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lebete3000:
The way Ricky told him off yesterday: "goan dance or do something", like say e be small pikin

Na Sultex cause am. At least the girls show am love, Neche dey give am rocking for party before, but after that aggressive rocking gist with Kamsy, e be like she begin give am small distance. D boy dey do somehow.

Oh my goodness, Chimsom AGAIN?!

Munzy14:
Jackie Bent on the show is a typical example of what they say " Once beaten, twice.....??"

In reality, a man has put her in the family way with relationship/Intimacy. So you wouldn't expect her to be smitten by the litany of love/relationship in that setting. She even took Michael like her son..And the guy's psychology was messed!. Signalling it is not actually what he wanted. It was more like a TEMU love.

Remember he broke a wall out of frustration. 😁

This isn't true. They shipped way after the show. She made it extremely clear that she liked Michael, even asking other girls to back off from him.

Her being a mum is beside the point. Sultana is a mother of 2. Isabella is a mum. Tega is a mum. Ivatar is a mum. Thelma is a mum. But konji humbled these women on live TV.

Jackie B stood out because she always thought about setting a good example for her son, and i believe Sheba will also copy this standard, even though it's looking like she's still intrigued by Ricky.

Anniemae:
Wetin concern me with you?
I don't converse with people who speak down on women on an intimate level

Haba, was i speaking down on women or openly expressing my wish that some women do better since they have more to lose?

HajiaNotu:
I can take in every thing you wrote but your last sentence is insulting to Genevieve Nnaji....abeg

Get good skin care and make-up artistry on Dessa for 2 months straight. You'll see what I'm talking about.

Anniemae:
It DOES NOT MATTER TO ME. Except that woman is a bad woman, then it'd matter. Multiple sex partners should mean nothing in this day and age.

So you won't mind sending pictures or videos if i ask nicely?😏

Geezeem:
Sultex is currently marrying 3 wives now ...Oyin, Flora and Nomy

If he keeps indulging then he might get a peck. At least they give him hugs and tasty cooked meals.

I don't like that Oyin wrapped up herself like a mummy and slept upside down so her feet were facing his face on the bed when she shared the loft with him, is he that undesirable ? I knew that his energetic Poco Lee dancing would turn off the girls.

Geezeem:
Are you watching?

I've never heard an accent from her before. She just speaks like an educated Nigerian person.

HajiaNotu:
What if Araga is also just playing the game?
I don't expect him to be this dumb

It's not that. If i've not experienced a girl like Dessa before i would have said he's acting. Even professional actors break character, which is why directors call for 2 or more takes before shooting a scene.

Some women simply have magnetic sex appeal without looking particularly beautiful. Godessa has that in tons, with a facial structure that kinda looks like Genevieve's.

bentenny:
Not just Africa,most advanced countries also hold that view esp the women.
Ladies are valued mostly by their sexual exclusivity and body count.
The higher their body count,the lesser the value.
Men,however,are often valued for status,resources,physical formidability.
This is why there is less scrutiny when men engage in sex than women.

GBAM!!!

Dating Kim Kardashian, a beautiful woman and billionaire, is still seen as something to be laughed at in the US because it's seen as just taking your turn.

The slutshaming there is even a little bit nastier than what we have here in Nigeria. Amber Rose experienced it so much she and Blac Chyna had to turn the "Slut Walk" into a brand event.

Munzy14:
It is all about decent upbringing, and influence. Some are going to be decently behaved,while some will be otherwise.

Even when you raise some kids in a certain way, one or two will go against/otherwise and will eventually grow with it. But, you won't because of that condemn that particular child.

Many things controls what happens between a man and woman in a setting.

That's why if your daughter/sister/girlfriend goes into that kind of BBnaija environment and comes out without staining her white, you just know you have a diamond in your hand.

I remember how when Jackie B was evicted, her mum, a former senator,hugged her so tight and kept saying "My daughter thank you so much for going in there and giving a good account of yourself, thank you for going in there and coming out without bringing shame to me in any way!".

That really touched me.

The girl carried herself so well that even Boma,the okro master, admitted that "Jackie B is the kind of girl you chase after the show, not in this environment".

Despite falling publicly for Michael, she didn't even kiss him,but she made his meals, did his laundry, and gave him cuddles. That only tripled the respect he had for her.

I believe that's what Bluethopia is trying to copy.

sammyesx:
Eh come dey be like say this girl do jazz, cus I no understand, on a normal day araga pass this babe level now

Let's not lie, the girl get sex appeal. And some women have the quicksand effect, the more you taste them, the more you get addicted to them. Girls like Goddessa are typically very good at breaking up marriages without meaning to.

It's the one area Neche couldn't beat her. Once you get a girl like Neche, you might get tired in a year or even once you've slept with her once, especially if you're a guy with heavy motion that sees beautiful women regularly. The funny thing is that she knows how to talk dirty & naughty better than Dessa, but Dessa is more of a doer than a talker.

Neche is a solid trophy and would make a great wife, the kind of girl that you'll willingly give 50% of your net worth.

Chiamaka is more like a drug addiction problem. You know she's bad for you and will probably kill you,but you can't stop because she can get you high in ways you've not experienced before. Watch how all the guys keep saying there's something magnetic about her, like a charming spirit. And maybe because she just started having sex 2 years ago, her aura is still very strong.

Araga needs family & true friends, maybe a therapist as well, to break free from her. Barry's case is worse, she's already drawing his map for OUTSIDE the house.

Munzy14:
What is easier said than done?

Are you going to stop an adult from being in a relationship and having intimate time?

No, but there are effects. Housemates used it to troll Neo. During a particular task Biggie gave them to mimic each other, Lucy (a guest housemate) was mimicking Adekunle.

The housemate mimicking Neo was also mimicking an argument with the fake Adekunle (Lucy), who in a fake Adekunle voice, said something like "I don't even have your time Neo, let me just cool off by going to continue kissing your sister!". She actually didn't want to say "kiss", but Neo is her paddy so she toned it down.

The other housemates broke into laughter on hearing this. Neo was the only person not laughing, and it annoyed him more because Venita is his senior by many years, so he couldn't scold her or even complain to her about it.

bentenny:
Most Women won't say so until that same lady with a history of multiple sex partners wants to marry their son, brother and male cousin.

Like how some heavy mamas literally captured Koyin in his hotel room and prevented him from contacting Isabella & also warning Bella to never contact Koyin after the show, after hailing the Kobella ship. They were the ones that revealed Bella's past as an OF girl. Those same women would have donated millions of Naira to a Koyin and Dede ship.

I know how many Nengi fans screamed "NO!" when they saw videos of her and Burna Boy chilling together at a club. Mind you, Nengi didn't do anything crazy on the show,but she kinda had a reputation as an expensive sugar baby.

In this life sha, don't joke with female relatives. They constantly save us from doing stupid things.

Geezeem:
Nobody is asking him to change

Frankly their accents never bothers me

I am just curious as to why it hasn't been made an issue?

Over the seasons, girls were always dragged for this...even Abi and Bells have been dragged this season....my question is, why is the street quite on Tram's own?

Anyway I will revisit this next season

🚶🚶🚶

Does Bells speak with an accent?

Love800:
Apart from tacha's online followings, she gained more casual fans who just love the girl for her real and bluntness style.

But i think i will agree with you. That her online gathering really set the foundation for her. This was the same thing with mercy eke too.

No, Mercy wasn't really active online, which is why when her followers expanded her account on Instagram got paused.

Anniemae:
Society is judging but it's you that has been wailing like a banshee. Two adults had consensual sex and enjoyed it but somehow it's the woman getting shamed. Shame on you for not knowing how to speak about women with respect. Lmaooo

Lol, ask those people if you ever meet then in fulfillment of your life's wish as a fan:- "If given the opportunity again, would you repeat what you did?".

Erica was only lucky Kidd behaved like a gentleman with her. What if she had met a Pere, Boma, Tram , Kola or Yusuf?

Anniemae:
The way you people talk about females is disgusting. You people don't even know if your mothers "messed up with men". So disgusting. Who raised these uncouth men

I'm uncouth for wanting women to do better in a world where they have more to lose? As a man, i know there are tons of bad guys out there. I know ANY society judges females more. And in your brain, female emancipation comes from being piped on a reality TV show?

What kind of liquid faeces do you think you typed here?

tioluwalasee:
See how quickly you ran from the actual point to bring my female relatives into it. Nobody said women should go on TV and open their legs for emancipation. That is your own dramatic nonsense. The point was simple: if two adults do the same sexual act, stop acting like only the woman has permanently reduced herself. Listing Soma, Adekunle, Keivo and Barry does not answer that. Nobody said men never show restraint. I said your own moral accounting was centred on whether women left the house sexually clean enough for marriage. Even your Adekunle example proves my point. When he eventually had sex, did you start asking whether he was now unmarriageable, whether his future wife would be a laughing stock, whether his value had dropped? Of course not.

And please spare me the Oyibo and OnlyFans detour. I do not need to imitate anybody abroad to understand that adults can make sexual choices without their entire worth being reduced to those choices. OnlyFans being controversial somewhere does not prove anything about bride price, clean records or women becoming damaged goods. Also, leave my female relatives out of your mouth. If you cannot defend your standard without imagining my sister or cousin having sex for your entertainment, then maybe ask yourself why your mind keeps going there. I am discussing your logic. Try and stay there.

If you need me to explain why having sexual exposure ON CAMERA, with many of the female housemates involved later admitting to regretting it, is something that should be avoided, and is something many prospective suitors would want to shy away from, is an issue, then there's something deeply defective about your intrinsic sense of right and wrong.

See how you went rabid when i mentioned your female relatives.Would you support your brother, son or nephew marrying Isabella? Afterall she was "real" and "entertaining" as a full-grown adult. If not, then tell me why.

You'll probably come up with some off-tangent reply.

And yes, you look like the type that religiously mimics whatever is condoned abroad. If the West today applauded sex with trees or animals, someone like you would definitely suddenly see nothing wrong with it in the name of wokeness.

Laurence Fishburne is an open-minded creative & star actor that probably filmed some love scenes in his movies, but he was broken with his daughter entering porn. Isn't porn a form of art?

Whoever you are, own your kinks with your full chest and quit these asinine arguments.

Anniemae:
Laff won keee me ... You no fit marry who Where you wan see Erica first?
Males and the delusion world they swim in.

You obviously think some people worship celebrities or place women or men on too much of a pedestal.

Erica is a beauty queen and 3rd rate actress that blew into stardom via the BBnaija show, a show specializing in turning ordinary people like you and me into popular faces.

Is this why you somehow think she's beyond my league? Are you implying that Kidd, a nepo baby with a rather unclear sense of direction, is somehow a better man than me because Erica deemed him worthy to show Africa all of her genitals?

No man, with an education, and decent income source, with an ability to package himself into physical shape, and an ability to communicate coherently (something Erica couldn't do), should be afraid of approaching a female who just happens to be on TV.

I'm sorry you've reduced yourself to her perpetual otimkpu, 6 years after her BBnaija season passed. That's kinda sad that you chose to be a minion instead of a master of yourself.

And no, i wouldn't risk marrying a girl like Erica. I'm not judgmental at all, it's just not my thing.

tioluwalasee:
1. Erica and Kidd did the exact same thing, but somehow it is Erica that becomes damaged goods for marriage while Kidd just moves on with his life. That double standard is the whole problem. Two adults did one thing together, but no the woman must carry the lifelong moral consequence. Please.

2. Then you’re measuring women’s integrity by whether they opened their legs, kissed, allowed touching, or stopped a man’s hand. Is that really your full definition of character? A woman can be rude, dishonest, wicked, manipulative, whatever, but because she kept her legs closed she has integrity?

3. And look at your examples. Nengi, Dede, Thelma, Erica, Nomy, Blue. Only moral tests for the women. The men involved in these same situations somehow vanish from the assessment. Nobody is asking whether their future wives will be embarrassed, whether their value has reduced, whether they left with a clean record. Crazy gan how morality suddenly becomes very detailed when it is time to discuss women.

4. That bride price line is particularly disgusting. A woman’s value does not reduce because she had consensual sex on TV. She is not stock in the market. If her husband has an issue with it, that’s between them. Turning it into your own general measure of her worth is exactly the kind of weird a** thinking I’m talking about.

5. And sexual restraint is not the same thing as integrity. You keep using one as evidence of the other because you have reduced female respectability to modesty and future husband approval. You need to read more and educate yourself

At the end of the day, if your standard is this strict almost exclusively when women are involved, then please own what it is. This is not some neutral defence of decency. It is the same old Nigerian double standard with better grammar.

Take your female relatives to enter the show and fight for female sexual emancipation by opening their legs on live TV. I'll make special butter-glazed popcorn to watch the show they'll give me.

By the way, there are men who also set standards for themselves on the show.

Soma refused to do anything on live TV with Angel.

Adekunle defiantly resisted Venita, even when she was mocking him and calling him "Pastor". Sadly, Venita ended up having her way with him.

Keivo before our very eyes, treated Temi respectfully.

Even though it was understandably hard, Barry still behaved with Neche.

But hey, do you. Luckily, even the Oyibos you're eager to imitate know there are bare minimum standards, and that's why OnlyFans is deemed as a moral epidemic over there.

Please alert me if any female dear to you is on the show.

tioluwalasee:
This guy you’re too much of a prude. Abeg if your sister is doing it just don’t watch idg? You didn’t say anything about the sisters that have to watch their brothers be sexually active, you just want all the female housemates to wear hijab and profess modesty. They are all consenting adults that signed up for an R18 show, rest it

Just admit that you're a Viewer and leave the beautiful semantics you're trying to conjure up in defense of the juicy gonzo porn content you're obviously into.

tioluwalasee:
1. Erica and Kidd did the exact same thing, but somehow it is Erica that becomes damaged goods for marriage while Kidd just moves on with his life. That double standard is the whole problem. Two adults did one thing together, but no the woman must carry the lifelong moral consequence. Please.

2. Then you’re measuring women’s integrity by whether they opened their legs, kissed, allowed touching, or stopped a man’s hand. Is that really your full definition of character? A woman can be rude, dishonest, wicked, manipulative, whatever, but because she kept her legs closed she has integrity?

3. And look at your examples. Nengi, Dede, Thelma, Erica, Nomy, Blue. Only moral tests for the women. The men involved in these same situations somehow vanish from the assessment. Nobody is asking whether their future wives will be embarrassed, whether their value has reduced, whether they left with a clean record. Crazy gan how morality suddenly becomes very detailed when it is time to discuss women.

4. That bride price line is particularly disgusting. A woman’s value does not reduce because she had consensual sex on TV. She is not stock in the market. If her husband has an issue with it, that’s between them. Turning it into your own general measure of her worth is exactly the kind of weird a** thinking I’m talking about.

5. And sexual restraint is not the same thing as integrity. You keep using one as evidence of the other because you have reduced female respectability to modesty and future husband approval. You need to read more and educate yourself

At the end of the day, if your standard is this strict almost exclusively when women are involved, then please own what it is. This is not some neutral defence of decency. It is the same old Nigerian double standard with better grammar.

Take your female relatives to enter the show and fight for female sexual emancipation by opening their legs on live TV. I'll make special butter-glazed popcorn to watch the show they'll give me.

By the way, there are men who also set standards for themselves on the show.

Soma refused to do anything on live TV with Angel.

Adekunle defiantly resisted Venita, even when she was mocking him and calling him "Pastor". Sadly, Venita ended up having her way with him.

Keivo before our very eyes, treated Temi respectfully.

Even though it was understandably hard, Barry still behaved with Neche.

But hey, do you. Luckily, even the Oyibos you're eager to imitate know there are bare minimum standards, and that's why OnlyFans is deemed as a moral epidemic over there.

Please alert me if any female dear to you is on the show.

lebete3000:
Are you that naive to know that about we humans?

Leave am . As beautiful as Erica is, i no fit marry am abeg. Kidd chop dat girl brutally on camera! What's the assurance that even as a married woman, Kidd won't still be able to chop her again? Forget that you'll be a laughing stock if you declare her as your wife o!

At least as useless as Nomy is, her legs have never been opened. Sheba body dey move, but she has stubbornly maintained her integrity. Neche gave Barry cuddling,but even in her sleep monitored his hands from moving wrongly. Blue has refused to even kiss Chimsom, telling him to wait till after the show.

Gigi Jasmine messed up with Victory,but it's not on video.

People dey call Nengi high level OS, but she held her ground against Ozo who she really liked.

Dede would have been a wonderful example, but she let Kola deceive her at the dying minute. Luckily Biggie's camera didn't catch her duvet package with him.

Thelma Lawson was lucky to meet a serious gentleman in the form of Kaybobo. Their make out session remains one of the most mature & respectful duvet scenes in BBnaija history. Even the camera crew respectfully moved their cameras away until they were done.

At least Sheggz never went sexual in the house with Bella, forget that he later showed her shege outside the house.

For a female housemate, it really matters that you leave and enter with a clean record.

Kelvinnchucks:
So you are saying their chances of getting a spouse reduces drastically if the fornicate in big brother as opposed to when they do it in the real world?

Wonderful.

I pity girls wey go follow una mouth. If you're right, then why do you think some women adamantly refuse sharing nudes or video sex calls, preferring to rather meet with you in person?

There are even many guys that hate their nudes or sex tapes being leaked.

Don't lie, if you're about to marry a girl and her sex tape is trending, will your mind still be 100% into that marriage?

We know SHAMING is still a thing. See Neche, well behaved and clean girl,but i know how when Oyin said she playfully rocked Gerard in the shower room in front of other housemates, hundreds of Hot pervs online first said they kissed before straight-up saying Neche had sex with Gerard!

Well, i thank Bells and Goddessa for the premium entertainment! Please make sure your female relatives enter so they can do same!👍🏿

Munzy14:
She is an Adult and will chest whatever happens outside.

Lol, it's easier said than done. I remember how Neo would frown bitterly whenever he saw Venita & Adekunle smooching in bed. The irony is that Adekunle kept pulling back until Venita finally forced him to have sex with her.

You think it's easy having a sister like Godessa & watching her on live TV spitting on her hand and using it to self-service a guy and you'll console yourself with "She's an adult"?

Or having a sister like Sultana and watching her bounce her head on a man's balls on live TV?

Mercy was crying that being on the show is preventing her from meeting eligible guys.

Only Nina & Bam Bam survived that kind of mess to get married. That's why I'm glad Blue has clearly told Chimsom that he won't get anything from her in the house.

It's why I'm kinda happy Neche left the house. She's not as strong as Blue, and she's too pretty & well-behaved to have her bride price value reduced on live TV by either Barry or Ricky.

Yusuf is an idiot,but the truth is that Bells was already kissing and telling first, something Yusuf stated he didn't like.

I don't think this girl understands what she's doing to herself at this point.

100naira:
On the topic of bringing in new housemates,

They will come now and in a couple of days their novelty will wear off, the energy of the house will swallow them and in a couple of weeks time, they will be cannon fodder for older housemates to put up for eviction and the audience won't vote for them as they have already picked their favourites for the season.

Except they have someone that will be exceptional enough to sway the viewers, I don't really see the appeal of it.

They will probably either return the evicted housemates or bring in fake ones/guests if they ever decide to go down that road.

They can equate this by bringing in housemates with large online followings. That's how Liquorose & Tacha became finalists from Day 1.

MamBi:
Cassi was last.. 5.27%

Goddessa - 6.76%

Nomy - 10.84%

Thanks my bro!