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Ur so right jennykadry
Well i should be getting ready for church it was nice talking with u all.

Thanks
i guess the best thing to do is let him be
It simply wasnt God's will for me to be with this guy.

@prince_onx
To be honest i didnt believe it and i choose to pray about it instead of fighting with him about it. May b i should of put my foot down and said something. But the way i was raised a woman does not disrespect a man she loves and i guess that would be disresepcting him if i question him dont u think.

Thank u sugabelly
Yes I love nigerian guys.
Part of the reseason y is that my god father is nigerian and he is a loving and caring person.  And to come and think of it nigerian men dont put up with such things. I know for a fact I saw my god father slap his wife for callin me out of my name  once b4 . Till this day i dont know what she called me but it had to be bad for him to slap her.

Thats probly the reseason he's always saying he loves me so much becuase im resevered.
Well i now know what i need to do thank u all
Thanks for the wisdom aswell.
And Sugabelly and jennykadry i hope to be friends with u 2

In the end the only thing for me to do is have a heart to heart with him

No i wasnt there  
But i do remember that day he keep puting his phone off.
The next day he got a text and i read it  because he allowed me to.
and text read: u r not trustworthy and i hope u get Aids and die.
I asked him who it was and he said his niece.
Before he left i asked him how was she doing and thats when he told me they were not doing so good and he asked her to find her own place to live and he also told me about him puting her out on new years.

He's put her out once but her mother begged him to let her back . This happened doing new years. I guess she was upset he was spending the new year with me and they got into a fuss and he sent her packing.I didnt know of this intill days before he left for nigeria.

She's staying in his appartment.
He said he told her she should b finding her own place.
The reason i feel she keeps calling is because i refuse to b rude and disrespect her because she is his family. She knows i wont be rude and disrespect her so she's taking advantage of it.

Once more thank you all

[[You took my words! The guy might be using her for all I know!]] Oh my

Thank you all for that help
I pretty much do keep to myself