Hello Everyone. i am currently engaged to a nigerian man. We meet the university we both use to go too. I have to admit that i fell victim to the stereotype about nigerian men when i first started dating him. His actions while we were dating didnt help with what i heard about nigerian men. Also it makes me wary when he is on the phone and he only speaks yoruba, but im learning the language and i ask him to speak english when he is around me. But a older gentleman who know my future husband before i did claims that he is a good man, the best nigerian he meet at the school so far. We have only been together for 2 1/2 years and most of those years are separated by a big distance of 5 states between us. He is pushing marriage but im not committing until we have been living together for at least a 6 months (anyone can fake like a good, loyal person months at a time). So if i would give advise to women who are dating a man who lives in a different place then them, it would be that to not go in to lifelong commitment with a man u have only spent less then 5 months with (consecutively).