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Thanks for this mouth watering post...
But bro my question is, where is ur location?
Which business is booming in ur locality?
Are u willing to handle ur business?
What skills of business are u good at?
Ponder before u answer this questions...
With the present economic crunch in Nigeria has stagnated many businesses and brought many to a close. Please don't set up a business that someone will handle for u? Its another way of weeping for ur hard earned.
Now some of the businesses that can fetch u more than ur estimated profits.
1.Phone accessories. U can use #100k from that money and learn phone repairs for one year after ur freedom u can get some high softwares that can flash phones and unlock phones etc. Then u target a strategic locations and use some of the money to buy accessories to fill ur shop. With that u can make profits from both repairs and scales.
2.venture in to grade A of o.k wears with 300k before 6months u built mansion
3.Learn Digital store,freelance coding etc
4.u can set up a foodstuffs and provision Business.. Make ur shop attractive to attract customers to patronized

5. If u are around PH boutique well be o.k for u because of the big boys around such locations.
6. Jewelry and watches businesses etc
Bro please forget all those telling u about loan or land be careful not to fall prey for any hungry lion to devour.
Always remember that majority of Nigerians value money than life. So be careful ur life is precious.
God has bless u with wat will elevate u from hardship to success. Use it well because if u misuses ur money u will regret life. Thank u

Lab test negative and ur thought gave u positive.
Rush to another hospital to affirm the result. And do away with ur negative thought.

Messi is finished I think he should seek for transfer bid world class player on bench...... C.Ronado king of Home and abroad

Are u are phone technician? If no, go and learn how to repair phone, before setting up phone accessories shop.
With ur little knowledge of repairs u make double profit.
U charge customers for the phone items been changed and u finally charge for workmanship.
Thank u

That's Good but for now Ebonyi state is leading the SE Zone

Dead Trap

That's wat happens wen u married the wrong soul..
Did u court before marriage?
How long did u court?
Because if u had a good courtship u won't have posted ur complaints here.. Ur marriage is too early with such complaints....... Remember u are together till death set u guys apart...
My advice to you is continue the good work u have been doing. Pray for patience and fortitude to bear ur cross.
Eventually wen u start having children for him the love and ur complaints will begins to disappeared because u care more on ur children than him.
Sorry! Pray hope don't worry God will restore ur joy and rebuild ur marriage.
God bless you

Bro is well! Money, houses, cars nd status does not make a good home. U have to change ur materialistic point of view.
All ur write up's are sidelined. Y becos u have not identified the problems in ur home, so identify ur problems here is wen intimacy comes in.That should be during bills.
2.How to proffer solutions to the already identify problem here is wen humility follows.
3.How to prevent the already identify problems from reoccurring...... Here is wen endurance and sacrifices flows.
4.After all pray with her and make a sincere love to her.
If not there will be no peace and tranquility in such home

Ganjafama:
op You are currently enrolled for your masters degree and you are writing like a kindergarten pupil.

I scored English F9 dats y.....

MaziOmenuko:
Don't bring innocent children into this world to come and be suffering!! You never mention of working anywhere, neither your gf. After spending that 300k on impromptu wedding, you still need to pay rent and feed the family. Raising a baby is not a joke.

I'm desperately in need of ur prayers

0neal:
I empathize with you and your pregnant girlfriend, you have to be strong for her and your unborn child.
I wish you all the best

God bless you

laraoge:
Don't mind the OP threatening himself with suicide. When they were doing it was sweetening them both now he's here for pity party so ppl can contribute.

How e take concern us here?

very senseless post

If I was to asked for bloody or yahoo money u could have been the first on my list.
ThankGod many Nairalanders posted a sensible comments that helped my situations...
Go feed ur family.
Circle could have prevent this dullard.

KingAzubuike:
How can you kill a policeman who protect the citizens all because of a pregnant woman who has nothing to offer to the society. Now that the policeman is dead, crime and violence will befall all of you living in that area.

U are a senseless creature, to have been wasted by circle

Bro I salute ur courage!
To be realistic, the kind of trusted woman u wish to have no longer exist. They are found in the first heavens not in this sinful planet. It is very difficult for Ladies to be faithful if u are not ready to marry them. Because of the nightmare of being dumped.
Bro my solemn advice to you is if you know u are not ready for marriage don't date any Lady to avoid another heartbreak similar to the case of Samadina vs Regina Daniel. My advice to you is remained focused and uninterrupted in ur dreams and aspirations. Let them go wen u are ready to settled down then you prayerfully make ur choice.

armyofone:
Do traditional wedding and then registry only. Please budget only 50k. Every one should pay for their transportation and help only if you must to say old grandparents or parents if coming.
Use 50k to buy and sell....start life from there.
What is she doing ? She has to work. No matter how small to supplement! She and her family should contribute towards the traditional wedding...such as feeding the few invited guests.
You must invite only few people 10-15 maximum!
You don't want to start life begging for money to support marriage, birth, feeding baby, etc
Everyone has a cross to carry.

Make sure you only have two kids max! Use protection and space your children.

Thank you sir!

wizardus:
Mummy davaash have kill me and kill me again and also kill me too

chii8:
This op shouldn't paint Easterners as a tribe that will drain your lifesaving because you want to marry their daughter. #50k can do introduction and traditional rites expect you told your in-laws that you are related to a billionaire. Their daughter is already pregnant so you should do the detecting, tell them you only a certain proposed and convenient amount for the both.The lady's family should bring from their purse if need be.Both the introduction and traditional rites should be done on same day.You only need four elders plus your parents from your own side to go with.

By the way, your girl isn't spiritual but religious, she shouldn't threaten you with suicide, that's a bad way of holding someone's son to ransom(why would a spiritual girl fornicate?)

Ur points are logical. I will apply these concepts.

Sonfethopia:
OP she I pregnant u love her. Cool . you don't need to get married cos of that. You can let the parents know you w.ill carter for her n d baby.and get.married when things gets good. If u use that 300k pay.bride price wetin u go use feed and baby food. U DA both be loving together. Plan marriage later.but let the parents know u will do it. They won't kill u.at least she knows d father of d baby

Bro u made a holy point. U now understand y I posted my heart beat problem for Nairalanders to proffer a possible solutions. With #300k and unemployed without handy business. After such spending what will I use to feed both.

Kingosytex:
I don't think that will be the best step. Your people deserve to know first.

o.k I will.

DaniDani:
Pregnancy is as a result of enjoyment and the end product brings joy and not sadness. How old is she?

Speak to friends she respects to talk senses into jettisoning that suicidal thoughts. She isn't the first to be in this situation neither will she be the last. Las las una go de alright! Don't rush

Don't rush anything now. But frequent around her. In fact let her be around you now. Within this period of time, share joyous moment and try create an atmosphere of happiness. Be the man. I was there in 2017 but today, truly God has been exceedingly faithful.

Then make plans for additional source of income. Don't be shy to start any legitimate business that can bring some bulks. I f you are a Christian, seek the face of God with a sincere heart, make a sacrifice after the prayer and kick-start your family as little and as possible as you can.

Next after the third Heavens is you.
I appreciate ur priceless backups for gracing these post.
Remained bless!

Acidosis:
Just pay her dowry and other traditional rites.


I really do not understand what you want to do or hope to achieve with a Church wedding, a PGD and a Master's programme. I hope you have a job?

Thank you bro! I'm jobless if u can help me with a Job
But still searching for lucrative business to curb the menace of life after marriage

Davash222:
Sorry, the only support you can get from me is my Prayer. But for the financial aspect, no way!!

When you were fuccking someone's daughter without protection, what were you expecting?? Plasma TV?? Or G wagon
Sexx without protection is the proximate cause of Infection and Pregnancy. If you're not infected, you give woman belle. Luckily, you've succeeded in the latter (not ruling out the former though).

Happy married life in advance, bro.




BTW, your moniker though. Fullofgrace indeed. Should be fullofsperm.

Thank you bro! Please include my intentions in your holy altar of prayers.

yettymuse:
So 2 adults had an unprotected sex that resulted in pregnancy and you're threatening yourselves with sniper and suicide?

You need to set your priorities right dude and stop guilt tripping members of a faceless forum.

Wait!! are you actually crowdfunding to sponsor an impromptu wedding ceremony. Haqhaqhaqhaq! I'm laughing at you freal mehn!

I hope you both have a well-paying job cos when the hurricane of marriage hit una.. You fit no get strength to write all these jargons again o.

Depression and suicide is the new way to gather sympathy in Nigeria. Tueh! You deserve some bouts of slaps.

You are faultless dear, freedom of expression is allowed.
Situations warrant ur comment, such is life!

Kingosytex:
First of all understand that suicide has never and can never be a solution to any problem. Let me give you an instance, my classmate once got her gf pregnant in our 3rd year in school, he was panicking likewise the gf. The girl dreaded seeing her parents and would have taken her life if not for the words of encouragement we always offered her. Today, they are married and living happily with their baby girl.

Please keep an eye on your girl, she must not take her life, I REPEAT, SHE MUST NOT TAKE HER LIFE. She must not commit an abortion, I REPEAT SHE MUST NOT COMMIT AN ABORTION because the repercussion might be disastrous, her womb might get damaged or complications might occur. Encourage and strengthen her, this is the best time for you to show her love, let her know you really love and cherish her, let her know that she hasn't gotten to the end of the road. Take her to a psychologist, i understand her morale is down.


Finally, tell your people the situation you have gotten yourself into. The earlier you tell them, the better for you. I believe your elders know the necessary steps to take in order to approach your prospective inlaws asking for their daughter's hand in marriage. I implore you to swing into actions immediately, it is better her parents know now than to know letter. I can't wait for you to invite we well meaning nairalanders to your wedding ceremony. I wish you goodluck!

Insightful post Bro! I thought of meeting her parents first before telling my people.

CanadianNaija:
Oga what is unplanned about unprotected sex that leads to pregnancy? Please stop the pity party. Rise up to your challenge as a man, actions have consequences.

Chest your own.

Thank you.

With the comments so far I'm really impressed.
I'm putting down in writing most of ur comments because I will use them as a useful road Map.
And for those who think my post is mainly for fund may God never allow u to experienced unplanned situations.
But still I love u guys we are one family.

Thanks for all your contributions, sincerely speaking now I'm presently in Enugu and to travel down to my place assembling my parents before going to gather the elders to see her parents would cost me #50k for going alone not of to and fro would cost around #100-#120k
And we have to pay first introduction money on her head before going back to settled for the traditional marriage officially and church wedding as well .
If I hard the capabilities of funding those bills I wouldn't have published it here. But for now is beyond my race line. Please think of it if it were to be your own blood.....
I'm just down right away my God I need sponsors..

O.k

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