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khiaa:
Yep!

suit yourself

khiaa:
But they favor the innocent person.

nop

khiaa:
Your laws favor the man.

in most part of the world,laws favour women

EmmyDJourno:
This is how some people would be offered heaven on a platter and would still reject it

This type of stuff ain't sexual harassment, it's just seducing a man who doesn't know what to do


Please Note: Next time, get an erection and scare the birds away, if they want to

mumu ..it sexual harassment... But you won't know...illiterate

Consray:
Tell them.......more especially the guys, coz they think when a girl says NO she is indirectly saying Yes. That's there mentality

idiot this same mentality of you laughing off sexual harassment on male as fun...I guess your parents put it in your DNA ...cow..bloody shegoat

Ugaboy:
Hmm
Why did he call for help
As if he didn't enjoy it

idiot...laughing off sexual assault... These same group of youths wants to rule the nation...bunch of illiterate and ingrate...your parents waste their sweat trying to educate you

lovelygurl:
This is one of the reason why feminism is needed but most guys here on Nairaland, especially in the Romance section are incapable of using their dictionary and would rather believe feminism is against men

feminism isn't against men,but some feminist are,those that downplay men plights using irrelevant excuses

AutoReportNG:
Mazda’s ‘vision coupe’ concept expresses a minimalist Japanese aesthetic . The automaker is understood to have been considering a new grand tourers ports car since the unveiling of its ‘RX vision’ concept back in 2015. Mazda officials have told autocar that its engine is ‘designed to work with electrified elements’, suggesting a hybrid set-up could be developed to boost performance.

Highlights of Mazda’s ‘vision coupe’ include a ‘Kodo – soul of motion’ exterior that embodies a minimalist Japanese aesthetic, achieving a simple ‘one-motion’ form that conveys a sense of speed. The interior applies the concept of ma (literally ‘space’) from traditional Japanese architecture, combining three-dimensional depth with a strong longitudinal axis to produce a relaxed space while maintaining the feeling of motion. the concept’s name pays homage to the manufacturer’s tradition of design elegance represented by coupé models like the ‘R360’, Mazda’s first passenger car, and the ‘luce rotary’, also known as the ‘R130’.


Source:
http://www.autoreportng.com/2017/10/mazda-unveils-vision-coupe-concept-car.html

looks like Tesla model s

kobo123:
https://www.citypeopleonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/yetunde1.jpg

The beautiful and upcoming actress mistakenly made a minor scratch on the car of an LSNC officer of Alimosho Local Government and instead of a peaceful resolution, the staff decided to unleash the dreadful hands of hoodlums (omoota) on the creamish #actress, breaking her phone and trying to cart away with other valuables, based on the fact that the LG staff was within her territory.

Case has been taken to the nearest police station. We hope this ends well for beautiful actress & producer of just released movies #AMANDA & #OMOJABEZZI!

Watch Listen to The Audio And Video Below....
https://www.instagram.com/p/BauOg-XBjqN/?taken-by=emiraltyafrica

Source: http://news.nollyzone.com/actress-yetunde-aderibigbe-beaten-paid-hoodlums-accidentally-bashing-lg-staffs-car/

you are,a fool,you are more concerned about her beauty than justice

skarlett:
I came to sell popcorn

contribute, no hawking here

So there this conversation between Jeremy Kyle and a guy(Geoff) on his show -
Jeremy - She called the shots in this relationship ?

Geoff - She locked me in the flat one day. Maybe I had been angry, I didn't know I was locked, I go there, grab the door handle, pulled it and it came straight off in my hand. [audience giggles] So I was stuck on a three storey flat, and I had to jump off a three storey balcony.

[Audience laughs loudly]

Geoff continues.. - I ripped all my arms, all my back, all my legs all that and ended up in hospital you know, because she wouldn't let me out of the house.

[Audience still laughing]

Jeremy - So funny that, can I tell you why it's not funny and I will tell you why I don't think you should laugh -

If this was the other way around and a woman sat here and a bloke had locked her in a flat and she had to jump out and injure herself, you lot would not be laughing. You would be saying, he's a complete nightmare, he should be locked up and that's disgraceful. But somehow if it happens to a bloke, thats funny, thats not funny is it.

Many people had the same reaction when reading/watching the guy say his story. There would have been an army large enough to defeat that of Sauron, protesting outside if this was a woman. It's sad to see that all a man gets laughed upon in the same situation.

Bihar's Ex-CM - Jitan Ram Manjh - Male :

"If both the man and the woman are adults and their relationship is consensual, there is nothing wrong in having an affair. This a personal choice."
- Jitan Ram Manjh told on Feb 16th,2015

Public Reactions for this :

-How can he say things like that!
-He doesn't deserve to live!
-A pervert CM!
-Should be hanged to death!
-Media abused him in all the ways and published numerous articles about this.

Bollywood Actress - Deepika Padukone - Female :

"I'm a woman and It's my choice to have Sex outside Marriage"

Public Reactions :

- Deepika Padukone, My new Idol!
- Women Empowerment!
- Strong Woman!
- Inspiring person!
- Media Applauses and praises like anything!

Same views, Different responses!

Because Different Genders.

PS : I know not everybody supports her view. But she didn't get the same response what Jitan got after expressing his view. It's kind of mixed views. I did see that some people, especially girls, responded in a positive way for her video stating that she is trying for gender equality.

The suspicion that comes attached with being a single man in this society.

A few days back I was out for a movie with my friend. A little pretext, it was a good movie hall in a good area and we were sitting on really good (see expensive) seats. The row we were sitting in had 6 seats, we occupied two, the middle two were empty and there was a couple seated in the other corner in a way that the girl sat next to the empty seats. In came a gentleman, well dressed, with popcorn and an iphone 6 in his hands and sat down on the empty seat next to the girl. The man looked decent enough, but alas, he was alone. The moment he sat down, that couple on his right shared a look and exchanged seats among themselves in a split second. The man obviously looked a little hurt and shocked. As if being alone somehow makes him a rapist, as if he needs a female with him to get some kind of a social security clearance. The guy I was with was flabbergasted by this too, even more after I reminded him that this could have happened with him if I wasn't there.

I see this kind of sexism in little things everyday. Women avoid single men at bus stops, railway stations, in shops, in queues, everywhere. If a single man offers you his seat in metro, he is looked upon with suspicion. If a single man smiles at you, your defenses go up. And lord help him if he tries to strike up a conversation. One time, a male friend of mine tried to help a girl who fell down from her scooter in front of him, she wasn't hurt but still he wanted to make sure. He had just started to ask her if she was okay when the girl got really scared and shouted at him to go away. Would she have done so if he was not a man?

While this may not seem that big of a deal, it is.
Think of it this way, you're a girl and you see two seats in front of you, one is next to a couple and the other is next to a single man. Where would you sit? In today's society, us girls are tuned in a way that most of us would sit besides the couple. We tend to associate a suspicion, a risk factor with a man who is by himself, no matter how decent he looks. No I'm in no way implying that this, as girls, is our fault. It's not. In today's times, we cannot let our guard down, one cannot ignore one's own safety just to be nice. But yes, being overly suspicious of everyone around you is helping no one.

When I used to teach nursery school, I was stunned to watch another teacher waking his four-year-old charges up after nap time. He would (playfully) kick each boy's cot and say, "Come on! Up-and-at'em" and then kneel down by each girl's cot and gently say, "Time to wake up, sweetheart."

We start treating boys and girls differently very early and have very different expectations for them. "Boys are supposed to be tough" is just as sexist as "girls are supposed to be sweet" or "girls aren't supposed to be tough" and "boys aren't supposed to be sweet."

khiaa:
Now you're being stupid, bringing my deceased dad into this conversation, I never said he cheated on her I was speaking in the general sense.

I was also speaking in the general sense...daughters do sleep with their husband... Most African president don't follow rule of law,should I then say all the president in the whole world does not follow rule of law... Your conclusion is not right...it does not follow

khiaa:
Obviously you didn't read my posts. I said that I wasn't talking about cheating in this marriage I said that I was talking about in a general sense, I also stated that I didn't agree with her secrecy nor her non contribution to the family bills.

I also do not believe that her money is hers and what's his belongs to the both of them that's ridiculous.
What I do understand is putting away some money for emergency situations, you know like "Get Out of MY HOUSE". I understand wanting to have a place of her own because it's obvious that her husband's house is HIS house and not THEIRS.

So yes, if I was a Nigerian woman living in Nigeria I would protect my self, so when and if the day comes that he wants me out of HIS house I won't be homeless. What is so hard to understand about that?

talk of an illiterate, your husband house isn't his house alone.... Stop using others past crime to judge the rest people....daughi slept with their father,girlfriends stabs their boyfriends to death...will it now be right to say,you will sleep with your dad or stab your husband... Non sequitur

khiaa:
If I was Nigerian living in Nigeria and my husband built a house without telling me what would be the point of me getting upset?

If he built a house with me knowing, who's house would it be.....answer HIS.

If my husband built a house without me knowing, who's house would it be.... answer.. HIS.

You get the point?

it not my fault that you are ignorant of your right....in the court of law(if the court recognize their marriage) the husband might be given half ownership of the house.... He supported her,gave her money...gave her emotional and physical support....when you are married the house that you and your husband lives in belongs to you both....you have no right to get married if you don't know your right....

alexialin:
God bless you.

The wife knows where the shoes pinches. So I wont blame her totally.

Possibly she really wants to surprise her husband with the new house.

It's possible.

there will always be a reason why a woman does something, but you won't accept the same views when a man does same...you are putting your future at stakes with these trend..a trend where women see good in bad doings,and men see good in bad doings too...it always good,so far it favours you or your gender

khiaa:
I'm thinking logically you are into your feelings. If a man is so selfish that he cant/won't provide shelter for his wife without her stressing about the fact that he can throw her out HIS house at the drop of a hat with nowhere to go, why bother getting married? I think that this is a control tactic created by men to keep your womem submissive.
If he wants to cheat he knows that there isn't a thing she can do about it but pray, hope and wish and just accept it or get out of HIS house. That is why the women should be cautious and be prepared.

so the man is now a cheat...sister stop slandering men without verified facts....I can as well say you slept with your dad last night

khiaa:
As incredibly selfish and cold hearted as this woman sounds I can understand where she's coming from. My reasons are as follows.

1. You men bring this kind of behavior onto yourselves with the society and the culture you have created that seems to always favor the man.

The house belongs to the man alone.
When you are angry with your wives you tell her to leave YOUR house just as the op told his wife. He expected her to beg him to let her stay but when she didn't beg him he was shocked. She didn't beg because she has provided a refuge for herself. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot and you were told to get out of your matrimonial home with no compensation and nowhere to go the way a lot of you husband's do your wives simply because he wants someone else.

2. Since your culture doesn't believe in community property (All properties belonging to both husband and wife ) a smart wife would make sure that she has the security of shelter and some funds put away for herself and her children incase shyt happens, otherwise she would be left homeless and destitute.

3. I can't count how many times I have read on here about husbands throwing their wives out of HIS house with nowhere to go simply because he wants to move his girlfriend and his outside children into HIS house.

4. I give kudos to the wives who are wise enough to make her own money and provide for herself and not completely depend on her husband for everything.

5. The down side to this story is the secrecy and not doing her part in providing for the family especially when the husband was having financial difficulties.

I can only imagine what your response will be,if the man built a house secretly, the man is always at fault.....the woman knows who the man was yet still went ahead to marry him...the loads of double standard in your writeup is mind blowing, we know gender equality can never be possible, but at least try and condemn what is bad when it is bad...don't support simply because your gender is the defaulting side,your brother,sons or dad might find themselves in these same situations ,will you still go with these narrative.... If your husband build a house without telling you,won't you feel bad ...it always right when it not us involved...

Nofuckgiven:
Stop confusing yourself. You are just an educated illiterate. Maybe that is why you don't know such word exist. Shameless fool. Your school fees was indeed a waste that is if you even went to one. Useless piece of shit,loathsome scoundrel,son of a bitch go and die! You are worthless to even yourself.

the definition you accepted is from a single person

mikeycharles:
The point I'm trying to make here is, the wife shouldn't be the only one responsible for the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids, it shouldn't be a must. The wife herself maybe working too, they should share the responsibilities. We (society) see women as lesser beings that should remain in the kitchen and the "oza" room.

don't force or expect the world to conform to your narrative

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Keneking:
Navy should deploy jet fighters as soon as possible.
Nigeria Army should commence Operation Shark Smile immediately.
Nigeria Police IG should send signals to Onne Police / Marine Police.
Ibe Kachukwu should talk to his boys such as Tompolo etc
Ambode should send LASEMA to assist

lasema in Port Harcourt, you are mad

victrick105:
so whos the idiot now?....someone who insults other people for telling him the truth...talking about over grown babies, i think you are a perfect example of one.

telling the truth,you choose to align with what suites your opinion and i did same,only that i point out to you that your opinion is relative and not final......i called the guy a boss,which am sure you dont support i accept that my opinion is not final...same cannot be said of you......

victrick105:
who bloody cares about your opinion....is it your business that the guy has refused to mind his business?...people like you sit back and watch things go wrong all in the name of ''itz not my business''....the guy did wat a real man should do....talk sense into your fellow man when he behaves like an over grown baby.

see this idiot,you think your idea of who a real man is is universal mumu.

Gentlevin:
D foolish guy in a bid to expose those babes has succeeded in telling d world how foolish and debased he is........it will BOOMERANG in few years to come........INTERNET ALWAYS HAVE A WAY OF BRINGING BACK MEMORIES........

your definition of a foolish person is relative...i can interpret foolish as someone who is cute, rich and influential

Divay22:
Same here..
Just so unfortunate the girls fell into the hands of a childish boy that calls himself a man..

Well for the girls, I guess they most have learnt their lessons.

baba for them girls,the one and only registrar of who is a man is,idiot goat

Divay22:
I guess he was feeling like a boss as at yesterday,...Well an end of the year award need to be given to him, for his stupidity..
Ode.

mumu,he is a boss,who are you....a frustrated goat

HeWrites:
I can only blame the guy for sharing it

goat,i blame you too for posting this rubbish here

RoyalBlak007:
♤ Damn right!

[color=#F5A215]♤ R£AL M£N DONT KI$$ & TELL [/color]

that your own definition of real men,my own real man kiss,fucck and tell...even advertise self....

pimpchi:
Inappropriate..... #incestloading.... Nobody should even call me old skoll here o o o.... What is wrong is wrong. #simple

but a woman kissing a child is right,idiot

bmimam:
China should then employ Elon Musk's SpaceX to collect it debris by debris and bring it back for proper disposal. SpaceX only has the capability to disassemble it in space and collect the parts.

Trump will be hoping it drops on the head of north korea's Kim anyway.

lol,spacex have better things in mind,like creating a colony in mars...and elon musk have Tesla,neurolink,solar city,the boring company,hylerloop to manage