₦airaland Forum

WINDSOW: Bros,u min say If ‎​Ȋ̝̊̅ wan last for BC.‎​Ȋ̝̊̅ must loyal so that ‎​Ȋ̝̊̅ no go rhoya? Tis mata strong oooo

DECOtech: haaaaarrr... Boring kitchen. Its the smell of the he-goat that gives the meal a distinct kind of Favour.

AXYZ: Same here. I don't do goat meat, pork, unfried and/or local chicken, dog meat, rat meat, bat, snakes and ish. I do beef, SOME fishes and antelope. I hate goat meat.

Onegai: When I read it on sunday, I couldn't laugh. It was so real and painful. I have a man who would be so delighted if I fixed a weave, acted like the typical uninformed Naija female and stopped reading so much and decided to do a Masters (rather than be an artist). And he met me like this. I am almost about to break up with him for the atheist who likes me the way I am. I will never forget my first, whom when I told him "this hurts", said "it's your fault, there's something wrong with your body", and I almost married him. He was also confused by my choice of career (his mum was a trained lawyer who opened a shop, he thought that was what all women were meant to do after marriage). Thank God for whatever encouraged me to run from him ooooo

One of my colleagues last year (a man in his 40s) declared venomously "Why do women need orgas.ms? That is what is causing a divorce, I have never asked my wife if she enjoyed it, she does because she has children". When I think of all times shii gets said to my face because I'm female.

Or the several times when once a girl has a car, Daddy bought it or she's an ashi.
Or how the fact you don't attend church every sunday is alarming, nevermind your personal morals and ethics are above reproach.
Or how many times I was commiserated with for having studied Engineering, because according to them, "that's why you're not getting married on time".
Or how my mum would chase me to the kitchen on Christmas-day and leave my older brothers to watch tv in peace, as a kid.
Or how some crazy dude at MMIA was shouting (because no-one let him cut the line and chance women) that we were "disrespectful" and if we had husbands, he would deal with us.

Sorry, I had to modify my post: I met this mother at an art store in Ojuelegba, she was buying materials for her son, and we started discussing future careers. She then said "my daughter wanted to study Nursing, but I convinced her otherwise. When she gets married, she won't have time for her family. What if she marries a Pastor, will she neglect him at home?"

That chick wasn't even in SS3 yet. She could have been Nigeria's Florence Nightingale, but her mum felt her marital prospects were more important than her contribution to society.
Why does Sarcasm go over Nigerians' heads?? Didn't they study English and Literature in school.

glitest: Just shocked to see a woman post such rubbish online.

glitest: She is no lady...She actually seems like an ghetto chick, with the hood rat mentality.

FRANCISEKE1: you need Jesus

AirborneLacer: Na so you get bad mouth reach?

bright007: errr...emm...Pls how do i post a topic on front page




or where do i click to become a MOD

MrCork: .....bro...may l re-type slowly so u can catch up??.....thread clearly says ladies...r u a lady?

MrCork: ...ok..u r lookin at the reflection of sunshade & u want help from us?....brother .dont mean to sound rude but hav u seen a doctor?

SimonAndal: _

Which of the gods?

dhammyg: ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!!!!!
A MAN OR NOT.SHE IS STILL ELEGANT

SimonAndal: _

Only Nigerians think that getting married is the be all and end all. In this 21st century, that's a highly dangerous mentality to possess.

destante: That relationship expert part got me lol-ing. Anyways I wouldn't listen to depressing songs.

LaurelP: Women go for wat they want?
U must be kidding me
they'd rather die in silence