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[quote author=THE-AMAKA link=topic=358273.msg5013969#msg5013969 date=1259453368]NOOOOO thats not what you said at first.
after a couple of pages you changed it into she demanded you to do the dishes.
get away!!![/quote]what changed?? please start the thread from begining again,  it would help u, since u have a poor memory !

[quote author=THE-AMAKA link=topic=358273.msg5013939#msg5013939 date=1259453020]what is wrong with doing the dishes WITH her or helping her out, then the poster changed it to she DEMANDED him to do it.
make up your damn mind and stop twisting things into your own favor.[/quote]like i said earlier, she demanded that i must have to help out !!
Amaka, do u have a problems assimilating??

akin101:
i guess this is a hot topic.
most women seem to misinterprete dish washing here as a sign of equality respect or love,
a relationship is not about equality but about how two different people with different ways come together and become stronger than they would be individually.
its about embracing yr differences and becoming stronger for it.
its not about silly people like amaka fostering their weak understanding of equality on others, that smells of unintelligence and complete lack of respect of the other persons individuality. frankly its terrifying that amaka and her goons will be terrorizing some poor man with their idea of bottom power.
a real man can and will wash your dishes or panties becos he wants to, not because he is weak and will succumber to your argument
i guess only stupid and half grown men-childs would acquiesce to people like amaka saying its by force!!!!!!
i feel a person has to respect himself first before another person will do so,
i dont mean to be rude here but clearly amaka and her ilk are still all small girls who dont understand what a real woman is all about.
any good man inclusive of full depth will respect u and will do the dishes without you asking if u respect urself and show yourself to be a woman who is worth it, if he wants to not because u think it makes u equals
you clearly are still struggling with feelings of insecurity and possibly inferior complex
but if u think an intelligent and strong black man will wash  the dishes simply because to you that is proof of equality and that puts you on the same par with him, u ve got a big shock coming.
go ahead and marry one of those white dumb idiots who kill their wives and children when they cant handle being with women like you.
when a man cooks, washes or does anything for a woman he should do it because he loves that woman and wants to, not because she sees it as an expression of equality and must push it over his head

AMAKA, please read this ooooo,  it will help your life !

lovemoi2:
i dont blame the poster

these days even a village goat can have access to the computer and internet

bush girl, ur papa no give u home training

AMAKA, u really need to see a shrink, u have issues !
accept, nothing will happen to u.

[quote author=THE-AMAKA link=topic=358273.msg5013622#msg5013622 date=1259449242]YOU are the one who has refused to accept the simple truth that the world is changing and you need to get with it or get lost!!
stop living in the 1600s and wake up.[/quote]u're so funny!!
bull shit's whats coming out of ur mouth !, u need to change my dear

some girls are so stubborn and have refused to accept the simple truth !

married indeed !!
abegi, continue dreaming joo,

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=358273.msg5013531#msg5013531 date=1259448245] [/quote]why wont u be confused??
mmccchhheeeeeeeeeeeeeewwww !!

kweenchi:
Washing the dishes is a womans responsibility, I find. Im all about independent women/feminism and all that but we shouldnt take it too far by demanding a man to do the dishes. As women it is our obligation to cater to the man and take care of household responsibilities. Men have their own tasks to take on. Men on the other hand shouldnt take it too far by always refusing to do any kind of chores, like when the wife is sick or tired, assist and help her out.

Kweenchi, uare definitely not an ordinary woman,  U ARE A WOMAN OF SUBSTANCE !! 
take this:- MY RESPECT
u make so much sense my dear !

Amaka and mma gi, can u see a real woman talking??

Amaka, urs is the worst, u dont seem to make sense at-all, talkng thrash since !!
God, who raised u?? and how did that person cope?

Amaka, u and michelin are both UNSERIOUS AND BUNCH OF CORRUPT CHILDREN without good upbringing !!
U really need help, U both need to see a SHRINK
i pity una, ur long stay in NL has not helped u guys yet, bc u have resolved in shutting ur brains out,
NONSENSE !!

[quote author=Igwe. link=topic=358273.msg5013418#msg5013418 date=1259446985]The bottom line is that many would do it without being told if it was their girlfriends[/color] [/quote]i aint one of those guys, and would never be.
Im a man and she was created to be under me. I provide, she takes care of the house, and not vice-versa.
dont know about u?

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=358273.msg5013412#msg5013412 date=1259446916]aren't u one of those that call guys dogs and yet u are complaining he is a virgin at 50? why can't u ovularias make up your minds[/quote]
dont mind her.

[quote author=jay-girl link=topic=358273.msg5013386#msg5013386 date=1259446619]@full depth
i guess am d only one dt understnd u
your vision is truly BLURRED
sucks to be u![/quote]thanks for the compliment !! sorry, ur type cant cant get me vexed !

mama, u are so corrupt !!
wonder what kind of orientation u have?? u think everything is about sex??
corrupt kid.

i aint sex-whatever,
i demand respect ! and that i got,

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=358273.msg5013314#msg5013314 date=1259445728]You're full of shit and no pants.
Go and satisfy your sex starving self.
Virgin at 50. [/quote]im so sure u're referring to michelin89??

michelin89:
And what do I call someone who wanted to hit his head on the wall because his gf asked him to help her with the dishes?

Too many shits claiming to be roses.

well, im a man who wont take shit from any woman, no matter who she is !!
i know what it means to be in charge and take charge ! If ur man decides to be under u, washing d plates and doing all tha freaking house chores which U ought to do, then good luck with ur stupid Maga!

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=358273.msg5013285#msg5013285 date=1259445282]Okay, you're beginning to irritate me now. [/quote]Go to bed !!

michelin89:
Cry baby. Cry cry a river!!!

childish, wonder what age is?
are u still in high school?

michelin89:
I judged him from this thread. He is a conceited piece of crap. Not worth anything but since he is a man he assumes he is more important that any woman.
His types are everywhere on this forum. Not really worth all the 15 pages of attentions he got.

Its not ur fault, its so clear u dont and can never have a man !!
so what do u know about respect, NOTHING

u so pathetic

[quote author=THE-AMAKA link=topic=358273.msg5013239#msg5013239 date=1259444555]actually that was plat who was talking about having sex in the kitchen.
get your damn story straight.
damn! you havent left since you started this topic.
go entertain your girlfriend or something.
or maybe she is too busy doing your chores while you sit here and mouth off rubbish on nairaland.
now GOOD DAY!  [/quote]I wont stop till i re-arrage ur head and ur thinking !! till u accept the simple truth

michelin89:
@ poster
Your type must suck big time in bed.

GIVE ME UR CONTACTS NOW !! im currently in PORTHARCOURT !

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=358273.msg5013257#msg5013257 date=1259444857]Don't judge a man by his keyboard. [/quote]Mama gee, u are blessed !!

[quote author=THE-AMAKA link=topic=358273.msg5013163#msg5013163 date=1259443609]okay whatever you say.  [/quote]I know what u're thinking in that your dirty mind,  u want to drag me to the kitchen so u can Have s*x with me abi?? Im not going !
since thats the only romantic place u can ever think of

[quote author=THE-AMAKA link=topic=358273.msg5012681#msg5012681 date=1259439178]turning a woman into a housewife dog and striking fear into her does not equal a happy marriage.
just because she isnt asking for a divorce does not make that a happy marriage.
blah, this thread is boring.[/quote]AMAKA, u really surprise me, seriously !
i wish im there with u now to teach u some lessons about how to live with a MAN.

i want to beleive that AMAKA has changed her ideology abt MEN doing the dishes!!

platinumnk:
Please can u take your bush sef out?!!! Siena is more of a man than you will ever be

You think Washing a Car or changing the oil makes you a man?
I wash my Parents Cars every Sat, and clean and wipe the insides
Also when its time for oil change, I drive each one, change the oil, and bring it back.

So u can stuff your face bushman, 

nor make me start with you ooo,
im not like those other guys u mess around with, berra take time oo

Any man who washes the plates while the woman does whatever ought to be stoned !!
Men should take charge !

oludy:
Well no point going any further. Why are we even bothering? Go ahead and do what you want. As for me, i will always be the MAN. I run things, thing don't run me.

@Shesi, Go ahead and wash your wife "putu", that one concern you but wait let me ask you a question. How would you feel if your wife ask you to wash the dishes when your friends/her friends/your parents/ are there? Would you walk into the kitchen like a "mugu" that you are?

This is the only point where u made sense!

MANCHESTER UNITED !!
u alone shall i support !! i give u my entire heart.
Let the Shell-sea, ASS-nal and the FAILED liver-pool fans rant with fear !
thank you for my needed 3 points !

Siena:
This was a question asked by a member, so of course, he got answers, both for and against.
Hell, there are women who earn more than their husbands, or some men are out of work for whatever reason. Are the working women expected to come home, to be faced with a pile of dirty plates in the sink, and have to wash them, including the saucepans, before cooking the meal, while the man does what??

Mr Oga, u are just talking RUBBISH !!
ARRANT RUBBISH !!
im sure your woman provides for you while u sit your fat-ass at home!!
NONSENSE

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=358273.msg5011409#msg5011409 date=1259427702]Poster go and do the dishes before I meet you there.
Were you angry when you were eating the food? [/quote]see ur face like plate !!, nor just let me vex for u.