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Tifay:
It's the one thing I have liked about him and hated about Jason and Kola.

Being the mature one despite being the youngest. It's also one of the reasons why she respects him a lot.

All the nonsense she told Kola and Jason when she found out about the Isabella kiss with Kola and Sultana whatever with Jason she no fit try am with Koyin. Yet she's still fighting for the friendship or whatever she calls it.

I mean she started by calling him her brother in the earlier weeks, then moved him to best friend, then now bestie. Bear in mind, she's always the one labelling things and he just moves with whatever she says

Lol. But at the same time, let's understand that Dede, Joanna, Mide, Zita,Koyin & even Imisi are still youngins, they're not even core Gen Zs, they're actually Gen Alphas (The "Arya Starr/Rema" Generation), so we shouldn't be expecting real maturity from these people, which is why i would like to know Koyin's background and how he grew up.

I remember Rooboy's look of slight irritation when he realized Dede just graduated last year, and Dede laughed and said to him "I know you must be wondering what you're doing in BBnaija with this small rat abi?".

That's why Koyin best understands Dede's silly games,but he was obviously mentored by older people (hence his respect for Rooboy) and

The real agbayas are Kola , Jason & Sultana who thought dede was a small girl they could easily chop or intimidate. I don't know why a grown man should be expecting emotional commitments from girls like Dede and Joanna that are still figuring out life!

Sultana should be around 8 years her senior yet you're threatened by her to the point of calling her names and peeing on her box(yes, i insist Sultana wasn't drunk that night).

Jason is really irritated that a youngin like Koyin got to Sultana first, virtually kissed Dede first, and still got Isabella down. The loser couldn't even keep his mouth shut about receiving sexual favours from Sultana when Koyin won't even admit he and Bella are having sex.

Kola is so insecure despite being a Toronto boy that he had to call the boy a chihuahua, a chihuahua that stood up with Isabella and covered her shame when you littered her to impress a little girl like Dede.

A Toronto boy that had to report Koyin's ship with Isabella to the same Dede believing it would score him points with her and create a division between her and Koyin. Why can't he respect his receding hairline and BEHAVE himself? I really wished Sabrina was around,she would have comported him since.

Tifay:
This will be a wrong move imo, as the guy's gonna act non challant as usual. Plus she's too prideful to do it in public glare with her haters like Sultana and co watching

To get Koyin, she actually has to show more interest. Not giving the same non -nonchalant nonsense. I dont think he'll mind at this point as I get the feeling that he may now actually be interested.

Something did tweak on that kiss day. I think what's pissing him off is she acting like nothing happened. Anyway that's my theory, cos he's never this uncaring. Cos even just now when she was telling him she has a migraine, he just told her to go sleep it off

Lol, Isabella has some advantages - she's Koyin's spec, he has said it openly that he likes older women.

Secondly, Isabella is more experienced than Dede. She has been bombarding Koyin with 3 things Dede hasn't given him before - 1). Nacks 2). Good Food 3). Respect & Adoration. Even Kayinkunmi didn't enjoy her on that level.

And Isabella & Koyin happened after weeks of abusing each other and arguing, making their first nacks way more intense. Again, Koyin did what Kayinkunmi didn't do - he satisfied Isabella to the point where she was smiling like a baby and gasping for air. Her weave-on even fell off. With Kayinkunmi, she had to rely on a vibrator!

Then finally, Koyin unlike Kayinkunmi stood up for her at a time when she was vulnerable. Koyin rushing to hug Dede would have been EXTREMELY embarrassing for Isabella, defending her behind her back and acknowledging her in the presence of other housemates while advising her to avoid any small talk from Dede's sidekicks. For a youngin, he behaved quite maturely.

Dede is realizing that Koyin might be a harder nut to crack than she thought, so she might use emotional manipulation on him as a last resort.

Tifay:
To be fair, you may be right.

Actually there are times I feel like she may like Kola in a way, afterall men like multiple women all the time. But I doubt a prude like Dede will go that far with him and for him I suppose it's not really worth it.

But one advantage to Kola's game I may be underating however is the Imisi dynamic. The friendship or whatever they are doing is a storyline he can hold on to should the Dede own fail

He doesn't know the Imisi storyline is surer for his game,but he needs to watch it & make sure he sticks to being her big bros (Bright is doing this well with her) & not give her wrong signals. Kola for all his simping is hardly aware when women do like him, which is how he fumbled Doris & Thelma.

I suspect Dede will time a strategic kiss with Kola at the pool party while watching for Koyin's reaction.

Tifay:
You think if Ozo had his way, he wouldnt do things differently?.

There's a reason he rejected the All star slot he got. There are things you really dont want with your name and your reputation will continue to suffer every time people talk about Big brother seasons.

Kola is friends with Sheggz and Shaun in real life and his script was actually simple. Ship with the most pretty girl and give us an aesthetic ship. Hold hands, wear matching outfits. Do all those things shippers like and you have a guaranteed slot in the final. Why do you think he's not interested in pursuing things outside the house

The moment he saw that Dede didnt bulge, he should have restrategized especially seeing as the girls wanted to counter and actually use him for her fish game; but no, he still wants to die there cos he really wants the aesthetically pleasing shippable ship and he's becoming too desperate for it. Now he'll keep falling into her pond and at the end of the day gain nothing, except being labelled in the same simp category as Ozo, Saga, Kola when the next big brother comes up. He gained absolutely nothing!!!

He's still a gamer though. He decided to pull an "Ozo & Nengi" while keeping his eyes open for other connections, leading him to start the ship with Imisi because he correctly clocked Imisi will win. Even his friendship with Bright looks planned (let's roll together as per fresh boys, just like Sheggz tried doing with Groovy & Ozo's "Apple Boys" bromance with Neo).

I believe his most genuine connection in that was Sabrina. What would be fascinating is if he really cares for Imisi who's virtually his closest confidante in that house.

Tifay:
Cos the script of a "fool" still makes him a fool. And his reputation is still going to suffer for it

The Dede sef isnt going to bulge. So the script no help am. He should have cut his losses quicker and moved to someone who's more willing

Never say never. Dede might finally French-kiss him, but if it's not sex then that would be pure torture for a dedicated simp like Kola.

Kingcid:
I dey shame on his behalf

see as he dey download gist give Dede about Koyin

omo that egbon don go

Lol, na dat nonsense dem dey use sabi nonsense men. E get some guys wey for use mouth rubbish their fellow man give woman all in a bid to secure NACKS.

The day Koyin go change am for Kola i go follow support am!

Hazardfan1:
It is not, he really likes the babe. Maybe she smells really delicious too.

Nah, and because of that you'll be putting down your fellow man to score points with a girl? I hope Dede doesn't fall for it sha,if she does, that's on her.

ultraviolet27:
JJ is from ondo state not ekiti

I wasn't particular about his state. I just mentioned what he looked like to me.

Geezeem:
True story

Ado-Ekiti Usher Raymond get fans o. I know you wish it was you bouncing your head on him and not Sultana abi?😏

mayor1814:
My dear renderme, u go defend tire 😀... Mide get Choco for head, bright sef get Choco for head... U dey try and I see u like d stress Dem dey give u


And e be like sey mide sef still get eye for Jason jae. Bright dey always complain about d guy... I just dey wait make Bright no complain about mide and Jason jae closeness again, make he sef just change suddenly, move silently and codedly to another babe

Old lover boy format. Act like you're crazy about her, act jealous and almost violent when you see her laughing with other guys, and make her understand that you actually have options in terms of other women waiting for you. That's how to keep your woman on her toes. Bright na criminal! He has treated Mide well so far sha.

Colson:
You call it “pious intellectual sodomy,” but what you’re really doing is dressing up double standards in moral jargon. Nobody is saying people must have sex on TV, just that if they do, it doesn’t make them less dignified or less “real” than someone who chooses not to. That’s the essence of authenticity... being yourself whether you’re reserved or expressive, not curating a holy facade to look marketable.

Celibacy is a choice, just as sexual expression is a choice. Neither makes one morally superior. The fact that some live celibate without dying doesn’t suddenly make sexuality shameful or invalid. By that logic, should we shame people for eating tasty food because some monks survive on plain diets?

Dragging porn into the conversation is another lazy attempt at moral panic. Reality TV isn’t porn it’s human beings under surveillance, navigating relationships, conflict, and yes, sometimes sexuality. If the show is about “coexistence,” then sex which is as much a part of human coexistence as arguments, friendships, and alliances cannot be treated like an abomination.

And no, nobody is equating sex on TV with “bending someone over on an express road.” That’s a false equivalence. One is consensual intimacy in a private house where contestants voluntarily agreed to be watched. The other is public indecency. Pretending they’re the same just exposes a bias, not a valid argument.

Finally, Jackie B factoring her child into her decisions is fine. But let’s not pretend she is automatically more “dignified” than Angel, Tega, or Sultana. Authenticity means not faking piety for cameras. You may prefer her performance of restraint, but don’t insult those who chose to live their truth. That’s the hypocrisy I’m calling out.
Peace ✌🏾

Okay, raise your kids to go on reality and flash their genitals in coupling action with those of strangers they meet on those shows because a lack of self-control and incontinence was what they were taught some liberal hippie gunk you're using to justify your latent odd fascinating with seeing other people have sex.

Or you think porn is just about visiting a site and watching actors get down? Or you didn't remember Erica ending up on Xvideos? This isn't about moral superiority, it's about the need to conduct yourself in a way that won't lower the estimation of yourself in the eyes of a majority of right-thinking viewers, be you a man or woman, but moreso as a woman.

Even the organizers know this, hence the reason they stopped showing people getting dressed, bathing, or intense sexual activity on the show, the fear of censorship aside.

Why's this concept then too complex for you to comprehend please? Or you think saying that long trail of nothing and attempting a dramatic exit with the "Peace" at the end would validate your point?

Geezeem:
Their story line continues

Koyin will keep hanging with her,but Isabella will surely pull something. Can Dede match Isabella's level of ratchetness if things get heated or will she be the bigger person and walk away? Or will Isabella allow Koyin hang with Dede and take over at night? We watch!

Colson:
BS!!

Your analogy completely misses the point. Comparing consensual sex to defecation is not only absurd but also intellectually dishonest. Sex is not “gross” or “private” in the same sense as using the toilet. it is a natural expression of intimacy, desire, and human connection. Reducing it to the same category as excretion is what fuels the shame and stigma around women’s sexuality in our society.

Jackie B’s choice to be reserved is valid, but that does not make Sultana or any other woman who expresses her sexuality openly less valuable or “unmarriageable.” Marriage-worthiness is not determined by how much of one’s sexuality is hidden from the public, but by character, values, and mutual compatibility. The idea that a woman automatically “demeans herself” for being sexually expressive on TV is exactly the double standard being challenged here because men in the same situation rarely face such judgment.

Dragging motherhood into this argument is also unfair. A mother being sexual does not erase her ability to love, guide, and raise her child. Children all over the world grow up knowing their parents are sexual beings; it doesn’t traumatize them unless society frames it as shameful. What truly harms children is a culture that demonizes women for choices men are celebrated for.
If society is going to judge, then let it judge both genders equally or better yet, respect people’s autonomy over their bodies and choices.

Point is, living authentically on a reality show does not make someone less respectable.


PS - I hope you also understand that someone like Jackie B and the likes can act all decent, sanctimonious and marriageable on TV, but when she comes out and people like you marry her, you start to see her real self that’s totally different from the image she portrayed. That’s the danger of pretending for the cameras instead of living authentically... you don’t really know who the person is until much later.

This is hot,pious intellectual sodomy.

What in the faffi.ng around is "living authentically", flashing my privates for Africa to see?

Sexuality is a need, but it isn't a NECESSITY.

There are people that have gone through life celibate. They didn't die.

Very soon you'll argue that porn is nothing more than the "artistic expression of passionate desires that intricately mold and motivate us as humans & adults " and people who aren't discerning will clap for you.

You're on a show and a CONTROLLED ENVIRONMENT & watched by MILLIONS & MILLIONS, with a warning that CAMERAS ARE EVERYWHERE.I don't know what alternate universe you live in, but certain things will always be PRIVATE & should be done in PRIVATE,otherwise there'll be valid justification for just bending a woman over on an express road and giving it to her in full public glare.

So Jackie B is fake because you didn't see her unclothedness or because she factored in her dignity, privacy and child into her decisions? You preferred Angel & Tega that were 'real' and gave you 'real' content to enjoy?

Morality is innate as well, and it's simply a sense of right or wrong which should guard our decisions as adults, even though morality isn't the law.

That's why the show itself faced so much backlash initially. In those days people would wake up quickly by 6am to watch housemates bathing, especially in Big Brother Africa. It was all justified as "a social experiment" until it got weirder.

In the BBA that Dilish won, for a $16 subscription, years before the coming of OnlyFans, you had access to content that wasn't shown on the main show.

That was how i saw Dilish naked and bathing. That was how i saw Fatima naked. That's how i saw Beverly & Angelo bathing. That's how i saw Selly & Nando having sex. That's how i saw Bolt & Betty having sex.

The backlash made the likely white pervs behind that nonsense stop it.

Imagine if such a service was introduced in BBnaija. I'm sure you would definitely subscribe and explain it as "a desire to delve deep into the reality of the human psychosocial complex and the intricacies of human intimacy within confined spaces based on upon the unique Nigerian socio-cultural climate "!

The housemates themselves know this, which is why no matter how carried away they get, they NEVER let the duvets slip. Moreso, they now receive some assurance that some areas and scenes will never be shown on TV, so they sometimes get too confident.

The show is for seeing people co-exist and occupy themselves with tasks while we feed of the drama of their interactions in a controlled space with rules and under constant watch. This is why even though fighting is part of reality,you don't try that in the house.

If you want excitement,get a lover or go watch porn or pay people to have sex in front of you. That's as "authentic " as it gets.

Colson:
I honestly don’t understand. When will some of you finally grasp the fact that this is a reality show? Everyone cannot be the same. Just as there are sexually liberal and sexually conservative people in real life, the same balance will naturally reflect in a reality show. It’s rated 18+ for a reason, hello!

PERSONALLY, I’D PREFER TO SEE ON REALITY TV A SULTANA WHO IS LIVING HER TRUTH THAN A JACKIE B WHO IS OVERLY CAMERA CONSCIOUS AND PRETENDING. And why is all the shame being directed at the women? Let’s be fair; Sultana, Mide, and Isabella all came into the house single. Meanwhile, Bright and Jason are in very serious relationships outside the house, yet no one is calling them out. These double standards never cease to amaze me. Are men somehow exempt from morality in Nigeria?



Ten years in, and Nigerians still don’t seem to fully understand the concept of a reality show, LOL.

We all defecate as human beings,but do you really want to watch another person defecate? Obviously, No. Why? Because it's gross and more importantly, it's PRIVATE.

But you'll agree with me that defecation comes with a great sense of relief,just like having sex minus the feeling of intense pleasure.

Now, would my pooping in front of you suddenly make me "real" or a deviant exhibitionist?

Jackie B admitted to being a wild one and she was even a single mother,but she made it clear she had evolved, sought a serious relationship AKA marriage, and wouldn't demean herself by doing anything on TV because she not only values herself and wants to market herself as marriage-worthy, she is A MOTHER (hence her always saying "My son is watching".

You think it's healthy as a man seeing your mom bouncing her head on a man's pipe or finding her on Pornhub? Do you know the lifetime deep-seated sense of outrage that can cause all because your mother wanted to create "real content" for a wide array of perverts and voyeurs masquerading as BBnaija fans?

There's life after the show, some of the housemates are not even interested in fame and know they are representing themselves and their families (this is probably why people are voting Tracy and Faith).

Let's call what is wrong by it's name, we nowadays justify a lot of mess in the name of being adults. Society will ALWAYS lean heavily on the woman when such things happen while the man smiles to himself knowing he just added you to his body count and trophies.

Geezeem:
'Painment' and sugar boi.

🚶🚶🚶

And you are? Another one of Ado-Ekiti Usher Raymond's willing side pieces? Because i don't get the source of your hostility.🥱

Nkl4u:
All this yab untop someone who doesn’t even know you. And you may not even look half as cute as Jason in real life oo😁

I don't need to know Ado-Ekiti Usher Raymond, he took his precious time & resources to audition for a role that will involve being on my TV screen for 2 months, it doesn't matter if i look like Shrek.

It does say a lot about your taste in guys though. Or are you ovulating? I fear for you.😢

mayor1814:
Some women cannot be hyped like that oo. At times, when emotions and passion enter body, there's nothing or little one can do to control or stop it. Clearly there's nothing or little sultana can do to suppress or stop d emotions and passion she already has for Jason jae.



This is the main reason why I respect Dede game. At least she will definitely feel one of two of her fishes if not all the three sef and one of two other guys in d house but she's been controlling d emotions very well not to misbehave sexually on national TV.




All the other girls have loose guard on national TV even mide lying to herself her family is watching bla bla bla have engaged in aggressive cuddling and fingering and even kissing just that she liked under d cover or during shower... They might have even gone deeper than fingering sef, maybe during d shower, Isabella - sorry case, she no even hide am; Zita - loose guard very well with danboski, Doris with denari - PDA to yapa, etc

Zita just kissed and maybe fondled with Danboskid, it didn't go beyond that.

Yes i agree, Dede's antics are annoying,but so far she has carried herself well.

Doris didn't go beyond French-kissing, and Denari has given her assurance so i really can't blame her. He might even marry her.

It just occurred to me that Sultana, Mide & Isabella have brothers and in some cases, sons. As a man, no matter how you try to act hard, it will burn your chest seeing your sister bouncing her head on a man's pipe on CONTINENTAL TV! The Internet will never forget & you'll always be afraid to enter into arguments with men and women because you know they'll use it to troll you.

When a female does stuff like this in private, it's her personal shame. When it's in public, the shame falls on her loved ones. It's why housemates are warned over and over that THERE ARE CAMERAS EVERYWHERE.

That's why i liked Jackie B in SYE so much. A lot of guys rushed her, but she carried herself so well that even Boma said she's the kind of girl you chase outside the house because she won't mess herself up on camera. Even though she approached & seduced Michael, she never even kissed him, it ended in cuddles. She showed her affection in other ways like cooking and maybe doing the guy's laundry, she was intentional in marketing herself as wife material.

When she was evicted, her mother hugged her and kept saying "Thank you my daughter for walking into that house and leaving with your integrity and head held high as a woman and not bringing shame to your family!".

I don't care for Dede's youngin antics, but she bears a weird resemblance to one of my younger ones, so seeing her on TV triggers a protective instinct in me, because as a guy i know that the 3 fishes do not only want to knack her, they want to knack her INSIDE the house as a trophy. It's why Kola is trying so hard , using everything from sen.seless persistence to pretence to emotional blackmail . The way i see Kola,he can openly burst into tears in front of the housemates so as to get pity sex from Dede (Keegan & Talia format in BBA).

When guys want to know you beyond the house, they're usually more relaxed about it and less concerned about sex (Michael & Jackie B, Soma & Angel, Saga & Nini, Jaypaul & Saskay, Cross & Kim Oprah, Adekunle & Allysyn/Daniella/Venita).

So i sincerely hope Dede can be like Joanna and keep her legs closed till the show ends. I don't even want that nonsense bestie ship or sharing beds with guys, it's a dangerous game. Kola will get more desperate to achieve his target as the show draws down, especially as Koyin will not be around Dede to block him as much & he has enlisted virtually all the housemates to mount pressure on Dede, see how Joanna & Rooboy were telling her "Kola really likes you o" yesterday.

Dede just managed to attract 3 guys with bad intentions and is mistaking them for fishes. She needs to be careful.

Geezeem:
The truth shall set you free

Doubling down backwards won't set you free sha.

scondy:
U lie....sultana just prefers jason....asides the kiss with koyin which she ghosted after it happened...she hasn't been with any guy in an intimate way...stop projecting the babe like on slut just cos u r a dede fan

I'm not a Dede fan, I'm not a fan of anyone on the show, they're mostly just people i enjoy seeing on the show. I just made a deduction based on her conduct on the show, and no, i wasn't "projecting the babe like on slut", she has done enough projection to last the season.

If you feel so strongly about it, arise for her by posting your own video of what it looks like when ghosts perform MouthAction, because Sultana has ruined my childhood image of Casper in case you don't know. At least we now know Arewa girls can get nasty too beneath those gowns and hijabs they wear all the time!🙂

Tifay:
Lol.

Dem no dey like see yab on that Ado-Ekiti usher raymond, the village champion.

Maybe it's a woman thing sha cos the same jazz the guy used on Sultana has worked on the many women like them who stan him too.

It was a puzzle to me earlier in the season too when I noticed that most of the girls in the house fancied him too. I just chalked it down to his attractiveness coming from him winning a lot at the time

He was giving course rep energy in week 1, plus he looks like a Temu Israel Adesanya.

He also seems to be good at faking it till he makes it based on confidence he probably acquired from being a popular guy or director of socials in UNAD or some state university in the Southwest.

All of the above, plus his looking like a lead character in a Wale Adenuga romantic series,is probably what wowed Sultana whose sexual experience probably consisted of only pot-bellied alhajis wearing sosorobia 🙂.

Geezeem:
Who is your fave again? 🤨

No faves, just people i like seeing on my screen.

Omo I'm seeing it now o. Thelma DOES look masculine, almost like a horse. Isabella really studied her well.

Geezeem:
Nobody has been this bold on the show before ... shagging two guys?

Isabella Sha...

Lol, JMK. Angel. Boma nacked at least 4 women in the house during SYE.

If not for a lack of patience, focusing on Ivatar & Gigi's intervention, Mensan & Victory would have gotten Sultana before Jason .

Dynamicboss:
Shining his kondo was a bad idea too. 2 wrongs….

You want me to reply this abi? 🙂

Dynamicboss:
People get bad mouth sha! But you can’t say this to him true life. Not nice at all.

Lol, it's true. I dare not say it to him "true life". Hopefully if Ado-Ekiti Usher Raymond sees this he'll reward you by letting you share his pipe with Sultana. Sounds great abi? 🙂

Star Signs by Odunsi. Pure atmospheric alte! Thanks Biggie, you sabi music small!!!!

Lovebliss2:
Chai
Ado - Ekiti Usher Raymond!
You get mouth sha!

🏃🏿🏃🏿🏃🏿

fitzmayowa:
Your heaven na view once walahi......

🙂

Hazardfan1:
Na why girls with fine face dey always enjoy. She kon get good carriage.

Dem dey suffer plenty heartbreaks too, especially the ones who cant control their sexual urge and can't be without men.

So far on this show, Dede has shown she can control herself unlike Isabella

My biggest disappointment this season is Sultana.

Such a beautiful plus-sized girl with natural aura. I feel bad for her life experiences at such a young age. Shes basically a victim of r**e.

I expected her to set a template that would allow more core Arewa girls participate in the show, and even if she was to fall for someone, it shouldn't be to the point of being used recklessly by an extreme jerk like that Ado-Ekiti Usher Raymond called Jason Jae who disrespected her to the point of denying her and kissing & telling her business like a Hot house boy!

This is the low budget Dudu Osun that somehow thought he could take down Dede!

Tifay:
Lmao.

The bolded made me laugh.

I think hers may come from being used to sexual inactivity. Well, maybe her guy na all those long distance relationship

Or maybe she got a thorough fill up just like Kaybobo who in a conversation with Ivatar said he was on total lock down with one of his talking stage for 2 weeks straight before flying in for the shows lockdown

Ah, no wonder he just stuck to the kitchen. He could have been passed around by the girls since.

I'm not going to lie, i would like to have the number of Kola's tailor. Very sharp outfits!