandate – Actor, Laide Olabanji Tells Tinubu by fredpeter(m): 8:18am On May 21
AMI3:
Bros no vex. Calm down an understand him.
There are people on this forum that feels it is only " Igbo ' people that hate Tinubu.

Now look at it this way. If somebody like that is a Yoruba guy criticize Tinubu if they don't know u are from Yoruba they will call u"igbo' does that really make sense l?

We are looking for a better country irrespective of where the person is from, not to attack everybody that criticized this government as an Igbo it doesn't make sense.

I remember when they said Obasanjo is an Igbo because he criticized Tinubu government.

U should have address those that tagged everybody that criticized Tinubu government Igbo not they guy.

On this same thread somebody has already rope the actor as an" Igbo actor." May be the next person may call him "Omo le' if I am right there

Is that not madness?
U need to rebuke them bro because we are suffering for it not a particular tribe or religion.
Ask them if yaradua was an igbo man... But he was loved I mean very loved by the igbos
PoliticsRe: 2027: Peter Obi Emerges As NDC’s Only Presidential Aspirant by fredpeter(m): 1:22pm On May 19
Nijablast:
He left Agulu with bicycle and he's going to Abuja shocked grin grin
No be Accident go kill am on his way shocked
The situation of this country no be your concern na obi be ur problem... Ewu
PoliticsRe: 2027: Let's Try An Igbo Man - Excellency Murtala Dan by fredpeter(m): 2:58pm On May 14
Watianoengineer:
I would rather vote for a goat than vote for Peter Obi. Peter Obi as president will pardon that terrorist in sokoto prison and by so doing all the victims of Kanu's madness will not get justice. Let's not even talk about the failure of Obi as governor of Anambra state.
And who has gotten justice for shekau's madness... Can't u see u don't have sense
PoliticsRe: Atiku Picks ADC Presidential Nomination Form (Pictures) by fredpeter(m): 4:56pm On May 09
naptu2:
African Democratic Congress @ADCNig



https://x.com/i/status/2053009321231851898
Waste of money
CrimeRe: Stray Bullet Kills A 14-year-old Girl In Her Home In Maiduguri (photo) by fredpeter(m): 10:56am On May 06
Fujiyama:
^^^
You may be right.

The critical thing thing though is the terminal velocity of the round upon impact (as it falls to earth and strikes someone or something). There are different views about what terminal velocity of a round is lethal. You can take a look at these links:

https://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-14616491#:~:text=Studies%20suggest%20that%2C%20although%20the,up%20must%20come%20down%20again.%22


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WTuPLrwMKOI&t=97s
With the link u sent, it's clear they were using ballistic gel to check the velocity of free fall and nothing was even determined.... This is pure physics... The force that exudes when the automatic rifle fires upwards is directly proportion to the amount of fused gas within its empty shell with reference to the size and weight of the ammunition... At free fall the force of the ammunition is inversely proportional to its weight
CrimeRe: Stray Bullet Kills A 14-year-old Girl In Her Home In Maiduguri (photo) by fredpeter(m): 10:36am On May 06
Love800:
That means it was not fired into the air?
exactly
PoliticsRe: INEC Resumes Nationwide Continuous Voter Registration (CVR) by fredpeter(m): 10:34am On May 06
Delightnews:
INDEPENDENT NATIONAL ELECTORAL COMMISSION
Something suspicious must have happened this period the stopped the registration... Joke with these guys at ur own peril... They are done with the plans, now the voters registration can continue.... Clowns
PoliticsRe: Constance Ikokwu Leaves ADC For NDC by fredpeter(m): 10:32am On May 06
U want Peter obi's anointing... We know these things..
PoliticsRe: 17 House Of Representatives Members Dump ADC For NDC by fredpeter(m): 1:34pm On May 05
Seunpapa65:
Many people will win election with NDC Obi is a storm
As in eh... I want to even contest under that NDC platform... Na so labour run am for people during 2023 elections
FamilyRe: As A Married Man � Will You Like To Remarry Your Wife In Your Next Life. by fredpeter(m): 10:33am On Apr 11
A very perfect YES
CrimeRe: Stray Bullet Kills A 14-year-old Girl In Her Home In Maiduguri (photo) by fredpeter(m): 10:13am On Apr 06
Fujiyama:
^^^
No.

Believe it or not, a round fired vertically into the air can penetrate flesh on return to earth (without ricocheting off any surface), causing serious injury or death to humans.

That's why celebratory gunfire is not allowed in some parts of the world - they know the risks.
That's not true...
If the rifle has a barrel range of 800m or 1km the ammo goes up to the maximum range at that point it gets weak, gravitational force then takes place whereby the ammo descends on a free fall... At this point there is no external force acting on the ammo. If at that freefall it touches a human, the most that can occur is a flesh wound. For an ammo to kill a person then the victim must be within its killing range which is 1 to 500m depending on the rifle being used
PoliticsRe: Give APC Opportunity To Do Better, Party Chieftain, Adamu Aliyu, Begs Nigerians by fredpeter(m): 9:49pm On Apr 02
Racoon:
Just see how depressive he is himself. Just to tell you they are also feeling it too thought they are heartless and wicked @heart. Now it is a beggy beggy issue after pouching governors and political big weights?

Nigeria has seen the best the APC can offer and it is a horrible outcome. For a nation languishing in pain, hardship, insecurity and bastardized economy? How more worst can it become?

A failed party built on a failed structure can only keep recycling failure. Nigerians deserve better than excuses, deceits, propaganda and recycled incompetence. Kick out the APC
He is not depressive anything... It's the same sympathy card he wants to play
PoliticsRe: My Interview With Al Jazeera Was Doctored – Daniel Bwala by fredpeter(m): 9:23pm On Mar 10
BusinessRe: 30 Banks Successfully Met New Minimum Recapitalisation Before Deadline by fredpeter(m): 2:34pm On Mar 07
I hope opay and fair money follow if not....
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri Dedicates First Day Of Mount Kilimanjaro Climb To President Tinubu by fredpeter(m): 2:33pm On Mar 07
[quote author=joandavidleonha post=138690087]Nigerian diplomat and former presidential aide, Amb Reno Omokri, has dedicated the first day of his climb to the summit of Mount Kilimanjaro to Nigeria’s President, Bola Ahmed Tinubu.

Omokri announced the dedication in a post on his verified X (formerly Twitter) account on Saturday, stating that the opening stage of his climb of Africa’s highest mountain was in honour of the Nigerian leader and the country.

The former presidential spokesperson said the symbolic gesture reflects his appreciation for the President and his commitment to promoting Nigeria on the global stage.

The Kilimanjaro expedition forms part of Omokri’s broader campaign to project a positive image of Nigeria internationally. The author and social commentator has said he intends to hoist the Nigerian flag at the summit of the mountain during the climb, which typically takes several days to complete.

Mount Kilimanjaro, located in Tanzania, stands at 5,895 metres (19,341 feet) above sea level and is the tallest mountain in Africa, attracting thousands of climbers each year.

Omokri, who previously served as a special assistant to former President Goodluck Jonathan, has in recent months expressed strong support for the Tinubu administration. He recently praised the president’s leadership and credited him with helping reshape his understanding of patriotism and national unity.

The climb also comes shortly after Omokri’s diplomatic appointment by the Nigerian government. In March 2026, President Tinubu approved his posting as Nigeria’s ambassador to Mexico, a role in which he pledged to promote Nigeria’s interests and strengthen international partnerships.

Omokri described the Kilimanjaro climb as both a personal challenge and a patriotic act aimed at showcasing Nigeria’s image abroad.

The multi-day expedition is expected to culminate with the raising of the Nigerian flag at the mountain’s famous Uhuru Peak, the highest point on the African continent.


Source

"I Dedicate Day One Of My Climb To The Summit of Mount Kilimanjaro To President Tinubu"l

Source
Hassan is waiting

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