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Truckpusher: This is an issue that most parents don't tutor their youngsters at home only hammering on education and good moral standards.

When I was growing up I had this fear ,you can't just imagine yourself being that bros that everybody despises,that man that died without kids and is always treated like a scum,you don't wanna be that girl that ended up in her parents house and certainly you do not wish to be that neighborhood drunk that children makes caricatures of neither do you want to be that guy that had everything and blew it and ended up as nobody even when his future was certain.

These fears are real and it's every teenager's headache.
But there is hope, talk about your fear with your Dad or Mom it depends on which one of them that understands you better and you'd certainly have some assurances though it is not a guarantee but you have to be positive all the time.But you've got to watch it before your positive angle of reasoning becomes a flower vase of pride - because they said that pride goes before a fall.

You can also befriend older people with dreams and they won't hesitate in telling you what an amazing boy you are ,mix with positive people at that stage of your life ,go to church join the choir,play football and desist from any act of evil and you must surely get it right.
Though there are pitfalls too.

Truckpusher: This is an issue that most parents don't tutor their youngsters at home only hammering on education and good moral standards.

When I was growing up I had this fear ,you can't just imagine yourself being that bros that everybody despises,that man that died without kids and is always treated like a scum,you don't wanna be that girl that ended up in her parents house and certainly you do not wish to be that neighborhood drunk that children makes caricatures of neither do you want to be that guy that had everything and blew it and ended up as nobody even when his future was certain.

These fears are real and it's every teenager's headache.
But there is hope, talk about your fear with your Dad or Mom it depends on which one of them that understands you better and you'd certainly have some assurances though it is not a guarantee but you have to be positive all the time.But you've got to watch it before your positive angle of reasoning becomes a flower vase of pride - because they said that pride goes before a fall.

You can also befriend older people with dreams and they won't hesitate in telling you what an amazing boy you are ,mix with positive people at that stage of your life ,go to church join the choir,play football and desist from any act of evil and you must surely get it right.
Though there are pitfalls too.

donigspain: [size=18pt]Mine has always been the Fear of Failure...[/size]
Turning out a failure (due to life's disadvantages and unfairness) especially to those whose hopes hing on my shoulders... Hmm, such a heavy burden!

nickz: till today my greatest fear is not "living up to expectation"
makes me work hard tho