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OlawaleBammie:
And what is the essence of giving my job to a graphic designer when ai would do it in 2mins??

Seems u re lost from the bone of contention here bro

90% of people that use AI to design


Don't use graphics designer before now

It will also help graphics designers to make work faster

But people go to other religions to pray, sow seed no body see it as issue

sparko1:
You mentioned China, but you don't really understand what is going on in China, the punishment for corruption and crime are not jail terms, death is usually the fastest option.

Democracy is the safest for Africa, looking for something in between is what cost Nigeria the civil war, lots of goodwill, the major cause of tribal sentiments up until this moment.

You can complain about the present government but let me ask you, as an intelligent person, what will you do differently if given a chance.

Just list it.

I am one one of the advocate for the China to fight corruption... Anybody that take money that is supposed to be use for road, hospitals, schools security etc and convert to personal use. That person is worse that Boko boys, so many hv died because of corruption

So, maximum punishment is best for development.

If all federal allocations goes to proper use, we will be a better state.


Tribal sentiment has nothing to do with military it is all political... Me and you are having this conversation without thinking about our tribe or religion, I go to market, I buy from the best price, I engage daily activities without considering tribe or religion. But during elections that is when tribes and religion conversation come in (this is use by politicians just to get votes)


As for me... Democracy is not safe, it allows politicians to use any means to come to power (we all saw what happened during GEJ)

Democracy gives president total power (same as a dictator for 4/8 years) then he brings his political son as next)

And lastly u ask what I will do differently
Absolutely nothing, I will enrich myself and keep money that I will use for EFCC and court.

But if there is a serious fight against corruption, there are so many things that can be done

sparko1:
The truth, you guys are really children.

That is the beginning of the end of everything, very soon, it will either become an inheritance or bloodbath among the military.

I understand your perception and what you said is the truth also... Two truth can co-exist

Another truth is that democracy can never work for a developing country... They hv to first figure out a system that can work for them after a level of development they can go back to democracy.


For Nigeria, what has worked for us previously was regional form of government.

China redesign their democracy, that is why they could get out of poverty.

Democracy Politicians are not a set of people that can take a country out of poverty quickly...

Military leadership has it own consequences but if he can hold it for 5 years, build a structure, build a stable constitution, quality infrastructure development, cut western influence, build industries.

That will be great

jimmyolasun:
They intentionally did it

Don't be surprised it's a way of telling the criminals to change location. It's a sabotage

You might be right...
because it is a JTF operation they can't free him directly..

But hv to notify the people he is going to meet that he don cast

Is it that this guys don't watch American movies


Someone travelling to join a network, you arrest him and put the info to the public..

As how na

This shouldn't be coming from him
But he said the truth

lastmessenger:
And people still want APC to continue?

Lol...
90% of people in APC are from PDP

And if we bring another party, those guys will still move

We need to start thinking beyond parties

RollinTNDA:
Nigerians all need to kneel down and beg Goodluck Jonathan for forgiveness

As if he was better, life was way more better ur previous administration... Should we beg Obasanjo, Abacha etc...

We are waiting...

Things easily go up but to come dona wahala

helinues:
Copy copy no go pass. Lol

Arsenal broke the record of using 14 years player at this season champions league

There is yet to be any surprised in the round of 16 games first matches.

There should be upset tonight. Arsenal and Liverpool should be careful

Arsenal fans and dululu..

Always think everything is about them

I

funkmrflexx:
I've been married for 3 years now with 2 kids, I try my best to take care of my family but the economy has become very bad so it's no longer possible to take care of a family of 4 on just 1 income.
When I had money, I setup a business for my wife because I want her to be engaged and also she can support with whatever she has from the business, but after a year the business crumbled with no results to show (she gave many excuses on why she can't continue the business), even after that I've tried engaging her on other endeavors but she's not always serious.

Now she does nothing, she just presses phone and play games all day long, all the responsibilities are on me, basically everything from school fees, feeding, house rent to buying a cube of Maggi.

I've tried talking to her several times but she will pretend to be serious and goes back to default settings, I'm tired and its really talking a tole on me, sometimes I just get angry at her for no reason and I don't even want to come home.

It's not the fact the she's staying home that's the issue, its the fact the she's not showing any effort to try and do something. I'm tired because all the money I make is being used for feeding and running the house, I can't even save or even think about buying properties

My advice for u is...

Try dey enjoy life...


Am 100% sure your children are seeing you now as a man that doesn't care about them, you are not always around

And they love their mother because she is always around... Take care of yourself and eat well

Secondary stop trying to make her start a business..

If u hv money and time starts a business, put some one their and make her the one monitoring the person... Like the madam (woman like that madam thing)... But all money come to u... U pay her salary, them u still hv small profit for other things...

Then u start transferring the responsibility to her...
She start being the one going to market to restock, she starts meeting with client.

With time she will get use to doing business...


The truth is most women don't no what it is to hustle, they think making money is easy...

Build he gradually

folake4u:
N100 keke in my hood is now N200 for a 5mins distance.

I don't know about public buses though.

U see where d problem is...

We easily blamed big companies for trying to survive... But we don't blame the poor for making life more difficult


When petrol was 1200+
Transport increased price, when it can down to 800 they didn't reduce prices

Now it went back to 1k
They are increasing prices again


But na Dangote be the problem...
Price of crude has jumped.

Even if Dangote is buying it in Naira, it's been sold at international price

Naija never ripe for most digital products

In the first marriage

She felt betrayed

We just like making issues

They are doing a good job

Is like we don't like good things for this part of the world...


If fighting BK boys can be contracted out also
Maybe we will hv more secure society

Hmmmm

This fight pass Dangote sha

Another gist for d next week

God go help us in this our generation, our grandparents where lucky, they had the opportunity to plant their food



But now we have to eat GMOs

Top 5 Goal Scorers at AFCON | Golden Boot Race Before Semi Finals


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L79Ax4pEe_s

The race for the Golden Boot is heating up at the African Cup of Nations as we head into the semi finals. In this video, we break down the Top 5 goal scorers at AFCON, their goal tally, and how important they have been for their teams so far.

From clinical finishers to match-winning moments, these players are leading the scoring chart and could decide who lifts the AFCON trophy.

But


Why do price of things keep going up


Value of money keep reducing

Same scripts

Give a dog a bad name so...

Kobojunkie:
I am sorry, what? OM-F0cking-gosh! 😮😮😮😮😮

Why do you people do this when cornered? When did Nigerian women begin having the same rights as Oyinbo women, even in Nigeria?

If u no someone way dey that dey age

Make the person try am...


U go see say he go get.
Men cheap

Kobojunkie:
You are being entirely disingenuous and this isn't in any way unexpected. 🥱🥱🥱

2. In a system where society demeans women in their 40s as literally being past their prime, what mother would want her son to bring home such a woman as daughter-in-law? The man would literally need to disavow his people to get that to happen. Or the woman would need to pay the family off well-well to make that happen.

3. But the women marrying those baby daddies are ok with the responsibility of taking care of a child by another woman, particularly since that may be the only way to have the man. Abi? 🥱🥱🥱

It is not a choice (both are not equally weighed), but a double standard...let's call it what it is. 🥱🥱

4. Most women would also want to marry the rich, handsome guy whose preferences they do not meet. What you described there with slay queens preferring only those men who can afford them applies also to men who have standards as far as women they will or will not date. Those have nothing to do with double-standards or society, but personal preferences individuals have. Let's not come here to confuse one for the other. 🥱🥱

I tell you with confidence, if a 40 year old woman wants to marry a 21 year old guy, she go see marry

If u think say i dey lie, ask those Oyibo women that come here to pic young guys every day

SIRTee15:
guy quit this boring and unnecessary rhetoric
women also suffer double standard.
They are shamed for body counts and having multiple sexual partners.
no one cares if a x video of a man is leaked, he may even be hailed for his performance in the video. a woman's leaked x video is a disaster for her and her future.
An ugly man can compensate with money, charm and good humour. not the same for an ugly woman- even if she has good character and well domesticated. a woman's first and ultimate attraction is her beauty irrespective of lies peddled by men.
a woman that has big yansh and breast and fair has made it in life (even if she has very ugly character) courtesy of men.

women have biological clock, a man at 40 can get married to 21 yr old princess. a woman at 40 has very little choices for suitors. baby daddy is not a limitation in anyway, he can even get married to a virgin girl. A single mother already have a hard life by virtue of that tag.

Nature deals with us all in different ways, instead of moaning and sounding irritating, each gender should embrace his/her role in life and be ready to be accountable for his/her action.

I think most of the things you listed are just about choice and not really nature...

If woman of 40 want a guy in his 21, she will get but most women will not.

About baby daddy... Why most guys don't go for women with kids is because of the financial responsibility.

Am not disputing the fact that double standard exit for both genders.

Am saying sometimes it is not double standards
It just choice

Most men will want to marry slay Queen wen they don't hv money to maintain her... If she rejects it not double standard.. It just wrong choice

Fharahyiola:
I disagree. A lot of poor people work extremely hard, just not in jobs that scale. The difference is often opportunity, skills, and access, not effort alone.

Let us bricklayer as example...

A bricklayer come to work, work from morning till night and go back home.


Then a site engineer come in the morning to the site, supervise 3 other site attend meeting


Then still go back home think overnight about the designs, make corrections etc.


To everyone on the outside always think bricklayer are working harder
But if you break down you will realise they are just like normal 9 to 5 and that is all

Most poor people don't work as hard as rich people

It is always about resources

Why Doing Hard Things Makes You Stronger (The Super Kid Mindset)

Let me ask you something real quick...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g4jHKytYbt0



Why does your brain suddenly want to do anything else

the moment you sit down to do something important?



Let me ask you something real quick...



Why does your brain suddenly want to do anything else

the moment you sit down to do something important?



You want to scroll.

You want a snack.

You suddenly remember your room needs cleaning.

Or your apps need reorganizing.



Homework.

Studying.

Working on that goal you swear you care about.



But here’s the weird part...



The people who seem confident, disciplined, and ahead in life?

They don’t have a different brain.



They’re not more motivated.

They’re not magically better.



They just learned how to do hard things

before they felt ready.



And that’s what turns you into a “super kid.”



Not talent.

Not motivation.



But something way less exciting...



and way more powerful.



Stay with me.



Somewhere along the way, we started believing this lie...



“If it’s hard, maybe it’s not for me.”



School feels hard,

so you think,

“I’m just bad at this.”



Waking up early feels hard,

so you think,

“I’m not a morning person.”



Staying consistent feels hard,

so you think,

“I just lack discipline.”



But listen...



Hard doesn’t mean wrong.



Hard means new....

OKOATA:
So this guy can't buy his wife a wheelchair or what? Well, in no time he will have enough muscles to be pounding fufu for the woman.

He cant afford it

“I Carry My Wife Everywhere” — A True Love Story That Restored Our Faith in Humanity

In a world where relationships often break over the smallest disagreements, we came across a couple whose story reminded us what true love, sacrifice, and commitment really look like.

Today, we met a husband and wife whose journey touched us deeply. Their lives changed unexpectedly when the wife’s legs suddenly became stiff. No accident. No medical history. No warning. One day she could walk — the next day she couldn’t.

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w4nKkvZG4eU

What followed wasn’t just her struggle…
It became their struggle.

A Husband Who Became Her Strength

With their finances already stretched thin, this husband stepped into a new role without hesitation. He didn’t complain. He didn’t turn bitter. He simply loved harder.

Every single day, he carries her:

To the bathroom

To the market so she can continue her small business

Around the house when she needs to move

Whenever she needs support, physically or emotionally

He has become her legs, her balance, and her hope — but most importantly, her partner in every sense of the word.

His patience is gentle.
His dedication is unwavering.
His love is real.

A Beautiful Reminder: Love Still Wins

Life may have slowed her body, but it strengthened their hearts. Watching them together, you see two people who choose each other every single day, despite every obstacle.

To honor this incredible couple, we decided to surprise them with a special couple’s date, giving them a moment to relax, smile, and breathe again — something they hadn’t experienced in a long time.

And the joy on their faces?
Unforgettable.

A Message for All of Us

Their story teaches one powerful truth:

Love is not about perfection.
Love is about commitment.

Some people talk about love…
Others live it.

If this story touched your heart, share it.
Someone out there needs to be reminded that true love still exists. ❤️

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